₦airaland Forum

amili66:
I really wish I had never married this man. I dont know what is keeping me in the union but oh no, I dont have any happy time with him.

He is not committed at allllllllllllll, am in pain, deeply sad and sorrowful. He is promiscuous, have speech issues and maybe memory issues. Very had to please and make this difficult always.

He'd rather please outsider than me making me and the kids happy. When I got pregnant, I only received 100k from him to buy infants items as I had twins, I funded every other things and not that he doesnt have money. We build our house together but his family sees him as their Lord and this man train his cousins, nieces, and now had the mind to tell me again that he has adopted another child of his cousin to sponsor. He never pays our kids school fees 100%, I'll always have to balance the rest cos I do not want embarrassment from their school.

We moved abroad some years ago and no he says he'll drive my kids out of the house once they clock 14, but he is training his family children who are over 25 years old. Well, I don't have many, I can train them but I truly regret this marriage,

I am never going to advise anyone ot marry.

Coming abroad, this man would sit and call those in Nigeria for hours daily, he is never serious with his work and will chose to work form home until he got sacked and since then he's being struggling to get a job and I am getting blammed daily. He said his friends called him to warn him never to give me a smiling face, they dont know I have never had a smiling face from him and this man has gone from bad to worst.

You all who it to read social media comments over men who cry woes abroad, if I leave this one now and he comes on social media, you all will start to condemn the woman without listening to her. Am in pain, it has gone from worse while in Nigeria to worst here abroad. Everyday he says marriages dont work abroad, regret coming but go back he is refusing saying we must all go back with him. I cant, I rather remain here and cut off from all my friends and family.

Maybe I remained in the marriage because of shame from people around. And I am not from that loving family so they'll laugh me.

Am so sad; at times, I just feel I never said yes to him, I had many other suitors. but I considered him because he was nice then, things changed the very first day we got married, he started telling me all the evil advise his family had advised him.

I regret building with him; I should have invested on my own.

He has never bought even a shirt for his kids, shoes, toys, christmas cloths, nothing, i Mean notihng, never. when their school asked they buy laptops, he said they are not of the age, nothing. But this man dishes out money to others. I have been supportive enough, but still not appreciated. All i get is name calling, I have never since our marriage of 16 years received a gift, I dont know what it looks like. They have never owrn christmas dress bought by their father.

U have told us about him ,
now tell us the truth about U so we can judge perfectly without being bias

nonsense

stuffs2002:
There is no hypocrisy in the north.

Muslims constitutes about 70% of Nigerian population

liar

Uchesis:
Since a Muslim - Muslim ticket is operational in Nigeria today, can we also expect the reverse scenario in the nearest future ?

Will the North agree to this?

the north will prefer us to divide

Hungrychicken:
Don't forget how EFCC and Police will brutalize you before you get arrested. While, the northerners will get away with the same crime

not same crime but worse crime

Jevica:
Then we should all join to be terrorists

I love U for this,
it's a lucrative business, 100 times better than yahoo

so it means if we on nairaland steals, defrauds, commit assault we go to prison and fulani terrorists that have raped and killed so many can walk free simply because they are from the north,
it's a pity

LagosOrigin:
But Nnamdi kanu who didn't kill a soul with his own hands is in jail

Una see this tinubu government?

A responsible government will send terrorists to there maker. But there in Nigeria, tinubu pamper them, feed them and recruit them into the Nigerian army with tax payers money.


What a country

no mind them, I no wan talk wetin dey my mind, if I talk , some mods go ban me cos nairaland mods a bots are mini terrorists

Fash20:
Who told you the Iranians enjoy killing? Iranins didn't start the world War 1 or 2 where over 60million humans perish. They didn't start Iraq war, they didn't invade Afghanistan, but somehome you've been made to believe they are the one that enjoy killing.

The imam may be dead but what he stood for is not. So, do not worry about who will take over. You saw his funeral, how many of your western leaders have such influence on their people? Non.

who U be?
U just vomited rubbish

Nword22:
There is God ooo..there is God and there is God OOO.

