@truth234 thanks a lot

Please sir I need an urgent reply. My brother we be travelling to Malaysia next month with student visa and he has paid all the necessary fees from Nigeria. Is there any need for him to declare up to 2000 dollars at the Nigerian airport before traveling to Malaysia?

Hummm!, @chival baby nwa idi shap. Carry go. I love naira land family.

What ever. D person that wore his or her shoes knows where it pinches her the most. So thanks all for your advice. Is a free world every body is free to say whatever he or she thinks.

Thanks! Thanks! Really appreciate u guys. So happy dat I still have people like you that understand were am coming from. @melodies @richy4 @nairamode. God bless

@Beremx I never treated her badly . I treat her equally lyk my own. just pray not to experience such.

Thanks all for your contributions. But I don't even ve much work to do in my house. She just fetches water, wash plate, take care of my kids when am not around though for now I still stays at home. Am not even a lazy woman I like taking care of my home. Am not d type dat leaves everything for maid to do. Most times my husband ll lyk go and rest let her assist you
My problem is dat she's hash to my kid. She's not friendly at all. Am still a young mum. She make me talks too much which I don't like.

Hi, please I need help on how to go about with my house help which is also my cousin she's 14yrs should I take her back to her parents or still allow her to stay with me? She has been living with us for a year now. Yes she helps me a lot in doing housework. They are characters of hers which I don't like, though I was aware of some but I thought she's going to change but up till now she's not ready to change. She's from my mom's side. It was my mum that brought her to stay with us when I requested for somebody even though I wasn't comfortable with her staying with us cos of those her behaviors. But my mom was like I should manage her. So my point is this. D girl steals, doesn't feel remorse whenever she does something wrong,she can't apologies when she wrong me nor my husband, she can't even take care of my 2 kids when am not around, she's wicked as in she carries things I her mind, she beat my 3yr old son when am not around even when am around she still beat him but if ask her she ll deny it., she lies a lot she's ready to cry out blood than to tell you she did something even if u caught her doing it. She ll still lie, she's not also friendly with kids, u can't dictate her mind, whenever I query or beat her up cos of what she did wrong my kids ll pay for it, she also behaves as if her head is not correct. But she's very very intelligent in times of her education. My husband and my mom is aware of all this things but they were like I shouldd just over look her that if I should take her back home people ll like she's my cousin this that. But the truth of the matter is that am not comfortable with her staying with me with those characters and she's not ready to change cos I ve talk to her severally but after talking and advice she ll still do it again. And no matter the amount of beat she ll still do it again. I wnt to stop beating her that why I want her to go cos I might wound her by then people ll start saying look at what she did to her cousin "wicked women" and I can't pretend according to my husband which I still find it difficult to understand his reasons for saying I should just pretend as if nothing is happening even though he knows d girl is not doing well.( I hope is not what am thinking sha) the worst is that if u ask her do u want to go home she ll say no.. Please what do I do I really hate her behavior. Despite d fact that she does house work.