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BusinessRe: Tony Elumelu Working In A Private Jet (PICS) by chinoify: 1:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
Wow
FamilyRe: Ogun Pastor, Akinsanya Welcome Twins After 18 Years by chinoify: 8:42pm On Feb 28, 2016
The type of News we should be reading of pastors... Not Pastors rape, murder, impregnate or defraud members...

Good news
BusinessRe: Cpa Offer That Pays $1.5 Per Signup (worldwide) by chinoify: 8:24am On Feb 23, 2016
guys this is not HYIP, it is real.. i have made about $300 on fiverr sending leads to buyers with this click promise link.
so if the white guys can pay to send lead to the link, then its real.

image 1 is my earnings as of today
image 2 is an order i got this morning to send leads to that link.
image 3 another seller who gave me same link from click promise..


As for me and my household; we have started irrespective of OPs decision to show payment proof.

either way its a win - win for me

CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Says His Apology Was Just For The Fans by chinoify: 7:53pm On Feb 20, 2016
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BusinessRe: Come And Learn New Tricks That Cashed Me Over $400 On Fiverr In 5weeks. FREE!! by chinoify(op): 7:38pm On Feb 20, 2016
Try a new credit card and email
BusinessRe: Cpa Offer That Pays $1.5 Per Signup (worldwide) by chinoify: 7:33pm On Feb 20, 2016
Thanks for this info I have made $150 in 3 days already...
RomanceRe: Which Is The Best Among These Four Pictures? by chinoify: 8:39pm On Feb 13, 2016
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TravelRe: Reverend Sisters Die In Accident In Cross River (Graphic Photos) by chinoify: 11:45pm On Feb 09, 2016
RIP
BusinessRe: Fiverr Guys – Working Method To Get More Sales “TODAY” ;D by chinoify: 4:21pm On Jan 31, 2016
This trick works.. I used it to make $1k in less than 3 months... The secret behind my level 2 seller.... Check my screenshot

BusinessRe: Call Conversation Between Me And A Scammer On BVN ATM Issue (Video) by chinoify: 4:07pm On Jan 31, 2016
That guy is a cow...
CelebritiesRe: Kate Henshaw Remembers JT Tom West by chinoify: 7:23pm On Jan 29, 2016
rip
FamilyRe: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by chinoify: 2:37am On Jan 29, 2016
EggovinMma:
A woman with 5 children is physically, emotionally and mentally abused by her husband, a church worker and a fuccking mistress and all you had to do is blame the poor wife? If she Is that bad a wife, why did he knock her up the 5th time? Infact what kind of useless church is that? So she should help a ministry that glorifies sexual immorality and slavery?


You're not a serious person.
You only heard one side of the story...
You can't make a balanced judge....
FamilyRe: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by chinoify: 1:54am On Jan 29, 2016
Miami11:
And who are you to make such assumptions, you sound like that jerk of a husband,

How can you blame her if the husband has moved a mistress in to the matrimonial home
I don't match issues with singles... Sorry, cos you won't and can't understand the mystery of marriage and also the mystery of been a pastors help meet.

If you care to read.. Go back to my recommendations to finish reading.

Selah.
FamilyRe: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by chinoify:
Madam... I have followed this case from the first thread and have deduced the following.
1. You are the cause of ur problems.
2. You come here to seek what you can't have.
3. You are a prayless mum.
4. You are not fit to be a pastor's wife, you where never in support of his ministry.
5. I see you as some1 who gossips slot.
6. I see the whole problem as you. Until you change, this whole mess remains.
7. I see a nagging wife.
8. I see a woman who assumes (falsely)a lot.


In Africa, they say there's no smoke with out fire. Making ur story incomplete. You have lived with this man for some years, you alone knows where it went wrong, what went wrong, how it went wrong and who went wrong.


All the people asking you to leave your home will still insult you tomorrow for not been patience.

Finally my recommendations...

