aim5:
Hahahah oh boy it's now you'll realize 98% of girls hate nice guys. My advice is to treat her like sh.it. And if she ever decides to sleep with you again, you need to Bleep the soul outta her. Maybe then she'll know you're a real man.

Bros I tire. That statement really shocked me. I had to put it down on ma phone to remind of me of what she said. Maybe it will jolt me back to reality.

ShayGirl:
Confussion indeed!!!...

Then act more like u don't care.. (aiye ti laju ju gbogbo iyen lo jor) cos i see it like she's gat someone else and is preparing ur mind down ahead of time. It baffles me how we ladies complain of nt getting loved and end up giving no crap wen being showered love..
I knw no wen love turn "food competition" wey person dey notice who chop pass...

Babe she got nada as per anoda guy. Shez afraid of loosing me dat I know for sure. I guess d way I treat her may make her loose some respect. How do I show her I don't care is the issue.

osile2012:



You been dating her for a year + and your still a stranger to her ? she has to tell u something about yourself after a whole year on the phone ? You guys are not yet familiar with each other to be able to fart in front of each other after a year ? Her presence shaks you like u met her the first time after 1 year?

Tell me another story abeg.
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U see, its a long distance relationship. We make out time to see each oda albait sparingly. Her presence doesn't shake me. I feel at home with her. I don't pretend a bit. Maybe shez taking d openness for granted. My thought. Thanks 4 droping by.

KiidaACE:
Simple,,become mean.
Act like your too handsome for her....
Dnt forget to bone your face whenever she makes a stupid comment instead of shining your teeth 24/7...
Ya dig?

Meeeen am soo pissed off about mysef right now. Point noted though.

Guyz there is this lady av been dating for like a year + . We have been going soo well, planed for marriage next year. Well from the look of things we both love each other. Shez a very nice person.The issue is that my babe told me something that kept me awake till dis time. Imagin !! 1.05am and am still awake.

She blotted that I loose myself whenever shez around me. Like WTF. She said I act like shez way above me, like shez too beautiful for me. She actually said I shudnt take it d wrong way but she just has to let me know cuz it might make her loose her head. Walahi I swear down it got to my bone marrow. Thing is av always tried to be a good person to her.Treated her like rare gem she really is. She actually said it that I luv her more than she loves me. I know how to play this game of not showing ur woman hw u love her but I felt since this is not some hit and run relationship there shud be no holds barred in terms of showing her love.

Av been ruminating over this issue since we ended our call.I feel like a wimp. Av dated somebody more beautiful than her soo is not like av never met someone like her. Guyz how do I handle this. My pride is soo wounded here even though I acted like all is well as she was dropping those yarns. How do I get my mojo back without coming off like a jack.

Typical African leader. Basking in afluence while d poor masses surfer. Worst off being that he instigated this Xenophobia madness bcuz of the poverty in d land, blaming foreigners for their poverty.

That's d same way Kano almajiris role on d floor chanting for their emir Sanusi while d young man keep making lot n lots of cashew from governments.

First of all the of what benefit is this social welfare to Nigerians. More n more inflation. U don't energize or run a well structured economy by dashing people money. That is one.
Two, What SA is experiencing now will start happening here in Nigeria where bunch of folks will be contented with collecting 5k every month. If not that NYSC has a duration at which ur to exit , some folks are ready to be full time NYSC member. Soo that APC welfare package is nonsense.

Moreover, we all know how power sector is in shambles bcuz of vandalization of gas pipe lines to these power plants. Most of them political cuz unlike Fuel u can't scoop or steal gas. Soo APC better be ready to wipe this out.

Finally in as much as I wud want to give Buhari a chance to fight this so called corruption, it is gud well organised institution that fights corruption not some jailing of lads. And am wondering if we will have different people at custums, FIRS, etc that will just change overnight and start remiting money to federal coffers to do these social welfare schemes. Wish Buhari n APC well.

I hate Gej nonchalant attitude on dis. Like hw can u sabotage ur people.

First off, ETC shud know that Igbos came out from the civil war bruised financially yet we were able to rise up. The survival instinct of Igbos is why we have less poverty rate in Igboland that we have inthe North even with their power and individual wealth.

