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Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.
It goes like this: there's this female friend of mine that I'm so into her and I asked her out. This didn't actually go down well and I later got to know the reason why it was so. Now of recent again the issue came up and this time around she wasn't forthcoming with her response so I felt I she needed space. So I let her be for some time though I made sure that I still call her from time to time to know how she's doing without bring the issue up but I observed that sometimes her status on WhatsApp seems to be sending some message to me though not directly. Fast forward to present now, I noticed that I'm unable to message her via facebook though I can't say if she was the one that actually blocked me or her account was hacked because currently even after searching for her using a different account her details can't be found. Secondly I noticed same via WhatsApp again. So I don't know if she actually blocked me or maybe her phone stolen and the account deactivated. Though I intend calling her to know what the problem is. So I'm considering two options which I kindly need your opinion.
First: Should I call her to actually know what went wrong and from there know if all is still fine between both of us
Second: Should I just let her be because there's the possibility that she might have ghosted me and as such let me allow her be and also move on jejely. Though I seriously love her and she knows it. But sometimes no matter how hard you try it still wouldn't workout.
Sorry for the long post but I seriously need your candid opinion
Thanks in anticipation of your opinion