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It does make sense, very much





Talking stage in relationship is just like how medical doctors enquires about the well-being of their patients before they proceed with the main procedure. This also gives the doctor insights on what he is about to perform...



Talking stage should strictly be for talking stage and not for spending or showboating

Best-- Alex Otti Of Abia State


Worst-- my governor Abiodun of Ogun State.

Namaster:
This guy suffered from a severe case of ONEITIS!

Oneitis is especially BRUTAL in INTROVERTED men like OP.

A woman had the AUDACITY to slap him in the face and OP still proceeded to MARRY her.
She turned him into a WIFE-BEATER even before marriage.

Only ONEITIS could do that!

She had an ENDLESS string of TOXIC relationships and OP still did NOT see the writing on the wall.

Oneitis would do that to a man!

OP took the girl to a club and she ABANDONED him to hug and hang out with ANOTHER man. OP still didn't get the messge.

Oneitis would do that too!

This PROBLEMATIC girl was also so DUMB she tried to get OP to sponsor her to NOUN because she was obviously FAILING in her current University at the time.

This girl was a quasi-sentient redflag with a BAD attitude.
But OP ignored them all and still married her.

Why?
ONEITIS!

After marriage, this lady DESTROYED his car, TV and, if that wasn't bad enough, she STABBED OP with a knife.

All it took was JUST 2 months for OP to forgive her and take her back.

A girl tried to MURDER him and he still remained MARRIED to her.

That's the eminent MADNESS caused by the dreaded ONEITIS!

Even after ALL this, OP still has a SPECIAL place in his heart for the woman who attempted to MURDER him.

Oneitis is WORSE than Ebola.
ALL men must avoid it!

Men must oearn to:

1. Tolerate LESS!
2. Forgive LESS!
3. Sacrifice LESS!

The OP forgave an OBJECTIVELY evil woman so MANY times. And that's a TERRIBLE thing!

If a woman CROSSES a boundary and you forgive her, you are REINFORCING bad behaviour.

She'll become BOLDER and cross MORE and BIGGER boundaries more FREQUENTLY.

Before this woman STABBED OP, she'd previously THREATENED him with a knife. But he forgave her.

Because OP TOLERATED and FORGAVE a threat of stabbing, he wound up getting STABBED.

NEVER forgive!
NEVER tolerate!

As Caesar's wife must be ABOVE suspicion, your woman must be FLAWLESS. Or as close to it that it makes no difference.

Because of this woman, OP still lives the life of a FUGITIVE to this very day. Scared SHIIITLESS that the wicked witch would discover his whereabouts.

Don't be like OP!
Don't be a VICTIM of Oneitis!

You've summarized everything

RunawayHusband:
Final Part:

Fastforward after a serious fight in Last quarter of 2019, 65"tv screen , my car was destroyed, and i got Stabbed so, i sent her away .
After 2 months people called , pleaded with me, then we settled and she came back home after 2 months, we have never celebrated WEDDING ANNIVERSARY BEFORE, cos we always fighting before, a day or on the D day.


So in earlier 2020 she was Diagnosed of ARTHRITIS OF THE NECK another Financial waste mole. in the COURSE of the year, I supported her to open business on ORGANIC CREAM production and sale i first donated 150k when her family or so raised her 120k or so i later added more money making 300k total from Me and about 500k to start in total cos she didn't want SHOP at first, so i told her i will give a LOAN of 1M+ so she will pay back, but along we fought i n cancelled the loan thing, because she said she wanted to go to Lagos for an UPDATE CLASS for 4 days or so , she left only on 3rd day she said she is coming back with a Samsung NOTE 9 (as at 2020 the phone was 380k) because i was using Samsung S7 AND S9 then, i knew it cost; so i queried her on call , she said her cousin which i also know was given the device by his Abroad Client (if u know u know) and wants to sell 150k to her, that she dropped 50k, and asked me to pay UP, i said when she comes we sort it, she said she was with it already, i asked her to come home first. when she came i observed the phone was from abroad truly then i said i would pay up 2 weeks after, in the course of the week we fought n her COUSIN called me to intervene, i used the opportunity to ask him about the PHONE, he SAID he HAD NO IDEA wah aamma talking abuh , then i increased the volume, used lighter spark to cook 1 bag OF BEANS so everyone knew again she cheated



