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[quote author=D-sense link=topic=556892.msg7217290#msg7217290 date=1290712528]Op,
It's very tough but possible . . . , Depends on maturity . . , ma friends re mostly female and we've been on it for so long while no string included![/quote]Wow u must be one of a kind then

jay bee:
YES if i'm sexually attracted to the person in question

Meanin u are actually sexually attracted to all ur female friends then since u sed u wundnt reject if they made an offer

jay bee:
That applies to babies not grown ups. No big deal being sexually involved with someone. It's the norm so hmmmmmm

I'll have u knw many grow-ups hve the mentality of babies is shocking. But yeh i still get u

Odunnu:
As a matter of fact,I have more male friends than females (I dont even have any female friend). Some of the guys everly would want to 'chop oga's food' and when I notice stuff like ths,I run. I for one would never date any guy my bf knows,I would (God help me) never date any guy who has introduced his gurl to me either.But all the same,I know guys who wont misbehave and keep friends as friends

Same here but alla dem hve hidden agendas But on the other hand really helpful and great guyz.
If only i cn split maself into 10 then maybe dat wud do  

[quote author=star* link=topic=556892.msg7214778#msg7214778 date=1290690934]I get on with men better than women its always been that way. So yes its possible, I have to find the guy attractive before I sleep with him, so I do have self control lol!  [/quote]It's not about getting on with guys is about ur friendship stayin at jus friends level.
They neva try to cross boundaries with u??  

[quote author=star* link=topic=556892.msg7214778#msg7214778 date=1290690934]However you can NEVER be just friends with someone you have slept with even just once cause there is always the,  well we done it before we can do it again mentality.[/quote]That is true to an exent and the probabilities of u being jus friends are very low cuz once u've bn dwn dat road awready, therez nothing difficult anymore when u in a certain situation.

indie22:
I have a couple of strictly platonic male friends, that I hang out with sometimes, although we are "just friends" I'm almost sure if given a wee opportunity, they won't hesitate to take thing up a notch,

You have to actually like someone for you to want to hang out with them, so the whole "just friends" thing, actually involves some self control and "played down" emotions

Fair enof but any guy i see as we 'just friends', i dnt think being put in any situaion wud make me wanna do something i wudnt normally do. It jus neva comes into my mind and i find it wierd u hve to need self control   I've actually bn in a situaion lyk dat. u knw wen u hve a lil trust in a guy and u invite them ova and they flop?   It jus makes u think is it only in books u cn get male and female buddies?  

jay bee:
Coming to visit me whilst wearing revealing things
Getting all touchy/flirty with me
Sending me signals that she needs a good sleep with

Do u mean to say u wud get down wih any and every girl dat does the above??  

jay bee:
If you agree with me that Men don't view sleeping-with as a big thing then you will understand where we r coming from.
The only people above sleeping-with are relatives and any other person is indeed shagable unless we have mutual respect and don't put ourselves in undermining positions.

Yeh true say these days u lot jus do it 4 doin it sake innit   Like it builds self-esteem or something  

[size=2pt]Am crap at guesses  . dnt knw nothing bwt your gyal demz so where do I even start 4rm lol  nwayz need 2 go get ready 4 lecures nw laterzz  [/size]

Long distance - Brandy

no1madman:
I got a whole lotta female friends but a good number want more than friends. . .

Yeh true say. I 4got 2 add dat these days girls are increasingly making the move which i find very insane.
Its always one or the other which finally brings us to the question of if 'just friends' between males and females exist?
Now i think it doesnt actually

jay bee:
Yes you are right with your thinking but as you know technically friends don't usually put themselves in such positions.

Err how do u mean and wat positions?

jay bee:
If my female friend is single then i won't be inviting her over to my place as it's a recipe for disaster.
Point is you can be friends with a woman as long as you don't spend all your time with them vice versa.

So basically guys always have feelings for their female friends then ? Cuz i dnt see dat happening with sum1 u dnt hve any attraction to

@yorisb

So u say itz based on the looks of the girl huh? wud u make a move to talk to a 'FAT and Ugly' girl lyk u put it in da first place? I thot so!

mekay:
To be frank with you any guy that is just friends with any female will want to go the extra mile if given the chance. Some will want to be playing on such levels until the right opportunity surfaces. I think its all about the mindset and the attraction.

So ur sayin derez nothing lyk 'Just friends' between males and females?

Lol U wudnt make the 1st move but u wud accept which means u do hve ting 4 dem ryt?
Wow my point proven by one person

Awww i love dat song by da way [size=2pt] Errrr hu got u trapped on which island/ireland?[/size]

Halo - Beyonce

Soon as I get home - Babyface

Always wanted to ask, Is it possible for a Lady and a Guy to be ‘Just Friends’ and nothing more?? I‘ve had this conversation with sum friends a few while back, and some took da view dat even b4 a guy approaches a Girl/Lady to talk to her, he’s already conceived sum form of likeness for her and not jus ordinary likeness lol  even when they state ‘They jus want 2 be friends’. I dnt think I’ve met a Guy dat doesn’t want more than they cn hve and watz sad is when the girl actually wants to hve this person as a friend but they always end up tryna cross boundaries  . So I thot I come ask u wonderful breed of Nairaland Gentlemen *clears throat* if u can or already hve female friends that are 'just friends' to u and nothing more?

And Ladies if u in da same boat as me and noticed this with your male friends or maybe itz jus me  

Pigaro - Asem

^If itz play me dnt lyk it

tanimz:
Hey babe, don't mind that creature called MrBones. How's everything?

Nawah 4 dat Mr. bones sef . Errthingz gd bbe

@ Yorisb

[size=2pt]Awwww u sure knw hw to make a black woman blush tho technically black people dnt blush but we still say it o jareeh [/size]

@topic

I'm on the Rock - Movado

Who is vexin u Tanzy?

^ I doesnt havin. Jus surplise tisha havin plivate lesson . Very surplisin. no wonder u is fake tisha!

Never gonna let you go - Blackstreet  [size=2pt]Wow wat i do dat changed ur day arround? i wanna knw.  Day bn awryt. nuffing too special tho  [/size]

Boomark:
*ignores El* not a serious student

yo dont frinich d leson thas why i givin you 50%

Ido paid for a plivate leson and she was womdaful

for them wait to acruse me of sexing harasmeat

know yee now that am having a wife and i loving

her too more

Plivate lesson?  

Ladyrsky46:
Bomb blast oooo. (Reminds me of Army cantonment, Ikj)

Awww wipin tearz. . . We thank God Boomark doesnt bein a bomba  

Wish that I could tell you - Babyface [size=2pt]How ur day bn?[/size]

Lol is 'Chi' not gd enof 4 u?

Whole again - Atomic Kitten

Idowuogbo:
hmmm dodge wetin , i go plaster u like e-honda miss gini , u wud swell wen am finish sha no call dem sey i do domestic violence cus al dis british pikin i dey fear me o

Who be british pikin?

Studio CFR:
*Rolls sleeve'*

Chi call my name with respect

And why would u love your fellow woman when men plenty full ground - are u . . . .?

and why are u rollin sleve?
U shud b excited am callin ur name my friend. itz ur pleasure owkay
I dint say i love anybody read well pls. And give me examples of the men

And all of da above is wrong

Unthinkable    - Alicia keys ft Drake

Okay av dne da hardest part. why da hell am i still findin it difficult 2 do da easy part?