Nossa:


Making his girl know is simple, just buy the drugs any day you're certain his girl will come around and plant it in corners of the house where she'd see it, then sit back and watch the drama unfold.

damnnnnn you're such a bad bitch I'll try this once I've noticed he's not wanting to take ma advice sometimes i wonder y she's not even aware of the whole thing well how can she be aware if u see the way he's always composed around her u won't believe he could down a bottle of beer but if we're together then he's madness would start.

descrisom:

Be more closer to him...
Always make sure he didn't feel lonely...
Take him out when's bored so that u can talk more and laugh

lol u for turn me to nanny na I've got work I do he's also working most times we don't even see until weekend and we do communicate mostly on charts well I'll try to always spend time with him and talk him out possibly

chccho:


Bro this is the best advice u can get here. U need to have a down to earth conversation with him and possibly invite a 3rd party or else u might end up losing that friend of yours.. i have seen people die from substance/alcohol abuse.
There are now psychiatric hospitals in lagos that can help give proper therapy to addicts like your friend.

hahba I feel he needs a rehabilitation center not a psychiatric hospital nde mdemadu thanks all the same

akee01:
pls i need those drugs asap

can u tell us the name of the drugs so we'll see if I could start by running a recommendation for him thanks

dammymadboi:
why are are u saying the same thing over. It's like u have made up your mind not to report to people that'll help him .you have two options .save his life or save your soon to be dead relationship with him .p.s stop saying baby boy it's annoying or are u gay or something

bros I Want to try talking to him one last time if he doesn't listen to baby boi then I'll have no choice than to involve he's mum,and wife to to be,NOTE, I'm not and would never be gay the fact that I refer to myself as baby boi on a norms is due to the fact that I cherish myself a lot man,.do give yourself a sweet name of leave ma baby boi alone.

ipobarecriminals:
dnt put dat girl life in danger. po.Dnt allow the pathetic fellow to kill d girl wen he get high.zd best. person dat can help him recover nah his moma/pastor if he have amy.Prayer is it

pastor khe he's a Muslim,

Countersam:


Please stop whining already and speak out about it to his parents. He needs help fast cause his life is at stake. Dont tell the fiance yet cause she might leave him if the addiction is that bad, i just dont believe she doesn't know.

he's mother is the only one active dad has kicked the bucket long ago and this guy is really the type of person thats always very aggressive to his mother especially if she's always wanting to advice him and most times when I'm there I blame it on the drugs he's taking !! moreover I dear to say that she isn't aware this dude is always very composed anytime he's with the lady if not that I know about the side effect on an individual I also wouldnt have noticed the only thing that got me knowing is that we attended the same varsity and back then it was a normal something we do to read or chase after fresher's although baby boi only took it occasionally back then but my nigga is Now something else and really I care for him but I'm petty sure he wouldn't be very Happy if I burst he's bubble's despite the fact that he confided in me�����������

grinface98:
I swear, bro. I've been there. I used to be addicted for over for years. It was impossible for me not to pop at least 300mg daily. Stopped that sh** early this year- January to be precise- when I knew organ failure was close. The withdrawal symptoms were hell, literally. Thank God for my life!

bro yours is best I really wish he was popping 300milli but this motherfucker paddy of mine would start with 400 in the morning and in the afternoon he may pop 300-200 but any evening this guy would still pop another 400,and everyone would look like a little chicken in his presence there was a time I innocently drank a bottle of coke I met in his car seriously u need to see baby boi I almost got fired from the little place I'm managing to make small change babi boy slept from exactly 6pm till 1pm the following day despite ma mind blowing 5am alarm and also I still woke up at intervals but the way ma system was just sweeting me eh I almost fainted when I saw the time, I had to call in sick and claim my enemy had an accident....

loteliz:
Please, let his fiancée know. You can't watch her marry a drug addict. He must change before getting married to anyone. The problem here is that, he isn't fighting to stop. Yes, he needs help but he has a very big role to play. He needs to know and agree that this drug has negative effects on him and then make efforts to stop.

