2buff:

I repeat again, In this age of technological advancement, no girl needs to go thru this.
Please be sharp and use your head. Don't tell me all of you just watch oyibo film for watching sake.

Simply take a sound recorder along with you on one such occasions and record the entire conversation (making sure he says a whole lot of incriminating things) and that's it. You have him in the palm of your hand.

OR

If he has a wife, meet up with him somewhere and have a firend follow to snap picture of you and him and threaten blackmail.

Your options are limitless. Stop being a bloody cry-baby!

Do u think that it is a wise idea to pay evil wif evil?. Remember 2 wrongs don't make a right.