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May sickness not take away our joy...
If u understand what I mean say hi

Funniest thing is that same money will be from the gullible he's brainwashing.
Yahoo yahoo pastor.
My dear, your bet don enter oo...
Collect money chop n still stand on your ground

She only wants peace.
This type of woman is rare in this age

JuanDeDios:
That'd be great.

Na una go still complain.
Btw, do u fink maintenance of Greenland is easy?

Everywhere good.
Humans with complain.
Wetin again than to have a clean compound like this, you wan turn your house into agriculture ni?

gucci20:
My brother, with my own experience...any mother backing her daughter or son for wrong doing, isn't worth to be called a good mother. Bcoz, for you to marry a good in-law is more better than marrying a bad wife. So, I'll say, you should look elsewhere for your wife. Bcoz, that her mother won't allow your marriage a lasting one.

Thanks

Stone123:
My personal opinion with over 40 years of experience is that you’re are the red flag yourself. From your write up, you’ve neither made any official introduction nor paid her bride price. So she is not your wife yet, she is not yet 100 percent certain that you’re going to marry her. Have both of you known your genotypes yet? The answer may still be no. Nothing wrong in her giving her number to anyone else until you’ve made that full commitment for you both being together as husband and wife. Swallow your pride and go for her. For her to even ask people to plead with you means that she acknowledged her mistake and taken full responsibility, which makes her to appear even more matured than yourself as per my own observation.

We've known our genotype.
She have introduced me to her mom and I've told her that my dad is notified already. And 3 of my Aunts have known her. So what else, I don't see any reason why she would deny the fast growing relationship

Neoteny:
Gender is he/she her/him, not sister/brother

Cousin is gender-neutral. Your male cousin is still called "cousin" just as your female cousin is without any adjectives or gender delimiters needed.

So if I wqnt to specify the type of cousin I'm talking about what will I say

toboizilla:
This is not difficult,
Meeting people and making friends or socializing is human instinct. Even when you marry her doing that is not a bad thing. I have married women that are my friends as a single guy, we talk but nothing is involved.
Please move forward with your plans with her.
I think you are not handing this maturely.
As look as you never engage a woman, she is still in the market. I see no wrong in what she did

We're not in line of relationship or dating ooo.
My cousin helped me find her because she told her that I want to marry her and that's why she took me to her parent the first day we met.
And since then we've been making plans on the marriage so soon that I've even told my own dad about her

Neoteny:
Dear Nigerians.

Please stop saying "cousin sister".

There's no such thing

She's either your cousin, or your sister. She certainly can't be both.

Thank you for your attention to this very important matter.

I only tried to be more precise. And besides, cousins are also gender wise right?
That's y I indicated it

pocohantas:
See mouth like city girls.
After scattering yourself with same city girls, you are looking for one naive girl to dump your traumas on. I like as e shock you. Keep testing or remain single. Men don't benefit from marriage

😢😢😢

Fxwarrior:
If it were just the girl's reaction I would say overlook it but for the mother to say you overreacted is RED flag.

Believe it or not mothers have a strong influence on their daughters. Use the mother's attitude to have a glimpse of the future.


Not saying you should abort though. At the end it's your decision.

Thanks, it's this same mother's act that made me to come online for clarification

Heffalump:
The problem with your test is that you cut it short abruptly. You were overzealous and couldn't gather enough evidence to score a point. This could also be the reason her mom had the guts to challenge you and her friends begging.

You should have used someone else to represent you at the point the fb chat became cordial. The person would've collected enough video and pictorial views of them together in awkward ways. The examination would have been perfect! There, you got something cogent as collateral evidence. No DENIAL!!!!!!

This was what my cousin told me to do.
But I don't know how to act nice when I know that the person have wronged me so much.
I couldn't bear it and when she started chatting me challenging me of not chatting her since morning my mind pushed me to open everything on her

😢😢😢
Why I want to forgive is because of my cousin, as she's in the village and knows how parols are been runned there

eagleonearth:
you don't sound mature yet you want mature advice.

AKWATGOLD1:
Serious RED FLAG. Please let her go because if you accepted her back she might to take revenge on you.

Thanks. Seems like that exactly what I'll do

brain54:
Why did you test her if you can't take actions based on her test results...?


After testing her you are still coming to ask for advice. You should have a marking scheme and the test should have decided if she passed or failed. So you take a decision based on that.


Now you are asking us again...are you testing us?

My cousin sister said I should forgive her.
And besides, she made it clear 2 the person that she don't want s3x

Jeromejnr:
Can you mention the flaws you discovered in most city girls.

Double dating.
Loving u only bcoz of wat dey get from u.
Demanding too mch.

