It look somehow when you realise that most of these rich people don't know that they're only fortunate to make it, that it's not that others ain't trying or haven't done more than what made them to be successful but it's just naturally that as the world stands today that all fingers haven't ever been EQUAL.

My OWN TAKE IS "NEVER LOOK DOWN ON ANYONE YOU DONT KNOW THERE STORY

One of APC's empty promises.

👉Are you OK with #157 for $1?

This one wey people dey die like this, hope say no be another plague dey ring 4 2024 so?

God abeg ooo

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Igboslayer:
Na high blood pressure go kill Dem. You can't be so intense with hatred for other tribes and not have hypertension.

Only you out of 250 ethnic tribe wan live alone on a land locked space slightly the size of Oyo state. People wey no get Sense

Togo is bigger than your oyo na?
Instead of you to reason like a normal human being

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make them dey try tell us the truth na...
Na sapa kill am

RIP Anyway

ekene101:
say what you know, I watched the video two days ago,it happened in Liberia


Any small thing,una don turn am to tribalism.

Not in Liberia ooo. Its in Nigeria

Apus:
World don end.

Ahswear down

Just imagine the kind of home this girl came from.
She said her parents also smokes but her dad is dead now.

*trying to upload the video but I don't know what is happening

NigeriaMustFly:
Very interesting thread! Read it cover to cover.

For the OP, it's not my place to tell you what to do, but here is my take, based on vast counselling experience and pure logic:

1. Women are very emotional. That woman probably met you at a time when she was vulnerable and needed support.

2. Because of your work (or other activities), you were probably spending too much time alone with her, which led to the emotional entanglement.

3. Your worst mistakes were in telling her that "she is your spec", that you "love her", and that you "will marry her if she is divorced".

4. It is probable that you currently have a good or at least "normal" relationship with her 4 children. Be rest assured: that will drastically change, if she goes ahead to leave their dad and marry you.

5. If it is true that you've not gone all the way to have sex with her, then she is most likely a manipulative person who is merely using the promise of sex as a carrot to lead you on.

6. If no 5 is so, it is also quite possible that she would have promised to move away with you to a new environment (maybe even overseas) for a "fresh start"?

7. Finally, marriage is much more than just the wedding ceremony and the rings. In Africa, it is a union of families.

Where is her family? Where is yours? What kind of parents agree to their married daughter's evidently totally inappropriate relationship with a bachelor? And after 4 children?

In summary, I am trying to get you to think with your brain and not your "3rd leg".

Best of luck! You are REALLY going to need it, regardless of what you decide.

Thanks so much but I only agreed to marry her if she's single, I mean if she haven't married not that if she's divorced. And also I mean that she's a spec in the line of her hardworking, appearance and the way she handle issues, unlike our yahoo girls chasers of nowadays.
Thanks again

I could recall back days when these businesses are hotcakes especially the video rentages and sales.
Any young man who ventures into video rentals and sales and come also back it up with barbing salon then the man is a hit track most especially to young girls.
Most of them impregnated young girls and changes girlfriend like cloths. They make more money then because most home have DVD players.
But today, all these are no more, people prefer to buy video game and play at home with friends and families and on the other hand, DSTV and Co have swept all rentage of CD and DVD.

MySolace:

U were expecting anyone to come in public and admits he sleeps/slept with a married woman/women...? Are u joking?
It's normal, ok.

I go bet my left ball say he don bed da woman...

Lemme just talk small sense into your head, everyone isn't like you.
if I don't want to disclose anything I'll never even think of posting such not to talk of mentioning a woman with 4 kids and beside I've never received any token for posting on nairaland nor hitting frontpage. So what will be my gain in garnishing what's really bothering me?
Even if I sleep with her will you kill me 4 it?
WHY IM SO PAINED HERE IS THAT I USED TO CONDEMN THIS TYPE OF MESS FRM PEOPLE AND NOW I'M DIRECTLY INVOLVED IN IT TALK MORE OF A WOMAN WITH 4kids.
*NOW I KNOW THAT NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW

seguno2:


You love a married woman in addition to the two single girls you are thinking of settling down with.
Abeg na who swear for you

Yes... I posted this some months ago and that's the truth. After taking advice from people I took off my mind from the two ladies and now this is the worse am facing.
I'm in deep sh*t already 😩

Onyiiobi7735:

Op I admire you for your decency and being honest.Many young men in your shoes knowing the woman is married would try to go beyond the platonic romance,that is by having sex with her, but you didn't because you have a conscience and morals.
Just try to convince her to remain in her marriage and help the man work on the marriage.
Because it's not like the woman's husband offended her or is an abusive one.
The marriage just needs reconstruction .
But if she's adamant on leaving, just keep a distance from her so it won't look like you are encouraging her to leave her husband.
If she decides that it is you she wants,then fine and good.
But for now while she's still in the man's house,pause your romance with another man's house.
Let her do everything by herself in leaving.

Thanks so much.
I admire your inspirational ideas

VawulentMan:
I won't waste my vawulence on you. Just know that, that woman mind is made up already and nah you destroy that marriage.
you comot another person firewood, use am light your own

She told me that this will be the 3rd time that she's telling her husband that even before we met and that I'm not the main reason but just that she's tired of the marriage ever since but she's only enduring

It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN SUPPORT OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.