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This is ur natural habitant, dont escape from captivity again. Just remain in the zoo.

Make i know catch u for politics section, talking nonsense again, about my brother.

I ve seen much of her post, it's so clear she hate men

OnlyemmyM:
No matter what you spend or do, she that has a cheating blood in her will always cheat, leave woman cos they have very lighter brian to be deceive.

Hmmm don't let cocokandy, carefree and dickbender hear tht word "lighter brain"

BananaBender:


I erased the rest of your post because I agreed with it.

I don't know what exactly you mean by 'equality of cheating' but what I was proposing is that men and women should be held to the same standard when they cheat. Men should be responsible for their actions, it is not right that they are given a free pass by the society.

I am in no way, encouraging women to cheat.

The most practical way is to change the mentality that the male gender is superior to the female. We have to change the mentality that the man is the default head in a marriage. The truth is, the head is allowed some things that the subordinate isn't allowed. That breeds imbalance and equality.

Society should stop ignoring the men when it comes to preaching about chastity. Women are encouraged to be virgins but but the male child is perceived to be a wimp if he stays a virgin. This system will always fail because the male child needs the female(in most cases) to be a "man".

Women should be taught to be financially independent. A women who can't fend for herself is indirectly being forced to stay with a cheating spouse. Providing for the family should not be solely undertaken by the man.

A lot of things about the Nigerian society feeds on gender inequality and until that is eradicated, there is always going to be double standard.

U re always preaching of gender equality in everything as if tht is d problem in this world. Y nt pray tht God shud transform u to man or come back in ur nxt life as a man if u wnt to be like a man. The funniest thing is tht, wit d opportunities given to women in d western country, they ve nt contribute anything good in this world than sitting down in offices or a marketer getting used and f...cked by men becoming a corporate prostitute unknown to them, but they will come home and say to their husband "come on sit down there we re equal" causing dispute and divorce in d home, but wen it comes to inventing, creativity, technology u won't see women, the dress u wear, the car u drive, the shoe u wear, the pant u wear were all created by men, women always wnt the easiest path in life, u re coming here and say gender equality. physically, internal and external they re different and emotionally they re different. My younger brother who lives in UK told me tht all these members of parliament(PM) who makes this devilish law against men never follow d law, their wives respect and obey them even wen they err against their wives Bill Clinton as an example wen he cheated on Hillary, she never divorce him. The wives of all these big politician knows the truth behind this gender equality so they never tend to follow it only the masses do. I can bet on this majority of Nigeria women will not accept gender equality becos they know d value of keeping a family. My aunty is a PHD holder, she works in NIFOR as a chief research officer, she is vry submissive to her husband and respect him u cud imagine she still knee to serve her husband food even wit her level of education and money she hv, her husband loves her so much cos of level of respect she ve shown to him, he recently jst bought her a range rover sport 2014 model. Stop this gender equality it doesn't exist, equal human right is wat we need.

bukatyne:

True

I helped a little girl cross the road and when we got to the other side, she bolted like Usain.

The world is not what it was anymore

People now frown with ladies playing with their kids just that they frown more @ guys

We hear of kidnap, molest, rituals etc daily

Lol well I jst hv to stop

carefreewannabe: Is your problem that mothers do not take ANY risk when it comes to their daughters?
Do you feel this is ge*nder discrimination?

I find it rather worrisome that the mothers, you described in your post, don't feel the need to take care of the boys in the same way they take care of the girls. Boys might fall victims to child ab*use too.
I think this is where we should begin with.

I really think dis is gender discrimination. Those who indulge in child molestation re psychologically sick but I find it disturbing she thinking iam capable of such thing knwing d kind of person iam nd vry close to them. Well hv decided to stay away frm them to avoid any trouble

At this time where all women cry for equal right and removing every form of stigmatization from any group of persons regardless of their sexuality and gender, but I keep wondering y most women think all men re molester wen it comes to their daughter, it was evidence in a thread where it was debated if is advisible for a guy to be employed in a nursery school where most women didn't like it. I hv a female neighbour of which iam vry close to d husband, she hs 2 little daughters and a son but I have notice she is not comfortable seeing a men including me around her daughters, she doesn't allow them to be taken away frm her sight, even as much as I like playing wit them and driving them around ma area becos I love children but I hv decided stop playing wit them cos there is always a room for false allegation. But she is not like that wit d son, she even allow females to take her son away from her and stay hours she doesn't care. Does she think women re nt capable of molesting a male child or she is not interested in d son? Iam beginning to hate her. Pls, women stop dis attitude nt all men re rapist.

osereka: women of today are one major problem that drives  men into adultry

1 they will not allow you to have wifey no two

2 they dont know how to take good care of their men

3 they tend to forget the husband when they have children

4 some of them dont even know how to take good care of themselves after marriage etc

Abeg no let all the feminist in d house kill oh

carefreewannabe:

There is nothing to defend. Their comments are du*mb and I can't identify with them.

