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Lol. He is using style to teach people how the other side is. Burden plus wealth is the full package.

erad:
Lol... What's there to comprehend? Very analogue NPF using outdated tactics in 2025.

And I'm asking you, which digital tactics should they have used?

Stupidity, feigned or real, is no good virtue sir.

Read again and do slowly still.

APC supporters.

How much is national defence budget? Trillions, yet metawalle hasn't been able to profer any impacting solution to insecurity in zamfara. Defence minister of no shame

breathless:
1. If the wife is working class, Is it expected that the man pays 100% of the rent?
ANS: Yes. You are expected to "chest" the full r<sub>ent. That's 100% your responsibility. Remember you took her from her father's house where she knows nothing about paying or sharing rent. However, wisdom dictates that you get an accommodation that's within your means and make projections for future increase.
2. If the wife is working class, is it expected she contributes towards children school fees or the man pays 100%?
ANS You pay the school fees 100% bro. Again, choose a school you can afford and get the termly bill and pay directly yourself. Make no mistake of giving her the money to pay. If she does pay, it should be voluntary or freewill and ensure you reimburse her as soon as you can. However, if she's "magnanimous", she may take care of some things like the child(ren)'s lunch pack/box(es), extra clothing etc.
3. If the wife contributes financially, is there an expectation that the man does chores? (Ps I don't want to do any chores in this life apart from occasional cooking lol).
ANS This can occur especially of your spouse is not the "domesticated" type. She can use it as an opportunity to "rope" you into doing chores. That's when you'll be called to "bring out the food in the freezer to microwave for yourself or the children because she's running late getting home". Trust me, women have ways of making you do things you ordinarily will frown at but you won't due to the circumstances. However, try make yourself useful when at home by taking on some chores intermittently like clearing cobwebs , help iron her clothes for church while she's in the bathroom , clearing and washing dishes together as a way of bonding etc.
4. If the wife contributes financially how does it affect the decision making in the family?
ANS You don't get to make decision by fiat but through dialogue and compromise (which can sometime hurt your ego)
The last question is ONLY for married men who share bills?
I don't share bills with my spouse but she supports voluntarily especially when she senses I'm not financially buoyant and I make up for it in KIND.
5a. Do you feel respected by your wife when you share bills with her?
ANS During my "downtime", I had to reorientate my mind that she was earning her money with my name and what she
*5b. If you don't share bills with your wife and she keeps 100% of her earnings to herself, what do you think is the purpose of a woman working?
ANS Don't go into marriage with this mindset bro. Women want some level of "freedom and independence" including their finances. Let her spend her income the way she deems fit. That's a way to know if she's a good or bad with finances and to what extent you can trust with your finances or that of the family.

As an added bonus, I suggest you both have this conversation not with the mind of sharing financial responsibilities but to build and secure your future financially. Have a goal or plan and be committed to it wholeheartedly. For instance, if you earn more, you can suggest to her to use her income to run the home while yours is put into capital projects like securing landed properties, setting up and running a family business etc</sub>.

All the best.

All these your seemingly romantic sharing fornula are based on songs of Solomon and not the remaining 65 books.

Every wife is suppose to be a working class wife. Working from or for the home counts as working. Every effort has a value if rendered as a service thus working for the home is a valid form of work.

We also know money answereth to all things so once you do that which money can buy for yourself and family, your have earned and spent in one fell swoop.

erad:
Please what tactics should they have used?

hmmmm. . . Pls read n do slowly to comprehend.

They are freedom fighters and are fighting to liberate the muslims unmar who are being persecuted by the constitution they wrote under military rules.

I recommend amnesty of N10B each to the fighteŕs and N1B each to all muslims. Lol

Village muslim gets killed by forest muslim but city muslim says as long as more village Christians gwt killed than village muslim, we dont need help.

They are freedom fighters and are fighting to liberate the muslims unmar who are being persecuted by the constitution they wrote under military rulership

I recommend amnesty of N10B each to the fighteŕs and N1B each to all muslims.

slivertongue:
Niger state government will deny it but its very clear Nigeria needs help

delpee:
What amazes me is that they seem to know where the bandits are in the forests. What stops our security agencies from attacking them there?

