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Travel / Re: Failed Transactions On My Usd Prepaid Card by CHARLIENESS: 11:50am On Nov 15, 2023
Hayzed2019:
SEND ME AN EMAIL SO I CAN ASSIST U

Hi bro.
Travel / Failed Transactions On My Usd Prepaid Card by CHARLIENESS: 1:30pm On Nov 14, 2023
Good morning friends,

I am currently in the UK and I used my UBA Prepaid USD Card on multiple transactions that failed even after I was debited.
I have since contacted UBA, for more than 2 months and counting, its been back and forth.

I was made to execute a dispute form twice, but it has been lingering.
On their email complaints account CFC, one staff member told me to wait till January 2024 to get a refund, another said December 2023 and yet some said I wont get refunds after 120 days.

My cash hanging in the balance is in excess of $500.

I have also copied CBN and FCCPC too but nothing have happened.

I will appreciate whatever help I can get on this lane.

God bless you all.
Autos / Honda Civic by CHARLIENESS: 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2023
HONDA CIVIC
Crime / Re: Businessman Loses $11m Cash In Broad Daylight Robbery In Ogun (pic) by CHARLIENESS: 6:58am On May 27, 2023
How did he come about $11million in cash?
That's cash in excess of N8 billion. Probably proceeds of crimes.



dre11:


https://leadership.ng/businessman-loses-11m-cash-in-broad-daylight-robbery-in-ogun/
Family / Re: Does This Make Me A Polygamist by CHARLIENESS: 6:48pm On May 26, 2023
Don't be too sure.
She already seem to have an issue with you having a son.
Do all you have to, and protect that son of yours.

CoolNL:


She is obviously seeing another person already, I don’t want to get back with her even if she is not seeing anyone. As for my babe making life difficult for my son.. I don’t think that will happen
Business / Ideas by CHARLIENESS: 6:27pm On May 26, 2023
Hello friends,
Romance / Is It Over Between Us? by CHARLIENESS: 8:40am On May 24, 2023
I have this babe I love so much, I wanted to keep her.
I once spoke to her mom on phone and even gave her money to buy a ring in anticipation for registry.

I visited her place one day and a strange guy walked in on us while we were naked, she excused the guy and told me he was her colleague at work - my spirit was dampened and I began foot dragging on our relationship.

She wanted us to move forward with our relationship but I told her I needed time to make up my mind given the red flag I saw. She got furious and we departed on a sour note.

We haven't spoken in more than 3 months but I keep thinking about her.
Travel / Re: Delayed Form A For School Fees by CHARLIENESS: 2:33pm On May 19, 2023
Thank you so much

@Blackdeewhy
Travel / Re: Delayed Form A For School Fees by CHARLIENESS: 2:15pm On May 19, 2023
Thank you, I've done that.
I hope they see reasons with me to be patient.


doggedfighter:


Write your school, show them evidence that you have initiated Form A . Please with them to bear with you.
Travel / Re: Delayed Form A For School Fees by CHARLIENESS: 2:07pm On May 19, 2023
Black Market rate is in excess of N800, way too expensive

tensazangetsu20:
Black market rate.
Travel / Delayed Form A For School Fees by CHARLIENESS: 1:53pm On May 19, 2023
Good afternoon friends,

Please I need your opinions from your valued experiences.

I have admission from University of Hertfordshire, UK and I needed to pay 5,000 GBP as initial deposit. I initiated the Form A transaction late April and gave payment instruction to my bank GTB ever since but I'm still on the queue.

Whereas the bank told me upfront that they can't guarantee early payment due to scare forex from CBN, that the transaction might wait till June. The school has however given me an ultimatum to pay the deposit withing 2 days as the department is getting filled out.

Please what options can I exploit.

Thank you all.
Fashion / Re: Busty Well Dressed Nigerians Girls On Twitter(no Oloshos Included) Photos!!! by CHARLIENESS: 6:15pm On May 17, 2023
Give me Girl 6
Romance / Re: This Is What I've Noticed About Naughty Girls On Nairaland by CHARLIENESS: 4:16pm On May 12, 2023
Like one witch that calls herself iyaebe, disgusting slut.
Romance / Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 10:18am On May 10, 2023
God bless you.

