₦airaland Forum

northbird:
Can you wake early daily? , as early as 4.30am. To beat the ikorodu traffic,

deedee44:
Put the lowest fare allowed for the trip, the recommended fare would be the highest on the driver’s option list. That’s what he’s saying. Of course if you put a fare above the lowest possible amount, the last option will be more than the recommended fare

SamuelTaiw0:
I hope you went to FRSC office for your driver's license yourself or at least go through someone that's reliable? Agents can really be frustrating. But if you do out right, in 6 weeks you should get the temporary license.

What year is your Kia Rio?

stacyadams:
...as u no sabi Lagos road, use Sundays to master the road as road dey free and lesser Lastma, task force on the road.they usually use Sundays to chop the illegal money dey make from mon to Saturday... Map dey try but don't solely depend on it...fix your AC,be like your compressor don weak or u no get gas or its leaking or faulty condenser or y.ou start work very early and go on break from 10/11am when sun don dey come out,then come out in the evening and resume....sha try learn Lagos road otherwise u go pay those illegal children of hate officers in uniforms.

Mindlog:
Is your baby daddy not the same.one that went to Facebook to say he wants a wife from.his tribe, which you are certainly not?

The fact is that your family of origin is toxic and going by the shenanigans your baby daddy displays here on Nairaland, it is like going from.frying pan to fire, you are not better off with him because you know deep dowm.you are "marrying yourself" because he even came here on Nairaland to raise funds for your bride price, is that not even a waving red flag?

You know by the tradition of where you come from, those kids belongs to your father until your baby daddy comes with his family to do the required traditional rites of marrying you.

You have been advised severally in different threads but it seens you are so fixated on wanting to continue with the baby daddy that has not made you grow as a person.

It is your life, your decision.

LilMissFavvy:
Baby daddy of 9years? You said "kids", meaning you have more than one child. Yet this baby daddy of 9years isn't able to raise 350k, but he' was able to foot hospital bills and raise kids. Sincerely speaking, I don't think 350k is too much. This is the solution. Go for a court marriage with your man. Then move in with him, make sure you do the court marriage before you move in. Baby daddy should invest the 150k, or hand it over to you to invest, don't play with the money, hopefully the money should be able to yield the 350 in one years time, then he can go back and settle your bride price.
Your baby daddy was wrong to post marriage invitation on FB, even when he didn't have complete money and the situation complicated.

Your dad has done badly, he discriminated a physically challenged son in-law, rather than be supportive. Your dad can't have a good relationship with your husband in future, he should not complain when your hubby treats him with disdain in the far future.

Jossyfine:
Op you are not stingy but all you and your wife needs to do is proper planning. You have to stop eating out. Once you've gotten ur salary, sit down with ur wife and draw a plan. Eg:
After removing your Mum's 10k,ur 5k savings. Then the 40k should be planned on very well.
Nice
What kind of food are you feeding ur triplets? You
can buy raw maize (joro and dawa) soak and grind to process pap.
But she needs to buy peak powder milk (peak 123)about 3 tins, this should last a month.

If your kids are up to 6 months, you can introduce semi solid food like beans, draw soup and light swallow garnished with fish.
If your wife is not working, then she has to try and prepare breakfast for you to eat before leaving for work,or better still she can be packing lunch for you to stop you from spending on food in ur work place. Then when you get home in the evening, you eat dinner, this will help a lot in salvaging your finances.

She can locate the nearest bush market in your area to be buying food stuff you guys will be needing in a month.

Please, you can manage and increase her monthly upkeep to 30k,then persuade her to be making breakfast for you.

And lastly, learn to ignore her ranting and nagging while you encourage her to get something doing if your kids have come of age. you will scale through this phase soon.

Stay positive

Ellizsandra:
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