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PrettyEmy:
Is that a good reason to hide his face during the day?
Besides I came here for advice, not to be judged
We are all matured enuf to know what we want
Just stick to the question

Nne I don't know how true this your story, but all the same I will give my own advice. The mistake you made was accepting to date a person that you barely know. Please put everything on hold until you see him during the day. Dear it sounds somehow.if you are asked to identify your bf during the day, what will you tell the person? Stop sleeping with him, as that is the only thing that unites you both.

Truckpusher:
You're e-cheating alone is enough to make any man go bananas.

Oya, throw the stone.

E-cheating with who? Let me stop before I derail this thread

Truckpusher:
A man's wife is another field entirely - You don't screw my wife and expect me not bite.

I will bite and I'll bite dirty just to ensure that I cause a greater pain.

U will bite gini? My dear to salvage your sanity don't even open your mouth, let alone bite . Because by aiming to destroy and pay back, you hurt yourself. It's not worth it.

Truckpusher:

People that aren't ready for the ups and downs of marriages should sit down and ask themselves some fundamental questions before marrying just for the sake of marriage.
Some women are habitual cheats just like some men but the truth remains that I can't imagine my wife opening her legs for another man.I dun die finish be that na.

But ,c'mon ! You wouldn't cheat on me at least not when I'll be leaving my kini behind - mine is detachable .

You will die? That means that all the stronghead you do here, ends in nairaland. Odinma.

PeyButtons:
How much is the fee? Do they offer BED courses? Can study there with a SSCE

Yes they offer BEd. Please go to their website and get the information you need.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You're now being hypocritical because you want (hook or crook) your country man to marry the girl,you stylishly avoided calling her father a tribal bigot but you accuse us of the same thing the father is keen on to avoid the predicament of his friend's daughter.......See your life. [/color]

Do you want to turn this beautiful thread into a war zone? you have given your advice, please let it go

Splendblex:
We command it to speed.Amen

Amen and Amen

Truckpusher:
Nope, what are you insinuating?...lemme know where to discard you with your backward mentality.

Barrow pusher please hit her gently

2Str8:
That's d 2nd place i submitted my Cv, last week tuesday

Ok. just be hopeful God is on the throne.

2Str8:
Getting a teaching job is really difficult here in Abuja especially if you have HND. I have submitted CVs from jikwoyi to karu, maitama, garki, asokoro, orozo etc. Those that were kind enough made it clear i dont have a certificate in education hence my nt being hired. My Cv dey about 13 schools right now yet nothing...Its so very fraustrating abeg....ontop my 3yrs teaching experience o'

Go to Benford international school suncity and submit your cv. its a new school. Although today is the deadline.

manny4life:
God does not like a dirty mind... When I mean women, I mean my aunt and sisters o... Haba, it's not like that o

Ngwa ndo. No dirty mind o

manny4life:

Abeg which kain kweshion be this na? Abeg no make me vex.

#JustKidding..

How come I know all these things? Several women cook for me and also my mom, so what is there not to know?

When you enter market, ask them women, they will show you what and how they look like.

Herzumpter take note. several women cook for him o

Babymama1:
Sekem sekem sekem
Open your legs
Holl hand on your waist
Holl hands on your chest
Sekem sekem

Ezigbo sekem. The ministry is moving.

kennyamusan:
Neither do I understand all you have typed

I see. It means that virginity is not a burden or cross to be carried. Also that you should keep your virgin status between you, God and your partner if you have one. And stop telling it to friends.

kennyamusan:
Dear I am one,for more than 25 years of my life,I v carried it as a burden,its been like a cross I have to carryfor long,My friends have called me all sort of names,I v been rejected by female friends as well cos they see me as inexperienced,they forbid me to talk when it comes to sexual related issues. I must say it is not easy being a male virgin cos even the girls want a guy that is experienced so I don't blame guys themselves,I only pray God give me the graceto keep mine for that special someone.

Carried as a burden? Why if I may ask? Being a virgin is a personal choice thus shouldn't be seen as a cross. About your friends and the girls you just mentioned, why tell them that you are a virgin.I thought that information is meant to be a secret? Apart from the moral aspect of being a virgin, there is also the healthy side where you don't get to worry unnecessarily about STDS etc. So I just don't understand the cross abi burden thing.

Good morning wonderful people. Please can a pregnant woman take malaria drug? Amalar to be specific. She is in her second trimester.

Ilovenigeria:
This Christmas, I told them I am going for Ashoebi, I hv already shown them the traditional attire my tailor made for me whereas I am going to spend two days with my sweetheart.

Really? And if something happens to your enemy on the way, who will grieve most? Sweetheart or the parents. Maybe I am old school, but this idea of love, I don't understand. Just my thoughts dear no hard feelings.

