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Fashion › Re: Promo sales*Beautiful Ankara Bags For Sale (for The Ladies) by chccho(op): 9:20am On Nov 23, 2016
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Travel › Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by chccho(m): 7:18am On Nov 23, 2016
Hey all does anyone know if the visa offices close for the year?
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 7:08am On Nov 23, 2016
lexini:
Is this vehicle still available?
Still available
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 7:08am On Nov 23, 2016
Still available
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Supreme Court Updates by chccho(m): 7:07am On Nov 23, 2016
awayeyebundle:
He is 2years in PDP jegede can't be governor where people of 7yrs are there like jimoh
Why is your English so poorhuh The time u are using to support jimoh here why not use it to study brighter grammar?
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 9:13pm On Nov 22, 2016
Still available
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 9:59am On Nov 22, 2016
Buy me
Politics › Re: #OndoDecides2016: Governorship Debate On Channels TV ( Rotimi Akeredolu Absent) by chccho(m): 9:14pm On Nov 21, 2016
Frankiss44:
He never said he was going to pay 75k minimum wage... he only said 18k minimum wage was an insult to any human being and that his driver earns 75k
And u believe him? I know some of his drivers
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by chccho(m): 9:00pm On Nov 21, 2016
Johnnyessence:
hallelujah u are welcome.
Thanks and all the best
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by chccho(m): 6:35pm On Nov 21, 2016
Johnnyessence:
yes it is still on. Kindly go to the google and search for dpr website and get register.
Thanks I have registered and at stage 3
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2016
Available
Autos › Re: 6months Used 2004 Toyota Highlander For Grabs by chccho(op): 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2016
Buy me
Autos › Re: Nicely Used 2012 Kia Optima Up For Grabs (price reduced) by chccho(op): 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2016
Fresh and clean
Autos › Re: Nicely Used 2012 Kia Optima Up For Grabs (price reduced) by chccho(op): 1:19pm On Nov 21, 2016
Still available
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op):
xclassic:
its gonna b hard mahn...bt trust me leavin is d best !!! GOOD LUCK MAN
I can't lie mehnnn!!!!! it's really hard already
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 6:49pm On Nov 20, 2016
thowbie7ven:
Same thing happened to me lately OP...Infact, the exact scenario you stated here...we also had a lil misunderstanding and she started behaving silly...what did I do?...I just got tired a day, deleted everything about her on my phone(numbers,pictures and all)even though it was hard for me...I decided not to contact her again...just of recent about one month plus, she called me and said we should be friends blah blah...I just told her off and insulted her told her i'll never call her again...that was all!...dunno why these girls behave like this do they always expect a guy to always know what's running through their minds...are we mini gods?...instead of them communicating what's wrong with them once and for all, they'll be doing like Ogbanjes
My guy me sef I tire this is a girl that introduced me to her pastor and her sis and we all have been talking.only for her to just flip on me and become a total stranger. because we had a lil misunderstanding and ever since then she just changed to a stranger.. I won't call her again except she calls, no chats unless she does.although she chatted me up today saying hi and then that was all.
Me I go just dey here dey look jeje. Time will tell what happens
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 2:38pm On Nov 20, 2016
SmellingAnus:
Many of them are very complicated and they know they are complicated... Let me quote Peter 2015, sometimes you have to look beyond the bee to get the honey.... (that's my own quote)
I like that quote,nice one!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by chccho(m): 6:17am On Nov 20, 2016
Hello house is the application still open?? Can I still apply?
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 6:13am On Nov 20, 2016
dillinger:
Move on without ending it. In this case, move on like she did. Don't be the one to break it cos she's half past gone already
embarassed
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 5:25am On Nov 20, 2016
VickyRotex:
I understand it hurts! Alright, give her space and watch how it turns out.

All the best in making a decision.
Thanks a lot I appreciate
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 5:14am On Nov 20, 2016
VickyRotex:
My advice will be:

You should still talk to her about this. Explain to her how her actions hurts your feelings. Let her know you look forward to better days, and not just sweet memories.

Things like this happens in relationships, just like you rightly stated.
It could be the distance that's tearing her apart, it could be she's under a lot of pressure, it could be that she doesnt even know that she's acting that way.

Now we're gonna keep assuming, until you ask her exactly what's wrong. Let her be confortable to discuss her concerns with you.

If you both love yourselves and are willing to push on, it will work. It takes 2 to make it work.
But dont opt out without discussing this with her.

Long distance relationship isn't all that easy.

And you may also wanna consider giving her some space. She may need it. And watch what happens afterwards.

Now after talking about it and giving her space, and you still dont feel convinced or you feel you just wanna leave, then leave.

But do not get a plan B while You're still in a relationship with her.

All the best!
I am very aware of the bolded but I have been supportive as much as I could and now instead everything has turned against me.

