₦airaland Forum

Like they say, those that fails to prepare are preparing to fail. This is so true when it comes to marriage. How prepared are you as a single lady or a guy for marriage? Let me say this, one of the reasons why many marriage are breaking today, is as a result of lack of preparation for it. People rush into marriage without adequate preparation for it. The high rate of divorce we experience today can be traced to the same issue of preparation. You don't prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage. Now that you are single is the best time to prepare for marriage. You have to be developing yourself for that stage in your life.

As a lady, how prepared are you for marriage? Some ladies today are busy painting their fingers, frying their hair, wearing butt pad, fixing nails and living artificial life instead of them to preparing for marriage. Some ladies did not even know how to cook, some don't know how to wash their dress and iron it let alone a man's own. When so many ladies are saying they cannot knee down to apologise to their husband, when many of them are still dating 4 to 10 guys at the same time, when many of them have not read one book on marriage and how to raise a family, it shows that they are not prepared yet for marriage. Many ladies today have serious bad habits and they want to take it to marriage. I just pity them. As a single lady, now is the time to prepare for marriage. Don't wait till u get married before u start to prepare. Prepare now.

As a guy, how prepared are u for marriage? How are you building yourself for it? Are you just doing low waist, smoking, drinking, womanising and galivanting all over the place without preparing for marriage? How are you planning to be financially stable when married? How are you preparing to be a good father that will not be a disgrace as the head of the home? How many books have u read on how to take care of your wife and kids and to be a good husband? How are u mentally, physically and spiritually building yourself as a guy? U think marriage is a joke? As a guy, now is the time to prepare.

Many people rush into marriage and their marriage crash within one year. Some marriages did not even survive six months because of lack of preparation.
Prepare now to avoid regret.
We should know that marriage also is not for kids but for adult. Not for boys, but for men, not for girls but for women. Not for the immature but for the matured. Start preparing now.

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Pheww, almost got a completely family here, e remain wife and my father(Xcapizt) but he hardly check this section.



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u are one of the best. keep on. God is with u.

say no to apc. say no to buhari.

not even 10 years. he will take Nigeria 50years backwards.

nice one for her.

Jonathan all the way.

say no to apc. say no to buhari. Jonathan till 2019.

apc supporters and violence are like twin. nothing good can come out of apc. this is one reason not to vote apc. they are known for violence.

Jonathan till 2019. it is so simple.

so tompolo is the one in conrol in Delta state now. nobody can challenge him. na wao.

FLAWLES:
.hahahaha;funny

why is it funny?

jamace:
Must read:
https://www.nairaland.com/2054863/33-reasons-why-southern-nigerians

hmm

sbaks:
Clevvermind!!!!!!!! Should you have any question as regards anything please quote or mention me.

i will attend deeper life maybe next sunday to see things for myself.

sbaks:
let's not fool ourselves, deeper life is the best on that list. Trust me on this brother! I attend redeem (which is also good) but deeper life is the BEST on that list. I won't advice a baby Christian to start in redeem (sorry to say)

deeper life. ok let me consider deeper life then.

hifaif:
Read the conversation:

V= Vivly. C= Chibwike.

V. Why tha f^ck are you looking for me?

C. Lol..was just asking after you..kinda missed you..

V. Please don't miss me. Take your Bottom kissing to
someone who needs it.

C. wow..never knew u cud sound so cool like this...am
touched

V. Honestly, I'd love you to stop quoting me. There are
several females you should go do that "ma'am,
aunti mi" ish you normally do to.

V (responding to my boss, macklef's post). Lolllllllllz. I'm a very calm person o. My friends
know that. I just feel irritated by women wrappers
and bu*tt kissers that form humility just to dey
recognized

u see what i was talking about? see the embarrassment.

enm:
All the well know church are very good to go and worship God. Mfm, redeemed, cac, winners, deeperlife .

Pick one out of them and start attending but if you don't want to be going to church for going sake then make it a point of prayer that God should reveal to you your place of visitation.

Whatever you do don't go to church where dey will ask you to buy soap and sponge, candle etc

are these church u mentioned preaching the truth?

Dotwillis1:
then i gues u wil v to attend al d church one by one to decide which is true

i can't do that na. just recommend a church for me and the reason why u are recommending it.

man utd fans, how market?

up chelsea.

jaysniggs:
But you expect Nigerians to vote Jona?
Give me reasons why anyone isn't better than Jonathan.
Please give me reasons why he should be re-elected without mentioning the opposition.

jonathan established more universities and is putting the railways in proper shape.etc.

spurs to beat man utd.

MalcoImX:
You prayed this yourself. You're biting the dust without anyone pushing you.

let me quickly edit it.

himkers:
PDP always likes heating up the polity. I thank God that by next year, PDP will be in our history books like UPN, NPP, SDP and others.

#Change

u lie. Next year, apc will die and be forgotten.

sahara reporters speading fake news since 1900. the military have to deal with them.

all Jonathan's haters will be put to shame. Jonathan will live on and continue to prosper.

and buhari has not changed. he is still the same person. vote Jonathan, vote progress.

satelliteDISH:
Abeg, no mind am jare. they r just afraid that GEJ ll go from aso rock to kirikiri for looting our treasury. VOTe wisely Nigerians. VOTE BUHARI FOR CHANGE

buhari cannot change anything. let us not deceive ourselves.

no way for buhari. Jonathan or we separate.

Segirl18:
At least making a physical research to various churches urself would have helped

u no fit come here dey ask wit d mind-set say u go find true church Na joking levels u dey bro....True church no dey online.

i should be moving from one church to another? people here can recommend a true church for me?

op, go and look for better things to do with your time instead of waisting it by opening nonsense thread like this. no one is willing to leave Jonathan and join hands with a failure and a dictator like buhari. so quit all this child's attitude.
Jonathan till 2019.

ZKOSOSO:
The perfect church is not on earth right now but you can fellowship with any bible believing church not d ceremonials.
Am of pentecostal extraction and am enjoying God filled life everyday!!
God bless u!!

which one are the ceremonial church?

Dotwillis1:
U v nt bn goin to chrch al diz while?

i'm looking for a true church first.

Generalkorex:
I'm a muslim

so why do u mention jehovah witness then, when u are nt part of them nor a christian?