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Romance › Re: Confused Love Life: Please Help! by chima84(op): 5:41pm On Feb 10, 2012
^^^
thanks a lot, i so appreciate dis, God bles yu too, amen
Romance › Re: Confused Love Life: Please Help! by chima84(op): 1:03pm On Feb 10, 2012
@tayo, thanks
@GW,  i appreciate
@slimyem, the major issue i have now is decision making, but i will try , merci
Romance › Re: Confused Love Life: Please Help! by chima84(op): 12:16pm On Feb 10, 2012
[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=867638.msg10165119#msg10165119 date=1328871882]chima84.  Bro.   Mrs Chima  is available. She's  single, slightly sensitive, slightly stressful, slightly ok and loves only IBO men.   Trusss  me! wink[/quote]lol, hope u saw the prefix abi title in her namehuh

IZUKWU:
Do you want to go back to ezinne
thats de confusion bro, just feelin i may not be able to meet a lady thats gonna make me feel as she does and make up slightly were she lacks
Romance › Re: Confused Love Life: Please Help! by chima84(op): 12:03pm On Feb 10, 2012
i just need to get out of dis mess and make decisions with respect to my life, my future, my happiness.

i just want to be happy, forget abt my past and move on or should go back and make some compromise that i dont know how dire its gonna be in de future and how much i can put up wit
Romance › Confused Love Life: Please Help! by chima84(op): 11:53am On Feb 10, 2012
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Advice please

I am currently doing a lot of thinking wrt my love life , I have had a couple of relationships abt 6,
The first left without a reason, de 2nd) (Ezinne)I had dated for over 3yrs left cos I wasn’t really so ready for serious commitment considering I was on NYSC den, she wanted me to propose but how can I propose to a lady wen I am still NYSC am de first and have younger ones still in school, If I had done dat, at any thing I am doin, my mind would always strike that I have a lady waitng and I don’t think its gonna be so good with my productivity,.

I dated this ezinne for a while, she is quiite irascible and flare at de least provocation cos she wants me to be perfect, even wen other see my output as good, she wants somethin better, I liked her so much and was takin so much and my goal wast to try change her.
Wash her cloths , cooked and dd so much other stupid stuff just to tryin so she don’t always get pissed and in turn try correct some anormalies in her attitude.

She has a good heart, very generous and wise , the only issue was that she gets angry so easily and not good at s3x. I wanna get married and stay marrried and not hop around cos my wife don’t do it.

So after my NYSC I got a small job and wen I relocated, things finally shattered apart and she left though we currently re best of friends but no intimacy,
I ve been into 3 relationships in de past 2years and yet I am not happy(always feel the lady will walk away though I ve really worked on myself),

I have had bad experiences in the past and 3 ladies had to jilt me at a stretch before this Ezy left too.
Ezy has an effect on me, she complements me, am a little soft in mind and she knows how to make me be de man.
I am just so confused now.

NB, wen I was dating her, irrespective of the fact that she doesn’t bleep me well(once in a bue moon), I was over faithful to her.
Also before she left, her temperament level has really gone down, she is no more that always-angry-at-me fellow I started wit.

Can yu guys help with advice please[/b]

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