Neyoor:
I don't know why I have an impression that these are the winners and she has jokingly announced the winners

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breadplanets:
Hello fam! My fiance and his people would be coming to our villa next week for 'iku aka' *introduction. Nothing formal just to see my father and tell him their intentions.Im igbo, dont have a sister older or younger. My mum wont be coming back this xmas as she would be saving her trip for the wedding proper so im all alone. I dont have the slightest idea on what to do on that day. Im i supposed to cook for them? If yes what can i prepare. Or im i supposed to ask them what they will eat? *sounds silly* im totally lost cos im not an outgoing sort of person so ive not ever attended anything like this before. Please any ideas? I want my mummy!!!!! *crying*

Congrats the Lord is your strength. Yes you will cook for them.The quantity depends on how many people you are expecting while what to cook depends on what you prefer. Mostly rice and soup if you want. There is nothing much there, before you know it the day will come and pass.I am not married yet but I have an elder sister and two sisters-in-law. So I have witnessed introduction plenty plenty.

Nonso23:
Coming from an active pedophile this is very rich.
You abuse your children and go all guilt tripping on this thread because i pointed it out. I wonder what must be going on in your mind as you take advantage of your own child for sexual gratification. If there is anyone in need of mental checkup you are and that would not be enough because you should be put away in a dark cell. You are a very grave source of danger to all the children(male and female alike) in the world. I'm even disgusted to have to communicate with an active and practicing pedophìle online.
What records, how many cases of female pedophilìa are reported to start with? Don't you know that you owe your current freedom to the lenient system on female pedophilìa else abusers like you would be rotting in jail now. Be thankful and change!

My God!
This is the height of it all.
Are those your fetishes?
Is that how you abuse the innocent children placed in your care. You are not even ashamed to tell us about the harrowing experience you put your male children through just for your perverse sexual gratification.
You are a dangerous person. I hope your husband finds you out and safeguards his children from your perverse clutch.

Really? You mean you sat down to cook up all these just to have the feeling of a winner? You have a point, yes.But it gets to a stage where an argument becomes sickening like yours.Chino biko pass your message across without the poisonous words.

anitank:
This just proves you have a really sick mind. So you suggest that any woman bathing with her son molests him? You're disgusting and need a serious mental check up.

Atleast from history, we all know what "dads" have done to their supposed female kids...from rap!ng them to getting them pregnant. You look like one who could do such a thing because most men like you have no shame and regard for ur manhood, and so you think every other person is like you. What can a woman possibly do to her son in the shower? Give him a blow-job till he cums all over her face?

Bloody sick Animal!!!

Calm down please. When a post is filled with so much venom,it makes the message it aims to pass meaningless.

Rhukie:
@nwababy, if I was your brother's fiance you would complain till thy kingdom come and I won't change. what you termed love and acceptance I see it as imposition of thoughts of what you think is right.

I dated my husband (if registry will count as a wedding) for years and I never for once liked any form of familiarity with them, rarely attend his family function and when I do, you will not find me till in am about to leave for my house. food sef I no go chop before they will say she didn't do anything but knows how to eat.

why should she help you pick money at an event when your younger siblings were present? and don't you think she was trying to avoid an embarrassment from people who don't know who she is while picking the money. and why should you make such statement about her family, when you know nobody likes their family to be bad mouthed and I am sure if the situation had turned around and your brother told you his fiance said what you told her, you may react worse than she did.

there are so many loopholes in your narration and what you termed love actually seem like a controlling and overwhelming act.

Calm down.

Timbuktou:
what would you have suggested given the level of provocation?

Biko we are derailing this thread. I believe he would have handled it any other way minus the pushing and slaping

Timbuktou:
I have no intention of putting words in your mouth. The only problem I have with that account is the slap. You need to consider the level of provocation that would warrant a normally calm-headed fellow to not only kick out his girlfriend in the pouring rain but also accompany that with a slap. First time he shows anger and those are the things he does? Come on, think about it for a minute.

And, oh, enemies should be tied to the gate in the rain. They are enemies for a reason.

First time like he said, agreed but why is he still happy about what he did up till now? I doubt his own calmness biko.Being calm is two types. Calmness with a questionable mind and Calmness with a loving heart.

Timbuktou:
What should he have done, left her inside and entered the rain himself?

Even an enemy deserve less. He pushed her out in the rain as if that wasn't enough punishment, he slapped her. And he is happy. There is truly a tin line between love and hate. And to your question can you please stop putting words in my mouth? I believe you understood me clearly but just want to twist what I said. Thanks

Another virginity thread? Atimes I wonder if people deliberately open this threads so that e-war will ensue between virgins and non-virgins. You don't keep your virginity just for a husband. Rather keep it for yourself.To Op can you stop this nonsense please? You are not married and you know it. I saw your post where you talked about your fiance less than 3 months ago. What is wrong with some people in this forum?