it's okay ma the thing is that baby boi has being in this type of situation before nd honestly when u call bae to tell her and the guys deny such act as he is a very good actor and then reverse the matter to make it seem like baby boi isn't happy for them or has interest in her, and ladies eh can believe anything there man tells them even if it's a lie!, I'm just wanting to see how I could make him leave it carelessly maybe in his car or apartment where he's Obaby would see it and since she's a nurse she should be able to know the drug and probably confront him, as for me I'll rather tell his mum than tell a bi*tch who would latter turn on me....

daewoorazer:

Addiction is a serious stronghold and a ‘respecter’ of no one. The only sure way is to get him a serious white collar job where he knows he needs to be at his best at all times.

In the evenings, make sure you are around him chilling in some social gatherings or hangouts...

Good luck!

serious white colar job u say, funny this one doesn't respect me he's always having it anywhere on him especially when he's around me the most annoying thing is that the aboki who keeps basket at the entrance of our estate happens to be he's major supplier!, I mean it's an everyday thing I even told him to reduce his intake I didn't even say stop and he told me instead of reducing that the level is to increase....

tetula123:
the thing makes you feel too old in your own skin..i feel that talk my bro.. these ladies won't kill us.. imagine at 23(last year) I was bothering myself cause I wanted to prove I can get rich overnight, just because of one woman.

u gigg we gotta stay woke else they'll push into doing something funny to satisfy them at this ma 25years baby boi be feeling old and Co's he's just desperate to meet up to one Yoruba babe expectations

yeyerolling:
better by far dey ur profile, face tanke slang too, ;Dno worry baby gal go soon see ya post

goodnews is that baby girl doesn't know that there's anything as nairaland seriously and even if she did I'll simply deny It could be a random post from someone that's probably facing something similar to hers

fireback:
guy free this girl naa. at least she don try. for good 6yrs, haba. now she want to settle down and you're not ready, yet still want her to wait for more years. she's even the one begging you to let her go. don't you understand the different BTW school life and real life. both of you were just living a school life for the past 6yrs, which is normal among students. but holding her down after graduation is what I don't like. this is time for hustle. go and make money. and ladies will line up begging you for marriage, then you will be left with choice.

this you'r advice just spoil my mood this night see how u even said it just free her, how do I free her I'll just say honey or babe we need talk nairalanders said I should free u OK bye just like that and one Yoruba babe go come use to covenant that follows virginity to swear for ma enemy

coldFLARES1:
Young man, it's a well-wisher that'll advise you to find stability before contracting marriage. The wedding bills may appear big but then you may as well find friends and family that would render some assistance, but once married, you are largely on your own and please do note that the demand of balancing a home post-wedding is not beans.

For a 26yr old man whose gf graduated same time as you, chances are slim that you'd be totally ready when her agitation to get settled to procreate starts. If you say yours is love, simply grow out of it however painful it would be for you.

We seen; we've tasted; we've been roasted, but we are still here. .........and that is what qualifies me as an experienced older bruh.

the way u say grow outta it sounds easy did I mention she's the first lady I met and I've done everything with truth is that baby boi have sampled other pus*y low key but none has made baby boi forget his number 1 and for real she hasn't given me any reason to leave her she's just too good I'm not saying she's perfect oh but she's just the right person for me and I know it

tetula123:
hahaha bro please leave that 100level thing I met mine in my 300l and she was in 200l I planned the usual eat and go but one thing lead to another me fell in love like never before don't know if it was how good the kitten is, even when she cheated( I wasn't a saint too) several times I still didn't mind. reading your story I saw a picture of myself,just graduated and waiting for service at same time hustling to at least feed myself. her family and friends been telling her to leave me she finally yielded( I swear if I get better money now I go marry her). But man got focus I still think of her and still love her but there's nothing I can do. just had to let go. the only thing is we still fu*k but nothing serious.

lol bad guy good thing you're still screwing that pus*y the whole thing Don make me dey feel too old in ma own skin, she's not wanting to leave me as well as she still obviously believes in ma ability to make a good husband but I don't know where it's even a crime to be in love with someone in almost the same age as u! damn if it's in other countries now this matter wouldn't have being a big deal.

