₦airaland Forum

glitest: I think it both; The whether is amazing in carilfonia ( minus the heartquakes and constant fire outbreaks).....It also might be due to the fact that Hollywood is somewhat embrassing and accepting of different races.....Plus they're lots of free willed people....Modern day hippies.

I do like they spirit of accepting people from different backgrounds. Live, love and let live. I think God would be pleased with people living in harmony and supporting each other instead of hating and fighting.

pickabeau1: Cn u put up the youtube links

Some links.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCPd4uuVKm0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X47W-TUS7Ms

glitest: It also depends on the location.....Interracial relationships are usually not frowned upon..Except in the south; Can't say for that of the North.

Carlifonia ( I can vouch for LA), NY, MD, DC, Washington state, do embrace the concept of interacial coupling.....Some parts of Virginia... I don't know about the south....I hear people from both races do frown open interracial relationships.

Yes I heard that California has lot of interracial couples. Maybe the weather there makes people more loving and accepting. New York also has positives.

sleekch1c: Who cares? dude get a life....and when u do, save us the boring details.

You are proud of these black females. Nearly killing innocent white lady?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCPd4uuVKm0

glitest: In America, people do have a higher chance at avoiding trouble, simply if they mind their business.

But mixed couples over there also complain what it is going on with the lot of black women attacking white women for no reason but because they are white.

Ladystewie: Thank you so much for your honesty
People actually believed the story
hian!

Watch for yourself what is going on so you can believe.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X47W-TUS7Ms

glitest: Sorry, but I just couldn't help but chuckle.....You can fight off jealousy and inferiority with prayers, but enlightenment??.... I think that's meant for the the ignorant one's, and not the demonic one's... Don't you think?.

Funny enough, I thought life was much easier for mixed race couples who live in countries like the England..surprised.

Is there any possible chance of you relocating to America with you family?; America although does have its share of racial bias, but its alot lienant and tolorable, when compared to other parts of the world.

Funny you said that. Cause my wife would love to relocate to America. If it is a God's will we would in future as we have lot of relatives in US and Canada also. But mind you there are lot of videos on YouTube where black women also attack white women in US.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X47W-TUS7Ms

GoodFaith: You are the arrogant person here B
why
because you didn't believe him
Take your nasty smelling P out here

Thank you GoodFaith. You are speaking the truth.

Vikky014: Op,i find it difficult to believe u dt some Nigerians abroad hate ur family bc u r mixed,it's nt true!maybe ur wiffy's behaviour drives people away frm her nt dat dey hate her,pls i dnt believe u,Am so sorry for that!

It is not her behavior as she has got lot of black women as friends. They adore her. It is one particular type of black women who just spit hatred at white woman especially when they spot that she has black husband and mixed children. This is the honest truth. Just check the videos on YouTube there are those type of black women attacking beating white women from pure hatred. There is even a video where those type of haters encouraging small black girls to attack little mixed girl. I understand that it is hard for decent black women to imagine this, but this is the sad truth and it is happening a lot.

J12: Nice wife man.

Thank you. I thank God for her.

glitest: It all stems from jealousy and intimidation on their part......... Such People, look at interracial couples as sellouts or people who think they are better than their race....Although, so people marry outside of their race, cos they actually do think they're better( mostly men).

My advice is that you live your life....Haters are gonna hate.

Thank you for your advice. But I do believe that this kind of hatred has to be fought, not physically but spiritually and by enlightenment. Racism and hatred is destroying innocent people's lifes. We all deserve to live in peace. Be blessed.

