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She just got to know that her father won a bronze metal so she is looking for champagne to pour
She is gonna pour more once her father returns

Continue am right behind u

To me is not romantic,if u succeed in planning it her parents will u also succeed in choosing her desired bride maids
Menh to be me it doesn't work

10 good years for what na I won't keep a lady that far if I know am not gonna end up with her
Ladies a beg be wise never allow any dude date u for like 3 years without knowing his intentions with u

Noted but sincerely to go thorough break up is not easy,still battling with mine

thekingisback:
God knows you had good intentions but it's too bad that the person you did for is ungrateful and unreasonable. Continue being good. Next time don't spend a dime on any lady you're not married to. Not even your fiancee.

I start doing that, this experience had taught me a lesson

Guy please u need to stop giving that girl or attention please she is our gf kid sister, sit her down and make her see reasons with u Good luck

Mjshexy:
Yea i understand bro, it won't be easy because u truly loved her & have done a lot for her but u can just focus your mind on other activities and probably make new friends. Your own heaven made woman will surely locate you, life is too short to have your emotions being insulted by an ungrateful fellow.

Thanks bro I really appreciate God bless u

Samted69:
brother. the truth is that she most likely is cheating. For the guy to call you and try to convince you that she loves you...she must have put him up to it. 11pm is too late for a casual visit.
Don't let her sway you with tears and promises ooo. If she wasn't cheating she won't be asking for forgiveness.
She took her clothes off probably because nothing happened that day but what has been happening other days?

Thanks bro

prof800:
chris2face this advice is for you. Focus on it. Try.

Thanks but I have already moved one its too much for me to bear

Efewestern:
I Feel for the little girl..

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After reading your comments, I'd suggest you move on.. She doesn't worth u a bit..

God bless u

Amen bless u too thanks bro

DeeTus:
Stay away from baby mamas. They are simply full of drama and are only concerned with their comfort.

I understand wanting to help her but she had succeeded milking you and turning you into a wussy.

Thanks guy

thekingisback:
don't allow her to cajole you or sweet talk you into accepting her back. Few men would do what you did for her. To even imagine you rented her an apartment and took her daughter as your own and even sued the father of the child too. Bros people like you are indeed rare. People like her don't deserve anything good. She's an ingrate.

Thank u so much bro I really appreciate I did a lot for her which I can't say but am leaving it to God

thekingisback:
Bros trust me I have seen worse. The day you start giving a woman trust, you're automatically signing your death warrant. She's only yours when she's with. Have that at the back of your mind. Do you know what my ex did to me even after all I did for her? I don't want to start typing long epistles. If not I would have told you.

Girls are naturally ungrateful. Everything you do for them is seen as a responsibility.

I know better now

alexistaiwo:
What assurance do you have that your next woman wouldn't be worse. She might be/might not cheating on you. Get your facts straight.

Guy I'm the one who's was into the relationship u know what am saying again in a weather my next girl all cheat until then

gimakon:
It's well.. I understand.

Thanks bro

southernbelle:
ooops, then you should break it off.

Have done that already but I feel betrayed

southernbelle:
ooops, then you should break it off.

Have done that already but I feel betrayed

Divinehenrich:
Some girls are really very ungrateful.
Some one pick you up at a very critical time of life when ever you own brother abandoned you.

This gentleman still went ahead to show care and love by paying for your apartment.
She have the temerity to bring another man in the said apartment at a very late hour of the night.

Bros, I feel your pain. Keep a close watch on her or paid some one to do it for you.

Thanks bro I have ended it all I guess no need stalking her now

southernbelle:
has she been doing/done anything suspicious before this?

Yea but she is smart one of the reasons I visited that way

southernbelle:
has she been doing/done anything suspicious before this?

Yea but she is smart one of the reasons I visited that way

Lily4star:
Break it off, if you hadn't visited the "SIDE" guy would have spent the night, the guy has been doing her, you are only just fortunate to be finding out.

My own evidence

1. Taking long to open the door, they were probably naked,
2. Taking off her clothes so you check if she's just cheated or not (guilty conscience)
3. Then she Crowned it up telling the guy to call you, he has no business whatsoever calling your phone.

Last Bullet: The only reason they are putting up with all the drama was cos you caught them, would she have told you a guy was at her place at that time of the night??. They were to spend the night together. CHURCH BROTHER INDEED. na today??

But what do I know?

