Nigerians girls dnt have time for all you listed above except for number 5. They would prefer u give them physical cash. Moreover all you mentioned still boils down to spending money. To spend quality time with a girl either by shopping together or taking her out; u need money. Taking a girl to a 5star hotel for vacation; u stil require money. To make a decent dinner; u also need money. So my dear, in all money is still the major thing.

Yeesh: Dat no 5 tho...I think going unclad to meet him @ d door is quite risky..wot if he's comin wit a friend

ur luck,u 'do' them both

Temptee101: Nigerians girls dnt have time for all you listed above except for number 5. They would prefer u give them physical cash. Moreover all you mentioned still boils down to spending money. To spend quality time with a girl either by shopping together or taking her out; u need money. Taking a girl to a 5star hotel for vacation; u stil require money. To make a decent dinner; u also need money. So my dear, in all money is still the major thing.

WELL, read the title of my article again. I didn't say you won't spend any money..I said you won't spend a lot of money.

pasqal09: This doesn't apply to nigerian girls abeg

Who told you to date all Nigerian girls?

Stop generalizing my friend, not all Nigerian girls are after your money.
And stop flashing your money at them if you do not want them to run after it.
Thing is, most of you are so dumb and unromantic that you think your money will woo a girl and do everything for you.

Y'all should shove your money up your hole and be bold, brave, well-mannered and romantic!!!
We are tired of you borrowing money to impress us and then coming online to weep/whine about it

I think this is the best

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1449505_hail_jpg678fd65f6a127f71b4d24f7e5c0dd7ba

Other things to do;

1 - Bike Ride together
2 - Cook Together
3 - Go to the Gym together
4 - Match Socks Together
5 - Plant a Garden
6 - See a Play at a Local Theater
7 - Paint a Room in Your House
8 - Go Shopping for food items
9 - Play Scrabble
10 - Go to a Vineyard
11 - Walk
12 - Picnic on the Beach
13 - Play the Wii
14 - Play Tennis
15 - Put Together a Puzzle
16 - Read a Book Together
17 - Watch a Sunset
19 - Bowling
20 - Split a Milkshake
21 - Aquarium
22 - Take a Nap
23 - Kiss in the Rain
24 - Go for a double massage
25 - Buy Matching Bracelets
26 - Go on a Road Trip
27 - Make Breakfast
28 - Write Each Other Letters
29 - Go Mini Golfing
30 - Kiss at Midnight
31 - Go to the Beach
32 - Make a Couple's Video
33 - Sing a Song Really Loud
34 - Order Chinese Food
35 - Go to the mechanics' together
36 - Stargaze
37 - Go to the Zoo
38 - Pick Out Each Others Outfits
39 - Go Tanning
40 - Have a Harry Potter Marathon
41 - Kiss Underwater
42 - Watch Fireworks
43 - Let's fall asleep on the phone together...
44 - Get Ready Together
45 - Go on a Classy Ass Date
46 - Eat Ice Cream
47 - Take a Bubble Bath Together
48 - Go Running
49 - Have a Paint War
50 - Take a Picture Kissing
51 - Share a Pizza
52 - Slow Dance
53 - Share Popcorn at the Movies
54 - Get a Pedicure

Yaaay! *now calling sulia*

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HisRib: Romance should be mandatory in every relationship. Most couples shy away from it because they've been tricked into believing one needs to have a large amount of money in order to be romantic.

I'm going to teach you five ways you can implement romance into your relationship without having to spending too much money:

1) Quality Time

Spending quality time with your significant other can be quite romantic. There are many ways you can spend this time with you partner. I would recommend watching movies (at home), going for a walk, cooking together, shopping together and much more. During quality time, you have your partner's undivided attention. That's what makes it so romantic.

2) Romantic Dinner at Home

You don't always have to go to a fancy restaurant to have a romantic dinner. You can have it at the comfort of your own home and make it special in your own way. What's better than being at home with your lover, eating delicious food and listening to slow/sexy music? And of course after dinner, we all know what's going to happen in the bedroom.

3) Fun Activities

There are so many fun activities for couples out there. Plan something! If you are the boring type of couple, why not do something out of your element? Do something out of the norm.

4) Romantic Gateway

Not everyone can afford to go to Mexico, Monaco, Barcelona or the Bahamas for a romantic vacation. That stuff is great, but it's also overrated. Why not book a weekend at a 4 or 5 star hotel in your city? Not only is it cheaper, it also gives you the chance to explore and create memories in your own city. Or, you can visit another city within your country. It's amazing the things we discover when we stop taking what we have for granted. There's a lot to discover in your city/country. This is your chance.

5) Sex

Yes, that's right! I'm talking about the type of sex where you take your time to make sure your partner is fully satisfied.
Small tip for the Ladies: when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked and slowly bring him to the room and rock his world. Don't just do the same routine sex like everyday. Once in a while, light it up in the bedroom and I guarantee you, he'll be hooked to your hip forever.


Please Note: I offer free relationship advice and guidance. If you have any questions about your relationship or love life, ask here: http://askhisrib.weebly.com/ask-his-rib.html // I also started a thread on here where I've been giving advice. Feel free to ask your questions there as well.

African women are hardly original. You must have copied this from some western media how whites do their thing. Nigerian ladies watch too much television and want to use naija men for practice.Imitation!!