Vikky014: Dis op u hav low slf esteem!who is hating?hw can i hate God's creature?BTW myelder broda is currently studyn medsurg in Germany & His fiancee is frm US,We do speak wt her!we r happy 4 him,we tld him nt 2 dare cheat on her,My Igbo Name is Uchechi

------------------------------------------------------------
I can reasure you that I do not have a low self-esteem. I am a Godly man and my confidence comes from God. I definitely do not have anything against my fellow Nigerians who are truly in God, but I question the motives of those who spit hatred at my family cause we are mixed. My question from the beginning was why my eastern european wife, my children and me are being attacked by lot of Nigerian and other black women on daily basis. My wife do not have nothing but love for black women and lot of them treat her bad. My wife herself said that I am a fruit of my mother's womb who is a black woman so why would she have anything against black womanhood when she loves me. I love my mother and my sisters. The connection of souls between black women in our family and my wife is evident. Infact we have relatives with the same Igbo name like yours. Just please stay in God and be blessed.

Vikky014: Dis op,is nt a child of God,so u jst created dis thread to insult Black race?may God deliver you frm stupidity tho,hw dare u fink dt evrybody will speak good of you?since ur family members r happy wt ur wife y r disturbn urslf abt odas?

------------------------------------------------------------
Chineke. Why the hatred? Look at you Miss conscious African having a English name. My mixed daughters both have Igbo first names, my eastern european wife was the one who even insisted on this, which I am very happy with her as she respects my culture. Our daughters also have middle names after their grannies and other relatives both Igbo and Slovakian. My white wife and our children are proud to have a Igbo surname. My parents love my wife and children dearly. They are happy that God granted me a Godly wife.God is the protector of my family as we are together from true love without hate. Amen.

dasparrow: I don't know why they should hiss or get angry. By the way, in the United States, you will get the same treatment from many black Americans. They hate seeing inter-racial couples as well. Anyways, some black folks believe that you are diluting/watering down the black race by mixing your blood with whites when you breed with them. Some black folks believe that black men in particular date and marry out of their race for superficial reasons such as wanting children with less African features or wanting to be accepted in white society. Other black folks consider black people who date outside their race as sell outs all because the white man has had a long history of maltreating the black race e.g slavery, colonization, neo-colonization, racial segregation, Apartheid, racism, lynching back in the USA, the creation of the one drop rule, Jim crow, and many more atrocities committed by the white race. I am just giving you some reasons I have heard from people who detest inter-racial dating and couples. These are NOT my opinion.

Then there is a possibility that the offspring of these inter-racial unions known as the mulattoes/biracial or half castes as they are called in Nigeria may grow up and then hate on full black people. I see some of them here on Nairaland - I won't mention names - who call black Africans 'backward', 'monkeys' and any other negative word or adjective that their fried brains can come up with. Look at Barack Obama, he is a mixed breed/biracial yet he has made some of the most hostile policies against African nations. Many of his white predecessors like Bill Clinton have made better policies than Barack Obama the biracial president of USA with the Kenyan father. So, some blacks feel that you are helping to bring more potential racists into this world that tomorrow will join forces with the whites and oppress the black race further. This is why there are blacks from all over the world - not just Africans - who detest the idea of black people marrying and breeding with white people.

------------------------------------------------------------
How wrong and sad are those people who hate mix marriages. Same people would state that all people originated from black people, so why not bring our white offspring back to their roots. Is this world suppose to be black against white. What is this hating agenda. You are forgetting millions of people who are already mixed, some of them deceased, inbred people who hate them think that they should dictate if they should have been born. Inbred people are not better in eyes of God. My wife is already of mix as her granny is of Asian stock. Majority of people in the world are mixed from somewhere down the bloodline. My eastern european wife teaches our children her language and traditions and I am teaching them Igbo language and traditions. It perfectly blends and compliments each other. Also my kids know that they got some Asian heritage as well.How many Nigerian kids in UK do not even speak their native language. A lot.

Na wow. Brothers are seeing the light and getting together with beautiful Latino, eastern european, white, Asian, mixed women more and more. Make sure that they are of God also cause they need to be strong to take the hatred and attacks from some of Nigerian jealous females. My eastern european wife is my treasure from God.

