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Hadampson:
If only we could learn from them but tribalism has eaten deep in our brain. Let's learn to be our brothers keeper and help ourselves with any information whatsoever.

Whether you are yoruba, hausa or igbo.. We are one Nigeria

Shun tribalism

Yes ooo, Nairaland has been a blessing to me, this is the beginning of the culture of sharing life changing information, experiences and opportunities. I am going to try my best to change the narrative.

Hadampson:
Good to hear that

It seems you are enjoying Ireland, maybe I might think of coming over when the time comes

No be only you like better thing

No dull am mehn

Hadampson:
What i posted is nothing but the truth.. I still love her though and guess what, my parents accepted her but her own parents was the problem for our union

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Not Nigerian mentality actually but African mentality... It's only uncivilized people that have African mentality. Apologies to those that still possess that archaic mentality

No be say i get mind, na love push me I thought about the age factor but when I went deep with her, I found myself loving her more. I was 19 years then while she was 26

You're really balling mehn, love is really powerful. At least she knows that you didnt mess up.

Petyprincess:
He don have mentality of oyinbo fast fast someone like him wnt have a problem living anywhere in the because he seems to know alot compare to that guy trying to derail this wonderful thread

That's true

CornOak:
Crazy, and I was thinking Ireland gives Schengen Visa since they are part of the EU. So you won't be able to stroll around Europe without visas?

Oga o.

True o, the Visa application experience isnt like the one in Nigeria

Hadampson:
Yes, that's it.. If you are an extrovert, there is high tendency of being bored which may lead to depression in Nordic countries but Nordic countries is a great destination for introverted people

You will get to enjoy government welfare there

Its sweet if you're going with ya spouse or gf so that you'll always have company.

ChristoBam:
There are only a few countries like that. Ireland and Italy. Turkey, Cyprus ladies can also be like that. But it's not a common thing.

I don't know why these guys are generalizing. 'White girls' do this and do that. I'm still trying to figure that out.

I do get the reservation about Generalization
Its important to play sef when you've had people showing you scars about being manhandled by the jealous ex, brothers and friends of the white girls.
Theres a video trending on YouTube about an Irish lady on rampage in an African man store.

Petyprincess:
Hadampson you have a point about America been a diversed country,if you are kinda extrovert nd love to mingle with your nationality then America is recommended.
About the single mother stuff if what you wrote is true that i give you a thumbs up because you dnt have this typical Nigerian mentality,about you being 7 years younger you get mind o

True sha, Hadampson get mind no be small.

Phelixblaq:
Don’t get it twisted, Ireland is not in the schegen zone

Sadly Yes.

CornOak:
Can you enter the UK with your Schengen visa?

Ireland doesn't give schengen, we have to apply.
It's like strolling to your backyard.

Hadampson:
You have a point but have you thought about depression? A lot of people especially Nigerians in those countries are depressed. You may be surprised that why are they depressed when they are in a good country? This question bring us to look into certain factors that cause depression for them.

Using Nigerians as a case study, we are a fun loving people and boredom isn't for us. In Finland and other Nordic countries, they commit suicide because of boredom. Yes, they have everything, even things that are not available to most Americans but that doesn't stop the rate at which Nordic citizens commit suicide due to boredom.

Migration is lifetime plan. It requires determination and knowing what you want in life. You need to think about what makes you happy in a country. As a Nigerian, with no doubt, America is the best country. Reason is because it is the most diverse country in the world, you will get to see different nationalities and make friends with them. Apart from that, there are countless number of Nigerians there so it feels like home.

@emboldened It's not only in Canada but it also happens in those countries you mentioned. No country is perfect and you should know this but Canada has a balanced system that is similar to both United States of America and Scandinavian nations. That is one of the advantages of living in Canada because you have the best of the two.

Even though you never move, this has lots of wisdom, I sabi your rep as a great reader, that's why the way must clear for you, you nailed the point. Sometimes I get overwhelmed and get boring, thinking of home, is enough to Zap me to the realm of Appreciation.

CornOak:
That's a nice point though, very true. German student visa used to be one of the easiest in Europe, but once the rejected USA and Canada applicants got to know about the easy route, everything became saturated.

Ireland is towing the same lane.