Namaster:
RUN!

Her mother is ANGRY at you for being angry at her daughter's INFIDELITY.

RUN!

This woman will help her daughter to ABORT a pregnancy that resulted from her daughter's INFIDELITY.

Plus, you haven't mentioned the FATHER.
So she sounds like a SINGLE MOTHER.

AVOID single mothers!
AVOID the daughters of single mothers.

RUN!

The father is late.
Died 6yrs ago

always247:
why did you test her? you don fk up.
never test Nigerian girl again weather she is city or village girl. humans not just females are not loyal.

I was having some doubts about her loyalty because I'm not friendly with long distance relationship

Please help me(mature minds only)

After getting tired of the flaws discovered from most city girls I decided this mid-year to go my village to get a lady for marriage. And with the help of my cousin sister I was able to get this particular girl (Judith) and she agreed in the sense that she's also very much ready to settle down.

Everything was going perfectly so I decided to go and see her in person so that we can proceed to the next stage which I went and she introduced me to her mom.

Her mother's reaction showed that they both liked and welcomed me as a proposed inlaw. So we move on, and I came back to my Base to inform my dad and my dad didn't say No. And I let her know that everything is good at my own side too. That we're good to go.

So this faithful mind pressured me to test this girl's loyalty to me and the relationship (because atimes she used to say something like; guys use to approached her for marriage and she rejected).

So 1 day I used a fake fb account to chat her up and to cut the story short she said she's not in any relationship, nor married and she agreed to meet the other fake guy I used. She told the guy (because I asked if I could meet her people when I come) that they shouldn't rush things that it should be a gradual process.

And went ahead to send the guy her number and even her picture. But she told the guy that nothing like having s3x. And after there chat I confronted her myself saying that she failed my test and she fuvk up. Buh she started explaining but I was highly disappointed. And she went ahead to inform my cousin sister to apologise to me on her hehalf and also told her friend to chat me and apologise.

NOW MY COUSIN SISTER TOLD ME TO FORGIVE AND MOVE ON WITH HER BUT HER MOTHER IS NOW GETTING ANGRY AT ME THAT I OVER ACTED TO THE ISSUE.

PLEASE IS IT NOT A RED FLAG ENOUGH TO QUIT OR GET ANGRY OR WAS MY TESTING NOT NECESSARY AS HER FRIEND WAS EVEN SAYING THAT; WHO'S TESTING GIRLS LOYALTY IN THIS AGE OF LIFE.

Please I need a nice answers because I'm very much ready to settle down.

MaxInDHouse:
God didn't create those people o they're descendants of Adam that God created so He doesn't know them that's why they deserve to die. He recognized Noah only not because He created Noah specially but because the man chose to walk with God.

You're funny ooo...
Decendant of Adam wasn't created by God..?🙄

MaxInDHouse:
He want them to die so they won't be able to disturb His program!

So God want what he took time to create to die
Is this not contradicting to your first comment?
God want them to die, good.
God can't watch his creatures to burn in he'll?🤷‍♂️

MaxInDHouse:
God has always remove evildoers during His time to judge {Psalms 37:7-11} that's the right thing to do but sustaining life creatures and tormenting them is evil in His eyes!😟

U didn't answered my question.
Based on your comment, you said why will God watch his creatures get burned and I asked you why did he watched them consumed by the flood he sent?

But he swept off the whole world with flood abi
U go soon learn

MaxInDHouse:
Burning you for what?

Well this is what the Bible God feel about tormenting living people?


They have built the high places of Topheth in the Valley of Ben Hinnom to burn their sons and daughters in the fire—something I did not command, nor did it enter my mind. ‭Jeremiah 7:31 NIV‬

Tormenting living people in fire has never ever come into the mind of our God!

Wahala just be like bicycle wey no get break.
Something must definitely kee a man

Government are not ready to capture all these people because they all know that there's something behind all this

Just imagine 😳
Trump said he want to invade Nigeria to kill terrorist but Nigeria government said it's impossible that there's LAW that kick against it buh this same people detained an innocent freedom fighter for almost a decade even by breaking different laws in there own constitution right from his illegal arrest to his failure to grant him bail despite the court order.
NAWAOOOO

Apari
Gorimapa
Make it shine...
Studies said they're very brilliant but I don't think they're talking about Nigerians

See trash most people are talking up there.

Indeed Nigeria is beyond redemption unless if God put an end to it himself.

Today na Tuesday and he go still cut

Bandits and herdsmen are there flaunting guns n co upandan but they're not been stopped but whenever they hear peaceful things in the east they raises there shoulder.
U go see as 1 u.rchin go rush mention Peter obi here now