Hello good evening guys hope we good?
let me go straight to the point I've got this friend of mine who stays in the same estate her with me in ibeju-lekki area this young man is in his late twenties and also a graduate, this his addiction started way back when we were still undergraduate.

He used to use this particular drug just because of reading sake Co's he once told me his brain it's always at it's peak whenever his on this drug and he tends to assimilate anything he reads, now he's outta school though he got side hustle put guys my guy is outta hand the rate at which he takes this drugs now is alarming the reason I'm saying this is simply on the fact that I was with him yesterday evening and I needed him to enter d number of a mechanic he recommended for me to fix ma car,... his hand was really shaking badly that I noticed he had to quickly adjust by using the other hand to hold on to the phone, I tried engaging him into a man on man conversation but he reluctantly snapped out! so when we drove to his apartment I noticed just when his was about to take a leak just outta curiosity I entered his room and saw lots of sachets of these particular drugs I mean lots of it, so I confronted him and there he goes telling me he can't go a day without taking nothing less than 800-1000mg I didn't know when I said Jesus, and he is always aggressive I'm just feeling very concerned the thing is that he doesn't listen to me on matters like this, and he's fiance is a nurse and she's also not aware of his addiction

His mother too isn't aware although both his mum and girl are close to me I'm thinking of bringing them into talking to him especially his fiance Co's I know he loves and respects her and would most likely listen to her, but at the same time I don't want to be seeing as a snitch and end up spoiling our relationship he'll never tell me anything and most likely won't trust me! how Do I bring them to know about this without making it all pointing to me, note I'm the only one he opened up to.. even he's fiance as close as she is she has no idle about his addiction and seriously assuming he's only taking it occasionally I won't mind or maybe taking it on a low quantity I'll just be about fine but a thousand mills daily hahba he needs help!

itsdumebi:
Below is a statement signed by the president's media aide, Femi Adesina;

At the Commonwealth Business Forum in London on Wednesday, April 18, 2018, President Muhammadu Buhari gave a keynote address on Making Business Easier Between Commonwealth Countries. The presentation was followed by a discussion, and question and answer session.

Responding to a question, President Buhari had cause to talk about some Nigerian youths, and he said: " We have a very young population; our population is estimated conservatively to be 180 million. More than 60 per cent of the population is below the age of 30. A lot of them have not been to school and they are claiming that Nigeria has been an oil producing country, therefore they should sit and do nothing and get housing, healthcare and education free.”
Typical of their stock in trade, manipulators and twisters of statements of Mr President, who lie in wait to make mischief, interpreted the comment to mean that President Buhari had taken all Nigerian youths to the cleaners. But elementary English recognizes a wide gulf between "a lot of" and the word "all." How can "a lot of them," suddenly transmogrify to mean “all of them?” Mischievous and unconscionable!

There is no way President Buhari, father of the Nigerian nation in every sense of the word, who equally has biological children of his own in the youths age bracket, pass a vote of no confidence on all youths. It can only exist in the imagination of those who play what the President has described as "irresponsible politics" with everything.

President Buhari has always applauded and celebrated Nigerian youths who excel in different areas of endeavour, from sports, to academia, and other realms. And he will continue to do so, because he values the youths, and knows that they are the fulcrum on which the future of the country rests.

Indeed, every country has its share of idle population, and it is the bounden duty of government at all levels, to create an enabling environment for them to actualize their potentials. That is what President Buhari is committed to doing.

