₦airaland Forum

The head of thee state govt is shifting the blame to who exactly? FG or LG? DSS is frrom FG, LG has too little influence so what is the role of the state govt? To share allocation alone?

kingmaster2009:
What did Ihejiriaka do during Goodluck Jonathan. ..una sabi overhype people. .. was there no height of insecurity in the north when Ihejiriaka was the Army Chief. ..? The problem is internal security structure that most of the past and present president are afraid to critically address because of those who are in connection with this Jihadists or Islamic agenda in the north. ..

It is high-time we say the truth or we suffer for it in the future. ..may Nigeria never be like Afganishtan

ihehirika tried but the same people you implied the presidents past n present are afraid to offend spun the narrative of southern eastern vendetta to incite their brainwashed subjects. Same subjects are the ones swallowing and defending the narrative of "no Christian genocide" today.

Eberex:
Does it matter? Girls have been kidnapped and all you are interested in is if it was a Christian place? tofiakwa

The other time 106 of them were kidnapped one the Christian one among them, leah sheribu was never released. What have you got to say about that?

You think you can imply islamophobia when Islamists backed by all muslims are the ones doing the kidnap?

ruggedtimi:
this is what you really care about...so if is not a christian community is okay and U S should mind their business. And nigeria govt does nothing.

I am also concern about the prospect of the community or victims being Christian dominated. You know how Leah Sheribu ended anong 106 abducted girls. Now they are saying no christian Genocide. What fo you call Leah's case. Stunt or peesecution?

Hmmm. Judi judi judiciary.

Chai. Terrorists have levels than army officers without promotion. What more do they need army for?

Reference:
Disgraceful nation.

They struggle and fight and fight and fight to get into positions of authority but are no different f om those they replace, in most cases even worse.

For them a sacrifice and service to the people, even their loyal fanatics is a taboo. By them, for them, about them alone.

What can they say they gained for the country and the people of Nigeria from the last scandalous summit..... nothing. They assume everyone has forgotten. They see Nigerians as dullards.

These people will use public fund to enjoy for few weeks and return back. If the Owambe FG trains medical professionals and they japa permanently, they remit steady inflow if USD? Shortsighted visionless leadership of wastage.

Chair Desk Bed frame. Hmmmm

Poor n corrupt nations mostly save for few like France China, otrr Brazil.

Maybe his blood was too hausa or he was too zealous for the kafirs.

This is what we get when we allow a section of the country get brainwashed with the idea of unsustainable entitlements.

Entitlement to take another life based on religion tribe and state of origin.
Entitlement to the natural resources of another religion hotspot, tribe or region backed by the idea of conquest within a sovereign entity.
Entitlement to kill offsprings of spared aouls from the kosing side of an ancient war.
Entitlement to use a local but unofficial langiage after a borrowed one has been agreed in law.
Entitlement to steal public funds because the bulk of it comes from regions considered conquered in a civil war.

Paperweight greatness. Impact is negative overall most times.
Character, a factor that cannot be zero but positive or negative, has a multiplier effect on learning and services rendered, once character is reading negative, impact(Service X Skill X Character) will always be negative. Take heed lest thou be decieved. Lol.

Lies getting louder. They live on borrowed time n peace.

Yampotatocarrot:
I really don't get how bandits on about 100 motorcycles can't be seen, are they ghosts?

Which roads do they take to get to these destinations to attack?

Ain't there checkpoints in the North as there are in the east?

I've stayed in some parts of the North, is it that there are parts filled with trees as we have in Edo state, that these bandits stay without being seen or do they actually ride through the open terrain and are still not sighted?

I no too understand these northern banditry stuff

lol. No mind them. They love allocation and playing of victim to get power. The north is simple. Religion and poverty weaponized for power play.

Spreading fast to ensure 2027 is frustrated or just nornal Jihad/amnesty?

Maybe he wants to eat sawdust and sand for life or maybe, he bragged for one babe n babe asked him to brag to Nigerians as insurance policy.

Paid by territory or by impact or by stability or a flat fee?
How do you reconcile influence of each ruler to reflect in their pay?
What is their kingdom contributing?

If sokoto sultan contributing almost zero is getting more than ovie or amanayabo whose kingdom feeds Nigeria, what reaction will that provoke?

All these silly talks are down to our demonic sharing structure.

Pay your players n stop cheating them out of their entitled pay because you feel they are well paid in Europe.

erad:
Lol... F**king retard!

The actual definition of F**king retard is when you take
Very analogue NPF. Since 1960, it is 2025 they adopting this tactics..... and extract this( Please what tactics should they have used?) out of it.

I wont even call you a retard directly. Instead let your clique you are trying hard to impress be the judge who the retard is between me n you.

