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peelovee:
you are welcome in the name of lord (2x)
We can see in you the glory of NL, you are welcome in the name of the Lord.

Tips for you,
Please you must be like a little child before you can enter the Kingdom of NL
you must be ready to tolorate, endure, laugh, gist,etc

Chocolove NL is filled with wonderful beings, you will enjoy your stay here. once more you are welcome

peelovee, your words are absolutely lovely and I'm ready to endure !

Macgreat:
Maybe,maybe not. . . God's love exist.  

I know brotherly love,sisterly love, motherly love,fatherly love exist.

What do you think,

lets stick to the topic  

i like the poster, because am not a loser

, well your oppinion is still your oppinion and a fair one

spikedcylinder:
Welcome to nairaland, chocoLove.

thank ya spikedcylinder!

MrPrsdent:
if i have kids,only MALE kids bro! And you don't need to be married to have kids.

What is this nigerian obsession with marriage?

Only Male?? eh eh eh, how will you choose only males,

goofymoney:
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i see, thanks for that gurl, bounce

uhm,

MrPrsdent:
am a player,thats why love doesnt exist

ok but a player plays his game and can one day lose from , love,

posakosa:
@ OP a loser can be a man or woman. Doesn't have to be a man.

, correct there,

honeric01:
try with with true mind and you will sure get a car from your hubby before the end of this month

you're too funny ma friend!

MrPrsdent:
Love ko,brokenheart ni

Continue fooling yourself.Where have U seen love on empty stomach /pocket?

so that's the reason love doesn't exist for you,

honeric01:
what i am trying to say here is that it's hard to know if a man is blushing or not, but its easy to know if a woman is geddit?

that's true, you guys try to hide your feeling so they don't show,

honeric01:
it wont work if you are the type that's used to using sweet words to get "things" from your hubby before lol

of course it's for those that mean what they say, not just to profit from there words, will reap from what they sow!

[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=336838.msg4724684#msg4724684 date=1255438979]hey loff still exist.[/quote]WELCOME IN! YEY! so finally love exist, so Mr.MrPrsdent, think about it again, you may be brokenhearted and don't want to accept Love again, but actually love is a great feeling,

Ebonyeyes:
UHHHHMMMM i didnt know flattery worked for guys I will have to start it then

MA GIRL IF YOU TRY IT , come tell as if it worked on him ohhh !

Macgreat:
. . . interesting, i like this. . . poster, you too much!

cool so lets get your oppinion then, do you believe love exist?

MrPrsdent:
love is for fools cos there is no such thing

so if love don't exist, oh boy , many are going astray then,

biola44:
yes, cos only fools fall in love

you aren't a fool if you fall in love , you are a human that have feeling, !

posakosa:
Any FOOL can fall in love.


Staying in love is more of the main issue. Dont you think ?

Women fall in love all the time and get their heart BROCK

why, do you think they aren't any men that get there heart brocken by a WOMAN? ? hey! They are! , only that you haven't seen one yet!

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=336841.msg4724475#msg4724475 date=1255437222]welcome chocolateLove, perhaps u need to be acquainted with the unwritten code for this section,
1. U neva ever post threads that depict men as losers ever!  
2. cant think of any yet,
@ post
i wonder why any gal will wait till no 4 before dumping such a guy, still the mind of a woman,[/quote] hey thanks for the tips! just sharing the truth, sometimes men can become a loser, NOT SAYING THAT THEY ARE but they can become!,

No one have to be a lose Nor date one! here is a list on checking out you dont date one!
holla,Enjoy!


1.He Hates Whatever You Want To Do, But Doesn’t Have Anything Better: [/b]He complains about you dragging him out to a party, a store, anything that makes you happy. But what would he be doing if you didn’t make the plans?

[b]2.Your Friends Don’t Like Him, And You Don’t Like His Friends: [/b]If you’ve banned his BFF from ever stepping foot in your house again, that’s a sign. But really, the writing on the wall is when the people you like to surround yourself with don’t like him.

[b]3.He Lies All The Time, But He’s Still Not Good At It: [/b]You watch him bold-face lie to his friends and family and you know he does it to you too. What’s the point of having people into your life if you don’t want them to trust you?

[b]4.He’s A Freeloader: [/b]Cheapskates are bad, freeloaders are worse. You know he could contribute, but he’s selfish and has an out-of-wack sense of entitlement.

[b]5.Fashion (Non)Sense: His style is dumb and his clothes are always dirty. He doesn’t take care of himself. Plus, he acts like a child anytime he has to dress up and will avoid it at all costs.

6.He Won’t Try New Things: We’re all creatures of habit, but this guy just isn’t up for anything new. Heck, he’s probs been doing the same things since puberty.

7.He Corrects You A Lot: In private, in public, he doesn’t care. He thinks you’re wrong, all the time.

8.He Doesn’t Take Criticism: It’s funny, as much as he likes to dish it, he can’t take it. He thinks he’s perfect.

9.He Makes Fun Of Successful People: [/b]He never likes someone who is doing well ‘cause he’s jealous, obvi. Whether he’s dissing someone on TV or your new business contact, he just thinks no one is as cool as him.

[b]10.Mother Dearest: His mother does his laundry or something else super crazy, and yet, he still rolls his eyes at her and treats her like she’s incompetent. Or worse yet, worships her to the point of hiding behind her and her arguments.

11.His Coworkers Hate Him: He can’t hold down a job and when he gets fired, no one cares.

12.He Points Out Hot Chicks Constantly: He talks to you like you’re his guy friend, but you’re not. Sure, you can appreciate that there are good-looking ladies other than you out there. But he should shut his damn mouth.

here is the source onc again, not my words!
source

, speech less, this thing is actually true if you think about it,


https://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z227/sweet_silvia88/f_Lovem_39da80c.jpg

Hey girls! it's actually true! men get WoWed from compliments from US! hehe  check it out!
I thought you girls might find this interesting so here you have it !