The focal areas of the administration; securing the country, reviving the economy, and fighting corruption, are actually intended to give youths a future and a hope. This much was emphasized in an April 5, 2018 comment by President Buhari, while receiving Letter of Credence from the Head of Delegation of the European Union to Nigeria, when he said: " Our insistence on probity is to encourage people to be accountable, and accept honesty as a lifestyle so as to secure the future of our youths.’’ The President also said more than 60 percent of Nigerians fall into the age category of youths and deserve to inherit a stable and prosperous country that they can be proud of, adding that the government will work assiduously to prevent waste and the depletion of resources by corrupt Nigerians.

It is futile for mischief makers to lie in wait, and take a minor part of the words of the President, and turn it into negative commentary, peradventure they could diminish the profile of the President. Nigerians across all walks of life know who is serving them faithfully and truly, and they will always reciprocate such fidelity as occasions demand.

https://politicsngr.com/presidency-reacts-buharis-comment-nigerian-youths-lazy-uneducated/

it's not of ma business my own is that I've dusted my PVC that's all I've got to say!

akum78:
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it's alright no problem, the good news is that since on Wednesday that the president said whatever he said I've being looking for my PVC, and I finally found it this afternoon in ma office if u see the joy on ma face the way I was dusting it, even ma coworkers had to ask me y I'm I just smiling In such manner I only answered buhari is fvucked by 2019,

BoneBlogger:
There was pandemonium earlier today after armed robbers attacked First bank in Ifake Ekiti, Ekiti state. The hoodlums were said to have killed a mobile police officer who was stationed at the bank as they carted away with an undisclosed amount of money.

The incident has attracted a large number of residents who gathered in their numbers after the robbery as security operatives arrived the scene few hours later.

The corpse of the slain policeman is yet to be evacuated as at the time of filing this report.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/armed-robbers-attack-first-bank-in-ifake-ekiti.html

this country is becoming really scary an unarmed police officer just wasted regardless it's the doing of our president the youths are only trying to prove to him that they aren't lazy as he said, come to think of it I'm not vexed at robbers trying to get there share of the stolen money the only thing that gets me angry is killing anyone that's not how the rub in places like America you're supposed to hold them hostage and do Wat u came for, that's how all those idiots killed innocent people in offa weeks back! #pathetic country

1acre:
Freeze... run your church , do your thing ...you also mind the way you abuse men of God .. you are just too judgemental and it’s just so sticky

truth is that I really don't know what to believe again the whole Christianity is turning into something else

Nnaabros:
At this point, I didn’t care who he would have sex with if only that would make him stay off me till our honeymoon.

For a week, we lived in the same room but talked less to each other. He was always angry with me. What a way to start a married life. I was determined. To me, that was the right thing to do. The church frowns on sex before marriage, not that I also frown on it, I had a different motivation. I wanted the first sex to be unforgettable. I was saving my best for last and for no one but him. So why was he rushing?
Then one night things got worse. Martin came home with a friend. He was too drunk he couldn’t have made it home without the help of his friend. We had spent two arduous months together. I was sad for him. “Is he going through all that because of sex?” I asked myself. I left him in the coach till he woke up at dawn and came to sleep next to me. He was smelling like a rotten fish. I couldn’t stand it so I woke up, picked a pillow and started walking away to sleep in the coach. He pulled me over and tried forcing himself on me. We’ve been through this tussle over and over again and I always won. I was used to it. This time, something was different. He was stronger and determined.


We struggled and fought for about fifteen minutes. He seemed to get stronger by the minutes while I was losing steam. He managed to tear off my pant and held my two hands apart with his two hands. We were both left with our legs to struggle with. I got tired and realized I couldn’t fight any longer. I kept my calm. He sensed the victory and quickly dashed over to have me. That was when I raised my right knee and unfortunately, my knee caught him in the balls. He fell over and screamed out loud. He suddenly got frozen. I’ve never been scared in my life. I thought I had killed him. I tried calming him down but he kept whining in pains. Neighbors who heard him screaming started knocking on our door. I rushed to put on a dress and opened up the door. It was very embarrassing seeing neighbors in my room trying to help him regain his calm. After a lot of going up and down, he regained his calm. We were left alone.

