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Baba let me burst your bubble small truly if I were fvcking rich I'll be fucking random pussu till I'm 30 and probably wouldn't marry buh hey She's not a liability She's presently working with this new generation bank and I'm not a broke guy oh, I'm presently facing financial struggle that doesn't mean baby boi would remain that way hahba seems nobody has ever being in ma shoes in this forum

yeyerolling:
Weak men everywhere. U are not ready for marriage.let her be. U think say marriage na play ni. U wey no get 50k. The mum go later advise her to pack out. And u be igbo boy o. Smh

so because baby boi said he doesn't presently have up to 50k in his account and they've started seeing him as weak this life self.... once She's in my house I would see how the mum would advice her out!

tetula123:
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.
At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age. So you are always left with "Nkechiyere" anyone that comes from them willingly. To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23. And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.
I mean where is the money??
You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.
Still putting hands in to many things hoping for good. All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude. You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls. When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies. Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.
Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back. Then one day she calls you and asks you "where is this relationship heading to?.
You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship. Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her. And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.
You just hold yourself and play the good guy. You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well". Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.
You have to be the cool guy and wish her well. One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself. She was talking to the guy a long time before now.
Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played. Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time. Would you have made it or not? She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.
In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already). I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend. No comparison there.
And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about. And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else. Your heart is broken into smithereens. In this hall of fame, you are all victims. Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.
At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.
To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now. And that's your home and abroad. Can life be more unfair at this moment?
6 years later. You are 30 now. Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become. You are one of the happening guys in town. You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit. Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall. You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by. Of course, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves. That's part of the job description. Sampling. And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall. You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave. She is 24, ripe for marriage. Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears. She loves how it sounds.
You are on chat with her always.
And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.
Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her. Why do there chats seem more like interview. And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of
"Where is this relationship going to". And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken.
You see we are always going to do this to ourselves.
Written by @jaetomz

this matter is stale come up with something better

phemmyfour:
You must be joking, you can't even feed yourself conveniently and you are thinking about marriage. A man that cannot feed himself and two extra mouth should not think about marriage.

Go and look for money and forget about girlfriend ish. Your wife to be is probably still in 100l

just see how wicked this one is sounding, so u feel I can't feed myself this country mentality is really bad just Co's baby boi says he presently can boast of 50k in his account that's where ur conclusion is coming from is alright, well marriage isn't until u have 10milli in your account OK

ipobarecriminals:
very simple.U can do a low budget marriage. nah.u dnt need to save million b4 d deadline. Make arrangee with ke e maruwa driver to carry u up/down. Get tailor to sew u Ankara.If possible. u can starch and iron it b4 dday.Buy sweet plus minerals at least nan 6 peeps go show fave

truly the heart of men is evil.!

Ever8054:
note:-this is for girls whose vagina is still tight and useful not those ones who can simply ask there partner to walk Into there vagina and bring out the condom.....

Jesus Christ people can be mean seriously the way u even explained it,I feel that u don't have conscience at all, my ghod and come to think of it we got some girl in this category serious if I start mentioning names the afonjas would dominate

ipobarecriminals:
marriage is not by FORCE.Dnt allow anybody to rush/stampede u.U can do registry marriage. with just 6 pipu in attendance. Dnt go live beyond ur means.Dnt borrow to impress anybody or u'll end up miserable. Can u afford mini flat/3 bedroom flat?A understanding partner will stick/gum to u thick and tin..if u borrow to fund/sponsor ur marriage,i'm sure she'll abandon u wen mama Seun dat supply u rice/drink on credit,malam wey supply u cow,and chinyere wey give u wedding gown on credit com knocking ur door mouth.Leave her now b4 God leave u

this your advice take style rugged but thanks all the same I'm just looking for any one who has experience in marriage issues and probably can understand what is like when you've made up your mind to marry someone but Nigerian conditions won't allow your matter be on fleek so please I could probably start saving and flex less but I won't able to make up to half a mllli before the deadline so I'm just wanting an advice on who ever did something simpler without spending much and without owing anyone I don't even want much guest self

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overtime I sometimes wonders if education has any impact to Nigerians why the hell will u kill that kind of creature hahba the idiot is even smiling u couldn't even preserve life anything una see dinner is ready the day una go kill witch or wizard wey take animal shape that day una belle go hear am thank God for ma life I haven't killed any animal since I've being born.

general111:
the reason why you can't do without her is because you think you can do without her..

bro seems u don't just want to understand, seriously I'm a correct flexing guy based in Lagos and with the kind of job I do I'm always seeing at important gathering and I'm not really popular per say but I've got lots of female friends and the one's who would do anything to be ma babe, most of em are even prettier than this ma fiance but I don't trust Nigeria ladies and this is the only one I've made peace with over time to trust Co's I've texted her in everywhere and she passed with flying colours, I even once gave ma boss her contact to try woo her and that one chop insult of life and ma said boss had a PhD in woman matters I've never seeing a lady turn him down Co's hes got everything a woman can wish for but this ma Yeye babe blasted his ancestors for trying to flaunt material stuff with her,please sir tell me how many babes u knw can try that,

memories1:
Wow! At least break up the epistle with paragraphs so it'd be easy on the eyes.

madame don't be vexed I couldn't start doing all that u knw say we no go school, just manage read am anyhow.

Mutemenot:
Afonja crews your help needed with immediate velocity after 6 years of free Olosho Some men sha, still want free puna after 6 years

so of all thing you could understand it's punna that u feel was free ba I'm just watching u continue

general111:
haahahh....bro I just the laf u self..u beta forget that girl and look for a damsel in her early 20s..shey you have forgotten about the biological clock of a lady..