From an early age, men get hammered with the same message about how to treat women: More compliments, more listening, more romance. That's all well and good, as it should be. But sometimes, especially as relationships progress, men can also feel on the short-end of the fawning stick: Nearly 70 percent of men say they wish they received more regular compliments from their partner. I'm not suggesting that every guy has to be coddled and cuddled with verbal roses, but every once in a while, it's nice to throw one his way. While guys aren't particularly amped by compliments like "nice eyes" or "you're so beautiful," there are a few, simple things a woman can say to a man that really get him going. To wit:


"Your arms are definitely looking bigger."

Men can be just as paranoid about the way their bodies look as women can be. In fact, nearly 90 percent of men in a national Men, Love & Sex survey say there's at least one body part they'd like to change (42 percent saying they want a new gut). While men don't necessarily want women to lie if they're out of shape, it never hurts to notice he's looking good -- or at least trying to look better.


"Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha."

Guys spend all of high school, the better part of the work day, and at least 12 times a day via e-mail trying to make people laugh. Because men value their sense of humor as one of their most important qualities, a hearty, genuine laugh is as flattering as it gets.


"Wow."

Doesn't matter whether it comes as he's getting undressed or after you've finished having sex, this short, sweet word (best done in a whisper) may just be the ultimate ego-stroke. A picture may say a thousand words, but this three-letter word sums up roughly 10,000 of them.


"You the man."

Guys hear this all the time. From other guys. They hear it at work, on the golf course, and when one dude from the group buys the beer. But if it comes from a woman -- no matter the context -- the message is that, hey, we're buddies, too. Which is actually pretty darn sexy.


"The kids just adore you."

More than 50 percent of men say that their families -- more so than work and salary -- are what defines them most as men. So when a woman affirms that he's a familial hero, it's a compliment that stretches way beyond anything you could ever say about his haircut.


"What do you think?"

We've all seen it a million times with long-married couples: They engage in cerebral power struggles, where neither can concede on anything -- whether it's the best way to move a piece of furniture or the fastest way to reach the interstate. I'm not saying that men should have the only say in decisions, but some guys do feel like they actually have very little.


"Cute feet."

Typically, it doesn't matter much to men if women like a part of their body that they don't control, like their eyes, jawline, or body hair. And typically, guys care for the word "cute" about as much as Paris cares for the penal system. One exception: The part of the body that is classified as being especially gross. Tell a guy he has good feet, and somehow he takes it as a double-bagger compliment -- that you not only like his genetics, but also that you appreciate he can keep himself better groomed than the rest of the gnarly-nailed heathens out there.


"Meow."

The stats show that 61 percent of men think their partners aren't sexually adventurous enough. While a feline one-liner doesn't automatically qualify as adventurous, it does show a bit of inhibition, and the message is one he likes to hear: That perhaps he's brought a little bit of the animal out of you.


"Impressive."

Guys love feats. They love accomplishments. They love being acknowledged for their strength, power, and, simply, their masculinity. So a well-timed observation like this one -- whether it comes after he carries a TV to the family room or figures out a way to fix the pipes without having to call the plumber -- feeds into his need to feel like the family protector.


"I want you."

Women don't need to go on about a guy's eyes or hair or clothes. What a guy really wants to hear is that he's the total package, and this acknowledgement of that -- whether it's referring to bedroom behavior or relationship stability -- is the ultimate compliment of them all.


lastly, "[color=#FF0000]I LOVE YOU[/color]"

it's not my words, here is the source,
source

[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=336742.msg4724150#msg4724150 date=1255434385]Welcome Choco!!!!   [/quote]hey hey! Abbey_city ! how'ya doing?? nice to meet you

TheSeeker:
Hmmm. . . . How long have you been reading on NL before you joined? You seem like you've been around a long time

Now you're talking ma friend ! holla!, well i've been around, just keeping silent BUT, I just gave in and Joined,

TheSeeker:
Where's kid-slum? I thought you was getting along with the chic. See hammer on your head Chai!!!!!

let him learn and not take people for granted and spread like mosquito his email to every lady he see ,

you learn from your mistakes,right?

Shola2009:
^^^ohhhhh!! rejected! GBAM!!!!!!   

hahaha  well in one way or another you might call it a reject, but in a good way

Ebonyeyes:
Run girl run, this place can become addictive _{Just playing} Welcome to the nuthouse I guess

thank you my dear!nice tobe here also!

nahh, i'll pass, i dont like talking with messangers that much because you start talking to people you dont know more often than a forum, I'm not that girl so, good luck,

so what about you guys?? what do you like and do here?? your interests??

i'm gonna check all the forum rooms, i like this romance place because i see people that actually faces the reality and not that life is just easy when you just fall in Love.
I'l be checking the Programming section also because i do design and draw,

and also the music department because i love music and sing and play some instruments,
i think i will get myself busy!

SO I'm Here!!!!

chocoLove:
cool, 22 teeth, so you would look like this,

Just Joking about that above!

kidsam:
so who did u say u are

I said i'm new and will be Joining you guys! single but happy with that and enjoying every stage of life,

TheSeeker:
Will you shut your trap and stop using that old trick? How in hell will you say she's a scam? She's a scam because she said she's not looking for a guy yet single? One more word from you and I'll slap 22 teeth out of your mouth fool

cool, 22 teeth, so you would look like this,

kidsam:
You sound too innocent to be true

i mean there are people that are good, bad, slut, innocent, you cant just give a name to all people, so that's who i am and nice to meet you as well