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Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:51pm On Jan 01, 2025
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Neither the mother, sister or the son -in law have any rights whatsoever to return a bride price whether the father in law is alive or not.

In a situation where the father in law is dead or incapacitated, the umunna of the wife will appoint some elders within themselves to stand in place of the father in law...
u be ichie ,
u dey attend meeting
no be all these small boys wey just give woman belle, wey the girls parent don't even know where they live or the name of their grandchildren
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:48pm On Jan 01, 2025
Coldrux:
Guy u don't have a penny. I'm so sure about that
😂 lol
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:46pm On Jan 01, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You are goading your friend into requiring a VIP treatment from the father-in-law when the woman who connects them already made up his mind to divorce him? Na good friend you be so? undecided
u guys no understand
there's a procedure,
it ain't vip,
it's like u saying my mother should go and pay my bride price where I am around and my dad is around and she will go to inlaws on traditional marriage day , ur mother will stand and had it over to the brides father,
we call it ALLU abomination...
many of u no dey go village meetings here obviously
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:41pm On Jan 01, 2025
nwirinedu:
You want to collect your bride price, where is your receipt?
lol
my own bride price sef was returned immediately at the traditional marriage, the father only collected #50 from it.
so God forbid same happens to me, I no go see shishi collect except #50
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:39pm On Jan 01, 2025
Coldrux:
Then no need . Take care pls. Thank God I exposed your selfish self before I would waste my airtime to call
guy u have nada...
send ur acct let me credit u
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:37pm On Jan 01, 2025
DeeScan:
just frop aza ans stop wasting his time .. we no say na beg u wan beg...
lol I no hungry , I am a journalist,but if u insist on giving me something , I don't mind collecting it, 8 can't drop my account number here, sent Whatsapp messages,
ur money I go use am buy icream for my kids, if e plenty , I go lick too
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 6:34pm On Jan 01, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It is not the position of the wife to demand a divorce from your friend and return the bride price he paid on her head. huh huh

You are not being reasonable at all. His wife is done with the marriage and wishes to leave. The best he can do is let her go and move on with his life as soon as possible. undecided
u are misinterpreting me.
she's at her father's place, she's not tied to their house, at least when he came to my house on the 24th , she didnt come with him.
i asked him , he said she's at her father's house since,
the question and topic is , who returns bride price?
father of the bride?
sister?
bride?
sisters husband?
the guy sef no do because the lady no dey him house like he said ,
I only told him not to receive that return of bride price as if he borrowed them money and they are returning it
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 5:47pm On Jan 01, 2025
djon78:
Lady doesn't want the marriage again
So they returned the bride price
Aw
not about her father returning the bride price
The bride price being returned na small token
More like a change
It's more just to fulfill culture laws

The young man don lose
That's why people should be very careful in wasting money to throw
Expensive wedding
To me is a very big waste

The day the woman you lavished money
To pay expensive bride price and wedding
Say she no do again
Her family will return paltry sum as bridge price


So for young men
Vet the person you want marry properly
Also avoid having high lavish wedding
But if you are lucky and you married right
The money spent won't be a waste
Because you got a good wife as bargain
u are right
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 5:46pm On Jan 01, 2025
Bobodee09:
Nah why you never Marry cos you lack basic common sense.

Who did he pay the pride price to?? If the father collected it, then is common sense he should be the one to return since the union is dissolved.

Infact there suppose to be a meeting were this will done with witness present cos the marriage was done with witnesses .

It is stupidity for the wife sis husband to even involve himself cos of future reference.
my brother don't mind all these boy that are not up to 32years ,never married or been in any traditional marriages,
all they are praying for is someones downfall, see the way they are praying for it to be me involved so they will laff, very evil people, I attend our village meeting Lagos branch here in lagos once in two months and learn a few, I counted 3vof my sisters bride price before my father collected it and returned it to Dem immediately and requested 20naira only from the inlaw as bride price.
that was why I told him not to receive a returned bride price from ur wife and her sister or sisters husband, u didn't pay it to them,
let the father call u, he is in Lagos here , it's a call away to tell u to come collect it, then u can go with ur elder brother
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 5:30pm On Jan 01, 2025
tiswell:
The father(if alive) is the sole eligible to receive or return the bride price
u dey amongst those wey dey go village meetings , some have branches all over states,
in lagos
u understand tradition very well
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op):
Coldrux:
Drop ur number