I presently don't care the lady has really being ma inspiration as in She's all I've got Co's seriously no other lady entices me I don't have feeling for any other lady if I don't hear from her in a day na die for me and u know I can't call this infatuation

Hello guys please I only need your advice don't insult me please abeg dakun!!!! I'm presently 25years and I met this lady around when I was 19 was obviously in 100l same as her then we become serious somehow with the relationship around second semester so we continued dating from 100l and around two hundred level we still continued and everything felt like love was really meant for us, around 300l we started living together as couples rented an apartment and we stayed there till finals after graduating we immediately got posted but around when we were still waiting for call up letter her mother called once evening she didn't know I was lying close to her and moreover the phone she was using as at then had a little problem Meaning she must put the phone on speaker for a better conversation, so that was how the other started advising her that she should start thinking of her life we were about 23 years thereabout that once she gets to the camp she should look for sons of Senator or any top politicians to bring home and forget about that boy She's deciving herself with although they spoke in Yoruba language as I'm not a Yoruba indigen but the little years I spent in that varsity has taught me little and trust me I may not he able to speak but I understand almost everything especially when spoken to or about tears filled ma eyes though I almost wanted to reply the woman immediately but I had to hold myself Co's this lady Co's really I love her just about so much, I didn't say after she ended the call,she was the one who started laughing and telling me not to mind her mum,I was just thinking inside of me that the heart of men are evil and the only thing that prompted me into thinking that way was that same woman found out about our relationship around 100l she didn't break it then when it was fresh the said girl wasn't getting any reasonable amount from home when I say reasonable just believe me it was really bad I was practically getting 3times the amount that was sent to her monthly but since She's someone who can manage for Africa she was incharge of ma ATM so practically she never scamed me she was loyal as he'll, never cheated all our stay on campus and to an extent the mother knew that the only reason this girl wasn't into complaining is Co's I was there for her I'm ready to scam the living hell out of ma folks to make sure we're living fine on campus, so I was practically her daddy so that was where ma pain was coming from from for the first time she refered to me as a boy just because school has finished note I'm from the eastern part of this Yeye country, so we finally went for service during the service year na just heart attack they always worry me anytime I think of that conversation or anytime I see her with a picture with another guy probably looking fresher or more cashed then I am, service finished since 2016 We graduated 2015 , and as at year 2018, this same girl as broken up with me disrespectfully 3times on ordinary What's app with no solid reason,thou the break up didn't last more than 4hours(she begged and we continued) now the Almighty problem is that She's obsessed about marriage and She's also 25,I'm not saying She's too small oh but I'm just saying baby boy isn't ready for marriage becos this country is really bad I can't boast of 50k in ma account, and she has giving me from now till December that if I don't make an obvious move about our marriage I should just forget about her, please any YORUBA man or woman who can advice me on the cheapest way I can handle a weeding I mean directions on how I'll go about moves and I won't end up in depts please I've got less than 8Months and truly I love her and She's really I mean dead in love with me but her mom is the one instigating and brainstorming her head with marriage if I've got the means I would have married her long ago and avoid this irrelevant heart attack! please help! mods kindly push to front page!

ceejayx:
Smh I knew she will be there #teamMaseratti

I'm pretty sure this man is a very huge fan of Lots of porn sites for u to have known masaratti omg, I doff hat for u������

if I can sell my certificate for #100m, blood of God not only ma certificate I'll give birth send the child to study medicine and after graduating I'll add that certificate as the bonus for buying my useless bsc seriously 80% of Nigerian youth aren't using there certificate for anything there' isn't any much different between educated folks an none educated folks all of us dey house some are teaching some na bet9ja be their office.

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I've already downloaded the PDF although I'm yet to read it, I just Hope it's really helpful Co's Seriously we guys needs to wise up,all these ladies be taking us for a full and it's about time we change the game and turn the table around!

What some ladies don't understand is that he never meant that, actually he was trying to flirt with this new side chick who eventually knows about u,and the only thing he could possibly tell her to make her still think he's about being serious with her is to tell her that his just passing time with u,in other wolds making the side chick believing there's possibilities for her, but what do I know when u can't mind your business snoozing throu his phone ewu since you've broken up maybe the next guy would be a saint!

[quote author=tspouse post=66396787]Please guys help.

My girlfriend turn fiance switch off and hide her phone whenever we are together. Anytime I ask her to give me her phone she gave unnecessary excuses. Is that enough reason for Me to suspect her because am already suspecting her Please I need your advise, fhe thing maybe that She's not wanting any disturbance anytime You're together or probably She's hiding something from u,seriously woman cant be trusted this days especially when You're planning on making her your wife man take a second look be courageous and fvcking ask her What's with the hiding of phone...

so they're are trying to tell us that there isn't any life guard on the ground y d hell would there be a pool and no instructor that's really absurd, RIP young blood

all these things You're saying mostly aren't even in anyway considered a reason not to stay with a man, I'm not saying it's not close enough but regardless the reverse can always be the case !!! the most important thing here is communication and understanding definitely You're going to scale through...

Onlysage:
Can i register for jamb tomorrow saturday? Urgent

yes u can but go very early so you'll get captured

Fynestboi:

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please anyone with past questions for practice i mean an application or in PDF format should kindly chart me up on what'app here 0812 619 9685, I'm talking of these year Jamb oh

as long as it's not scam I'm here 08166235558