Yemlizzy: How does this concern us? Does it reduce the plague of the dreaded Ebola?

Good you asking this question. Don't you ask yourself if God is upset with what is going on in Nigeria. Hatred and fights between tribes, different religions are on the news everyday. People hate everyone who is different to them . Ask youself why did God bring this Ebola on Nigeria? Pray and I will be also praying that people's hatred will stop so God is not upset and he does not need to bring a plaque like Ebola.

desirel: Dear childofGod09,

i'm glad that you are happily married. at least someone can testify that white ladies are not only after sex and that the christian white ladies are good wives (especially ones from eastern EU). what you experienced with the black ladies/people in the church/street/etc. i experienced too. at the beginning i didn't understand their hatred and why someone that is christian and is going to church will have such a lousy attitude, but i now i don't care anymore; i learn how to deal with it- ignore it!!! the thing that made me upset and really made me to stop going to the Nigerian church was when my child wanted to play with the other children and she was pushed away by the black children, the reason being:" you are not playing with us, because you are NOT black!" thank God my daughter, was 3y/o that time and she didn't understand exactly the signification of the statement; but my husband and I who assisted to the scene we were heartbroken. these racism and differences are thought by the parents form the childhood, and those are children that are born and raise in europe, so what expectation can one have from the adults?

Dear desirel,
I am sorry to hear about your ordeal. These same racist Nigerians are sitting in church and pretend that they are Godly when they worship devil himself. This is very sad. Your family has this experience and mine and also lots of black spouses married to non-black spouses. Even my wife's Jamaican colleague went to the all Nigerian so called church and she complained to my wife at work how this fake ungodly people mocked her and made her feel very uncomfortable and unwelcomed. This is a black woman who is just from different place and they still attacking her. The Jamaican lady is in her fifties and was complaining that the Nigerian women attack her also just for no reason they start shouting hissing in the shop, or on the street. We bringing up our children to be strong and love others according to their character not the tribe, skincolour, nationality. My though on this was same like yours previously also just to ignore it. But my wife asked God for guidance how to deal with this serious issue. God guided us that we have to fight for justice and we cannot let them get away with those atrocious actions. We are at the good church now, Nigerian pastor and Nigerian wife who is a different tribe than him, they also said that the pastor's wife get attacked from females from his tribe. They been together for almost 30 years. In this church there are people of all different nationalities worshipping God together in peace and withot the gossip. I hope you find a Godly church. My family will be praying for yours. God is on our side stay in health.God bless you.

khiaa: @childofGod09]



You don't believe this bullshyt yourself. Know one cares about your make believe wife, you are the one spewing hateful things about black women, that is the only reason you created this thread was to bash black women because you can't get one. You are hurting and angry at black women because you feel rejected. Let me give you a few pointers that may help you out.
#1 Buy some soap and clean your funky body, make sure you use a good quality deodorant because (lord knows you stank).
#2 Invest your money into some toothpaste and mouthwash because again, (lord knows you stank)
#3 Throw away those rags you call clothes and those ranover to the sole shoes and invest in some quality shoes and clothes. Stop buying that cheap 99¢ bottle of cologne, buy some good cologne because women like a man who smells delicious and (lord knows you stank)
#4 This one is verrrrrrry important. Make an appointment to see a dentist, get those bad teeth pulled, filled, and crowned. Make sure the dentist give you a floride wash because again (lord knows you stank)
#4 Work on your inner-self, get a job and stop depending on white women to take care of you, get an education, ask god to change your heart, be a more plesant person to be around, be respectable towards women and others, and work on your nasty attitude because (lord knows it stanks)

------------------------------------------------------------
It is you who need God in your heart. Why are you abusing me? I do not have any of those issues . Do not patronize me, I am a educated and hardworking man of God. My teeth are in excellent order as my wife prepares healthy dishes and we avoid sugar as it is not healthy in general and not good for the teeth. I love my white Godly wife is that why I should be attacked. Hating black females are blackmailing black men into being with them. Na wow. Why can't you accept there are other females than black in this world and there is nothing wrong with them. Stop the hate.

khiaa: The op is a nut.