Na smalls, they'll keep taking till everywhere full, lol

olalekan9320:
op hasn't spent up to 4 months now . But Ireland is very close to UK. I might believe if another person who has been living there for a while confirm sha.

_{but which one is "before reality drawns on me", ooh, you thought I would travel on visit visa just to marry one? I can never do that}

Lol, true sha, where are the Old Gs.

UK is €25 for flight, lol

Hadampson:
Lol.. I knew you would ask this question. For your question, yes. I don't care about nationality or anything. As long as i love her, i would gladly marry her whether she is a single mother or not.

I once dated a single mother in the past and she is a Nigerian. I left her simply because her family don't want her to marry someone younger than her.

She is 7 years older than me and she has 4 beautiful kids but I don't care about that. I love her for her.

Those Nigerians that call single mothers "evening newspaper" are not enlightened.

Haaaaaaa, that's too much, 7yrs, she go quick old o, me dey find young sissy. That's why we like them younger.
Its not that it's bad, some of them with good firm body will be great. Its actually about the person tho.
Like the saying, Men age like wine.

Hadampson:
Maximum respect sir

Germany pursuit is on a hold for now. I'm not financially capable yet. I'm trying to raise money to pursue my dream of living in a sane country i can call home

How's Ireland treating you

Ohhhh, that's great, I deferred my admission sef just so I package my application and hit my shot.
Getting a refusal isnt a good thing.
Ireland is fantabulous. I'm enjoying the ride, as class no dey, I get plenty time.

CornOak:
Yes, it used to be super fantabulous. But right now, they seem to have closed the doors on Nigerian students. Getting an interview date has now become extremely hard.

The result? Nigerian students are now looking elsewhere. Quite painful.

It's not door they close, it's the fact that lots of people are squeezing their way through the poor door. Irish Visa takes 5 weeks, I got mine in 7.

Petyprincess:
Have only visited nd i have a white boyfriend so i know literally everything about Europe! Bt trust me you gonna get used to it nd you will definitely make some friends not necessarily Nigerian friends
Wish you all the very best!! I'm still following your thread though

Wow, Grandmasters in this matter. Anyone that argues with you, I'll report them to Boss Justwise.

Petyprincess:
Better start believing b4 reality drawns on you! Even the OP agreed nd he is a student in Ireland
UK might be exception though because interracial couples are really common there with lots of immigrants nd open minded people!

Very true, i spoke to an Irish lecturer, just chatting while the students settle. She was asking me how I found the country, weather, people. I told her I love the weather and she was surprised. But the people are too dull, she laughed and said, ireland opened the borders just 30yrs ago. So the people need time to adjust. That is why they'll shine their eyes like they swallow eba bigger than their throat.

Hadampson:
Dating a single mother is not a bad thing as long as she has the qualities needed in a woman.. C'est fini

My boss is here.

how your Germany persuit

Petyprincess:
You never heard the word? It literally mean "once you date a black guy we dnt want you back" bt their lady are very curious especially in a country with few black immigrants! They will prefer satisfying their curiosity rather than being in a serious relationship.
I really do enjoy your thread, it seems you booked a window seat specially because most travellers love seating beside the window nd what airline did you use?

I'm just two months plus in country unlike una wey don dey. Its crazy tho, if I was in the USA, I for don cruise.
You're welcome.
Qatar, very cheap for my date.

Petyprincess:
Haha funny guy, infact the lady will be stigmatized because they believe "once you go black we dnt want you back" So their lady seems to avoid black guys because of the society! White guys are really protective of their women

Go black as how, some of them are curious. One was winking at me in the bus, I was seriously deep in thought then, it caught me off guard that I didnt just grinned.

They have lots of insecurities, they're just laid back. I dont know if its the cold.

Looking back, after I boarded, It felt good sitting inside, the light inside the plane, boarding music, and all just felt right. I researched and took the window seat so I can enjoy the view, it felt great, wasn't disturbed at all. I got up once to take a leak.
The two gentlemen had to stand up for me.
That stuff you see is a touchscreen remote to the little screen at the perfect angle for eyes with a retractable cord.
The seat belt was quite old, I get why people get confused and need help. These folks are smart, they provide directions for almost everything. People see and do not observe.
With some fiddling, the stuff locked and I was secured and ready for the Next big challenge.
The challenge was Big cos it's my first time and I took a window seat at the tail of the plane, learnt my lesson o.

