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Still on diz amontekun

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What a country

Serious buyer, 550k ready to pick tomorrow or next

What is the last price?

300k

700k seriously buyer

Location and last price?

Engine size?

Can it fly for 500k

Your last price and location?

Will their prayer guarantee me heaven let stop deceiving ourselves

beezle:
I get that we are on this social media platform and you think you can talk anyhow about the dead, know that you will one day be in this position and I hope people will pass good prayers for you. Be careful what you say boss..

Lie lie man, no be dis same man tell us say subsidy no dey, Buhari enter finish he kon silent rest in whatever you like

Android users of WhatsApp are in for a treat this Halloween after the company announced on its blog that you'll now be able to lock the app using the fingerprint sensor. This new feature provides you with one more layer of security when using the messenger by requiring you to scan your fingerprint before opening the app, even if your phone has already been unlocked.


The feature first debuted on iOS devices last February and has now finally made its way to Android. To set up the fingerprint lock feature on your device, first, open the Settings menu and locate Account, then under Privacy, select Fingerprint Lock.

From here, you will be able to prevent WhatsApp from opening until you scan your fingerprint. However, it notes that you'll still be able to answer calls when the app is locked. It also allows you to choose whether WhatsApp will lock immediately, after one minute, or after 30 minutes. Finally, there is an option to show or hide content in your notifications.



The update doesn’t appear to be available in all regions just yet, but once it arrives, WhatsApp says you’ll be able to toggle on the extra security from within the app’s Privacy settings menu. There are options to let the app remain unlocked for one or 30 minutes after you unlock it, and there’s also a toggle to prevent the contents of your messages from appearing in notifications.

We’ve known that the feature was coming to Android since WABetaInfo reported that it had appeared in a beta version of the app back in August. Unfortunately, while on iOS, the feature supports both Touch ID and Face ID, Android appears to be limited to just fingerprint unlock since there’s no mention of face unlock in WhatsApp’s announcement. (Sorry, Pixel 4 owners.)

WhatsApp is one of the most popular messengers around the world, and one of the features it touts is privacy using end-to-end encryption. By adding Fingerprint lock, it now has one more layer of security to ensure your messages stay between you and the recipient, keeping prying eyes out of your business.

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Your location and your last offer?

futurerex:
Are you not resting in peace after the breakup?

If only majority of us will understand what it meant to rest in peace

Falling in love is a nice thing especially if you are both committed to the relationship. However, some relationships do not work out as expexted and here are some signs that you might be in an abusive relationship.

1. You are used to satisfying your spouse’s sexual needs when you don’t feel like it. You are forced to have sex

2. Your opinion does not matter. Your spouse dominates all decision making processes.

3. Your spouse orders you to do what he/she wants instead of requesting you with respect.

4. Your body is insulted and made fun of by your spouse but you still have to give him/her sex.

5. Your spouse gangs up with his/her friends/parents to mock you and show you how good for nothing you are.

6. You are called names designed to hurt you.

7. Your spouse joins the people of the opposite gender he/she is flirting and fooling around with to make you feel worthless.

8. Your being with your spouse has made you believe in yourself less and damaged your self esteem.

9. You are not allowed to pursue your goals and dreams in marriage.

10. Each time you try to speak up, you are silenced, told you are not educated enough or told because of your gender you have no say on the matter.

11. You work hard in your family business but all the money goes to your spouse who determines what the money will be used for as you are denied access to the money.

12. You are inflicted physical pain through armtwisting, pulling of hair violently, slapping, blows, throwing of hard and fragile objects to you to harm you.

13. When you complain about the pain, you are told you brought it upon yourself.

14. When you cry, your tears go ignored by the one person who should care for you.

15. You have to beg your spouse for assistance especially money, not because your spouse doesn’t have money, but because your spouse wants to show you that you are nothing without him/her.