Haven't u heard of Igbo enwe eze. An avarage igbo man choses a direction for himself not waiting on ohaneze. We love our brodas and cud be seen during this last election.

As for bigwigs like Dangote, okoyas Adenugas, Dantatas. I laugh wen u use these men to show enterprenural prowess of theri tribes. Show me any of them aside Dangote that is not out of corruption from oil well acquisition. I remember how OBJ supressed Ibeto just to make Dangote have monopoly of cement sector. Yet Ibeto was able to rise afteer such horendous sabotage from OBJ during his regime.

So my broda Patrick Uche AKA Etcetra igbos are not backward, Igbos are not greedy instead those that have milked this con3 oil dry are d greedy ones. They are d reason the con3 is where it is today not the igbos.

I think u make sense small.

Two things are involved when a chik is flashing the sex light and the guy refuses.

1) He doesn't want to loose interest: As a sex meniac u said, he has been there and done that. Soo he has seen all shades of "opante".
Soo to him sex is no biggy. If ur girl pushes him further and he has sex with her, the interest will go down and the relationship might crumble.

2) You can only accuse a non-virgin girl of cheating. Soo it's possible he doesnt want to open it so that he can easily checkmate her.

Whichever way it is, ur friend shud chill bcuz he values her enough not to be fixated on sex from her which is by the way the "only" thing ladies use to control a guy.

Samyj247: So someone thinks like me here, to me as long as she can be seduced by other guys up to dat extent, then even if we are married, she wil not stick to me alone. Bro u took a nice decision, instead of getn married to her nd discovering that she is a good kisser to other men.

4 where !!!!!!!!! Not preserving anytin. But is not on my wish list too. Busy chasing mulla.

Av tried like 2 times though. Meeen to open dat thing no easy. She screaming crying and me looking at her with an eye of pity. The 3rd time it wud be easier shaaa cuz av widen it a little . She really want me to do the do. Truth is am in control now.

Only kiss ur getting worked up !!

Let it go bro. I bet such girl is a rare breed 4 her to be sober bcuz of a mere kiss. Shez 4 keep if u ask me unless ur tired of her.

Mine tried braking her virginity when we had our own problem. She cudnt because according to her it was too painful. Dude gat confirm if d kush is still intact b4 I continued with her. Point is if she goes out of the way and feels soo sorry to let u know, 4give. The second time, well u show her d exit door.

tonididdy: oga concussion...burst that thing next time...otherwise u go come meet say her otolondo don tondo

U bet man. Shez coming next week when my off days will start. She sef say make I dey prepare 4 d bursting.
Walahi dis one pass d rig work sef. Which oil go make am easy 4me bros cuz av never disvirgened b4 n I heard d thing is painful.

Been doing press-up since. Cud nt believe though dat at her age she wud still be a V.

Marriage tinz on ma mind

tonididdy: brother na you I dey pity...you are confused. you know why? you are in what oyibo call conditional love...pity love.

you go remember me the day I'll see the shocker of your life...nor put your all in that relationship oh...bang that girl and forget she loves u.

Guy u aint getting the picture. I aint no slow poke. The thing is what we hv is a distance relationship. last time I visited her I did everytin bcuz she said she is a V. Not to be fooled I had to insert the damn finger into the mambina (apologies to Sirnol) to confirm. Na V she be . Soo am not worried. She has good xter walahi. worst being dat she doesnt even know z friendzone he put d guy. She takes it dat d guy likes her. Wetin be my own.

That zone if soo fvcking stupid to be in. Told a chik i wanted to date dat she cant keep me waiting soo long b4 making up her mind to date me.

The babe was like cant we be friends first and am like what hv we been doing 4 d past 5months. Ahh told her to give me reply or am out.

She saw she was loosing me cuz I started withdrawing small small and said yessssss. We r now dating.

Guess wat guyz, there is dis dude she always tell me about dat has been chasing her 4 like 3yrss now. He buys her stuff but has never kissed her. The young man told her he wud luv to marry her n she refused, put him in friedzone. About to even buy her Tecno Phantom A3. She has even told him about me. I just dey pity d young man.

