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EmptyGarden:
You spent millions on her birthday? Go on... I'm listening

The most funniest part was that she even tore my cloth..,and she’d never agree she’s at fault.

Good morning Nairlanders, I really need your help and advice. I’m really frustrated and broken right now..,so my fiancée bestfriend invited us to Ibadan due to the Muslim celebration to come over there to celebrate with her..,I agreed and I said no problem..so we plan on leaving to Ibadan last week Saturday…but things wasn’t really good for me financially…,I just done doing her birthday some couple of weeks ago and I spent millions on it..just to make her happy..,so I told her right now I don’t have that money..but we can go later..when I'm financially okay again..because my business isn't really coming up well this days due to the ASUU strike..,after all this..she still keep ringing it in my ears again that night having a discussion with her friend that she can’t wait to come she can’t wait to do this and that.,then I heard when her friend was saying if she see a guy that can take them over there and sponsor their chillings that she’d be happy..,that but she knows I won’t allow..,I never know if she’s joking or she mean it..,I just stood up from the sitting room and go to bed because it’s really annoying after telling her my predicament.,so yesterday she went ahead to tell her friend to go and check the apartment…and after checking I just see her forwarding me her chat from what her friend said..I told her and I said I think I told you I don’t have this money yet..she said they are contributing the money..that the apartment is 180k..going to almost 500k to be spent there,so I replied on the group she added me to.,and it was just so insulting the picture is below there..so I told her why would she act this way towards me in that group where your friends her..,and she started raising her voice on me..telling me I’m very foolish.,I’m very stupid..,I’m in immature..,the next thing was that she collected my phone from me …almost break my laptop..,I was trying to get my phone back from her and she bite me on my chest..,slapped me and the most funnies part was that she strangled my neck so hard that I couldn’t breath well for some time..so the most confusing part was that..,this morning she came to beg..,but I’m not just ready to hear her out..she then start packing her loads and said if 7am clocks and I don’t say anything that, that means she’d leave with her loads..,she’s begging me this morning shedding crocodile tears..,she said she doesn’t mean to do it..but I’m not just saying anything because I don’t know what to do anymore…,she keep repeating same thing anytime we have issues…she’d always raise her hands on me and I don’t just beat girls..,and I’ve invested so much in her..,she’s packing already and I guess she’s done packing I never ask her to pack her loads..,so she begged really hard this morning and said if it’s 7 she’d go if I don’t come to her.,so nairalanders what do you think I can do to this situation?I don’t wanna tell my parents yet.,because they like her so much..,please I need your advice..,pardon my grammars.,thank you all in advance.