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SenorFax:
Your baby mama took advantage of you so first thing first, she's out of the equation.

Esther did what any lady would do, but her feelings made her return to you. That's strong enough to keep her forever.

The new girl is yet to experience conditions which will require her to forgive you anything, so her nature is hiding behind "not Bleep up no problems". In short you are yet to know what her other side looks like.

The real deal now is to measure the quality of Esther with the new girl to know if she's really what you want in place of Esther, ladies have a way of hiding their real self until they have what they want. No saying the new lady could be pretending to accept your kid, but she may have other intentions, Afterall it took you a while to convince her. Am sure at the back of her mind, there is a 50-50% chance of her staying or going, while for Esther there is 90% chance of her staying, even 95%.

In the situation you put yourself, what you need is someone who loves you more than you love her, only that person can choose to overlook this flaws and mess you've created. You know who all the arrows point to, choose wisely.

May God be with you bro.

Thanks so much bro i really appreciate am thinking of the same thing,the devil i no i think will be better than an angel i dnt no but i never envisalged that Esther will come

rottennaija:
In the words address to Khan in the movie, 'My name is Khan, even this one, I can't fix.

Kindly move on if u have got nothing tangible to say

Good day Ladies and Genetlemen here
Please am currently in a mess,but before u crucify me please read through
I meet Esther and we feel in love with each other,she isnt from my tribe but i love her very much,3 years into dating i made the bigest mistake of my life,i meet Nkeiru my tribe
Nkeiru is a single mum going through tough times,on one occasion her daugter became very sick and she came crying to me since i could help i helped her by paying for her daughter's hospital bills (my biggest mistake) since she is igbo we came friends just ordinary friends then on eve of new year,i hosted my club members and since they are all igbos i decided to asked Nkeiru to come assisct me in cooking since my girlfriend is not igbo and at that point she lost her Dad and went for the buriel
After everything she said is already late and couldnt go that night long story cut short we had sex how it happened i dont know for real all i remembered and still remember is that i was drunk that night dont get me wrong i never made any move only woke up to find her beside me stack naked
I was mad asked her to leave my house and never come close to me her response was that given a second chance she d' still do what she did how am a good guy despite helping her finacially i never asked for anything in return i made her leave and never ever come close to me but faith has others things in mind
One month after she came back she is pregnant,i wont lie i asked her to abort it she vehemently refused i had no option than to let her be but told her i will have notthing to do with her and our only business is the child,less i forget i did a DNA test after she gave birth and it shows am the father
Now my girlfriend learnt about it and she became devastated it really got to her and after accusing me of leaving her just cause she isnt my tribe she broke up with me
After like 6 months i meet another amazing lady told her my story and she was cool with it since am no longer with any of them,note initially she declined that she is scared they wil one day come especially my child's mum,it took me a while to convince her otherwise
The problem now is this my family are of the opionin that i should continue with the one that has a child for me and that my child happiness should come first,now Esther recently started calling me that she is sorry for judging me that she meet with my child's mother and she confirnmed our only business is our daughter
Am confused,i dnt know what to do,should i just be with someone i dnt love so my daughter wont grow up in a broken home or should i just continue with Esther considering what we have been through after 3 years and or should they just remain in my past and continue with Nnenna my new amazing girl who had to qiut her habit just for me while taking care of my child
Nlners this my dilemma ingnore errors please not in my right frame of mind

Thobilobah:
You do know that you would be held responsible because the dog is your property so you will take responsibility for whatever damages it causes.Very Soon your pet will take delight in killing and then who knows who will be next. don't think of allowing such. dogs are for security purposes and should not become murderers

Ok i loved the way u made ur point known unlike some guys here,Respect

dannyrhymes600:
reminds me of one yoruba girl that has eczema around her cat region

Gosh!? Bros why na?
*spitsrunsoutofthread*:>

I d' name mine Eye Opener cause it really opened my eyes

lookatew:
Hahaha..
See baby with 6-packs.. baby must be from Sparta.
These pics made me laugh small sha...
All these serious people 4 this thread, e be like say name only una carry Nigeria problem 4 head.

I dnt no oh thanks to them,they made me laugh see as peoplr are looking at me inside traffic

internationalman:
You were busy taking pictures instead of you to separate them..

Phone freak like you..

Serious some people ehe thats how a house near my yard is on fire and instead of helping out some where busy making videos some have totally lost it

Simple i will allow it and then make sure i call the cops after getting some videos and pictures
One thing for sure i wil not allow the thief got free it will serve as a detriement to others
And finally it wil be enjoyment glamore for my dog for a job well done

Zaikon:
abeg change your mind make Nigeria better

Bros why na,na me go come spoil the country abi? Abeg clear road joor support me make i give u minister of finance

Zaikon:
The reason behind the do or die stuff

Exactly no wonder,infact am off to buy my own nomination form hope Nairalanders are gonna support me

Victornezzar:
This mumu boi again
ur fellow niggas were begging u for assistance but u rebuffed their offer
she didn't scam u well
Or dude are u looking for cheap attention

Leave the fake dude,he just looking for attention

When will women know that they cant tie a man down with pregnancy or having a child for him
She is welcome to the baby mama crew and i d' recommed the learn from Sophia and co who thought they will tie down Davido Wizkid and the rest

youngberry001:
Tottaham vs liverpool on saturday,,


predict who would first get the cornerkick between Tottaham nd Liverpool on saturday nd get free 30k bonus to flex

dnt forget to drop your acount number nd the bank u re using!!

