₦airaland Forum

Mz_®ae'®ae:
Pls O..itz a lie...If u check it awt ud see dat most halfcast..halfbreeds persay ar mostly half igbos..Cos igbos ar div3rse..But it doesnt rili mata..if he loves u..hell accept u nd xo will his family

Oh really?

-Mr Cork-:
…Congrats…are u light skin?

What are you congratulating me for? I'm confused.

talk2davoo: pls send ur email id to: talk2davoo2012@gmail.com

May I ask, why?

Thank you all for your responses. They were helpful.

Good day!

HisRib: Hi Dear,

Welcome ooo!

Nairalanders can be a bit harsh, so just be prepared.

But to answer your question:

Does it really matter if his family doesn't accept/like you? His love for you is all that counts.

If the man you end up marrying loves you with all of his heart, you have nothing to worry about because he will never let his family abuse you.

Hi Thanks!

You're right, but no woman wants to be in a situation where her in laws hate her. It's the worst.

MrLoverMAn: Hello CongoleseQueen:

Welcome to the forum:

Yorubas are more accepting to foreign women.
The igbos tend to stick to igbos ( I know this cos am igbo).

But bear in mind this is a generalization.

What is more important is you find some one who you like and likes you.
Hopefully the family will like you all the same if you are of good character and from a good family.

Well that sucks because I happen to be attracted a bit more to Igbos than the other tribes. Thanks for the info!

I'm Congolese, but I'm very attracted to Nigerian men. I've always wondered, let's just say I end up getting engaged to one -- would his family like/accept me?

Which tribe is more accepting of foreign women?

Please be honest in your responses -- don't just say things to make me feel better.

HisRib: Romance should be mandatory in every relationship. Most couples shy away from it because they've been tricked into believing one needs to have a large amount of money in order to be romantic.

I'm going to teach you five ways you can implement romance into your relationship without having to spending too much money:

1) Quality Time

Spending quality time with your significant other can be quite romantic. There are many ways you can spend this time with you partner. I would recommend watching movies (at home), going for a walk, cooking together, shopping together and much more. During quality time, you have your partner's undivided attention. That's what makes it so romantic.

2) Romantic Dinner at Home

You don't always have to go to a fancy restaurant to have a romantic dinner. You can have it at the comfort of your own home and make it special in your own way. What's better than being at home with your lover, eating delicious food and listening to slow/sexy music? And of course after dinner, we all know what's going to happen in the bedroom.

3) Fun Activities

There are so many fun activities for couples out there. Plan something! If you are the boring type of couple, why not do something out of your element? Do something out of the norm.

4) Romantic Gateway

Not everyone can afford to go to Mexico, Monaco, Barcelona or the Bahamas for a romantic vacation. That stuff is great, but it's also overrated. Why not book a weekend at a 4 or 5 star hotel in your city? Not only is it cheaper, it also gives you the chance to explore and create memories in your own city. Or, you can visit another city within your country. It's amazing the things we discover when we stop taking what we have for granted. There's a lot to discover in your city/country. This is your chance.

5) Sex

Yes, that's right! I'm talking about the type of sex where you take your time to make sure your partner is fully satisfied.
Small tip for the Ladies: when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked and slowly bring him to the room and rock his world. Don't just do the same routine sex like everyday. Once in a while, light it up in the bedroom and I guarantee you, he'll be hooked to your hip forever.


Please Note: I offer free relationship advice and guidance. If you have any questions about your relationship or love life, ask here: http://askhisrib.weebly.com/ask-his-rib.html // I also started a thread on here where I've been giving advice. Feel free to ask your questions there as well.

These are great suggestions. I think my favorite was quality time. There's nothing better than spending time with your babe doing fun activities.