Finally it was successful a WEDDING ANNIVERSARY for us, people came to celebrate, ate, dined, drank with us in our Abode and later went clubbing that NIGHT with our guests, then the unfortunate happened, around 12 am we left our guest to go home, my car didn't start, we ordered Uber, she fought with Uber man, he abandoned us, and we tried getting another, so we saw bike but she which took us and half way, we passed our Hospital and she suggested since we do pay for PRIVATE WARD whenever she is sick, that we can go in and pay for a NIGHT and I said God forbid such . Then 5mins after we had an accident on bike, a car passed one way n faced us, that was last thing I remembered After that , she was admitted for a week, I was discharged 3rd day because mine was less jus limping. After she was discharged, we were taking her to some centre's for further test, x-ray and so on.[/b] after 3 weeks my best friend decided to lodge us, him and his babe for a weekend Friday to Sunday, so I told her, on that day we went out I and my friend, then whe went to pick his girl but she had a female friend to join so we had to book addition room, but I didn't inform my ex wife earlier enough, so at the lounge she started instigating I brought my side Chic
my guys spent 80k and we moved to the booked Hotel and she said we not sleeping there any more, my friend pleaded , his girl pleaded but she said no, so she left they Saturday running after her , it was 12am or after then another issue begun. Last last after that day I left home and never returned till date.
[b]The LEGAL BATTLE BEGUN

I gave her ultimatum of 7 days after I slept hotel for a month, then she didn't move out i went home with a police man to take my stuff, she attacked us, used her contact to get DIG in police that same day, they sent for me, I Met a new lawyer of hers, I got 3 lawyers ASAP , i formed my legal TEAM, later I was invited by Commissioner of Police at the state office, she came with this NGO who fight and sue for ABUSED WIFES & WOMEN, so the BATTLE BEGUN.
I gave them evidences from

1: Voice record when she thought I was asleep and tried to strangle me one time

2:pictures of series property Damages
3 pictures when one of her uncle punched me 2019, they both tried to beat me Up,
4: pictures of my Damaged car in 2019
5: video where she attacked me, brought out weapons and held me i wont go out, that she will kill me, and herself , I still have the clip, clear and audible of that mission.

So fast forward the case took 3 years to gave it LEGALLY DONE,
I moved on, relocated ABROAD because she promised to find me.. , now i am married and with a KID
She never believed that was our END, because

she KNEW i loved her 💯 % but wasn't so from her side.

NOTE: Not that I was perfect too, but I am an introvert, I don't womanize , I stopped Smoking weed and drinking 2017 as well, but at some point in the marriage I started drinking Vodka n some shots! Etc that one day while she Hit me i returned it back n gave her BLUE BLACK, closed one eye and never Touched her again. But I never cheated whole 3 years, I was focused despite getting Drawned and drained financially, I didn't have savings again but I settled all bills.
All friends abandoned me, my mum never knew my house for 2 years after we relocated from first place we were staying because people got to know Us in that area as FIGHTING PARTNERS.



THE END!

Learn from my, I am lucky I am alive, got back on track.. one of the rare cases, even the JUDGE testified !

Bro, you really went through a lot... Thank God you pulled through.

Soludo indeed is living solely on his certificates ...



The man obviously is not built for governance!

Congratulations to the Amazon

CodeTemplarr:
So wrapping of book is a sign of advancement now?

If anything is connotes lack of it.

Tell that to that Satafricans

RandDigital:
Wow you guys have been starving for the longest of times. Clearly rice stampedes aren't a new thing. South Africans actually buy brand new wrapping paper for school books. It's the norm.

You sound like a broken record no offence...

brain54:
Bros are you kidding me right now...?

This thing Nigerian kids have been doing since 19 gbelele.

We used old newspaper and wrappers. So this is a new innovation in south Africa?

Wow...!

No mind the guy, when I get say Satafricans are still living in the stone age era some will say they are the most deverope part of Africa...



Something that even I did while in primary school is what these Satafricans are seeing as something unique or maybe they just want to advertise KFC.

Wealthoptulent:

Thanks for the mention...




So much to learn

Wow...




This is expository, so much lessons to learn

Osita and Chinedu have both come a long way

That's why you still habour low mentality towards public office, oga leave that place...




No one cares whether you were from the bush

Wealthoptulent:
No marry WRONG oo!
I have 3 years working experience in this field... 2020 my year of Liberation mo bọ



Nothing jare, I am stronger than them. my EXPERIENCE BIG PASS them, na PHD cert I came out with, 3 years marriage wey be like 40 years Experience, wey she attempted kill me, kill my Career, but I came out Strong.


