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OlayemiAshraf:
Then man up ... Talk to the lady , tell her how you feel , if she reject you , don't give up , shoot your shot again , don't be a pussy ass nigga

Alright bro, “shoot your shot again”?
Won’t she see me as a simp that way

OlayemiAshraf:
Are you ugly

I don’t think so lol

OlayemiAshraf:
So what's stopping from , talking to a girl you admire ?

The fear of rejection

mariahAngel:
Dude! You'd get over your shyness eventually. Trust me!
Just don't worry too much about it.
There will come a time when you'll no longer fear what you fear now.
Just try to make little efforts every day to relate with people in general, no matter how short it is. With time, you'll improve tremendously without you even realizing it.

Thanks for the input ma’am

BornToSucced:
Keep trying. Try to engage in some school or church activities where you get to meet and talk to people.

Okay bro

Ahmed0336:
Leave women mata. Go hustle money, las las you'd be fine.

Making money isn’t the issue, I have an issue with socializing with people in general

OlayemiAshraf:
When you were in the boys only secondary school , did they poked your rectum ?.... Is that why your confidence is so low that you can't even talk to girls ?

No!!!!!!!!!, I hate gays though

BornToSucced:
At 20 you should be focusing on your studies.

What’s your problem young man?

Just be friendly with both sexes, and try to bring up some topics and ask them for their opinion. That way when they are talking you’re listening and giving them eye contact.

While listening also, you’re also reasoning your next questions based on what they are saying.

E.g I really like your explanation; that was a brilliant one, Amaka!; Please tell me more Mr/Miss Professor!

They would smile and then you continue.

Alright thanks, sounds easy but I do fidget a lot when it’s time to do so

Please nairalanders I’m tired of this lifestyle, I’m a 20yrs old guy and I find it difficult to relate with girls like I mean I don’t have any single girl in my life even to relate with guys sometimes na wahala, and this has been affecting me a lot in many ways

I’m afraid I might even get old and regret how boring my youthful ages were spent without fun or adventures


N.B I attended a boys only secondary school

[quote author=Kaymicheal852 post=102162474][/quote]Thanks bro, I’ll try and keep to this

Please nairalanders I’m tired of this lifestyle, I’m a 20yrs old guy and I find it difficult to relate with girls like I mean I don’t have any single girl in my life even to relate with guys sometimes na wahala, and this has been affecting me a lot in many ways

I’m afraid I might even get old and regret how boring my youthful ages were spent without fun or adventures


N.B I attended a boys only secondary school

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