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FoodRe: Fish Egg: Apart From Me, Who Likes Eating This? by Commanderinpips: 5:24pm On Jan 07
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Apart from me, who like eating this? grin
Bros I ate this stuff far more than you. I use to eat close to half a custard due to the fact that my mother operate a restaurant then.
CrimeRe: What The Police Are Not Allowed To Do During An Arrest by Commanderinpips: 1:06pm On Jan 04
coputa:
What the Police are not allowed to do during an Arrest.

1). They CANNOT arrest you over civil matters
The police have no business arresting anyone because of:
debts
rent issues
boyfriend–girlfriend quarrels
business disagreements
“He insulted me”
Those are civil matters. The police exist for crime, not private disputes.

2). They CANNOT beat, slap, torture, or brutalize you
No officer has the right to “discipline” you.
Torture is illegal whether physical, verbal, or psychological. Even if you’re a suspect, you are still entitled to dignity under the law.

3). They CANNOT search your phone without your consent or a warrant
Your phone is private property. They cannot forcefully open your messages, read your chats,
go through your gallery, access your banking apps
unless there is a lawful basis like a court warrant or immediate suspicion connected to the crime they stopped you for.

4). They CANNOT detain you longer than 24–48 hours without charging you
They cannot keep you indefinitely. If there is evidence, charge you. If there is no evidence, release you. Keeping you beyond the constitutional time frame becomes unlawful detention.

5). They CANNOT refuse you access to your lawyer or family
You have the right to call a lawyer
speak with someone close to you, have legal representation during interrogation, blocking this right is unconstitutional.

6). They CANNOT force you to sign a statement
Not even “just write your side.” Not even “sign here.” Your statement must be voluntarily written by you, made without threat, pressure, or intimidation
If you’re not comfortable, you can say:
“I prefer to remain silent until my lawyer arrives.”

7). They CANNOT arrest you without telling you the reason
They must state the offence clearly.
You cannot be arrested based on guesswork, vibes, or “follow me to the station first.”

8.) They CANNOT search your body disrespectfully
Women must be searched by female officers.
No officer can conduct a degrading or inappropriate search the law forbids it.

9). They CANNOT use arrest as a tool of intimidation
Police power is for public safety not for settling scores, collecting “bail money,” or harassing citizens.

10). They CANNOT demand money for bail
Bail is FREE.
Whether the case is minor or serious. Any officer demanding money for bail is breaking the law.

Police officers have authority but that authority has boundaries. When you know those boundaries, you protect yourself because the difference between obedience and oppression is simply knowing your rights.

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Legal update
This is story for the gods as far as Nigeria is concerned.
TravelRe: Where Is The Cheapest Place To Live In Nigeria? by Commanderinpips: 10:55pm On May 21, 2025
Go to Jebba in Kwara state, power is stable and house is very very cheap way below your budget.
PoliticsRe: Bauchi Deputy Governor Auwal Jatau Slaps Minister Of Foreign Affairs, Tuggar by Commanderinpips: 3:36pm On Apr 19, 2025
doctore212:
Although today is good Friday . I still want to go and carry olosho
O boy I will advice you repent and get more serious with life. May olosho not end your life
FamilyRe: "My Wife's Ex Is Back, And Their Romance Is Rekindling – Should I Walk Away? by Commanderinpips: 12:23pm On Dec 31, 2024
Sapasenator:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am completely lost and need advice. My name is Olumide Adeyanju(Not my real name), and I’m a 42-year-old civil engineer based in Lagos. I’ve been married to my wife, Tola, for seven years. We have a son together, Jidenna, who is five years old. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, but I thought we had something solid—until recently.

When I met Tola, she was a divorcee. She told me her first marriage to a man named Dapo Olatunji ended after three years due to irreconcilable differences and I believed her. According to her, Dapo had anger issues and was overly controlling. She said she left the marriage to protect her mental health and focus on building a better life for herself. At the time, I admired her courage, and we built a beautiful relationship.

Last month, everything changed. Tola and I were invited to a wedding in Lekki. As fate would have it, Dapo was also at the wedding. It was the first time they were seeing each other in nearly 10 years. I noticed they exchanged pleasantries, and while it seemed cordial at first, something about the way they looked at each other didn’t sit well with me.