Spent a long time waiting after I boarded, there were no more chairs, Murtala airport eh, had to be standing.
My mum with arthritis stood so much that she had to put her bag on the floor and sit, she thought its Nigeria.
When I got to Qatar, I saw that Nigeria was where I can confidently say, I pitied my grandmother, grand father, and uncle who died without seeing something better.
As I type, the Irish government has made a move to pay people for losing their job due to Corona virus. Can you imagine that.
The indian ambassador to Ireland has assured indian students that wont be sent out of the hostel here in Ireland. The question I asked was where is our ambassador, is he there to eat salary or do his job?

ZINIBANKS:
Ok thanks for your time and consideration
You're a brother from another mother
And extend my greetings to the bitches and single mama over there tell them baba for the girls is giving them a shout -out here in Niaja

Lol, will do that.

Petyprincess:
Lol you ehh
I'm glad you have some self respect! Nw this is someone that is honest nd have know the reality of a white man's country! But if you were to find an attractive young white girl nd she's interested in you will you go for her?Or you naturally not interested in white girls?

I wont say I'm not interested in white girls, I'm curious actually, i would love to know what its like but, curiosity kills the Chiggs, I dont want my head to be bashed by a jealous white male. Even holding hands on the road, will attract stares.

AllforJesus7:
OK. Kindly shed more light in how you get the menial jobs. Also how did you get your part time job?

I PMed you because I'm actually in Ireland and we can connect.

For students and part time jobs, its straightforward. I wish I knew this, I had to probe and investigate to get this info I'm about to share.

It used to be that you print CV, carry envelopes and be distributing upandown.
All that is required of you is to walk in to a Recruitment Agency, and get a job For Free.
Depending on the job, you might be needed to get Food safety certificate if you work as a Barista or restaurant or Manual handling certification if you wanna work in a warehouse. Each of them is a few hours course, €35 each.
For official jobs, apply online, LinkedIn. Scatter CV in the virtual space like seeds.

I got mine on Facebook, It was advertised by an Agency and I pinged them and that was it. I didnt pay a cent, no be kobo here.

ZINIBANKS:
Ok me self na Netherlands I wan go but don't want to go through study route
Maybe their PR first then when am working I can study
Bro no give eye to all those your former girlfriend for Niaja O

As per naija girls, I know the code I dey use for time. Lol

ZINIBANKS:
Ok me self na Netherlands I wan go but don't want to go through study route
Maybe their PR first then when am working I can study
Bro no give eye to all those your former girlfriend for Niaja O

You can research then, I really don't know much about their entry methods apart from study. Enter legit so you be able to work and sleep easy

AllforJesus7:
Living in Finland is better than living in America or Canada.

In Finland once you have their papers as a nursing mother you get placed on government salary and welfare and several other packages.

Canada has good welfare too but USA is the worst.

USA hasn't been doing well recently, Trump is closing the borders for a reason.
Canada is very Golden, the snow.....
The issue with Finland is language, Finish I guess, following the thread, the guy there is doing well.
You see of you apply to that country, your chances of visa success is high.
Germany also is Fantabulous, Language is the major barrier.
Ireland has their own language but its taught in their schools, because most of them drop out of school, some dont learn their local language as it should be.

AllforJesus7:
Pls reply your PM

PM will be great for questions that are very specific.
When its asked and answered here, it's going to benefit and assist those that with lots of questions in their mind.

Petyprincess:
The bolded got me rolling on the floor
You must really be discipline because most of our Nigerian guys will quickly grab the opportunity some marry great grand ma for green card so definitely they wnt have problem with a single mother. Bt if you could find a young single Irish girl that likes you let her family know about you nd fortunately if they like you wnt have much problem!
I'm glad you can see the reality nw because most blacks think white girls are usually interested in them because of their BBC the only white girls that are easy to pick are unattractive,fat,single mother or old white women!! Only the rich nd famous black guys are getting the attractive white girls!

Yeah true, I really hold myself to high standard and deserve the best.
With all the cultural shock, I'll now another person white pikin that can tell me to my face Bleep off. I go beat.....
I've seen a single case, small sharp black man with one white lady that's on the huge side, its obvious he wont Look at her side in his country.

Even the rich blacks will achieve that in the UK and USA.