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EgetWhyo:
Please check it stated Candidates must be single.. so if you married fill single oooo, reduce ur age back to 28 to 30... them really they crazy for this hopelessness useless Tinibu economy hardship

Nin will xpose age falsification

Please, house I need your help as metamask.

I attach some images to this comment.

Someone is instantly withdrawing my funds whenever I send funds to my metamask. The funny thing is it is immediately within a second.


What is the solution?

Olachase:
I'm here but short of words

Let me learn from your experience. This is mine.

I’m someone who isn’t ashamed of being single.

I’m 36, and I’ll be 37 in December.

The honest truth is that I’m single. I’m not currently dating anyone. It’s not because I don’t ask women out—I do. But I’m not someone who enjoys talking too much, and sometimes the thought of having to constantly communicate, explain myself, and maintain a relationship feels stressful to me. Maybe that is one of the reasons I have remained single for this long.

My lifestyle is also very regimented. I have a routine that is so predictable that someone can almost tell when I’m at home and when I’m not.

Money is another major issue.

I currently earn ₦200,000 a month before tax, and I don’t have a side hustle at the moment. Sometimes I look at my income and wonder how I’m supposed to build the kind of life people expect from someone approaching 40.

I have even lied about being in a relationship when I know I’m not.

I’ve told people I have two children, even though I have never had children. I did it because I wanted people to stop asking questions and putting pressure on me. But ironically, while trying to escape other people’s expectations, I think I have ended up putting even more pressure on myself.

For a long time, I genuinely enjoyed being single.

The peace was beautiful.

No relationship drama. No constant explanations. No arguments. No pressure.

But lately, that peace is beginning to feel like loneliness.

I miss having someone.

And that is difficult for me to admit.

Another thing about me is that I give up easily on relationships. I can enter a relationship today and, a month later, lose interest and walk away without even properly explaining to the woman why I’m leaving.

I know that isn't a good quality.

My life has also been somewhat of a slow journey.

I started school at 11. I finished secondary school at 22. I completed tertiary education at 32. I started my teaching job earning ₦20,000 a month, and today, at 36, I earn ₦200,000.

You would think that increasing my income would make life easier.

But every time my income increases, inflation seems to move the goalpost.

What used to feel like enough no longer feels like enough.

And then there is friendship.

I have always struggled with keeping friends. Even as a child, I realised I didn't really have a flair for friendship. Today, I honestly don't have anyone I can confidently call my close friend.

I even remember a time when I would give people money just so they would play with me.

Looking back, that hurts.

I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't party. I don't womanise.

At work, I joke around, interact with people and eat good food. From the outside, I probably look like someone who is doing just fine.

But deep down, there is a part of me that genuinely misses being in a relationship.

I can go an entire month without making or receiving a personal phone call. Most of the calls I receive or make are work-related because I’m one of the leaders at my workplace.

Sometimes I wonder how I got here.

I don't think I’m a bad person.

I don't think I’m unattractive.

I don't think I’m incapable of loving someone.

Maybe I just became too comfortable being alone.

Maybe I have built such a structured and independent life that making room for another person now feels difficult.

Or maybe I simply haven't figured out how to balance my personality, finances, career, friendships and relationships.

I don't know.

But lately, being single doesn't feel as peaceful as it used to.

It is starting to feel a little boring.

So I’m genuinely asking:

Are there other men who are like this?

Men in their 30s who don't drink, smoke, party or womanise.

Men who have very few or no close friends.

Men who have become so comfortable being alone that they don't know how to let someone into their lives.

Men who are not necessarily unhappy, but deep down, still miss having someone to come home to.

I’d really like to hear from you.

Omobada:
Where is your location?

I hope you check the date when what you mentioned was posted?

The price must have quadruple.

100FIX1:
not negotiable.

Noted

100FIX1:
Clearance sale

Clean Google Pixel 4a 5G
Nano sim + eSim
6GB/128GB
Android 14
Working perfectly!