------------------------------------------------------------
Please do not spread viscious lies and hatred. You need God in your life. Do not hate people of God because they are white, mixed...

khiaa: The op is a nut.

------------------------------------------------------------Only God can show you the way. Ask him for guidance.

aolatunde00: so when your wife is cooking nigerian dishes for you,tidying the house,taking care of the girls and braiding their hair,what are you doing those times?

------------------------------------------------------------
I am helping with things which need to be done in the house, reading bible with my children and praying before I go to work. Also when I come back from work. God is the number one in my family.

tpia1: ^whenever you decide to stop hating black women [or indeed anybody], your life will be better.

the bible says love those who hate you and pray for your enemies.

please do not respond to my post again, thank you.

I will respond because you are spreading hatred. You are quoting bible about praying and loving those who hate you and enemies whilst you hating on mixed families and black men's white wifes. What a hypocrisy. We are not your enemy but you are your own enemy. Me and my white wife do not hate you but unfortunately you hate us which is very sad. Me and my wife and my children will be praying for you, so God can open your heart and you stop hating innocent mixed families and find your own happiness without hurting anyone . Give up the hate which comes from devil.. Amen.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Sweet..
Don't pay attention to what they say ...IR in Africa do not go beyond 0.0000000001%

Itsy nonexistent ...

We love our Queens

And that is why Africa is such a mess cause African men do not have strong supporting wifes. Man needs strong Godly wife and hatred filled black females (99%) are not it. You love them well they do not love you truly back. Because no other race of men want them they are desperate and showing hatred. If white men paid them attention there would be there worshipping them. Even white men don't want to fill their household with hate. There some white men married to decent black ladies but those do not show any hatred towards anyone and that is the kind of decent natural/ non fake hair wearing black ladies they like, rest they are not interested in. Ultimately every man wants a loving Godly wife no matter what colour.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: he is not black nor African, you people should learn to read white people on black forums trying to cause problems, lowering your self esteem and pride

Look around you, how many African are married to white females ? How many even date them?

The same African who are worldwide known to leave the West and go back to their countries and villages for wives?

The caveman albino is always looking for means to stay relevant, they will hype themselves, and make tales about how everyone is running after them, while they are the ones going to people continent and pay for sex with the pseudo ugly ones

Stay loyal to your African men , the op is white supremacist

-------------------------------------------------------------

How dare you deny who I am. I am a Igbo man and you cannot do nothing about it. What a mugu behavior from you. You and the white supremacist racists are the same. You just spread hatred and violence leading to suffering. My mixed family represent unity and we love God. You hattered filled black females and racist white supremacist can go and fight it out.You will never live in peace. What you think that racial war would come. If so you and racist whites would finish each other off. God will only save mixed families as we truly following his message of love and we do not hate anyone. Check the Google more and more African men marrying white, eastern european, non-black females. There are websites like White Naija Wife. Chineke!!!!! I praise my God for showing me light that gossiping hating black women are not Godly. My mother and sisters are Godly loving ladies, you can barely find women like that, there are like 1% and rest is bitter hatred spreading black females. No wonder more and more black women's sons are turning to crime. White widow's son Chuka is a famous politician here in UK. His white mother brought him up and trained him very well after his Nigerian father died. Now that is a strong woman. Godly black men are starting to see the truth and opening their hearts to non-black ladies.