In the weeks that followed, I started noticing subtle changes in Tola’s behavior. She began acting distant and spending more time on her phone, often smiling at her screen like a teenager in love. When I asked her what was going on, she brushed it off, saying it was just "work stress."

Then, two weeks ago, I came home early from work and found her on a video call with Dapo. She didn’t realize I was home, so I overheard parts of their conversation. They were laughing and reminiscing about their past together—things like how they used to travel to Abuja for weekend getaways and the time he bought her a surprise gift for her birthday. It felt like I was intruding on a private moment between lovers.

When I confronted her, she admitted that she and Dapo had been talking regularly since the wedding. She claimed it was "nothing serious" and that they were just "catching up as friends." But I don’t believe her. Her behavior has changed so much. She’s more secretive, and I even found out she met up with him last Saturday without telling me. She said it was a "closure" meeting, but why does she need closure after all these years?

Now I’m stuck. I love Tola, but it feels like her heart is being drawn back to Dapo. I’ve spoken to my elder brother, Kunle, and he thinks I should stand my ground and fight for my marriage. But my best friend, Tunde, says I should let her go if she’s already emotionally checked out.

I don’t know what to do. Should I confront Dapo directly? Should I give Tola an ultimatum to stop talking to him? Or should I quietly walk away and let her decide who she really wants to be with?

Please, Nairalanders, I need your honest opinions. Have you experienced or heard of a situation like this? How do I handle it?
My brother, I will advice you take a VERY HARD stand on this issue. Speaking from experience sit her down and talk tough to her, don't joke with her, give her a timeline to end the rubbish inform her family right in her presence and be real as a man.
FoodRe: What I Bought With 9,500 Naira In Russia by Commanderinpips: 11:50am On Dec 16, 2024
shortgun:
One full chicken for 2.5k?
It's 15k in Nigeria with 70k minimum wage
Bros in my area my wife told me it is 30k. I dey find am hard to believe
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Appoints Daniel Bwala, Special Adviser On Public Communication by Commanderinpips: 7:24am On Nov 15, 2024
fergie001:
President Bola Ahmed Tinubu appoints Daniel Bwala as Special Adviser, Media and Public Communications (State House)
Will anything ever work in this country, honestly and humanly speaking there is no hope for Nigeria. Sane people are gradually going into extinction in Nigeria.
EducationRe: Nairaland Education Section Mod, Richiez Releases Beautiful Pre-wedding Pictures by Commanderinpips: 9:18am On Nov 12, 2024
Odunharry:
Congratulations to Richiez and his beautiful bride to be Frances and they get set for their big day #FR'24
franceswedsrichard2024.com .


A Match made in Heaven.
#FR'24.
GOD bless your union, the enemy will not have any influence on your home. HML.
TravelRe: Nasarawa: Policeman Crushes Woman To Death, Family Rejects N100,000 Burial Offer by Commanderinpips: 12:37pm On Nov 02, 2024
tiswell:
They should collect the money if he makes it 5million.

Person wen die don die
That's the problem with blacks, money! money! money! human life has no value. No wonder life in this part has no meaningful value.
HealthRe: I Just Had A Severe Scald From Boiling Water (graphic Images) by Commanderinpips: 10:49pm On Oct 16, 2024
koldrun:
I was trying to prepare dinner about 2 hours ago, when boiling water poured on my leg. I was rushed to a nearby hospital, where I was administered first aid, and then the doctor prescribed some drugs. I have a feeling that this might be a third degree scald. Your suggestions are welcome on how to treat this.
So sorry, please look for fresh aloe Vera leaf scoop out the liquid then apply to the burnt area. Do it for like two weeks and your skin will heal up. After that thank GOD.
PoliticsRe: LG Poll: "We Have Taken Enough Rubbish From Egbetokun' - Fubara Dares Wike, IGP by Commanderinpips: 12:00pm On Oct 04, 2024
helinues:
Is he not even matured to handle things amicably without escalating it

Threatening IGP? Like seriously
Put yourself in Fubara's shoes as the governor, you will do worse. Even as a husband and the head of
a family, can someone rule and subjugate your power?
CelebritiesRe: 'Still A Virgin' - Hilda Baci Reveals As She Celebrates Her 29th Birthday by Commanderinpips: 12:41pm On Sep 21, 2024
bluepreek:
It's only God and his angels in heaven that sincerely knows the quantity of alum that have been wasted on her down below lipsrsealed

I expect her to show appreciation to God for creating alum as well.....
O boy you bad, can any woman survive your onslaught?.
PoliticsRe: Meet Adeola Sowemimo, The First Nigerian Woman To Fly Boeing 787 by Commanderinpips: 6:13pm On Sep 17, 2024
SmartPolician:
What a man can do, a woman can....