I'll also give gifts to dem
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:51pm On Jan 01, 2025
Celestialsword:
It is father of the woman if he's alive that is in position to return the pride price according to tradition, anything aside this is null and void
thank u my brother,
some of these nairalanders wey never marry before or see where Dem dey collect bride price will be arguing with me,
I told Joseph not to entertain them until the father calls u himself, since u are all in Lagos, na him, his wife elder sisters husband wan dey return bride price, it's ridiculous.
u really don attend village meeting well well
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:47pm On Jan 01, 2025
Teymanhenry:
Bride price is the least of it. What about the goats, cow, palm oil, beer and all the other things they listed that he should buy? Until they return all those things, them never ready
lol
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:46pm On Jan 01, 2025
Coldrux:
You're the one involved here, not your friend. Be honest with us, so we can advise you
call me on video call now to talk to my wife and kids if u get the mind, then wish them happy new year
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:45pm On Jan 01, 2025
merits:
Return of bride price is none of my concern for your information nobody should wed this year 2025 hook up is the way out.
lol
Christianity Etc › Re: "I Won’t Attend Your Wedding If You Marry From Other Churches" – Apostle Suleman by ceejay80s(m): 4:44pm On Jan 01, 2025
otipoju:
I hope you know sey Sulaiman na Arabic form of the Hebraic Solomon.
let him be apostle Solomon not suleman
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:43pm On Jan 01, 2025
Coldrux:
You're the one involved here, not your friend. Be honest with us, so we can advise you
God forbid,
Education › Re: Private School Teachers In Abuja, How Much Do You Earn? by ceejay80s(m): 1:27pm On Jan 01, 2025
temitope27:
500k per month
continue to misbehave,
u think everything is a joke
Politics › Re: Tinubu Named THISDAY Man Of The Year For Resilience And Bold Reforms by ceejay80s(m): 10:58am On Jan 01, 2025
eye service
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 2:24am On Jan 01, 2025
yomi007k:
Dude.

Tell your guy to leave that marriage.

The family don't want him and his wife don't want him. If not, the wife would have called them to order.

Una just dey embarrass unaselves.. .
lol , he isn't with me , I will just ignore both parties , make everyone carry him cross. na new year we dey
Technology Market › Re: Diy Lithium Ion Like-minds by ceejay80s(m): 2:08am On Jan 01, 2025
officialfestus:
Happy new year 🎉 kings.
happy new year bro, u and every other scientists here have really don well ,
I wonder wetin una still dey do for Nigeria
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 10:44pm On Dec 31, 2024
Mindlog:
Has he gone to meet his now former father-in-law to tell him that his marriage to his daughter, has ended?
I don't know now cos he's not in my house, he left on the 25th,
but for what he told me, his father in-law didn't call him to come
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Welcomed Home By Crowd (Video) by ceejay80s(m): 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2024
pacificom:
Brother, that is why they will not vote you as the president. It is what it is !
its like many people like the way this country is falling and deteriorating in the hands of these thieves,
them go suffer die for this country, make Dem continue, Dem think u are doing me
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got A Job In Saudi Arabia But Am Scared To Make The Move by ceejay80s(m): 5:05pm On Dec 31, 2024
if u like urself, no Bleep person there , no magomago, no carry Nigerian corruption go there, cos they will behead u
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 4:05pm On Dec 31, 2024
my friend is an orphan
pops dead
moms dead. I was even at his mom's burial
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op):
AlphaNugget:
The girl no want again.....maybe the guy na bad person sef
I don't judge....but it's not her position or her elders sisters husband,
my friend Joseph said he will collect it, if it was from the father, he too is no longer interested, no be by force but there should be a proper way,
if he collects from wife or etc and denied collecting it nko?
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Welcomed Home By Crowd (Video) by ceejay80s(m): 3:58pm On Dec 31, 2024
this shit country is gone....
u all are lucky I am not the president,
I would have executed many politicians, governors, etc let heaven fall let me see
Politics › Re: "You’ll Be Fairly Compensated" - Wike Assures Residents With Properties Affected by ceejay80s(m): 3:18pm On Dec 31, 2024
sapele914:
Same Thunder wey done dey fire u for the last 365 days?

You wey done collect 364 times, make other people at least collect 1 na?
lol lol and lol
Nairaland General › Re: What Did You Learn In 2024? by ceejay80s(m): 2:50pm On Dec 31, 2024
I have learned that I must steal big like 200m or 500m or billions to be able to bail my self from federal government.
nonsense and ingredient country
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 2:47pm On Dec 31, 2024
AlphaNugget:
Leave the marriage, allow the street to devour her......I wonder why you are feeling stressed over some bîtch leaving you 😐
no be me now!!
I am happily married and my wife and kids are at my parents place ,
I pity my guy sef bought one canvass he was selling ,I no need the canvas cos it wasn't my designer Tommy Hilfiger is my spec , I felt really sorry for him but how can person wey marry elder sister dey return bride price if person wy marry younger sister
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 2:41pm On Dec 31, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
What makes you think they aren't doing that after seeking the consent of his father in-law?

Abeg tell your friend to go and collect his bride price and let him count his losses.....

If marriage no favour you,at least make you dey bold enough to try single-ship..... maybe that one fit favour you.
I hear u but u hear me....
none of them where standing there when it was paid, how can ur own brother in-law return ur bride price, I don't know the state u are from but u can't do that in anambra except the dad is no longer alive or far away the first son is in position to do so
Family › Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by ceejay80s(op): 2:26pm On Dec 31, 2024
hello guys
a friend came from port Harcourt to see me on 24th morning he was with me till 25th ,
we were at night gisting and I ask about his wife.....
to cut the long story short,

the father in-law is still alive but the wife, sister and her sisters husband called him that they will be coming to his place to return the bride price,
I asked him , who did u give the bride price to?
he said the father, I told him to ignore them until the father in-law calls u or ur father before u go and collect it.

Nairalanders I hope I am right?

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL

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