Ladystewie: racist much
bashing black women and race
it seems like you're ashamed of your own race
that's why you made up an imaginary perfect life with your white wife who smells nice and cooks Nigerian food well
Your perfect 'white' family hated on by africans
abeg joor, swerve
there are more important issues at stake
than to play make-believe with a deluded fellow like you

------------------------------------------------------------You are so wrong. My wife is a eye opener from God. That someone from different country with different skincolour can love and respect black people. My white wife never disrespect black women but when they attack her she has to defend herself. My wife best friend is Nigerian lady in her fiftees. There is a age difference but they are very good friends.This Nigerian lady would never believe she can have true friend from different country with the different skincolour. When the Nigerian friends attacked this Nigerian lady my wife was there to help her. This Nigerian lady realized that true friendship is not depending on skincolour.

tpia1: op

check this thread:


https://www.nairaland.com/1483094/thread-those-suffering-depression-anxiety


like i said, you have mental health issues, that thread can help.


according to your first post, you are at a good place now and your white wife is all you need.

therefore, my advise to you is try to get help for your black women hatred so you dont get violent and locked up.

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

It is not me who hate black women. I love my black mother and my sisters dearly. My white wife is the same Godly woman like my mother in spirit only different skin colour. What is my business with strange hating black females. You are the one hating white, eastern european, mixed, Asian, Latino women. You need help with mental issues hating all non-black women because of their different skincolour. Only God can help you if you give up the hate. Your hate is not going to make you happy so you might as well try the respect and love for people of different skintone who did not do anything wrong to you.

tpia1: were.


you need help.

how on earth can all sorts of people be lumped together into one country when they have absolutely nothing in common?

some reason like apes, some reason like civilized humans.

is it because of a common denominator of black skin, therefore that means all are the same?

------------------------------------------------------------











What have you got in common with your fellow haters except the pigment in your skin and hatred towards people who are different in some way. You might be a product of inbreeding (product of relatives breeding together) with all this obsession of breeding with someone who is looking just like you. What a abomination. God have mercy. Mixed families are blessed by the God Almighty.

------------------------------------------------------------

tpia1: its very hard when these folks also claim to be nigerian.


they need their own country.

No I am not bashing black women. You and other people full of hate bash white, non-black wifes of us black men. I am only defending my white wife who did not do me wrong in 16years. My wife held our son when he died while I prayed next to them in hospital. My wife was punched by two black women when she was 8 months pregnant with our son. My wife is strong and despite pain and suffering she been through losing our son she remained in God and put her trust in him. At the same ward was Nigerian couple, arrangy marriage by their parents, Nigerian mother of a sick boy had a mental breakdown and her child did not even die but is severly disabled, Nigerian woman and her Nigerian husband separated straight after and she even had to go to Refuge for abused women as it was revealed that her and her husband fought like cat and dog. Their poor child was product of arrangy from the same village and look how it ended up. My white wife remained strong despite the tremendous pain after death of our son. So do not preach that black women are stronger as it is a lie. God is a witness.

ebonyeyez: That's your choice and people should respect it. But a black woman can do better mentally than that woman. We'll see how long things will forever be because every relationship has problems. This sound to good to be true. In my country they say d woman is cheating...anyway congrats on your white wife and family. BTW... Interracial relationships are bad your mixing blood and your children wouldn't know who or what they are. Black women are the real Queens and always will be... My opinion tho, R.I.P. My beautiful black beautiful grandmother!

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Love between me and my wife is of purest form and we are dedicated to each other we do not allow devil enter our marriage God is a Chief Exec of our marriage and that is why evil staff would not happen in our marriage. What you actually see a lot is black women cheating and betraying their black spouses in one way or another. Three of my friends divorced their Nigerian wifes in last few years. First one cause his wife was cheating (already had a child by someone else before they got together, he looked after other man's child and that is how she appreciated him), second one his wife's mother came to live with them and finally destroyed their marriage which they already had issues, third one divorced recently and his black wife disrespected his mother by throwing a shoe in a pot of soup she cooked.Now this behavior from these females is abominable. No wonder that recent statistic here in UK confirmed that more and more black men are marrying white and other non-black ladies. Proof is in the pudding. Thank you.
My children are children of God and brought up properly so they know who they are they do not need hateful society to defy them. They know that they are produced from true Godly love.