Young ladies should copy folks like this and stop dancing half-naked on social media and disgracing their family.
And what a man can steal ?
PoliticsRe: No Food, No Fuel, No Power, No Forex, No Hope by Commanderinpips: 10:21am On Sep 09, 2024
OBIGS:
I had a dream that the suffering in the land will trigger an uprising before the year ends. In this uprising citizens United together and stormed government house, killed corrupt politicians. Tinubu and his family had to flee to France to seek asylum. Young military officers stepped in to bring order. All government institutions were reformed and free and fair elections was held in Nigeria. A new dawn started and Nigeria began to progress positively with real change we could all see.
May your dream come true.
CelebritiesRe: Rema Donates N105m To Christ Embassy During Thanksgiving!!! by Commanderinpips: 7:46pm On Sep 01, 2024
SpaceX:
Since he made his money by worldly means can the church accept the donation? Is it acceptable to pay title?
The earth is the LORD'S and its fullness thereof.
RomanceRe: Lady Removes Tattoo Of Her Ex-Boyfriend From Her Body After Breakup by Commanderinpips: 1:37pm On Aug 25, 2024
EreluRoz:
Nonsense, where is the sense in tattooing ordinary boyfriend's name on your precious skin? Even husband sef lailai. The only person that can earn that spot is your kids and parents.

Tattooing a boyfriend's name that's sharing dick everywhere is the highest form of stupidity.
May be when you see a good man you will do the same.
PoliticsRe: Kidnapped Sarkin Kwaji of Taraba Cries Out From Captivity by Commanderinpips: 5:31pm On Aug 24, 2024
nairalandkachy1:
Zagazola Makama
Very soon it will be the turn of top politicians when we are ready there will be an end to this menance.
Forum GamesRe: You Mistakenly Picked This Wrong Luggage At The Airport, Your Next Step (picx) by Commanderinpips: 6:44pm On Aug 23, 2024
JustPowerApps:
I will start a good business wink
And you expect that business to thrive, no wonder businesses in Nigeria hardly outlive the business owner.
Forum GamesRe: You Mistakenly Picked This Wrong Luggage At The Airport, Your Next Step (picx) by Commanderinpips: 6:42pm On Aug 23, 2024
RealityKings:
You cant carry more than 10k dollars in cash... You even have to declare it... So that picture is impossible
The reality is that it is possible with Nigerians, they will create pseudo friends to help them carry the whole money. Corruption is in the marrow of an average Nigerian.
Forum GamesRe: You Mistakenly Picked This Wrong Luggage At The Airport, Your Next Step (picx) by Commanderinpips: 6:38pm On Aug 23, 2024
Henry2405:
You mistakenly picked the wrong luggage at the airport, you got home and found this, what is your next step?

ME:- As a good citizen and a Christian it is wrong for me to take what isn’t mine. So I will empty the money from bag in my room and return the empty bag to the airport
Is that what being a good Christian entails to you. May GOD delivers Nigerian Christians.
PoliticsRe: Delta State To Demolish Commissioner's House For Blocking Waterways In Ughelli by Commanderinpips: 9:54pm On Aug 22, 2024
PhonesRe: DHL Charged 1.2 Million Naira To Clear 2 Phones And A Watch by Commanderinpips: 11:57am On Aug 21, 2024
omoadeleye:
Next time always use post office to reduce cost
those guys are confirmed thieves.
SportsRe: Some Funny Perfect Timing Pictures In Football by Commanderinpips: 7:53pm On Aug 20, 2024
jeromestarks:
Perfect timing! Timing is everything! If you did not meet her as a virgin, fvck her and let her go meet other fvckers. Never marry her or else, you will be in the wrong timeline because you will never father any child but you will take care of her ex's children thinking they're yours.



Do not pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie. Only a fool with poor sense of time would do that. Are you the fool?


