Crime › Re: Machete-Wielding Landlord's Son Arrested For Raping Corps Member In Akwa Ibom by Commanderinpips: 9:12pm On Jul 23, 2024 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Sharks Off Brazil Coast Test Positive For Cocaine by Commanderinpips: 8:58pm On Jul 23, 2024 |
AqualinaXYZ: Tinubu was in Brazil this year February
5 months later sharks wey dey sea don test positive for cocaine
Okay naaa you bad abeg |
Politics › Re: 58 Countries Back Okonjo-Iweala For Second Term As WTO DG by Commanderinpips: 2:41pm On Jul 23, 2024 |
SmartPolician: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala is a big name around the world. She should be going for the overall head of World Bank or IMF. Those are the rich organisations.
Nothing dey WTO! I watched her saying that WTO doesn't have money to finance projects across member nations and that got more wondering why Donald Trump frustrated her nomination the first time. IMF is solely for Europeans which she is not. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Needs To Seriously Reconsider Re-election Bid, Says Obama by Commanderinpips: 1:14pm On Jul 19, 2024 |
judedwriter: The "real" US president has indeed spoken.
And this real US president is on standby waiting to resume office on a global scale in the nearest future.
If You know, you know. You think Obama is the anti Christ?, well I don't think so |
Romance › Re: Man Explains Why He Stopped Ladies Sleeping Over At His Place (Pictures) by Commanderinpips: 12:54am On Jul 09, 2024 |
[quote author=Newlymarried post=130856279][/quote]Reward for fornication. Accept JESUS today. |
Business › Re: How Do I Stop This Bad Habit? by Commanderinpips: 6:46pm On Jul 04, 2024 |
AbokiWam: My Salary is a little above #100, 000 naira, My friends know I am working which brings enormous pressure on me, They think it is a high paying job because of the Corporate dressing and all.
I don't Know if it is the hardship from this era, but now 4 out of every phone calls someone receives is usually them asking you to lend them money. Currently self I am skeptical of answering phone calls. Work Colleagues also do not spare you in this regard.
My problem now is I am too soft hearted, Any small story and I am already heading to my bank app to do transfer for,
Beginning of June, money I lent to a total number of 7 different people was running into almost 60,000 naira. At the start of July, Only two people have paid me back (5000 & 4000)
Because of that I promised myself not to lend anyone money again from my salary, but Just this morning I got a call from someone I know , he was crying to me of his salary being delayed at work. He pleaded with me to lend him #10,000 which I obliged, Knowing fully well I wont get my money back (He has borrowed 8k from me before without paying back)
I think something is wrong with me, I can even go to loan app to borrow and gift a friend if I don't Have
Same borrowing habit almost ruined my Dad, it destroyed his friendship with a close pal, he borrowed his friend #800,000 back IN 2011 when money still had value, the friend refused paying and that crumbled his business for a while.
My Mom have warned me if I continue, I might experience same.
I really need to change... If every one should pay me money they have owed me, I would be able to buy honda baby boy This is a bad habit I need to stop. You don't need to change your sim, just stamp your feet and man-up. Be firm in your dealing with humans, you don't need to shy away from saying NO to uncomfortable request. |
Romance › Re: 'I Need A Husband'- Lady Cries Out! (Photos) by Commanderinpips: 4:29pm On Jun 20, 2024 |
Jennyclay: I know Nairaland men will have full erection over this post especially the broke and poverty wretched ones 
For me, I need more men that will keep spending and lavishing his money on me!
Shikena!! more men you said?, you need JESUS urgently. |
Family › Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by Commanderinpips: 3:21pm On Jun 18, 2024 |
My brother you are the man of the house, the earlier you stand your grand the best for you. By GOD'S Grace I am happily married and from my almost two decades in marriage I have learnt to stamp my feet on family finances, remember if you fail the same woman will blame you. Shalom |
Health › Re: Damola Ilesanmi: UK-Based Nigerian Man Dies Few Days To Resumption Of A New Job by Commanderinpips: 11:09pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
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Family › Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Commanderinpips: 8:46pm On Jun 12, 2024 |
FreeStuffsNG: All these theory sef. Smh.
There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.
When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o. Please read again, the man was not referring to wife rather girl friend. |
Food › Re: See What I Bought With N900 In Birnin Kebbi by Commanderinpips: 2:58pm On Jun 11, 2024 |
sachidistudios: These shouldn't cost upto 900 naira in Kebbi state. This shows that there is serious farming in the land. famine you mean. |
Properties › Re: Ten Tallest Buildings In Nigeria by Commanderinpips: 8:43am On May 21, 2024 |
may GOD save Nigerians, is this worth celebrating. |
Family › Re: My Wife Takes More Instructions From My Mom Than Me by Commanderinpips: 1:16pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
destiny4luv: Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.