Ladystewie: Your post just shows how shallow your mind is
Who is hating on who now?
Did you take time to read all the comments?
If you were intellectually sound,you'd see that op is either a troll or a liar
Yet you congratulate him, and encourage him
Even asking him for 'a younger sister'? Tufia!
I don't want to believe that all Nigerian men think like this
Abeg, remove that from your post
I want to believe you were either joking or sleeping while typing this shit

------------------------------------------------------------
Tufia ! to you as you are a sign of abomination. God is not your father but Devil and chai you are so so evil in your heart. Why are you hating people of different skincolour? God knows why he makes mixed children so beautiful  It is not mistake but a will of God. All children are equal. My fellow Nigerian men are opening their hearts to true love with white,eastern european, mixed, Asian, Latino women. Who are you? Are you black men's owner or are we your slave you think you can control us and dictate to us how to live our lifes. Your skin will disintegrate in the grave, so why you obsessed with the skincolour. Soul is what matters. You cannot love someone cause you have so much hate in you.

mencade5: childofGod, am very happy for you and ur family. On behalf of nigerian men in this country i say welldone to you for marrying a slovakian.

There is something you dont get here, childofGod.
Nigerian ladies are the biggest haters when they see that you are dating or are married to white ladies. They are filled with jealousy, great pain and constant witchhunting. They feel that somehow you have dated, used and dumped nigerian ladies before and went for a fresh white ladies even if you are innocent of all these allegations.

My brother, have you not seen the thread about mikel obi and his russian girlfriend? Haaaaaa!...it is in that thread that you will know that naija ladies are truely enemies of progress. The way they bash mikel, mikel that they dont know or see before. If you read their comments you will know that yours is a child's play.

Let me tell you, with all these hatred they have for you and your wife, deep within them they have that wish to marry a white man but the opportunity didnt come or their families refuse to allow them marry a white man. I know of a lady in newyork, we grew up together in nigeria before she went there. She met a white man, dated him fvcked him with great pleasure and had that intention to marry him but her family here in nigeria saw her pix with the white and they told her after her schooling that she must marry a nigerian.
I can bet anything in this world that naija ladies can do anything to allow a white man's sperm inside them to born osaze (mix race) as their child.

My brother dont mind them. We know naija ladies better. On behalf of naija men i beg you, dont answer them at all. Your wife is your wife and your choice. Take good care of her, i pray you guys shall live till your old age together, you shall see your grand and great grand children together as couples. Dont forget to always respect her family and try to visit them together once in a while.

*playfully* my brother if your wife get younger sister that are still single abeg link me with her sharp sharp. Lol

take care

God bless you brother. I believe that evil behaviour of those hating black females need to be fought. We cannot just stand back and take it from them God wants us to stand for ourselves and he will help us in our fight. You are a intelligent blessed man and God will give you a decent Godly woman to share your life with, you never know it might be a loving eastern european lady. Thank you. May the grace of God follow you.

tpia1: jobless much?

and did i not point out you spend your time staring at women's butts and breasts while pretending they are noticing your ugly self?

i guess thats the lie you tell whoever wants to listen while you greedily ogle black women- "she was the one staring at me!"

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
You are very sad. I love and respect my white wife and I am not interested in any cheap females. My wife gives me all the love I need and I would not hurt and disrespect my wife who is mother of my children. Probably your black men are looking at beautiful white ladies behind your back and that is why you bitter. Black females have highest percentage of obesity and STDs. My cousin works in the clinic and has the information first hand. Black men are opening their eyes and seeing black women for what they are bitter creatures full of hate. Exept very few like my relatives who are Godly women who do not hate white women. At my workplace which is University you barely see a black female as employers do not want to employ them as they cause trouble everywhere. Due to discrimination rules the employers are forced to employ some of them but sooner or later they are dismissed due to their own mistake as they cause problems and arguments in the workplace.