Be wise. Be time conscious. Be the first!
Your crave for a virgin stinks, are you a virgin yourself may you never marry a killer virgin. Marriage is beyond sex my friend, I have been married for about two decades though as a virgin man and I can tell you authoritatively that there is more to marriage than sex.
RomanceRe: Husband Caught Wife Red-Handed Having Sex With Another Man In Their Home (Video) by Commanderinpips: 6:50pm On Aug 19, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
I love banging Married women kiss kiss

Thank God I've never been caught 🙏🏽
Good for you, but remember what goes around comes around.
You shall reap whatever you sow.
PoliticsRe: Can Someone Earning ₦21M Monthly Afford This Garage? by Commanderinpips: 9:36pm On Aug 15, 2024
Wainey:
Or am I the only one thinking these senator earn way more than that.
Cheapest Lamborghini cost N200m and someone has up to three in his garage, that is three years worth of salary.
G-wagon cost up to N100m.
Rolls Royce cost around N600m and u have 3, which is 1.8b.
You have to understand that many of these politicians have other sources of income far before they came into politics. For instance Dino has a stake in Macdonald far before he ventured into politics this i am aware.
BusinessRe: NDIC Gives ₦‎5 Million Each To Defunct Heritage Bank Customers by Commanderinpips: 12:59am On Aug 14, 2024
Praxis758:
40k of those days is equivalent to about 4m today.
exactly, it is pathetic how naira nosedive to this present level.
BusinessRe: NDIC Gives ₦‎5 Million Each To Defunct Heritage Bank Customers by Commanderinpips: 8:24am On Aug 12, 2024
Praxis758:
What about customers from Savannah Bank?
I was having about 40k in Savannah bank before it was liquidated. Just move on bro that bank is gone.
ComputersRe: Why Is My Laptop Showing Me This And What Is The Solution? (Photo) by Commanderinpips: 6:50pm On Aug 08, 2024
Kalatium:
I woke up 2 days ago and noticed my laptop is showing me this. I haven't used it for a week so I am wondering what could have been wrong here.

Today is even the worst. Once it starts booting and it will shut down. It will keep booting and shutting down by itself.
Bros your hard drive is going going going. Get prepared to replace your hard drive.
CelebritiesRe: Onyeka Onwenu 's Last Performance Before Her Death (Video) by Commanderinpips: 11:45am On Jul 31, 2024
Jagaban2012:
Regarding Oweka Onyeka, we know that King Sunny Ade was nominated and received a Grammy Award...now tell me any Ibo. Musicians , dead or alive who have been nominated for grammy award talk less of receiving it....King Sunny Ade is an institution of music ....he is not in the class of onyeka ... onyeka is a local champion ........show me on grammy one got or nominated for .....and I will show myriad of globally recognized award that King Sunny Ade got ....After Fela Kuti in music...nah Sunny Ade....Onyeka no dey at all....in fact, the collaboration he did with your Onyeka was one of the worst selling albums in his music....compare to the one he made without any collaboration.
Ask some of your Ibo musicians why their fame has dwindled since they collaborated with the Yoruba musician. and not until they sing in Yoruba language they can reach their target audience ....
Even an illiterate Yoruba
Boy and musician like Portable " has gotten many awards than what your Onyeka Owneu has ....except for her age ..Portable has.more award than Onyeka Owenu is making .


Ask Burna Boy not to sing in Yoruba language and style and see if he can maintain his fame....Burma boy rode on the wings of Fela music to gather fame for himself. Tell him to switch to his style of music in portharcout and let see how far....

My brother this your tribal sentiment is not good for you, do you have to go to this extent in making your point. Please note that I am 100% Yoruba man with grown up kids.


Idiot..... .
Christianity EtcRe: RCCG Shares Garri To Members (Photos) by Commanderinpips: 10:16am On Jul 29, 2024
2special:
Some people have been programmed to read the wrong meaning to everything
I can not agree less with you.
TravelRe: Remembering The Air France Concorde Flight 4590 Disaster Of 25th July 2000 by Commanderinpips: 6:54pm On Jul 26, 2024
nairalanda1:
Concorde was probably a case of too fast, too soon.

We need supersonic flight, but the problem with concorde was that it was darn too expensive to run every time. And it was tech that was too far ahead of its time.

At the end, the inevitable happened.

I guess we would have to wait a bit longer for supersonic tech, AND for suborbital flights, where we can reach New York from Lagos in 34 minutes. Maybe in the 22nd century.
supersonic planes are being developed and we should start seeing the unveiling by next year.

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