This kidnapping going under tifnubu in Yoruba Land.

It wasn't like this during Awo Time.

It wasn't like this during Fajuyi time.

It wasn't like this during akintoye time.

It wasn't like this during Obasanjo time.

It wasn't like this during osibanjo time.

Even Mko can't be left out.

Tifnubu why why why.

This presidency has brought pain to my Yoruba brother and sisters than civil War.

tinubu is a nonentity, period

government should continue to grant amnesty to these killers, instead of death sentence, one-day go be one-day for this country

fake,
not working
how come brought it to fp ?
I no understand nairaland again,

abeg, sirika is from which part of Nigeria?

Temidayo9:
E don reach like that? Rule over who just because of 20k increment?

no vex
abeg pay for all my kids,
I paid 150 naira in 1994 for mine ,
what if I have twins or triplets?

what they want is their children to rule over ours forever
they make things difficult for parents so their kids can't come close to politicians kids,
one day na one day, earthquake will erupt in Nigeria, U know what I mean

me , go Taraba state for work?
God forbid bad thing

that was the plan all along

what of the teacher that was beheaded?

why op follow add Trump photo with the fraudsters

regenerateman:
The secondary school level supposed to be the prerogative of the government. At tertiary level, the parents may be made to foot the bills of their children. Even at secondary school level, the government cannot assist parents. The question now is: why do we have government in Nigeria?

the question is why do we pay tax and vat

we warned many of U about tinubu,
but because he was from Ur side , U all said we were too tribal,
he is a tax collector and he enriches himself with it. that was why Obasanjo tried to deal with him when Obasanjo was president but because they were both from sw, Obasanjo released him,
where you want poor families to get 50k for waec andv50k for neco and some of these families have twins, abi one twin go write exam and the other won't?
no empathy at all

ufotunang:
..yes for 6 days...but .she break and rest for at least 1 hour everyday

ok

so U are saying she didn't sleep for 4 days

VIKTO83:
I'm changing my name ASAP.
This guy has ended up embarrassing all the victors in d world.

E be like say U no know the meaning of victor,
victory, Victoria,
victory means he succeeded and indeed he did

MemphitzDgreat1:
Remi Tinubu is officially a mad woman!

she's not mad, she's insane

aariwa:
While you and Tinubu spend your own on buying luxury aircrafts and paying billions in ransom to kidnappers abi? Up till today no single of the kidnappers have been arrested including the ones that killed that male teacher in the forest

don't mind the foolish woman,
look at the rubbish she just said, even before her husband became president, how many poor people did they help

CanadaOrBust:
How long u guys been on NL?
OP can't change anything once the thread makes FP.
Only the mod can change anything

so U are saying the mod doesn't have tv in his home even radio sef

Cmanforall:
OP update scores

It’s 1:1

person wey no get tv and he open football thread, how will he change it when he doesn't know the scores

dem kidnap dead body ?
wetin we no go hear for the country
anyways England don equalize Norway

2special:
I hope his brothers and sisters will not change the narration again cuz they never believe in the kidnapping, a teacher was beheaded and some security force were killed.

oga na film trick or AI

FSBoperator:
So to get free ticket contest elections and fail as third place nah achievement now for Giringori mind.

try pick Ur own free ticket and let's compare,
tell me where in the world presidential form is sold to an aspirant , it only happens in Nigeria where everything is about money , George bush buy form abi?
Clinton buy form abi?
Obama buy form?
U are happy criminals are ruling u abi,
ever wondered why that form is extremely expensive? so people like U can never be able to afford, which simply means U and Ur likes can never be president,they will rule U forever

seunmsg:
You are just a presidential candidate and not a real contender. The contest in 2023 was between Tinubu and Atiku and the contest in 2027 will still be between Tinubu and Atiku. If you want a presidential debate so badly, go and debate Sowore of AAC and Gbenga Olawepo of Accord party candidate. Those are the presidential candidates in your cycle of presidential wannabes.

I can see U are really pained,
guy go watch world cup England and Norway before U get BP on-top obi matter