Exactly my point have done that though but is not easy I feel I have been used

gimakon:
Temper justice with mercy. There is no better judgement than this I would give. If not for the sake of anything, that small child who doesn't know anything, you wouldn't dare hurt a child who did nothing to you.
I feel your pains, I myself I have paid fees for a girl, worked out her admission, only for her to upload a pic of her and another guy in the guys villa... and the guy held my gf like they were tying nuptial knots...

I wouldn't say everything, funny now, things are being good for me. Don't get too angry, allow God to fight your cause.

Thank me later. Have Fun, God bless you in his rightness... amen.

Bros thanks but sincerely I don't see my self going back into that relationship

Mjshexy:
I honestly hate hearing this kind of news, some ladies are just so ungrateful. How can u have a decent guy who has accepted you and your child (not his child oh), providing your needs and being there for you but you still go messing around with some random fellow, it's just not fair. Bros you may need to take your mind off her because this one is obviously one of those ladies who don't deserve SINCERE MEN...

Thanks bro have taken my mind off her but is not easy I feel betrayed

mizzbouqui:
And are you the first person that will help a lady financially don't you ever say to your lady "I made you who you are from nobody" it's not good

Anyways to my own understanding, I think you've been given the title "chairman" , you do the supply and they do the spending
I can't imagine having a male friend in my house at that kind of odd hour when he is not my man
Just be patient and do some thorough findings about the guy and once you found out she is cheating on you dump her ass
Some ladies are not grateful

And the guy might be the father of her child, who wants them together again but she is refusing, some guys can be very funny, threatening her he will end her relationship with you if she won't give him his child or come back to her.

U will not understand,the guy is not the father of her daughter, I knew the father in fact there was a time he came back that he needs his daughter we had to go court because of that forget u won't simply uderstand

Reeberry:
Both of them are playing on you.

That's what am feeling right now

alexistaiwo:
This hoes ain't loyal.
Since the other guy knows about you. That means you are the main guy while he is happy to be the side guy. Win win scenario for everyone

Yea but I can't do that I feel maybe they are using me anyway am off for good

gimakon:
Relax, I would say you shouldn't conclude yet. But thinking of it 10:30pm at night is way too wrong for a man to be in the house of a lady who you aren't dating, I wouldn't say you call it off 100% but I'd say you don't take everything out of your hands first of all without having some evidence.

Call her and caution her that you're not comfortable with the idea of that fellow coming over to the house at that time, but in secret, make your findings and don't make her find out, don't be nosy much just pretend and be a man, when you find out things you want to and they don't suit you, you can then call it off for good, but for now, don't be in a haste to do what you have in mind... have some good evidence first. This works for me.

Thanks bro

southernbelle:
A friend from church shouldn't be visiting till that time of the night; again, what was the point of taking off her clothes when you confronted her??
i think she's trying too hard to make you feel she's innocent by making the guy call you, who knows if the guy was going to sleep over that night
You don't have to be in a hurry to let her go though since its obvious you really care about her but make her understand that she's either totally with you or not, no games.

Thanks a guy visiting her at that time is what I cant get now she has made her little daughter to be calling me telling daddy that I should forgive her mum
Have made up my mind and no going back

I meet this lady about a year ago and feel in love with her even though she is got a daughter
She has got nothing when I meet her,her elder brother drove her out when she got pregnant for her then boyfriend who later denied the pregnancy
I guess I should just go to the main issue,yesterday I went unannounced to her house the house that I paid with my money around 10.30pm
I noticed she was taking time in opening the door,eventually she did on coming inside close to her doorstep I meet his guy in jalamia standing there
I went inside and my girl told me that I should please excuse her to see her visitor off
On coming back I asked who the guy is she is telling me that he is just an ordinary friend from the church
An ordinary friend that will visit a girl at almost to 11 in the night,out of annoyance I told her she has been cheating on me and she took up off her cloths that I should see if she just cheated
This is a girl I made what she is,loved her and her kid unconditionally but where she is cheating
I left that night and she is been on my neck that I should forgive her and even telling me that I don't trust her,anyway the guy she was with called me imagine telling she is just her casual friend that she loves me bla bla
I can't take this,i have asked my self so many questions while will an ordinary friend visit her at that odd hour?
Why did it took her so long to open the gate for me?
Naira landers please help a fellow
I don't think am ready to continue that friendship not anymore

Walahi if I click on that link ehee make I go toilet 5 times today.