Hmm I go write am One Day sha. I go marry whom I tot was my best friend of 10 years (who i married her, but ppl thought cos she is almost like aduni ade, that i went for beauty) bt cos I was an introvert n almost no femal friend bt she turned to be my worst Enemy.. i was young too, had a career, was driving different cars
despite living with my folks, future was bright, i could have thoroughly inspected her toxic from onset.. she asked me out indirectly at fess but later asked her out properly, in early stage PEOPLE WARNED ME! but u can't advice a young Guy with MONEY, IN LOVE. but I paid the Price, everything disappeared , i onle left marriage with jus cars, my CERTIFICATES + MARRIAGE CERT, i forfeited other properties she even removed Kitchen cabinet his story is like mine, I left, I filed for DIVORCE, then she went thru her lawyer tried to remove me from FG job n so many things.. it's a crazy world, 90% women are after SUCCESSFUL Men & MONEY..
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If ANY ONE WANT the FULL STORY, COMMENT WHICH SECTION i should WRITE IT.. I am courageous now!



Section ?

Family or relationship section would be OK

Wealthoptulent:
No marry WRONG oo!
I have 3 years working experience in this field... 2020 my year of Liberation mo bọ



Nothing jare, I am stronger than them. my EXPERIENCE BIG PASS them, na PHD cert I came out with, 3 years marriage wey be like 40 years Experience, wey she attempted kill me, kill my Career, but I came out Strong.


Hmm I go write am One Day sha. I go marry whom I tot was my best friend of 10 years (who i married her, but ppl thought cos she is almost like aduni ade, that i went for beauty) bt cos I was an introvert n almost no femal friend bt she turned to be my worst Enemy.. i was young too, had a career, was driving different cars
despite living with my folks, future was bright, i could have thoroughly inspected her toxic from onset.. she asked me out indirectly at fess but later asked her out properly, in early stage PEOPLE WARNED ME! but u can't advice a young Guy with MONEY, IN LOVE. but I paid the Price, everything disappeared , i onle left marriage with jus cars, my CERTIFICATES + MARRIAGE CERT, i forfeited other properties she even removed Kitchen cabinet his story is like mine, I left, I filed for DIVORCE, then she went thru her lawyer tried to remove me from FG job n so many things.. it's a crazy world, 90% women are after SUCCESSFUL Men & MONEY..
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If ANY ONE WANT the FULL STORY, COMMENT WHICH SECTION i should WRITE IT.. I am courageous now!

Write your own experience for us who are still looking for a partner, we might learn a thing or two from you...





Mention me when you start 😂

That's his personal problem and for his financial benefit

Make them start abeg so my younger brother can benefit

When did you become spokesperson for the North?






Political jobber

Since Lagos their Yoruba nation's capital is crowded and can't be seen as a village again na and their own village still be village of 18th century

I'm looking for wife to marry, maybe an opportunity to grab one of those beauties...😅










African pastors and their dumb prophecies

😂


The dipso Wike keeps copying the clown Tinubu in politics, Tinupoop made himself lord in Lagos and is now prepping his son to takeover from Sanwo-Olu, the dunk Wike claims he rules Rivers State with or without Fubara and his now using his sorn as another Seyi...






Clowns, no wonder Nigeria is a huge comedy circus 🎪

And the devil is using Tinupoop to welcome them to the Northern part of Nigeria 🇳🇬?





Average Arewa is now aware that Tinubu is using the French troop to distabilise their region... They post it on Facebook, TikTok and whatnot. I stay with them.

Ebonyi has two; Alex Ekwueme Federal University and David Umahi Medical University


Enugu also has two; UNN and the new Federal University of Health Sciences Enugu at the present Dental College. UNTH should rather be made the main campus of this new university with its Teaching Hospital at the Dental College which is in the city because Ituku-ozalla is quite far from the city because of emergency cases.

The People's Governor for a reason

Congratulations to her...




Arewa really needs to invest more in female education!

Evidenx:
What if you don't wake up?

Go to church,I warn you.

Back from church on New Year Day

Welcome to Tinubulation

In my bed sleeping 😴...








Will wake up to a New Year by God's grace!

No matter how luxury and classy the foods look, Mama Nkechi and Iya Basira foods at the road side will always taste better










...and also cheap!

When the issue of insecurity is abated

This is how the oneness amongst Nigerians is supposed to be until the devil implants APC and Tinubu amongst us





Congratulations nwanne! Agbaa ooo!!!

Yes ooo, I will advise Tinubu to do same