1. Have a personal retreat, retrace the whole saga. Search to seek where you missed it.
2. Seek to get back the heart of your husband, you know him better, you know the man you married, he has not changed and won't change.
3. Pray to God, to give you a heart to accommodate his calling. Using the term 'his church' makes me believe you are far from his calling... And this man needs people he will work with, so people including ladies must occupy ur position and have less regard for you.
4. Pray for your home.. When a problem arises anywhere, there are basically two things to do, pray or complain. You have done the later, I guess it didn't work. So try the former. Spend more time with God than man on issues. It gives more results.
5. When 4. Is ongoing, begin to participate in church activities... I don't want to hear ' he won't let me', if it happens you have disbelieve in your prayers.. So pray and participate in church activities, reclaim your position as pastors wife. Though it will take some time.
6. Practice what I call Advance Forgiveness, before he or anyone offends you have forgiven.
7. Pray pray pray pray...
8. Come back here in some weeks to testify on the new heart God has given your husband.
Selah.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: This Wedding IV In The Form Of Nigerian Passport by chinoify: 12:59pm On Jan 19, 2016
endtime IV
BusinessPaypal Fund Needed Asap by chinoify(op): 12:08am On Jan 17, 2016
hi guys, i need genuine paypal funds ASAP..
tell me your source, amount you have and amount you are willing to sell thanks...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Offer When I Did Not Attend Any Interview,who Else Got This??? by chinoify: 1:14pm On Jan 13, 2016
ok
BusinessRe: Dangote To Build Cement Factory In Adamawa, Over 10,000 Jobs To Be Created by chinoify: 11:16am On Jan 13, 2016
every day, he keeps getting set... isorai
CelebritiesRe: Kaffy Shares Adorable Photos With Her Cute Daughter by chinoify: 11:16am On Jan 13, 2016
ok i see
Jokes EtcBudget Ultimate Search Season 1(pics) by chinoify(op): 3:24am On Jan 13, 2016
when found report to the nearest state assembly.
thanks.

PoliticsRe: How Femi Fani-kayode Used Fronts To Receive Funds From Ex-nsa Dasuki’s by chinoify: 11:21pm On Jan 08, 2016
the movie getting more intresting... ghen ghen ghen
CelebritiesRe: Bedridden Toyin Aimakhu Reaches Out To Her Fans by chinoify: 3:30pm On Jan 08, 2016
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Christianity EtcRe: Early Will I Seek Thee Devotionals (connect Daily With Jesus Via His Words) by chinoify(op): 5:40am On Jan 08, 2016
DELIVERING ON YOUR PROMISES
40-Days-Soul-Fast (DAY 5) 8/1/2016
READ THE BIBLE IN 1 YEAR (Day 4 – Genesis 16 - 18, Matthew 7)

(Matthew 23:19–22, ESV).
“You blind men! For which is greater, the gift or the altar that makes the gift sacred? So whoever swears by the altar swears by it and by everything on it. And whoever swears by the temple swears by it and by him who dwells in it. And whoever swears by heaven swears by the throne of God and by him who sits upon it”

DELIVERING ON YOUR PROMISES

One of the greatest disappointments is when people say they will do things, but won't. They commit to action, but their commitment is conditional. What they really mean is they’ll fulfill their promise if it works out for them.
Jesus unloads on promise-breaking hypocrisy. He points out the lengths people will go to create a technicality or loophole to squirm out of promises. We want the benefits of a promise without the cost of commitment. Often, despite our promises, we want to keep our options open.

People of integrity give their word and keep it, regardless of the cost. Significant commitments have one thing in common: they get tested. Whether it’s a commitment to our Savior for eternity or to a spouse for life, those promises will not be left unchallenged. Psalm 15:4 commends the person “who swears to his own hurt and does not change.”

We all face times when it would be a lot easier to go in a different direction. And we have to expect that if we give our word on something, it will cost us.
Pay what you vow. Deliver what you promise, or don’t promise. That’s what sincere, honest people do. Hypocrites squirm out of promises they don’t want to keep.

Consider your promises to God. What have you committed to Him? A promise to tithe, to share your faith, to obey Him? How are you tempted to look for technicalities to invalidate your commitments?

Consider your promises to others. When you tell your spouse, “I’ll take care of this; you can count on me,” how faithfully do you follow through? Whether it’s changing a light bulb or a bad habit, if you say you’ll do it, then do it.

Keep your word! Promises have been described like babies: easy to make and hard to deliver. Commitments always come with a cost and if your word can’t be trusted, you can’t be trusted.

God Bless you…. Join me again tomorrow, as we continue on this. It's gonna be life changing. I know someone is blessed already….

Praise God!!!

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Christianity EtcRe: Early Will I Seek Thee Devotionals (connect Daily With Jesus Via His Words) by chinoify(op): 5:01am On Jan 07, 2016
YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY.
(So stop being all things to everyone)

40-Days-Soul-Fast (DAY 4) 7/1/2016

READ THE BIBLE IN 1 YEAR (Day 5 – Genesis 13 - 15, Matthew 6)

Romans 12:18 (NIV)
If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY.