But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.
Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.
My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?
I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down? You did the right thing my brother. Was your mother joined together with your wife as a couple?. Let her be she will blend with you. Please don't be afraid to offend anyone except GOD especially when it is for your good. |
Politics › Re: Bolanle Raheem: Sanwo-Olu’s Delegation Visits Raheem Family by Commanderinpips: 4:39pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
It is well with the Raheem family, only GOD can console this family. |
Travel › Re: How Nigeria Airport Staff Welcomed Me Home After 4 Years - Nigerian Man Laments by Commanderinpips: 8:46pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Caveatemptor: Always nylon wrap your bags before travelling out or returning to Nigeria. It costs between 2,000 Naira to 5000 Naira. When your zipper on your bag is completely exposed they only need a bic pen to breach your bag. Nylon wrapping scares the criminals away because it will take them time to cut through the nylon and time is something they don't have. oga you know see say that bag was wrapped with nylon. |
Crime › Re: Video Of Gunmen Attack On INEC Facility In Owerri Before They Were Killed by Commanderinpips: 11:43pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Arespect10: Igbos are bloody terrorists i can't believe i shared same country with these animals Seriously, what would you say about hausas who are the boko haram. |
Family › Re: Man Holds Ex Lover Hostage On Her Way To Wed Another Man After Training Her by Commanderinpips: 9:53pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Jennyclay: One thing men should learn is to help and not expect anything in return. As for me I can't go into marriage with someone my soul does not accept even if you have spent billions on me, I just can't. But you can collect money from someone your soul did not accept. Men will be more brutal to women in the coming years. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Should Kayode Do? by Commanderinpips: 2:30pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Saturnalia: Kayode should receive sense and use his tongue to count his teeth.
The HoD and Peter are Church members and in every Church, there’s Church politics.
The Nigerian brand of Christians are extremely wicked & worse than the Muslims.
If I’m ever given the task to eradicate religion in Nigeria, I would start with the Church because Oloriburuku ni gbogbo won from top to bottom.
According to their Holy Book, judgement will start from the Church. E get why.
They will be hiding under the powerless blood of Jesus to perpetrate their witchcraft activities.
Every Sunday, you see them in their various Churches, looking clean & appearing like Angels, but - beneath that facade lies the most obnoxious & malignant hearts darker than charcoal and souls dyed in perpetual callousness - using their little influence, wealth & money to hound & witch-hunt any unfortunate individual that are unlucky to work within & around them.
Why else do you think Nigeria keep retrogressing in every aspect inspite of the millions of Churches that litter every nooks & crannies of our rotten society?
Show me any Nigerian Christian that is Christ-Like or behaves like Jesus Christ and I will show you the kingdom of Heaven.
If Kayode likes, let him not resign and go buy himself a car and drive independently on Bolt & Uber before those bastards devour the best of his years. You are sincerely sick and you need Jesus to heal you as soon as possible. |
Politics › Re: I Have Done My Best As President — Buhari by Commanderinpips: 9:15am On Dec 14, 2022 |
And your best puts Nigeria in the worst situation ever. |
Autos › Re: Foreign Used Toyota Sienna 2013 For Sale by Commanderinpips: 6:00pm On Dec 11, 2022 |
PieceOfPeace: Accident free Sound engine Clean ride Alloy wheels Buy and drive at a give away price Location: Lagos Price:9.2m Contact: 08073095669 9.2m for you is a give away. Continue |
Car Talk › Re: EFCC Auctions 435 Forfeited Vehicles In Lagos (photos) by Commanderinpips: 7:49pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Realife4: If the wicked government don't create jobs for the Masses Yahoo will continue spreading like wide fire. I feel for the lost my fellow hustlers if only you know how hard it takes to catch a pay cliant. My friend bomb for complete 3 years every night no sleep he couldn't see 500$ at the end he catches a Poland cliant that gave him 15k$ then he got himself a Toyota Corolla rented an apartment and start a living. At the end some will think Yahoo is a very easy business and start criticizing hustlers. Efcc will leave the real criminal that has invoked porvaty to the mass. From presidency to local government chairman in Nigeria should be killed. mass killing sized all there properties...or else Atiku Tinebu including Obi we never save us.  You are justifying criminality because your government is not providing jobs, I hope when you are caught you will tender this excuse in the court of law |
Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo's Family Confirms Death by Commanderinpips: 7:50pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
I condole with his family. It is well |
Nairaland General › Re: Whats That One Thing(s) You Wish You Knew Earlier. by Commanderinpips: 2:50pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Softmirror: I WISH I KNEW THAT WOMEN GENERALLY PRETEND AS IF THEY DON'T LIKE SEX BUT ACTUALLY LOVE IT SO MUCH. THE FEW GUYS WHO KNEW THIS EARLY IN LIFE, WERE SWIMMING IN PUSSIES AFTER PUSSIES . . Of all important things in life you only choose pussy. You indeed have problem. |
Politics › Re: Olumuyiwa Adejobi: You Have No Right To Respond If A Policeman Slaps You by Commanderinpips: 6:42am On Sep 19, 2022 |
Owopariola001: That's the right thing.