The next morning, he packed what he had in the house and left. I didn’t ask him any question. I feared he might hit me. I left to my parent. I kept playing out the incidence in my mind over and over again. I kept asking myself; “Did I take this no sex thing too far.” I believe I did. He never picked my calls for three days. My parent and I went to meet him and his parent to try and resolve the issue but he didn’t listen to a word of what we had to say. All he said was he wanted a divorce. Two weeks later, his parent and other family members came over to dissolve the marriage.
That was it. My marriage lasted for only two and half months. What breaks my heart is the fact that I gave sex to those who didn’t deserve it. They had sex and left anyway. This one—Martin did everything right but I allowed fear to take over my senses. Recently, I heard from another pastor saying that traditional marriage is also marriage and sex is allowed after traditional marriage. If that was true, how stupid could I be? I was married and I didn’t even know it?


Three and half years after our break-up, I attended a wedding—Martin’s wedding with another lady I knew so well. I’m here, still single after six years of our breakup. Guess what, I had a boyfriend. We had sex but the relationship didn’t go well so we broke up. Back to single again.

so even after I've had the traditional marriage with u, u still chose to refuse me the koko, ladies can be wicked maybe you'll go and give it to your pastor ah, she even killed his balls as killed ma fvcking balls ma god that guy Is really I good guy !!! that's the line ma dear and u just crossed it

yeyerolling:
so u be unilorin guy . the truth be say her mum doesn't see u worthy, don't be surprised baby gal get person wey wan marry am and is giving u ultimatum u cant meet up with hahahaha

I never mentioned that I'm an alumni of unilorin how u find out, detectives on NL

phemmyfour:
You have no biz with marriage if you don't have a reasonable income. Only a lazy, unreasonable and wicked man start a family like that. It hurts but that's the simply truth.

A man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel

its your kind of person that would push your sister to the hands of yahoo boy's, hahba so if I'm earning up to 100k monthly that means I don't have a reasonable income your matter worst I swear you're suppose to give a better advice instead ranting hates u dont know me and ma Worth and dont just judge baby boi cos he said he doesn't have 50k in the account presently its only OBO that can have 30milli in the account .

elyna:
I laugh in Yoruba language. I just hope you're ready for whatever is coming next ? that being said I really respect your courage.

thanks oh I respect your laughter too.

yeyerolling:
See your life. Dat gal deserves beta

heart of men assuming I had a sugar mummy would I be asking for your advice, he without sin should cast the first stone .

tetula123:
believe me bro, don't rush it, you comfortable but the fact is you still don't have enough,having a car doesn't make you comfortable, just relax, with what you wrote now I feel you got potential but don't let love make you do things in a hurry. I am in same shoe as you, just a year younger than you and the girls family already making her feel I am not useful (mind you I am yet to serve till November) I am still struggling trying to make ends meet, and they already telling her marriage.
I decided to focus on myself because I might end up doing something I will regret. don't let her pressure you if she can't wait let her go Nnwane.

brother moral of the lesson for all undergraduate is that once you're in 100l please forget serious relationship just fvck the puccy and don't be committed wait probably when you're in 300l or 400 then u can start the search that's if you're sure you're going to make some serious cash ,that's the mistake I made started dating immediately I enter school I get luck I didnt even face tanke but its sure affected my cgpa buh hey baby boi isn't infatuating he's just really sure he have found the right one ....

staggerman:
Listen bro...
Money does not make a man.
Man makes money.
At the appointed time, your finances will change.

You don't need only money to have a family...

To get married to the woman of your dreams is important. You are lucky to have found one.