I should have ignored her the first time but now I know she's mad.




FREDCLSSICO7:

that woman you just quoted is a j0bless 0ld W!tch

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Romance / Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:50am On May 09, 2023
Thank you Satan

IyaebeTheGreat:
Take my advise and stop being unnecessarily toxic with yourself.

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Romance / Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:43am On May 09, 2023
I've done those and I'm fine thanks.
You mustn't comment on every post and you may keep your self-righteousness to yourself next time.


IyaebeTheGreat:
Go back and check after three months and again after six months. Learn to keep your prick inside trouser, it's not every erection that you must obey. Practice self control and shun premarital sex

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Romance / My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:34am On May 09, 2023
I met this lady December 2020, I met her when I needed to secure a business space, she was friendly with the man who gave me space. She would go on to tell me all the jist I needed to know about the place and the powers and principalities around there.

By February of 2021, we had begun dating. She would visit me and pass the night, come for weekends... We had nice time together, always.
She's a single parent though, she's a nice lady, caring and loving.

Before long, we began having issues.
She has friends I suspect were doing hook-ups, she once told me she was introduced to a man who wanted to force himself on her when she visited him - my question, if you weren't interested, why visit him?
Again, she told me of how a young yahoo boy was asking her out and I felt so irritated.
Worse, she always wanted me to abide by her counsel. I had wanted to enrol for a Master's program which she vehemently kicked against and somehow, I lost interest. It would appear as though whatever I tell her and she disapprove of, is instantly doomed to fail, I observed this happen a number of times.
To make matters worse, she began reporting me to my neighbors - this is the worst thing any woman can do to me.
My attempts to make her see things from my point of view all failed, so I stopped seeing her. I'll pretend like I travel out of the state and she won't have to visit me, this continued for a while and in the end, she gave up.

We reestablish communication early 2022 and would meet sometimes in April of same year, she came to me for a night and we didn't see again.
By August of 2022, she called me that she was ill, as a friend, I visited her and she was really emaciated, I assisted her with some cash and encouraged her to go to the hospital. Curiously, she was visiting herbs women and doesn't want to go to the hospital.
At the time she visited a health centre close to her, she called me to please check myself. That I should go have a test, that she tested positive for HIV.
I summoned courage same day, went for test and tested negative, I told her and she was confused the more, she was trying to trace the source of the virus. I encouraged her to contact any man she has had sex with before or after my affair with her but she gave up later saying it's needless.

I saw her yesterday and she's a shadow of her old self, though she told me she is taking her medication, I am not convinced, she's lost so much weight.

I don't know if she acquired the virus before or after we met but I thank God I'm in good health and the test results showed I'm okay. I sympathize with her though and refuse to stigmatize her, also I keep extending a hand of friendship anytime I can.

Maybe this will encourage someone.

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Romance / Should I Take Her Serious? by CHARLIENESS: 5:54am On May 03, 2023
Good morning friends.

Having given up on a number of relationships in the past for reasons bordering on trust and behavioral issues with the ladies I was involved with, I met a lady recently that I like but I'm a little concerned on another issue.

Though we met recently, about two weeks to be precise, she professed love for me early and easily too, I am even the one struggling to catch up with her passion.
She told me she's never been lucky with men and especially her immediate ex and how the fella really mistreated her and do hoped I'll be different of which I promised to always treat her right.

My concern: when I talk to her sometimes, she'll completely blank out. I'll sometimes repeat the same thing time and again without getting a response from her, not even an acknowledgement that she heard me or doesn't understand whatever it is I was saying. For instance, she visited me some days ago and while preparing to leave was rubbing perfume oil that was almost exhausted, I asked if I should give her another because I had an extra bottle, she never responded, I repeated same words three times and she didn't behave as if she heard me or understand me. I went on to get the perfume oil and gave to her and she was so ecstatic and thanked me so much.

Communication is central to the life of every relationship and while we are not really misunderstanding each other, my girl seems to suffer partial or occasional loss of hearing abilities. I am careful not to bring this up with her so soon given how young our relationship is but it's really affecting how we relate as I am gradually getting used to it and hence can't communicate freely with her.

Though she's Numan from Adamawa and I'm Yoruba, tribal differences has never affected how I relate with people.

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