₦145,000 not negotiable.

Ikotun, Lagos.

08138081735 call or WhatsApp
100GADGETS 2026.

I have 120k. Let me know if you fit deal with the budget.

GtBank was once in this position before, nothing is permanent in life.

Moderate Muslims are quick to reject bokoharam, bandit and iswap as muslims but if they win a course for Allah they are considered Muslims.

Bunch of hypocrite

limamintruth:
1. Job Title: Java Developer (Fully Remote worldwide)

Pay: 30USD - 80USD/ Hr

Key Responsibilities:
a) Design, develop, and maintain backend components using Java and the Spring ecosystem.
b) Implement high-quality, secure, and scalable software solutions aligned with business objectives.
c) Collaborate with cross-functional teams, including architects, product owners, and QA engineers, to deliver seamless integrations.
d) Participate in code reviews, contributing to best practices and continuous improvement efforts.

Key Requirements:
a) Expert-level proficiency in Java programming and backend development.
b) Strong hands-on experience with Spring and related frameworks.
c) Solid understanding of RESTful services, microservices architecture, and API design.

If interested, ma.il me here on nl for the link to apply.

I've sent you an email. Kindly check

Ronaldo is famous among football lovers
Elon is famous among internet users.
Pope is famous among Christians
Donald is famous among politicians
Dangote is famous in Africa

Mmadu111:
wake up! You're in 2026. Federal University degree going to be discriminated by who? It's deeply and widely accepted.

Can unilag, UI, oau or futa accept a noun graduate for masters?

parkervero:
Trust you are doing well.

I hold a HND certificate. I would like your guidance on registration to start at 300L.

Is it possible?

When I tried to apply, I clicked on undergraduate and then I entered my email and other stuff. Then the system took me to payment page.

I was expecting to see different levels of undergraduate programmes but I didn't see it. Before I make payment, I would like you to guide me through the registration process.

Thank you.

Are you sure NOUN is ideal place for degree?

In a country where they discriminate like crazy.

If Nigerians are tired and would like to explore alternative, they can win

I'm broke can you date me?

Let's do it.

Any university is so far you will do self-learning after school.

Too much of anything is bad

Single mothers never want their sons to marry single mothers why would you settle single mother?

Wow! Many osun towns plenty there sha

It can't run normal windows 10 with that low storage

Sugarboyy:
Betrayal that wanted to bite the hand that fed him.
If not for Jagaban, this betrayal wouldn't have dreamt of becoming a governor not to talk of being a vice President.
Same with Peter Obi, someone that should be contesting for House of Representatives, because of hype started thinking of becoming the president of Nigeria.

I hope you dey enjoy the government.

So sad it happened at his young age.

May his soul rest on.

urdevopsguy:
Is it a good advice for one to learn java at 40? I am planning on learn java but I don't know if it is a good idea? How is the job market right now for java developers? I am a laravel developer. I also do devops/cloud

Nothing is impossible even at this age.

Java learning curve is steep. Core Java can take up to minimum of 6 months. Spring/Springboot can take up to 4 months. This knowledge is not enough again. You have to learn Spring security which can take up to 3 months. Microservices is becoming a norm (though debatable between monolith architecture and microservices architecture). Knowledge of CI/CD, Cloud (AWS etc) is becoming a must.

Java is a powerful strict Type PL. I love it. Lots of new dev always sideline Java because of its verbosity but in my experience, the verbosity makes it easy to debug your code.

Giftedhand47:
What is 10c
Specify pls

Redmi 10C

Giftedhand47:
No sir
No Abuja connection
We are only connected in Lagos

Can you fix 10C ghost touch?

How much?

Provide constant electricity make we dey use blender. Abi blender too dey cause organ failure?

Under those watermelon is a stench that can kill a cat

Are those the prices you sell brand new mattress?

What kind of mattress can I get with #120k?