Of course the OP has made his choice! All that talk about not advocating for prostitution is just bo-bo.

Your topic, if you wanted to point out the flaws in some women should really have said something to the tune of "why some women lose their men", not why prostitution is preferred amongst men.

Relationships are a whole lot mot than the sex thing. If you have used that to measure how good a girl is to you, try and get married to the excellent sex rabbit and sleep with her every moment you get for all the years you stay married and see whether your relationship will still be standing. Even men who have favorite meals do not eat if every day if not they become tired and disgusted...

Another point noticed is that OP is scared of commitment. Fair enough, but just know that one day you will grow out of the boy-syndrome you are currently in and realize how silly some comments you made were.

Oya, check this out...

1. Which 'ashawo' has time for your emotional side? If you had a bad day and you really need someone to talk to, do you think such a woman will be interested in that. Sure she may listen to all your moaning but all she will be thinking will be like 'abeg talk finish, lets get down to business so I can make some money.

2. Just like you have no obligations to remember her birthday, she wont care about yours and you wont feel a thing about that...until you go to your homie's house and see how his girlfriend or wife takes her time out to make her guy's day feel extraordinary, and make him feel like a king.

3. You think the sex with an 'ash' is so wonderful because she is attending to your needs. Those girls are qualified actresses, you are there living a make believe story while they couldn't care less. You think she's really feeling 'you' while all she's imaging in those long moans is your money

Let's be real please, not hiding behind some cover of 'justification' before doing the 'sin'!

I don't see how this qualifies as a problem. You are who you are and should be proud of it. Your girlfriend should know who you truly are and be proud of it. Generosity is not a weakness. Even if you had said you weren't going to accommodate your friend, it isn't a weakness too.

You're making a storm out of a tea cup. Enjoy being yourself.

zemaye:
^^^^^^ chikala123
Ma preach for you small
Weight loss if you intend to do it, has a price,
Usually its best you commit to a lifestyle change
Meaning instead of oil laden soup you stick with moderate to less oil
That for example
Instead of fried yam you go with boiled yam
Eat balanced meals
With enough proteins, carbohydrates fats vitamins
To start with 87kg is not 170kg
15kg loss in a month is too much
You will loss your precious muscle you need
You should aim for fat loss
By that I mean the less fat you carry around the small you will look
Fat loss is by committing to a solid meal arrangement
So as not to overeat
Add fruits and vegetable to your meals.
''If all I said up there was 'jazz' to you pls just understand that fat loss is about what you eat majorly'' so eat just enough and do any exercise you enjoy and be successful

Permit a girl to dream a little!

Having an oat bar for breakfast...not to keen on too many veggies but will see to it...

Hi all.

Currently 87kg and I'm not tall so that counts ALOT! I 'burst forth' after child birth and it is really affecting my self esteem cos I always feel like a 'bouncing ball' when I walk.

Hope to loose 30kg this 2015 but for this month, my aim is specifically for this month is 15kg (How possible is that, I don't know)

Let's see how this goes....

Okay, so my big day is just around the corner, and I am celebrating the most amazing 1 year.

Oh yeah, there have been amazing ups and downs, rounds and rounds, but I'd still love him till my dying day...

Anyway, the big puzzle is what exactly I should get him for this big day...something that will last in his memory for the next hundred years we spend together...ideas please??