Nuzo':


I don't mean any disrespect but it looks like you are the one with a fickle brain here.

A girl who placed you on a waiting list, sentenced you to the jail of freind-zone and opened office on your head is fickle minded?

Bro, she might be into you, she might actually want you to wait for her, and of course...I have no doubt that she's a good erson. But I could bet that she's not yet into you...and may never be into you.

And even if she's into you, she will lose interest quickly as girls find men who are so into them boring. Such attitude pisses them off bro....except they are about clocking 30.

Best approach is to try to forget about her, get other things to occupy your mind. Stop callimg her. If possible delete anything that has to do with her and be hopeful and prayerful that the girl very special girl God has marked for you is on her way to meet and appreciate you. It might even be HER!

But until them, stop looking for who's not looking for you. Its physically, emotionally and financially draining.

I like straight up guyz. Taking the bullseye kind of advice. No insult taken. Thanks buddy

This song has been on repeat since. Na party jam be dis sef.

Obara Jesus. U see why we should not biker over which party is saint n which is an aberration. They are all fvcking the same. The one that cries foul is one that their rigging wasn't enough t win the election.

Thanks guyz. I just needed a place to vent these feelings. My fear has been someone comming around to sweep her off her feet while am waiting somewhere. Women brain sometimes are too fickle.

wazobia_for_u: Just don't be on her neck all the time, give her time to love you and she will be the one to complain why you don't have much time for and by then you will know she is getting ready to be committed.
Don't spend for her on the platform of getting relationship as a return, assist when you have the power to do as a true friend and in time she will decide to be with you, most time it takes time for ladies to fall in love but men fall in love easily mostly when the looks and the shape of the girl is killing

@Wazobia. Giving her space u mean is it by not calling her or wat. I actually told her yesterday that I may not be calling her d way I used to. She said she wants to always be hearing my voice . Me on the other hand calls her like fire. I really want to get my sane mind back . I told mysef I will have to get another girl to fill d emptiness but the thought alone is killing.

kinnad: it depends on u. if u want to be lonely till she is done, den wait for her. And who says u can assume the position of her father by paying her bills? assist only when u are led,as you can do for any other person and never start what u cnt finish. goodluck

Thanks alot Kinnad. I actually told her i hate being put on a friend zone. My kind of person is iether you are in or out. But I see myself going against this my principle.

O boy these guyz don hammer.

Guyz I think I now understand while the almighty Samson felt weak in the hands of Delaila.

With all my doggedness and astute posture, with this mindset that no girl can mess my brain up in the name of love. I have fallen flat and need some help.

I was introduced to this girl by her cousin who is a friend of mine. The cousin is a very good girl just that she is not my type of person - short. I prefer a girl my height or a bit taller. So she told me I am a very good person and would like to introduce me to her cousin which eventually stays in their house. She attested to d fact that her cousin is a very special person to her with sterling character . And as such wudnt want a bad person to date her. Mind u d said girl is even older than my friend - soo is not as if the girl cant make her decisions.

The crux is this: ever since me and the chik got talking both phone, wasap, fb, it has been magical. Gud command of English, calm calculated and very smart. I was keeping my card in my chest pending wen I see this babe. My work doesn't really give me time but somehow I managed to go see her . I set my eyes on this babe and went ' bonker'. She is more than what my friend described in all spheres.

Now I hv fallen head over heels with this babe. She told me about her ex and how the brake-up disorganized her. She said she wouldn't want to enter into relationship 4 now till she is done with skul. She will finish next year. She is all I want in a wife which av craved 4 a long time.

She said I shud wait for her to finish b4 she dates me.
My fear is this: even though she doesn't demand for money, though she tells me some of her financial challenges, I always feel compelled to assist as a working guy.

1) Wudnt dat be mugu-ish spending on somebody am not yet into relationship with bcuz as it stands now she just wants to be just friends.
2) We are not in the same state.

Please guyz help me. I dont want to loose this girl . The same time I wouldn't want t be spending on her with hope dat whenever she is ready she will date me. What do u guyz think bcuz am confused here. What is the best approach here.