16. Your spouse abandons you in the middle of the road and drives off to “teach you a lesson”.

17. You are denied the opportunity to worship the God you love and your personal spiritual growth denied.

18. You are ridiculed about how you raise the children, you are left alone to parent the children and then shouted at when the children do wrong

19. The secrets you shared with your spouse are used against you to attack you.

20. You are belittled by your spouse because of the job you do, the family you grew up in, your economical background, your formal educational level.

21. Phone calls and text messages from your spouse leave you with fear, lowering your moods.

21. You are cut off from your friends and family by your spouse because your spouse doesn’t want you telling others he/she mistreats you. Your spouse is imprisoning you.

22. You are shown signs of contempt such as pointing of finger, being pushed over, deliberare offenses and public shaming.

23. You are constantly being told how you are worthless and can never do anything right.

24. The presence of your spouse scares you and makes you cringe and become uneasy.

Finally somebody has borrow my friend sense good 1

Omojudy:
Story. 5 years, hospital issues, miscarriages, in-laws, divorce, joblessness after offering him my federal government slot, no bf and gf in that!

Deep and touched story, God will restore every wasted years

Omojudy:
I was lucky not to have had children (ttc) when I got divorced. Things were hard but it would have been harder. I started a telegram group for people in similar or any ladies kind of issues to help us go through such easier. Pm me if interested in being a part of it ladies.

You are very lucky, your case is like a boy friend to girl friend breakup

Makschinchin:
Las las, divorce isn't something anyone should hope for.. It shouldn't even be a last resort.. You could give each other some time to think things through and try working it out..

Patents' divorce generally affects the children negatively no matter the steps you take to prepare them for it..

#SAYNOTODIVORCE

You are correct

Apologies are a funny thing. Everyone likes to get them. When you need to give them, things get tricky. As soon as your ego gets involved, you’re in trouble. And let’s be honest, it always gets involved. Apologizing means admitting you’re wrong, and no one likes to be wrong.

Apologies also force you to be vulnerable with your loved ones, and vulnerability is scary. It means you’re emotionally undressing yourself. You’re opening yourself up to danger (or so we think).

So when it comes to saying “sorry,” you may offer up the white flag in the most non-committal, inauthentic way possible. If you’ve ever said, “I’m sorry, okay?” you know what I’m talking about. Then there are the “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apologies. It’s tough to say which is worse.

Apologies aren’t easy to give but they are one of the most powerful tools for communication at your disposal in any relationship. Apologies allow both parties to feel heard and expressed. They also open up a dialogue for you and your partner to come to a deeper understanding of each other’s feelings. If you get stuck on saying you’re sorry, don’t worry. You’re not alone. These are my favorite tips to get myself to a sincere apology. Hopefully, they’ll help you, too.

Do It In Person

That means no apology texts or voicemails. A genuine apology opens up a dialogue between you and your partner, so that means there needs to be a back and forth. Doing it in person or at least over the phone is essential. (Video works too!) Clear communication is essential in an apology. Don’t want to leave any room for misinterpretation, which can lead to more hurt feelings!

Timing is Everything

Apologize as soon as you know you hurt someone. The sooner you apologize the more sensitive your partner will know you are. Part of a relationship is learning your partner’s sensitivities and being in tune with them even when they don’t verbalize a specific need. A quick apology saves the buildup of contempt and shows off your thoughtfulness.

Dig Deep

Don’t apologize only because you know you were in the wrong. Try to empathize with the hurt your actions caused and express your understanding of this pain. Dig deep into the emotional impact of the actions you’re apologizing for. You may uncover wounds and triggers in the process. You may realize that you need to own up for a long-standing negative pattern. Ask yourself why you did the thing you did and be prepared to own up to something deeper than you expected. Being thorough in your apology shows the necessary emotional understanding that will help your relationship heal. Begin with clarity. Clarity will bring authenticity to your apology.



Be Vulnerable

When you’re apologizing to your loved one, remove your ego and speak from the heart. Remember⁠—it’s not about you. It’s about your partner. Don’t make excuses. State why you did what you did. Open the conversation with, I’m sorry, then speak your truth. Remind yourself that you love the person you’re owning up to. Reminding yourself of your connection. You want to fix this wrong for the someone on the other end of it. The more better your partner understands your action the easier it’ll be for them to forgive you.