Nigerians will be forming James Bond with Police and other sisters agency but not with Army or Armed Robbers.
Also, it is when Armed Robbers begin to disturb them, that's when they would always realize that Police are necessary for any neighborhood. So what is the difference between Nigeria police and armed robber?. |
Crime › Re: The Yahoo Business And The Future Of Nigerian Youths by Commanderinpips: 3:23pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
Sambaby7640: Yahoo boys...hmm
In all honesty, those boys dey help the economy. Hotels,fast food,clubs, boutiques, auto dealers etcs,owners are cashing out big time, expanding their businesses and employing more workers thereby leading to a reduction in unemployment level.
Yahoo has provided a means to poverty alleviation to some families,where the government has failed terribly.
Yahoo has greatly help our entertainment industry especially the music scene has it has helped produce musicians and alleviate their status and that of their families, friens, close ones, associates etc. It has also helped the entertainment industry where they (G boys) attend those musicians shows, events, comedy shows and so on,which has generated lots of funds for its stakeholders.
It has curb or reduce physical theft, Robberies, kidnapping etc,among the youth as more ventures into it.
Yahoo has done harm but the good far outweigh the bad currently.
In conclusion, Yahoo isn't the main problem of this country, the leading probably of this country is it's leaders. The efcc should channel it's energy into curbing corruption among the elected officials.
They created this monsters themselves by making it difficult for the common man to even feed himself talk more of his family as the system has not created an enabling environment for its citizens. Instead, it's the opposite.
If there was a good enabling environment for Nigerians, good leadership, a system where hardwork is greatly rewarded, education prioritized, Corruption curbed and it penetrators greatly punished. You think yahoo will not drastically reduced?
When solving a problem, tackle it from it's roots and success will be almost inevitable.
Ciao I put it to you that you are Yahoo yahoo sympythiser |
Family › Re: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by Commanderinpips: 2:56pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
07kjb: Talk to her that it is not all rosy as she thinks
Never cut a good relationship with your blood Bros some blood relationship is better to avoid them completely, this is just one of them. |
Romance › Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Commanderinpips: 11:09pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin: I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.
I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...
Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...
I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...
I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now The only way out is to accept JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and personal SAVIOUR. Know this and have peace |
Education › Re: Home Schooling The Way To Go: Private Schools Now Charging Exorbitantly by Commanderinpips: 9:40am On Aug 25, 2022 |
michlins: the way Nigeria is, getting married is by his grace. By the time you have four kids, you must have exhausted the grace My brother the grace of GOD can not be exhausted by any generation. |
Family › Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Commanderinpips: 7:44pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
MrBroke: You don't know me and I don't know you but remember today on nairaland that I did tell you Forex trading via CFDs will never make you wealthy or even rich, tomorrow when you start regretting just remember this. I know too much to say shit. I know people who make money from forex okay, but it ain't trading bro it Fucking aint. Forex is something too Broad for you guys to understand You have to realise that i spoke from experience of many years in forex trading. I don't make noise and will never. You can be rich trading fx end of discussion. |
Family › Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Commanderinpips: 10:47pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
MrBroke: Please don't waste your time, go and learn a skill rather, forex is somebody else's business, you will understand better if you continue Please can you explain how forex is somebody else's business?. |
Family › Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Commanderinpips: 10:41pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
xxmoney15: I've been learning since 2020. Why will u say?
There are people who have succeeded stop discouraging others
You can say it's a long term venture instead of ur negative comment Don't mind OP, when they have a limited knowlege about something that's the kind of advice they give. |
Family › Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Commanderinpips: 10:34pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
tomtomastom4: An early advice. You cant make a living out of forex trading. Better stop wasting you little resource and time. Bro that's big lie, you can actually make fortune trading forex. Get the right education and you will be financially independent. I know Nigerians building wealth trading forex, though forex is not for everybody. |