Honestly am just gonna let her be cos I can't keep up with the cold shoulders she is giving me. I can't be treated like a pest and it's not a do or die affair though it hurts but I think giving her space is a very good idea.
Time will tell eventually....
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 5:07am On Nov 20, 2016
Raine80:
Stop trying to be in a relationship.Relationship involves concerted effort from both parties it's not a solo quest. Give her space ...no contact ,no effort and see what happens.
This makes a lot of sense too.. thanks grin
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 1:11am On Nov 20, 2016
Although we still spoke last nite when she buzzed me and we spoke for a while.. Things are not the same as before,she is still cold to me and all

It is well aha,seems I need to get me a plan B undecided
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 1:09am On Nov 20, 2016
pennytrate:
[color=#ff9900] yea, move on. what's yours is yours, we don't rush it cool [/color]
Solid cool
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 12:51am On Nov 20, 2016
pennytrate:
[color=#ff9900] "never u waste ya time to understand species that doesn't understand 'em selves" undecided u ain't God mahn [/color]
In fact ehn,it's as if u just said it all....Thanks
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 12:50am On Nov 20, 2016
QueenSuccubus:
Just do the right thing... Why be in a relationship and juz suffer alone? undecided undecided

If she's not helping to maintain the relationship healthy , then it's time for u to pack up and leave the scene... We cannot please everyone even those we really love the most...


God luck
Thanks a lot dear, I think I would just let her be I don't like my emotions being hurt
Romance › Why Are Ladies So Hard To Understand & Pls? by chccho(op): 12:42am On Nov 20, 2016
Hi all,so I started dating this wonderful lady a few months back barely 3months though she is out of the country we talk every second like next door neighbours.

The relationship started fantastically we talk about everything and anything and never get tired of talking.This happens to be the kind of lady I have been praying to God for all my life and I started to say within myself I would like to marry this girl in fact my plan is to settle down with her next year if we can work things out and she is also down for settling down as we have discussed all this and much more.
As usual relationships face ups and downs and couples disagree. Little by little we would have some issues and get over it and Move on . in fact we started making plans to spend Xmas together and we were super excited about it.

All of a sudden a few wks ago about end of a October to be precise we had a lil misunderstanding and from then on things started getting worse. We started talking less,she started giving cold responses and snapping more at me.
I started to wonder what's going wrong with our relationship? I confronted the issues and tried to remedy it all but this girls behaviour just changed towards me.overnight she just became a totally different person to me. Right now we hardly even talk or chat and she is not even bothered about it. This has been affecting me for the past 2-3wks now and I have tried everything to salvage the situation but it seems things keep getting worse in fact she would even snap at me sometimes at any little attempt.

To me I am beginning to think she has found someone else cos her sudden change on attitude doesn't add up to me.. I am thinking calling off the relationship as I can't be hanging in a relationship.
My feelings r hurting so much right now and I don't know what to do.
Pls only matured and wise comments.
Thanks
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Appeal Court To Deliver Judgement Today Friday 18 by chccho(m): 4:06pm On Nov 18, 2016
awayeyebundle:
....Let give him 4years of governor if he failed to do what he promise we Ondo state will vote him out of Office no continuity of 16years of Central people of Mimiko/jegede 8+8 equal to 1yrs of administration no work,no light,Work no paid,impoverishment of Ondo people......let support JIMOH Ibrahim he will delivere ONDO state from scavenger of Mimiko agenda
I laugh I can see u people are bent on jumping from the fry pan to fire..Well done
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Appeal Court To Deliver Judgement Today Friday 18 by chccho(m): 1:20pm On Nov 18, 2016
awayeyebundle:
...Why prophesy of Dome Jimoh will win the election Nov.26 and Mimiko and his caretaker will always know that is good to follow party constitution not caretakeof PDP at satate and federal level...selfish Mimiko agenda of interest after 8years of Central ruling now again another Central person Wetin na only Una dey ONDO state Abeg JIMOH IBRAHIM WINNING AS OUR AUTHENTIC CANDIDATE...CONTINUE HATING HATERS..MTCHEEEEW!
I shake my head for u,by the time jimoh takes over you would know the true meaning of sheep in wolves clothing.You havent seen anything yet just let jimoh win and u would experience hell in ondo.. I am ready to bet that if he wins u would regret it in less than 6months
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Appeal Court To Deliver Judgement Today Friday 18 by chccho(m): 1:15pm On Nov 18, 2016
Jimoh Ibrahim the destroyer doing what he knows how to do best #DESTROY
The same way he has destroyed PDP in ondo state is the same way he will destroy the whole state.
Ondo people sit back relax and get destroyed.
This is just Introduction.
Those of u supporting him clap for yourselves,but I can assure u of one thing you would be the 1st to smell your Yanshes should jimoh win
Autos › Re: Nicely Used 2012 Kia Optima Up For Grabs (price reduced) by chccho(op): 10:39am On Nov 18, 2016
Buy me

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