Have you realized that there are some people you can't please? No matter what you do or what you try or how nice you are to them. You just can't please everybody.

But the Bible tells says you don't need to please everybody. "It is dangerous to be concerned with what others think of you." (Proverbs 29:25 LB) It's an emotional trap when you start worrying about what other people think. We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't even like -- all because we think we must be liked by everyone in order to be happy.

Jesus said, "I only seek to please Him who sent me." (John 5:30 LB) Even Jesus didn't try to please everybody. One person wants it to rain; another doesn't want it to rain.
In Luke 6:26 Jesus said, "Woe to you when all men speak well of you." (NIV) That's probably because the only time everybody's going to speak well of anyone is at his/her funeral!

I meet Christians all the time who must live with someone who makes life crazy. Every day they face someone who is an EGR (Extra Grace Required). They say, "I try and try to make peace with this person, but I fail and I feel so guilty." The fact is, it may not be your fault. It may be the person you're trying to make peace with is just flat out difficult.

Focus on pleasing the creator and not the creation.

God Bless you…. Join me again tomorrow, as we continue on this. It's gonna be life changing. I know someone is blessed already….

Praise God!!!

Like us on Facebook… https://www.facebook.com/earlywilliseekthee
#1,000,000 Souls for JESUS#
RomanceRe: Married In School, Single At Home by chinoify(op): 4:43pm On Jan 06, 2016
Sept20:
The only negative thing about the cohabitation of these young people is SEX!

Op, stop making it sound like a big deal
the future is also involve.. and you will also agree with me that God forgives the sinner and not the sin.
the results of sin is left to the sinner... eg, pregnancy etc
RomanceMarried In School, Single At Home by chinoify(op): 4:07pm On Jan 06, 2016
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering who the focus of this post should be – girls or guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and wives. You find a lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad that, often times,they are duly recognised and acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even leaders of various students associations. Little wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of the year award” shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by students..Like I said earlier, I really don’t know the particular gender to address but let me just keep typing. The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in their various off campus hostels is painfully alarming.
Most times, these young girls are very beautiful, with bright and promising future.They cohabit with boys who are their fellow students as roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that the silly girl would always introduce the small boy as her fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of those that live in it. These girls collect either hostel fees or house rents from unsuspecting (and sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several years to gain admission. Then you suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You fasted. You had one prayer point filled with promises of your loyalty and devotion to God if only He would answer your prayer. Now that He has fulfilled His part by answering and granting you admission, don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill your own part, to keep whatever promises you made to Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you settle down (especially from your second year), crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would have been over; If God didn’t capture you (possibly through the various campus fellowships), boys would have caught you. In my school we even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well offered course (Moz101. moz, being the short form 4 Mozambique hall, were fresh female students ar accommodated). For d guys its a course that shouldn't be carried over.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in with them. Of course, they’d give you one thousand reasons to make you give in to their prodding..Before you agree to move in and live with a boy on campus, consider the reason why you are in school in the first place. What image would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as is always the case, or will you resort to series of abortions like many other girls before you?
What advice will you give your children in future concerning this kind of things? After school, what next? Will the relationship really lead you anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s because they are the worst hit by the grave consequences of illicit sexual relationships. They are the ones that turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They call it school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they have been till it’s too late. You are not in school to get married. Part of the reasons why you are in school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife experience, to see what it feels like for the boy to provide the money for food and for the girl to go to the market for food stuffs and cook. That’s pure misplacement of purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically learning how tobe a caring and romantic husband. Such shameless! Then you hear the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are just roommates”. Yet she commits countless abortions before graduation..Yes, your admission has given you unlimited freedom. Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to do or what not to do. There is even no blood relation around, so there's no fear of someone reporting you. But what about giving your womanhood respect and protecting your dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a positive story to tell the next generation (including your children) without your conscience pricking you?
What Goes Around Will Definately Come Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....
Christianity EtcRe: Early Will I Seek Thee Devotionals (connect Daily With Jesus Via His Words) by chinoify(op): 5:10am On Jan 06, 2016
SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF AND HELP OTHERS TO RESPECT THEM.
(it’s not “selfish” or unloving to have boundaries and “take care of yourself.”)
40-Days-Soul-Fast (DAY 3)

READ THE BIBLE IN 1 YEAR (Day 4 – Genesis 11 - 12, Matthew 5)

Proverbs 25:17 (AMP)
‘Let your foot seldom be in your neighbor’s house, Or he will become tired of you and hate you.’

SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF AND HELP OTHERS TO RESPECT THEM.

Personal boundaries are what define your identity. They’re like the property lines around a home. This is my property and that is not my property. This is me — what I value, am good at, believe, need, or feel — and that is not me.
To know yourself and be secure that you are loved, is essential to all relationships and activities. The better your boundaries of self-awareness and self-definition are, the greater your capacity to offer empathy and love to others. Good boundaries help you to care for others because you have a stable foundation to operate from and are not distracted or depleted by personal insecurities or blind spots.

Jesus, in his Incarnation, had Limits that he Accepted
• Basic Needs. He ate healthy foods, got the sleep he needed and even took naps, took time to relax, and did a lot of walking (Matt 4:6-7; 26:18, 20; John 12:2).
• Support from Friends. He sought the company of friends (Matt 26:36-38).
• Solitude. He withdrew from the crowds to go away on retreat, alone or with friends.
• Singular Focus (This people, this place, this time). He left one city to go to another because he couldn’t be in two places at the same time (Mark 1:38).
• Pace of Life. He was never in a hurry, except to go to Jerusalem and embrace his cross (John 11:6; Mark 10:32).
Jesus Said No to Inappropriate Behavior
• Demands. He withdrew from the crowds who wanted him, for one-on-one time with the Father (Luke 5:15-16).
• Abuse. He fought his way through the crowd that was trying to throw him off a cliff for claiming to be the Messiah (Luke 4:28-30).
• Entitlement. He didn't give in to his mother and brothers who tried to use their relationship with him to pull him away from the crowd he was ministering to (Matthew 12:46-50).
• Baiting Questions. When the religious leaders asked him baiting questions to make him look foolish he answered with incisive questions of his own (Matthew 21:23-27, 22:15-22).
• Cynicism. He said no to Herod’s mocking demand, “Show us a sign that you are the Son of God.” (Luke 23:8-9).
• Manipulation. He said no to Peter and the disciples who had an inappropriate agenda for Jesus to a political king or military warrior rather than a sacrificial lamb. (Matthew 16:23).
• Pride. He didn’t heal those who were too proud to trust Him (Matthew 13:58).

Jesus Spoke the Truth in Love to those Stuck or Wrong
• Exploitation. He used a whip to clear out the temple of the vendors and money changers who were taking advantage of the poor and turning God’s house into a marketplace (Matthew 21:12-17, John 2:12-16).
• Addiction. He told the Rich Young Ruler that he couldn’t help him until he gave away the money that was controlling him (Matthew 19:16-21).
• Misguided. He rebuked the disciples who tried to keep the little children away from him and told them that they needed to emulate the children’s faith (Matthew 19:13-15).
Jesus Had Expectations for People in Need
• What do you want? Two blind men called out to him for help from the Jericho road. He asked them, “What do you want me to do for you?” They needed to ask for what they needed and they needed to trust Him (Matthew 20:29-34).
• Do you want to get well? For 38 years the invalid at the Sheep gate pool hadn’t been able to get into the miracle waters. Jesus challenged him, “Do you want to get well?… It was up to him to be motivated and to take responsibility for himself (John 5:1-14).
• Do you believe? A father sought deliverance for his son who was mute and had seizures and said to Jesus, “If you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.” Jesus put it back on the father, “`If you can’? Everything is possible for him who believes.” The father needed to believe that Jesus could cure his son (Mark 9:17-27).
Jesus Taught us Examples of how to be Setting Boundaries
• Personal Prayer Time: “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen” (Matthew 6:6).
• Be Honest and Direct (Don’t Pressure People or Try to Get Them to Do Things): “Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one” (Matthew 5:37).
• Set Priorities: “No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other” (Luke 16:13).
• Please God, Not People: “How can you believe if you accept praise from one another, yet make no effort to obtain the praise that comes from the only God?” (John 5:44).
• Obey God: “What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work today in the vineyard.’ ‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went. Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go. Which of the two did what his father wanted?” “’The first,’ they answered” (Matthew 21:28-31).


God Bless you…. Join me again tomorrow, as we continue on this. It's gonna be life changing. I know someone is blessed already….

Praise God!!!

Like us on Facebook… https://www.facebook.com/earlywilliseekthee
#1,000,000 Souls for JESUS#

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