Tottaham to get the first corner

FutureGovenor sorry to mention u but if u can help me secure any job i d' be grateful,gateman,gardner looking forward in hearing from u

futuregovernor:
Send ur contact, will direct u to d lady,Lekki

Please am interested in the job please though i stay here in Enugu but can reloacate,please if there is any other please let me no,any job at all,gateman,house help only have my O level result
My numbers 08165115293 or 08187043531
Please anyone that has got a job please contact me,can write and speak good English thanks

ajibolabd:
Ladies don't care about your loads, they don't care about your size, all they care of is for you to last longer. To last longer, get Anafranil tab, take 1tab 4 to 6 hours before you start. Thank me later

Anafra within that stupid drug
Guys please dnt try this,the side effect of this drug is really bad,dry mouth and above all can cease breath say NO to drug please

Godswillnwaoma:
where do you live?

Enugu akwunanaw

MetroBaba1:
You Don't Need 2 Increase Your Sex Drive.
Alternatively, Allow Her 2 Ride And Drive You (If You Understand) - 9 in Every 10....

I understand, will try it tonight

No Thanks

ecstasy357:
The individual in question. If every girl you've met is a demon, then maybe the girls ain't the issue...maybe it's You

Savage

lefulefu:
Why put urself inside wahala? U want to change ashi? The 2k wey u give her no doubt na codiene she go take am go buy. If u start having feelings for her now and she starts ripping u off na u go still come here to complain dat nigerian girls are dis and that.

I wonder oh he wants to change an ashi,can a leopard change its spot,op dont fall for this format

LordsBattleAxe:
LOL... Na serious matter him bring come

Abi but talk about he saying i do know some ladies got odour but not all women

fineboynl:
I guess you don't have money, and that's why you didn't showed up. I know that feelings. to her you are not serious. most girls don't like hanging around with unserious guys.

she was stranded and she expected that you will hurriedly come out to pick her. it is a sign you don't care.

she is a runs girl.

Not really about money is about principles,u calls not even sms that she is gonna come only to show up and asked to come take her Haba!! As her what na?

I know of one but is capital intensive,where i live what is thriving here is tipper business,u couple a tipper(the kind used to carry,sands,gravel and so on) and give to a driver and he will riding it for u,10k perday and before 6months u should be able to recover the money u invested in it and still making ur profit

Nobodys:
I don't know why people spend so much for funerals, some even borrow just to throw a big burial ceremony...why?.... some leave the corpse at the mortuary for years cause there's no money for burial, is this really necessary??....makes me wonder if we're suppose to be partying or mourning....


Don't know how it's done abroad buh I think it's high time we look into some of our cultural practices.....

Exactly i have seen one that went as far as rebuilding this dead fathers house before the burial and the building had been in bad shape when the dad was alive,i just dont get this new thread

luizpippo:
I swear down, like my ex, immediately we kiss, she is all shaky, in the mood and getting wet.
Na na na, you wee hear, baby I want to feel you.
I kumbe sotay spit dry for my tongue.

Hahaha exactly but my baby will tell me baby i wanna feel my dick at times she wont say a thing she d' just come and unbotton me bring out my dick and start sucking

idu1:
And someone is out there looking for how he will manage to back his girlfriend for once even half way they wouldn't mind. Na em this guy dey complain?

Life is not fair indeed

See if u have sex everyday for even 3 straight days u will get tired

This early morning? Bros i hail oh

omojesu202:
too much of everything is boring. I love sex so much but if a lady stays with me more than 3 days I find difficult to touch her again.
so d HIV test kit is now common, how much pls.
I want to know if I can buy enough n test every punna I want to eat, condom is boring

Yea is common now but is the buffer that always had to get,in my case,my girl dad has a whole lot of it

MrRichmond:
Don't be a slow guy...
There is more to a relationship than sex, true, but for most ladies sex is a major priority whether they chose to admit it or not.

Your girl is bad, and she isn't shy about it, she is comfortable with you, and fucckin your raw, it's your job to man up and reach her level.

having sex everyday isn't bad or too much.
Me and one of my ex's back in nysc used to fucck like 3 or even 4 times daily.
I'd wake her up in the middle of the night and she's ready to go again!
Improve your game, she's more experienced than you, so there's a lot to learn from her!
Up your game, life shouldn't be taken too seriously.

Have sex and have fun

No dull bro!

peace.

Ok,yea she is at peace with me,open minded so far the best i have dated,to be frank i dnt wanna let go,is there anyhow i can increase my sex drive

essentialone:
I don't think that some ever want it.

Say what u no,i have seen some that love it a great deal