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Rollar:
Most educated 15-18 year old girls are usually still in school, and its unlikely a girl staying in surulere or costain would be interested. You may have to consider going for an illiterate 15-18 year old, increasing the age limit to 27 years old or accepting girls from neighboring areas.
Of course this may present its own challenges. I think your best bet is to find someone you can groom personally, so she doesn't run down your business or cheat you.

damnnnnn

Rollar:
Lol. I find it funny when people feel slighted at my comments. I wonder what will happen the day I do eventually insult someone.
I could've sworn you once said you're self-employed.....something about some kind of lucrative business that your parents sponsored. Now apparently you have a boss you run errands for. Wonder what tomorrow will bring? Guess we'll just have to wait and see. You have yourself a good day ma'am

Nairaland!! So many xters mehhnn

tosyne2much:

Lemme say maybe it's because I'm a good samaritan sha

Truckpusher:
Hey! Baby how far nau ? I just dey there o

Wetin dey happen nau ? You dey stingy sha !

e dey very far oo

notn dey pa hw I tk stingy?

Sinizia n laveda..thanks huns its just wrk
takin a vacation nxt week tho. Be more around den
Hope u two r good

Truckpusher:
Give it up already .

pushinwa sup sup

Eketem:
Oga the point is that you have changed, you want her to change and fit into your new life, she doesn't want to change, she wants to be her. If you can't deal with that leave her she will find someone and you will find someone.

It doesn't have to be identical, the aim of the story was to show everyone in the long run will find the right fit for them.

As simple as dat.. he wld find someone, she wld find someone..its nt a big deal.
Its only bad when he settles wt her knowing he cant cope wt her person..So its better, u let go Marxxx. A Broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

PresVA:
I think I understand you now... I also need a partner I can make major decisions with and discuss important issues with. .. she seems not to be a go getter, she's ok the way she's. . She's your gf, keep trying she'll come around hopefully. .. Remember she stood by you when things weren't rosy.. You can find ways to reach out to her better. ..
You can sit her down and tell her the big plans you have for both of you, what part she'll play and how you'll really need her good involvement...

I wouldn't advice you leave her because marriage goes beyond thinking big, you need someone who understands, respects and helps u in hard situations..

Your first post was centered on material things, how she didn't buy good clothes et al...hence people's comments

he said he had already talkd to her before now..
Lets leave him jorr.. He should break up wt her.
This isnt gonna b d first ppl breakin up after 10yrs of dating.
I hav always told my frnds dat datin a guy for 100yrs doesnt guarantee marriage. OP's case is one of the example..

Marxxx:
Looking at what you wrote up there I will explain few things to you. I have not gone to see a movie at the cinemas before yet I work on the island, I don't drink, I am not a fan of any football team, I don't even know the name of any club. I spend more education presently I have a private online German tutor. I have asked her what do you want to do besides the secretary job...it's been six years take an additional course/diploma or degree. She has excuses to give...I don't have any investment but my introverted nature is making my savings look good. Now I work very looooong hours sometimes my engagement team can call from another country due to time zone difference, I wake, turn up skype...work starts....till God knows when I can't be doing these and investing its suicide....I am not saying start saving pennies when I will lose pounds on the long run. I need someone hungry to achieve. Yes wear expensive clothes but you will work the money out with your brains. I want someone I can give xxxx amount and I will be confident she will utilise it well....It goes beyond being "just modest" or "nice"....I will keep an open mind till the end of the year then if am not convinced....i think I have done what is required

y wait till end of d year?

Pls free that nice girl for more deserving guy right now!
You'd b marvelled at d amount and kind of guys that would jump right into seekin her hands for marriage.
A year is too long a time to wait.. you wasting your time and more importantly, the time of that sweet young lady.