Listen Up

More than likely your partner wants to communicate their feelings to you. Let them. This isn’t the time to justify your actions. Don’t interrupt or judge. Just listen with an open heart.

Give It Time

In a perfect world, our apologies would be accepted on the spot. But it doesn’t always shake out that way. That’s okay. Respect someone’s time for space. Don’t try to fix the situation so you can feel better. Let them be. In time, they’ll come back ready to forgive. If they don’t, then you know you did the best you could. You can force to fix someone’s pain nor can you force someone to forgive you. Sometimes letting go is the best choice for both.

Have A Plan

If and when your partner forgives you, take time to craft a plan about where you go next. How will you choose to handle similar situations in the future? What can you do to improve communication? Actions speak louder than words, so put into actions what you will do to make amends and that you’re committed to moving forward in a new way.

Apologies are difficult to give, but offering one shows strength of character, integrity, respect, a willingness to be vulnerable, and above all, love, which are all characteristics of a healthy relationship. While forgiveness is not guaranteed, if you can offer an apology from the heart, then you have a good chance of repairing your connection.

Divorce is generally a traumatic experience for both parents and kids. For parents, it’s heartbreaking to have to separate from someone you were once in love with. For kids, it’s traumatic to find out that their parents whom they love very much will no longer be together.

It takes patience and time in order to completely deal with a divorce. But with the right approach, families can still maintain the bond they have with each other even after divorce.

As a parent, there are many essential things you need to prepare for as you break the news to your kids. Below are some of the key steps that you can take to prepare your kids for the sad news.

1. Communicate positively

It is important that you maintain a positive attitude as you talk to your kids about the divorce. Positive communication involves reassuring them that everything will be okay as well as avoiding painting your ex-spouse in a bad light. Remember that he or she is still valued by your children. Let them know that they are not the reason for the separation. This will help them cope with it better.

2. Have arguments away for your kids

When a marriage isn’t working out anymore, it is common for parents to get frustrated with each other and turn disagreements into fights. Psychologically, it’s not healthy for your kids to witness these scenarios. With time, the constant fighting will end up affecting them even in adulthood. Ensure that you and your ex-spouse maintain peace and treat each other cordially especially in front of your children.

3. Prepare for questions



As you go through the divorce, you need to prepare for detailed questions from your kids. Expect to be asked questions such as, ‘Where will we live?’ ‘Do we have to move?’ and ‘Why are you getting the divorce?’ Such questions can be really tough to answer especially when you haven’t fully figured everything out. Find ways to answer some of these questions in a way that they can understand. This will help them feel a bit more confident that everything will be okay in the end.

4. Get help

In some cases, talking to them as parents may not be enough. Kids react diffidently to the news that their family might never be the same again. These emotions can manifest in the form of anger, depression or even withdrawal. At this point, it’s recommended that you reach out to a therapist who will help you in the process. It is better to get a therapist or counsellor beforehand.

5. Listen to them

Listening to how your kids feel is an essential part of therapy. You should take time to find out how they are feeling which will help them feel considered and heard. Give them space to communicate honestly with you which will definitely boost their recovery. Don’t underestimate the power of simply listening.

6. Minimize changes to the daily routine

As the divorce happens, among the many changes you will go through is having to move out of the house you shared with your spouse. In order to help your kids cope with the changes, ensure that routines such as school schedules are maintained. This will help them draw their attention away from what is happening and concentrate on other important aspects of their lives.

Mofpearl:
Lol pretend as though you dont know, keep your distance and strategise your exist like a queen.

You mean like dis���

ireneidiva:
Also watch war room and continue preparing his meals on time.

Good point, as a family we watch the film once in a month, sometimes tears rolls down on my eyes while watching cause an guilty of some point �

Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]I totally concur 100%
Listen dear wives, keep calm.
Don't take any irrational decision.
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Thanks for your understanding

donstan18:
Are you normal atall?

Why?