SMARTMOTORS:
If e like let the inflation make one cup of rice to be 5k...with 400million me and my Family will be very comfortable till I die

This is ignorance Oga.

SMARTMOTORS:
Omo to enjoy life for another 35yrs sounds very interesting oo! I go for 400million

Imagine another round of inflation hits the Naira and that 400m can only buy what N10m can today, what will you do?
Thats why you see people hoarding dollar as real estate and abusing Tinubu's life.

Lol. He is using style to teach people how the other side is. Burden plus wealth is the full package.

erad:
Lol... What's there to comprehend? Very analogue NPF using outdated tactics in 2025.

And I'm asking you, which digital tactics should they have used?

Stupidity, feigned or real, is no good virtue sir.

Read again and do slowly still.

APC supporters.

How much is national defence budget? Trillions, yet metawalle hasn't been able to profer any impacting solution to insecurity in zamfara. Defence minister of no shame

breathless:
1. If the wife is working class, Is it expected that the man pays 100% of the rent?
ANS: Yes. You are expected to "chest" the full r<sub>ent. That's 100% your responsibility. Remember you took her from her father's house where she knows nothing about paying or sharing rent. However, wisdom dictates that you get an accommodation that's within your means and make projections for future increase.
2. If the wife is working class, is it expected she contributes towards children school fees or the man pays 100%?
ANS You pay the school fees 100% bro. Again, choose a school you can afford and get the termly bill and pay directly yourself. Make no mistake of giving her the money to pay. If she does pay, it should be voluntary or freewill and ensure you reimburse her as soon as you can. However, if she's "magnanimous", she may take care of some things like the child(ren)'s lunch pack/box(es), extra clothing etc.
3. If the wife contributes financially, is there an expectation that the man does chores? (Ps I don't want to do any chores in this life apart from occasional cooking lol).
ANS This can occur especially of your spouse is not the "domesticated" type. She can use it as an opportunity to "rope" you into doing chores. That's when you'll be called to "bring out the food in the freezer to microwave for yourself or the children because she's running late getting home". Trust me, women have ways of making you do things you ordinarily will frown at but you won't due to the circumstances. However, try make yourself useful when at home by taking on some chores intermittently like clearing cobwebs , help iron her clothes for church while she's in the bathroom , clearing and washing dishes together as a way of bonding etc.
4. If the wife contributes financially how does it affect the decision making in the family?
ANS You don't get to make decision by fiat but through dialogue and compromise (which can sometime hurt your ego)
The last question is ONLY for married men who share bills?
I don't share bills with my spouse but she supports voluntarily especially when she senses I'm not financially buoyant and I make up for it in KIND.
5a. Do you feel respected by your wife when you share bills with her?
ANS During my "downtime", I had to reorientate my mind that she was earning her money with my name and what she
*5b. If you don't share bills with your wife and she keeps 100% of her earnings to herself, what do you think is the purpose of a woman working?
ANS Don't go into marriage with this mindset bro. Women want some level of "freedom and independence" including their finances. Let her spend her income the way she deems fit. That's a way to know if she's a good or bad with finances and to what extent you can trust with your finances or that of the family.

As an added bonus, I suggest you both have this conversation not with the mind of sharing financial responsibilities but to build and secure your future financially. Have a goal or plan and be committed to it wholeheartedly. For instance, if you earn more, you can suggest to her to use her income to run the home while yours is put into capital projects like securing landed properties, setting up and running a family business etc</sub>.

All the best.

All these your seemingly romantic sharing fornula are based on songs of Solomon and not the remaining 65 books.

Every wife is suppose to be a working class wife. Working from or for the home counts as working. Every effort has a value if rendered as a service thus working for the home is a valid form of work.

We also know money answereth to all things so once you do that which money can buy for yourself and family, your have earned and spent in one fell swoop.

erad:
Please what tactics should they have used?

hmmmm. . . Pls read n do slowly to comprehend.

They are freedom fighters and are fighting to liberate the muslims unmar who are being persecuted by the constitution they wrote under military rules.

I recommend amnesty of N10B each to the fighteŕs and N1B each to all muslims. Lol

Village muslim gets killed by forest muslim but city muslim says as long as more village Christians gwt killed than village muslim, we dont need help.

They are freedom fighters and are fighting to liberate the muslims unmar who are being persecuted by the constitution they wrote under military rulership

I recommend amnesty of N10B each to the fighteŕs and N1B each to all muslims.

slivertongue:
Niger state government will deny it but its very clear Nigeria needs help

delpee:
What amazes me is that they seem to know where the bandits are in the forests. What stops our security agencies from attacking them there?

They are freedom fighters and have right to wage a jihad according to the quran recognised by the law of the land.

The city musllims say trump mustnt touch the forest muslims that abducts and kills a village muslim. Isnt that great?