It's like telling a moderate Muslim to defend Boko Haram. It doesn't make sense.

Hmmm. U said something iam really please wit today

SAMBARRY: thank you. I always like balanced equation

u guys should learn how to give good advice, this is nt child's play. Mayb people like u she was making frends wit.

Today a man identified as Idris Lawal told an Ilorin
Customary court to end his marriage because his
wife is fond of keeping bad friends.
42-year-old Idris said his wife has been associating
with bad women who have been influencing her life
negatively and those who lack respect for the
husbands at home.
“I have cautioned my wife to quit associating with
bad set of people, but she refuse to listen to me and I
can sense that she is no longer the woman I use to
know,” he said.
“My Lord, I want an end to this marriage because my
wife’s lifestyle has changed negatively, since she
prefers to listen to her friends, instead of her
husband,” said the petitioner.
The wife, Mulikat who opposed the divorce petition
said “I will quit associating with the women my
husband did not approve of for the sake of my
marriage and only child,” Mulikat said.
Mulikat applied for an adjournment to enable her to
reconcile with her husband.

A feminist can never make a good wife. Feminism is an anti family propaganda in d west unknown to d masses. The policies tht favour the women over there is d cause of high rate of family dispute and divorce cases. There is something tht keep me wondering, u never hear or seen the wives of all dis law makers having dispute wit their husband or filing for divorce even wen Bill Clinton cheat on his wife. Do u think dis men re d best husband?I don't think so. Ladies, be careful of wat u wnt. Chat out to ma nigeria women.

The moment they endorse this law, nigerians wud wnt to do thesame, the way they re crying for feminism here esp the ladies becos to them everything about d western culture is good after all is all human right, equality, etc. Nonsence. SATAN AT WORK

This is wat u get when dating immature girls,they seem to be right in any argument. I think she doesn't even knw wat she wnt, its jst matter of time before she knws wat it means to be in relationship. I will advice u to be patient wit her. Beside wat make u think ur old friend is d 1 for u.

Yes, when my girl travelled out about 4 years ago

Sometimes last year I met my girlfriend, I was her first guy (I disflowered her ) I love her so much, I care for her, I give her most things I can afford, iam not selfish with her dis is d first time I really love a girl. But after her OND she got a job, after smtime I noticed she started avoiding me, she wasn't aving my time anymore, when I complained she would want to bring up quarrel. I later found out she was meeting sm1 else close to where she is working, she decided to quite the relationship with me. Three weeks later she came back begging with her sister and brother, she said she has left d guy that she made a mistake, this was a lesson for her, she promise not to do it again. I forgave her, I knw sm will think iam weak for forgiving her, I really love her, I wasn't like this before.
But. What is really affecting me is that whenever iam alone I think of what she deed, I look at her with that betrayer look smtime I regret for forgiving her even after a year I still feel the same, I feel I cnt trust her anymore because she has broken the circle of trust I cnt forget what she deed, smtime I feel iam not man enough for letting her in again but I can't let her go because I really love her.

Sometimes last year I met my girlfriend, I was her first guy (I disflowered her ) I love her so much, I care for her, I give her most things I can afford, iam not selfish with her dis is d first time I really love a girl. But after her OND she got a job, after smtime I noticed she started avoiding me, she wasn't aving my time anymore, when I complained she would want to bring up quarrel. I later found out she was meeting sm1 else close to where she is working, she decided to quite the relationship with me. Three weeks later she came back begging with her sister and brother, she said she has left d guy that she made a mistake, this was a lesson for her, she promise not to do it again. I forgave her, I knw sm will think iam weak for forgiving her, I really love her, I wasn't like this before.
But. What is really affecting me is that whenever iam alone I think of what she deed, I look at her with that betrayer look smtime I regret for forgiving her even after a year I still feel the same, I feel I cnt trust her anymore because she has broken the circle of trust I cnt forget what she deed, smtime I feel iam not man enough for letting her in again but I can't let her go because I really love her. Pls I need ur advice.