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This dude is something else |
Meanwhile, wish you a successful surgery and post recovery |
Am I the only one that thinks Kenneth was callous and malicious giving her that reply...come on even if his 'Friend' said that, it was quite inappropriate for him to bring you such reply. At best he should have shut up |
shawndhabi: 1) The rich also crysecrets of the sand. But it was concluded not cancelled. Its one of the reasons I hate series/seasonal movies, so unpredictable and they have you waiting like forever before they bring out new seasons (just like game of thrones) |
thareta: Shez not into you. Hypotetically speaking,you two might just end up datin and that might hapen because she couldn't gt anyone else. However, have got a feeling ud b doin the lovin more. Trust mi when I say "that's no healthy way to live your life" find someone else who you deserve and who deserves youquite true, what you say about being unhealthy. If there's no balance in affection, i can't date her, I've told her that much. The only reason why I've hoped is because of perceived glimpses of affection shown in the past, but it,just might have been misconstrued you know |
segello58: She doesn't know what she wants or probably she doesn't believe in you or maybe she's got someone else and she doesn't want to hurt you. But if you can manage to let her play around for a while, she might come back and settle for you. That's if you can wait. Good luckthat doesn't sound good i tell you... But then again, i no fit force am na |
Dyt: Which means if u don't say hi for days, its gonna b dat way?these days (at least since last month) if i don't buzz after 2 days, she buzzes but my case is,not bad o! At least i can afford the movies and a nice restaurant once in a while. i got a small job i've been doing while waiting for service, the pay is not quite bad, as a starter, although far from enough to build my dreams |
We talk almost everyday....but i initiate the calling or texting most times, but that's changing though |
Dyt: Its easier said to mk one jealous?give a brother hints na... Meanwhile i put up a picture of one of my really fine friends on my whatsapp, but she no even acknowledge d babe sef ![]() |
@dyt its easier said than done, plus i don't think i have much to offer yet (as per my present status), all i'm offering is a dream of uncertainties. |
I've known her for about 5 years, and have crushed on her for the better part of these 5 years except from when I got into an almost 2 years relationship (thats ended now), we almost dated at a point in time (2 weeks and a kiss doesn't really feel like a relationship, plus for the better part of the two weeks I was still trying to adjust to my new found status before she did a NEPA on me). within these five years, we've been friends and not friends and recently friends again. When I think of her, I do not think of the present, in essence I want her for keeps. I'm just a fresh (but late) graduate, will be 27 next year, she is a couple of years younger and is also a fresh graduate, I would really love to be married by the time I'm 30, and if I am able to fast-forward to that time and everything in my life is in place i.e stable job with good income, she'll be the one I'd want to make my Mrs. I've kinda let it out that I'm still into her, but she says the only thing she has to offer me is friendship Right now i feel as though i should withdraw my friendship , since I always find myself wanting her for a relationshipOr hang on and keep being friends until that time comes and then resubmit my application, but the thing is what if she falls in love with someone else while i'm being that very good friend (which I can't help but be) Would have made lots of sense if she could align with my dreams at this formative point in my life, not that later when I'm comfortable (by God's grace ) she starts telling me of how she has always loved me, at that point I might never respect her or trust the love then.Or maybe I should just forget her totally. Sorry for the disjointed writeup |

) she starts telling me of how she has always loved me, at that point I might never respect her or trust the love then.