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HealthRe: Man Claims Immunity To Snake Venom (photos) by chidika: 4:15pm On Oct 08, 2013
This dude is something else
RomanceRe: My worst nightmare by chidika: 11:27pm On Oct 07, 2013
Meanwhile, wish you a successful surgery and post recovery
RomanceRe: My worst nightmare by chidika: 11:26pm On Oct 07, 2013
Am I the only one that thinks Kenneth was callous and malicious giving her that reply...come on even if his 'Friend' said that, it was quite inappropriate for him to bring you such reply. At best he should have shut up
TV/MoviesRe: Seasonal Movies You Wished Were Not Cancelled? by chidika: 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013
shawndhabi: 1) The rich also cry
2) passions
3) lady of the rose
4) then that ruth and rachael series (forgotten the name)|
secrets of the sand. But it was concluded not cancelled.

Its one of the reasons I hate series/seasonal movies, so unpredictable and they have you waiting like forever before they bring out new seasons (just like game of thrones)
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 2:26am On Oct 06, 2013
thareta: Shez not into you. Hypotetically speaking,you two might just end up datin and that might hapen because she couldn't gt anyone else. However, have got a feeling ud b doin the lovin more. Trust mi when I say "that's no healthy way to live your life" find someone else who you deserve and who deserves you
quite true, what you say about being unhealthy. If there's no balance in affection, i can't date her, I've told her that much. The only reason why I've hoped is because of perceived glimpses of affection shown in the past, but it,just might have been misconstrued you know
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 9:29pm On Oct 05, 2013
segello58: She doesn't know what she wants or probably she doesn't believe in you or maybe she's got someone else and she doesn't want to hurt you. But if you can manage to let her play around for a while, she might come back and settle for you. That's if you can wait. Good luck
that doesn't sound good i tell you... But then again, i no fit force am na
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 8:56pm On Oct 05, 2013
Dyt: Which means if u don't say hi for days, its gonna b dat way?

Den she's nt into u
Hop up ur games
Look elsewhere
U no get money, na so so dream n ambition u dey carry for head
*bends mouth*
Work harder bro
these days (at least since last month) if i don't buzz after 2 days, she buzzes

but my case is,not bad o! At least i can afford the movies and a nice restaurant once in a while.

i got a small job i've been doing while waiting for service, the pay is not quite bad, as a starter, although far from enough to build my dreams
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 8:04pm On Oct 05, 2013
We talk almost everyday....but i initiate the calling or texting most times, but that's changing though
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 7:17pm On Oct 05, 2013
Dyt: Its easier said to mk one jealous?
Na wa for ur kind o

And all these dreams wey u type here so still no dey certain
O boy u are confused
give a brother hints na... Meanwhile i put up a picture of one of my really fine friends on my whatsapp, but she no even acknowledge d babe sef angry
RomanceRe: ADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 6:56pm On Oct 05, 2013
@dyt its easier said than done, plus i don't think i have much to offer yet (as per my present status), all i'm offering is a dream of uncertainties.
RomanceADVICE!!! Should I Let Her Be by chidika(op): 5:07pm On Oct 05, 2013
I've known her for about 5 years, and have crushed on her for the better part of these 5 years except from when I got into an almost 2 years relationship (thats ended now), we almost dated at a point in time (2 weeks and a kiss doesn't really feel like a relationship, plus for the better part of the two weeks I was still trying to adjust to my new found status before she did a NEPA on me). within these five years, we've been friends and not friends and recently friends again.

When I think of her, I do not think of the present, in essence I want her for keeps. I'm just a fresh (but late) graduate, will be 27 next year, she is a couple of years younger and is also a fresh graduate, I would really love to be married by the time I'm 30, and if I am able to fast-forward to that time and everything in my life is in place i.e stable job with good income, she'll be the one I'd want to make my Mrs.

I've kinda let it out that I'm still into her, but she says the only thing she has to offer me is friendship sad

Right now i feel as though i should withdraw my friendship angry , since I always find myself wanting her for a relationship

Or hang on and keep being friends until that time comes and then resubmit my application, but the thing is what if she falls in love with someone else while i'm being that very good friend (which I can't help but be)

Would have made lots of sense if she could align with my dreams at this formative point in my life, not that later when I'm comfortable (by God's grace grin ) she starts telling me of how she has always loved me, at that point I might never respect her or trust the love then.

Or maybe I should just forget her totally.


Sorry for the disjointed writeup

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