They are freedom fighters and have right to wage a jihad according to the quran recognised by the law of the land.

The city musllims say trump mustnt touch the forest muslims that abducts and kills a village muslim. Isnt that great?

Wallade:
The words in bold letters are indicates your lack of objectivity. The [b]allegations that Wike is gr[/b]abbing lands and giving it to his family remains unfounded. So we prefer you look at realities and things you can prove not allegations.

They are true oga speculator. The leak confirmed it.

Negativity everywhere but once they see private uni grads, they unite and paint the same system as best thing since bread n butter was invented.
Most come across as wayward elements from those schools.

mascot87:
You people can NEVER be objective in this life. Simple question, rank based on performance, efficiency and effectiveness and not based on sentiment and hate. Godforbid people like you own a company, you will just downgrade employees based on dislike and not on performance

Where is the sentiment and hate in my rating. Thats my ratings for them. If you want explaination....

Matawalle is a complete disaster going by the performance of the defence agencies in maintaining the territorial intergrity of Nigeria. Even his own Zamfara he was governor of, is heavily under "bandit" onslaught and he hasn't seen any reason to at least push for their recognition as terrorists they actually are.
He cannot come up with anything to reduce it other than sectetly following the Islamic agenda of the insecurity and eyeing Zamfara governorship to complete his 4+4.


Wike on the other hand,has done projects we can all see. At least projects that are meaningfuk compered to others but you cannot destroiy a state and be grabbing land for your family. Never. That makes him a bbad performer.

AMINDA:
What was the performance of the 2027 budget and how does he intend to raise the money? From FAAC, IGR or borrowing? Didn't he seek to vilify Elrufai for borrowing to finance infrastructure despite the fact that he was the guarantor of those loans? Uba Sani is running a government of PR and optics over performance. All of Elrufai's projects that he campaigned upon completing have been abandoned while the several groundbreakings he has done on new roads with so much media frenzy, remain unfunded.

The bold is Reinforcing comment about you being with El Rufai.

Hmmm. 95% of that budget is for northern Kaduna, the remaining 5% is for bullets/ammunitions going to bandits terrorizing southern KD.

IYKYK.

If i lie let projects in Kaduna since start of El Rufai be published.
Project/Cost/CompletionPercentage/Region

Let CompletionPercentage column be multiplied by cost then totaled for south versus north Kaduna lets all see. Thats when you will know Sani is just another version of El Rugai rebuffing the GodFatherism of El Rufai.

Aminda, i know say you be KD and with El Rufai, wetin you say about my proposal.

Defense is owing 5 marks out of 10.

Wike is zero. Would have given him 5/10 but dude is partisan and a burden overall.

lwisee:
How do they take the Gold to Dubai to sell.
I don't believe this part of the story.

they can take 100 times the gold available. There is a bbc documentary exposing that. It is real.

Some months ago, Libyan branded gold bar were intercepted in Nigeria but did Libya lost any? That's Zamfara gold branded into Libyan one with the right cast/mold. Wise up dude.

Demonic Islamists funding the cause with crime and attracting the needed attention for amnesty grant.

Very analogue NPF. Since 1960, it is 2025 they adopting this tactics.

Dangote will be laughing hard. 50B USD... 2nd Largest..

I feel for Glo.

Pot belly is soup trapped in there.

ChatGPT.

00FFT00:
Who is the president again?.

Wole Soyinka. MhouMhoo.

kokoA:
When money enter most times morality dey fly out of the window..

maybe drugs.

No petrol to patrol or respond to crime but million to buy tissue with is there.

TechCapon:
reminds me of this former access bank ceo that died. his uni would have been booming by now but for his useless family full of greed

na waa oooo. Assuming anyhaaa.

jaxxy:
u can be that gullible. Why did he deactivate his account if someone put a name and face on a faceless account?

His girlfriend has already called him out and his real account tweets are what is being brought up.

Stop supporting evil

there are two acccounts involved here.