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Kx:
Do u know more than your president?

In this case, stealing is not corruption

ronald4lif:

My point in my first paragraph was, after the first encounter and you made enquiries about him then he turns out he's not a do well and not even educated will the love or crush still be there? I am sure you can't answer in the affirmative.
Like I said, there's nothing else you can do to get him to woo you. You've done more than enough already. He knows what you want, he's notice the signals but he isn't interested that's why he has not made a move. If it was a girl he's into he would have long make that daring move.
Be wary if incase he starts making a sudden move, it could be he just wants to give you what you want, an average guy will think you just want a 'nice' time. So no one gets hurts and starts acting up all victim.
I don't know how to put this nicely, but you've got to move on. Your crushee seem not to give a scratch about you. How hard is that to grasp? Or were you just hoping to be given false hope on here? Sorry darl, truth must be said regardless.

Ok, thanks a lot for the advice

UniqueGem:
Truth don dey come out small small...

[quote author=ronald4lif post=31597692]
Okay. But I think what you have going for him is lust not love. Now tell me, after meeting him for the first time and you realised he's not educated, a barrow pusher or a bus driver would you have still had him in mine this long? I bet that lust will be buried right there.
You are chatting him up more than he chats you, you keep digging up his contacts after how many years. You see, he's already aware you're crushing on him and it will be easier to win you over. You've given him all the necessary green light, what is left is for you to tell him please be my boyfriend. He knows all these and still has not make any move, meaning he's not into you and doesn't care.
Whenever he does shows any interest in you, it will be to fuuccck and dump you. Then you'll come crying how a guy used and dump you, when you gave yourself to him willingly.[/quote
Woah
First I never knew who he was or what he did untill later. I got interested in him and asked and was told.
Secondly,i already forgot about him,till I found the contacts again
I didn't add that he was meant to help me with something and I use that as an excuse to call or chat him up. So he might not even get the green light per say. Remember I said,am the very shy type and do believe in the old pattern of guys wooing girls
U made points though even though it was a little harsh

elantraceey:
Because you don't want to , believe me when I tell you I've been there , if he had feelings for you , he would have noticed you had feelings for him since and made a move, I assure if he does anything now it will just to get in between your legs.

U are right though. Just that the heart doesn't seem not to be listening to the head.thanks alot

ronald4lif:
Lol! Fancy fancy everywhere.

well didn't want 2 use the word Love,so fancy is the next closest word to give the meaning

elantraceey:
My dear forget about him , just keep the friendship and if he wants to date you he'll make the move if not move on.

Thanks a lot for the advice. I have tried forgetting him. Not being successful

falconey:
Who do you really want from him? You fancy fancy fancy
Sex? Money? Love?

I want all of him

I met these guy sometimes in 2013 @ a function,and I fell instantly for him.i only got 2 talk to him briefly when we were introduced and I never got 2 talk to him again.but I swear I never 4got him,his looks especially his voice,i stored it in a part of ma brain that I play out whenever I want to hear it. I never got his contact from him but was lucky my aunty who introduced us had it,so I asked and she gave me.that same day I called just to hear his voice and ended up asking him if he had a girlfriend I could tell he was suprised because it's not everyday a girl calls you from nowhere and just asked if u had a girlfriend or married.he told me No.i don't know why but I ended the call just like that maybe out of excitment.one thing you should know is the dude is way older than me,(say with 10yrs or so) and I got to know from my aunty that he was loaded (but am not after that).I never called back because I was scared,shy and thought I was a little fast and he never called back too.time went by i lost my contacts and I thought I had forgotten him.
Fast-forward to late last year.i got a new phone,decided to reinstall my yahoo mail on my phone and in so doing got back a lot of my contacts I thought were gone when I lost my previous phone. And lo and behold, his contact was amongst them. i found him on whatsapp and chatted him up .he never knew who I was I had to explain,he remembered the day but didn't remember me. We got talking though and became friends.the thing is I do still fancy these guy a lot. (Finding his contact and chatting him up brought back the same feelings I felt when I met him) and don't know how to show him or tell him without sounding or looking desperate. He is very rich and out of my class for one.
I have met him since I reunited with him on two occasions. He calls and chats me up occasionally. I do most of it.but I do not mind. Although when he chats me up,he usually talks about explicit stuffs which I don't really fancy and most times,i end up ending the chat. Because I feel he sees me as a girl who is all over him for the sex or money.i really fancy these dude and I want him to see that without me looking desperate and I do not know how.
Please someone advice me.

Karma,Karma,karma . i wonder why most people forget about u!

Love
Youth
Money
I kinda like what I found though

Thanks a lot for you help,but I don't live around Ajah axis .i live in festac.

I have sent my CV and a passport photograph,hope that will do.
Thanks

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need a receptionist for a teaching company on the Lagos mainland. Features of this job includes - Not above 25 years - Good looking and smart - Ability to interact on Social Media (Facebook) - Ability to communicate effectively in English - Living within Lagos Mainland

Kindly forward your CV and a picture to info@spymodong.com. Thanks






Thanks alot,I will do so now

Please help a lady in distress out. I need a job urgently.a graduate with good knowledge of computer.please someone help me out and drag me out of these mess of depression I am into now.these days I feel like am a burden to everyone around me.please someone help me out