Simply schedule an introduction with her family.
Keep it low key.
Get the list and negotiate it with her dad.
If they love you, they will make it easier for both of you.
Your girl can persuade her family to make things easy for both of you.

The bet marriages are not those with millions as budget.

Our great grand parents had low key ceremonies but happy marriages.

After the introduction ceremony, start providing the items in the list gradually. You can monetize some of the items... For Nigeria, we no dey marry woman one day.
Small small u go complete the items.

Meanwhile, you can have a court wedding. It will cost u less than 20k for everything.
Court marriage is legitimate.

Later, if you choose, you can have another low key church wedding.

Don't listen to those who make it sound as if you need unlimited fund before you can get a wife.

Some people were rich before marriage, but lost their income due to sickness, or job loss or business failure... Does that mean the marriage will end? Or cannot be sustained?

Go with what you have.
He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

God bless you so much man infact you're the best thing ever any lady or a man could have as a friend, seriously so far you're among those that said something meaningful in a long while here, I've being thinking to make the move afteral my father didnt have a dime when he married my mother and today he owns nothing less than 3cars and two solid house all in Lagos here with tenant paying annually shey he's marriage stop him from hustling as a gradaute and the man even married while he was still a student and earlier than ma age Now I'm a graduate with a woman who is also working in a bank and some bad belle just dey make me feel as if na ma matter worst pass, just negodu

ObinnaVal93:
wait o...with wat u HV said u fink u don't deserve rain of abuses...I kuku trust nlanders..comon get out!!!!! first English zero..second ur brain na catarrh and coconut dey inside??...so becos she gv u deadline u wan borrow to 'wed'...so after d 'wedding' wat becomes of d 'marriage'...ngwa nu go and kee yasef na...lover boy..d worst part z u re an easterner... probably from anambra...cos na dem dey mumu dz type of mumu...no easterner from O TOWN can zuzu dz type of zuzu....egbon gv yasef brain...e nu ??

well its alright for the record its true anambra guys are foolish sorry to burst your bubble I'm from abia state and thats not mumu I suppose u haven't felt the four coners of an institution but you are here ranting hates oga go and sit your sorry ass down I don't need your useless advice ,its your papa brain that mucus would fill up with . ewu as if I ever mentioned borrowing for wedding motherfvcker

happy200:
Chuksonia. Convience her and her parents and few friends then do only court marriage for now then after you can do the rest. Try to explain and convience them. You 'll be fine.

omg for the first time someone is saying something I can start working on ,thanks a lot God bless u baba lemme start planning towards this advice and we'll use it thanks once again baby boi is feeling happy already

tetula123:
stay there dey mumu.. you cant boast of 50k and you talking marriage. it's a pity you are a brother from the east.
focus I just wrote that so you get a message.

chairman your matter weak me,the fact that baby boi said he can't boast of 50k presently doesn't mean he's a broke guy oh! I dont mean to brag if i was into saving and spending less I'll worth some thick zeros I just bought ma first car last year so that one follow affect ma matter I've got an apartment I pay for oga so that I can't boast of 50k presently in ma account doesn't mean baby boi isn't to an extent comfortable.... I'm just in love with the right person and if u read ma story you'd know that we came a very long way to just separate over matter thats based on me not being ready for marriage !

izaray:
Eyah, ma nigga is madly inlove. Go on guy you've got my bag like school bag

Goodluck

thanks Mama if you're a Yoruba babe kindly help out on how I can run your tribal marriage without causing trouble for myself financially, imagine if she was an Igbo girl who Is a graduate and is working presently with a bank babe her pride price go mad serious that's why I'm very thankful she's not even Igbo I've got from now till December to start posting pre weeding pix

Headlesschicken:
Let that innocent soul go,if yuh not ready to settle down pls let her be, so she can find someone serious,u done try chop.... Make others chop too....

seriously thunder that would fire u us still being processed so all u see to this is chopping���� humans self, maybe u should bring your babe lemme chop her too����