Marxxx:
I think you are getting it wrong. Brag about what or for whom? I was trying to let you know that Change comes naturally. And when you want to help others change they should have a craving an eagerness they should be enthusiastic about it. You don't approach a new idea with a lukewarm attitude. As for eyeing another lady you got me giggling. I find it extremely difficult having a conversation with a guy let alone a lady. I don't attend social events organised by the company. I attended that dinner because I was listed to receive an award if not I wouldn't attend. So cheating is something I have never thought of my whole life.

what is this confused dude yapping?

Deejavuu:
Happy birthday dope babe. Wish you the best life's got to offer. Have fun dear

thanks sweery

Nubian113:
Have the best time ever hun and have a drink on me. I wish I was there.... One day good welling I'll drag bumbae down with me and we wild out biachs I wanna see a sea of China men while I wear my 6" inch heels I'll be a black Amazon woman

funny gyal..
isorrite. We gon paint China town all red

pbs4real:
HBD world sexiest single mum,may u last like methusellah

thanx b. Metusellah? I don't think so

Nubian113:
Bumbae, strawberrycream, it's cherryice Birthday today according to nl



Where are you girl! I miss you!


Happy birthday to you! Sexy mama's Neva age boo don't get that twisted She just gets better with time

Nuff luv sis

tnks swtss.. bn sooo busy wt so many things happnin along d line. I'm doin a small bday thanksgivin in church today n parry afterwrds...wish u could come.

Bumbae thanks lot b
Laveda im truly sorry b.. I got so many on my hands dese days. I got you..once I get a slightest chnce amma reach u.

ronald4lif:
Please I can't forgive a cheating spouse but I expect to be forgiven. If she doesn't want to forgive even after making entries to pacify my mistakes then she have a choice to initiate divorce. It's within her right to do so and no one is forcing her. Kapish?

I used think more of a person abt u bt nw im beginning to think again. This trash is trash from pit of hell..no offeinse

ronald4lif:
Well, the reason why I might not forgive a cheating spouse is coz I'd think she cheated coz she want to get at me and serve me a doze of my own medication. Not coz she had no control of herself and it happened unintentionally. I'd always think it was intent to hurt me too. Though this is not true as she too might have been betrayed by her human instincts and traits.

But then what's the point of conserving a relationship/marriage where both party can have multiple coítal relations with others. There's no point really if two 'mad' people come together as a couple if everyone cheat at the other. Marriage doesn't make sense if that's the case.

But it makes sense if one(you) cheats n expected to be forgiven..in that case, you become the only mad person abi?

ronald4lif:
Cherry coco bebe, they have corrupted me.

answer daretodiffer's quote

ronald4lif:
I don't think I can forgive a cheating wife. Mbanu.

But I'm hoping to be forgiven if erred. Too many ravishing and alluring women out there to be moored by one.

Onwe kwa ka odi na nwoke ka ne eri nani ofe egusi till onwuo. Ari ka ta egusi erienu ofe ogbono, o nwe di nu ka ana eme. Didn't say anything sha, just passing.

so u don join dem

cococandy:
Story story.
Most women forgive ke
And most men don't forgive.

More stories.

They aint seen nothing yet
They must think us to be choiceless fellows

Sleekyshuga:
Not really.. I took pain relief immediately I finished, same with yesterday..

oh ok dear ..rock ur fine hair

Sleekyshuga:
Thanks dear .. Braids are fine but painful ..

lol so u in pains now b?

Sleekyshuga:
Hehehehehe..

lookin fineeeeeee.. iv alwas lovd braids.

Sleekyshuga:
Hahahahaha.. She came late ..
Laveda, should we show her?

you not nice

Sleekyshuga:
Those are the ones I took yesterday ..

I want to see too

Nubian113:
Baby girl you have surfaced. Warisdis

dont mind him..he cnt catch a joke to save his life n I dnt knw wat right he has to tag me a whorre all over ds forum..like hes seen me n his gfs on the high streets or somthn. Bet he cnt wrk his butt out like I do to save his soul. N hes told me to stop mentionin me n nw d silly boy starts mentionin me again

All if a sudden, he stops using the tall cute dp n starts using a fat boy's dp n hes got d effrontery to stl mk sill noise all over d forum