5) Sex

Yes, that's right! I'm talking about the type of sex where you take your time to make sure your partner is fully satisfied.
Small tip for the Ladies: when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked and slowly bring him to the room and rock his world. Don't just do the same routine sex like everyday. Once in a while, light it up in the bedroom and I guarantee you, he'll be hooked to your hip forever. [/font]

With time sex becomes more of a duty than romance to men.With all the fake hair, nails,eyelashes stripped the tripping factor is gone.He will only pretend and 'fulfill righteousness' Adviced only at the beginning.

Yeesh: Dat no 5 tho...I think going unclad to meet him @ d door is quite risky..wot if he's comin wit a friend

Fc*uk em all!!

Sike: Yaaay! *now calling sulia*

Sike and Sulia.......nice combo

Dis works n I'm enjoyin my r/ship gud time... It all boils down 2 undastandin who each partner is n if u hv d same goals dats beta... Bt don't tink I'll come dat easy cos dere'll b oda suitors hanging around n d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u don't knw.... As 4 d men dat tinks dis dosen't work cos its 4rm a girl shd advic us on wat 2 do if dey aint bunch of failures whu don't even blieve in demselves... It all starts wit u... Know wu u r b4 enterin any r/ship n if u don't entr in2 1 dat will help u knw wu u r

HisRib: Romance should be mandatory in every relationship. Most couples shy away from it because they've been tricked into believing one needs to have a large amount of money in order to be romantic.

I'm going to teach you five ways you can implement romance into your relationship without having to spending too much money:

1) Quality Time

Spending quality time with your significant other can be quite romantic. There are many ways you can spend this time with you partner. I would recommend watching movies (at home), going for a walk, cooking together, shopping together and much more. During quality time, you have your partner's undivided attention. That's what makes it so romantic.

2) Romantic Dinner at Home

You don't always have to go to a fancy restaurant to have a romantic dinner. You can have it at the comfort of your own home and make it special in your own way. What's better than being at home with your lover, eating delicious food and listening to slow/sexy music? And of course after dinner, we all know what's going to happen in the bedroom.

3) Fun Activities

There are so many fun activities for couples out there. Plan something! If you are the boring type of couple, why not do something out of your element? Do something out of the norm.

4) Romantic Gateway

Not everyone can afford to go to Mexico, Monaco, Barcelona or the Bahamas for a romantic vacation. That stuff is great, but it's also overrated. Why not book a weekend at a 4 or 5 star hotel in your city? Not only is it cheaper, it also gives you the chance to explore and create memories in your own city. Or, you can visit another city within your country. It's amazing the things we discover when we stop taking what we have for granted. There's a lot to discover in your city/country. This is your chance.

5) Sex

Yes, that's right! I'm talking about the type of sex where you take your time to make sure your partner is fully satisfied.
Small tip for the Ladies: when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked and slowly bring him to the room and rock his world. Don't just do the same routine sex like everyday. Once in a while, light it up in the bedroom and I guarantee you, he'll be hooked to your hip forever.


Please Note: I offer free relationship advice and guidance. If you have any questions about your relationship or love life, ask here: http://askhisrib.weebly.com/ask-his-rib.html // I also started a thread on here where I've been giving advice. Feel free to ask your questions there as well.

These are great suggestions. I think my favorite was quality time. There's nothing better than spending time with your babe doing fun activities.

Unclad at the door.....in Nigeria

good ideas!

uj_sizzle: Unclad at the door.....in Nigeria

Why not?

Not just completely naked. You are wearing a robe with nothing inside shaa

HisRib:

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whose Rib?

No romance without finance

j.J

HisRib:

But Naija men are partially responsible for that. Most Naija men use materialistic things to attract women?

Regardless of how much money you may have, why not woo her with your intellect? Kindness? Politeness?

Why must it always be I can do this for you or buy this for you?

That should come later.

Story, my friend tried that wit a girl, the next thing him hear na "na love I go chop"?. Many Naija girls na money first b4 dm think of love

If my man is a painter or agboro park can i welcome him with sex when he has not taken his bath?

As number 5 states..u den come home with ur business partner,nd u wife comes to meet u unclad..#GOBE#

Adeniyi A.:

whose Rib?

Certainly not yours

Uwakuwak: If my man is a painter or agboro park can i welcome him with sex when he has not taken his bath?

Typical naija girl...if he is a banker or he works in oil firm I guess u will do much than welcoming him wif sex.

Uwakuwak: If my man is a painter or agboro park can i welcome him with sex when he has not taken his bath?

Would you date one? The sort of women who date these sorts of guys do not have access to the Internet, let alone Nairaland.

4 or 5 star hotel? Aunty, na wa for u o.

HisRib:

Why not?

Not just completely naked. You are wearing a robe with nothing inside shaa

I'm certain he'll be more concerned about food than my naked body

HisRib: Romance should be mandatory in every relationship. Most couples shy away from it because they've been tricked into believing one needs to have a large amount of money in order to be romantic.

I'm going to teach you five ways you can implement romance into your relationship without having to spending too much money:

1) Quality Time

Spending quality time with your significant other can be quite romantic. There are many ways you can spend this time with you partner. I would recommend watching movies (at home), going for a walk, cooking together, shopping together and much more. During quality time, you have your partner's undivided attention. That's what makes it so romantic.

2) Romantic Dinner at Home

You don't always have to go to a fancy restaurant to have a romantic dinner. You can have it at the comfort of your own home and make it special in your own way. What's better than being at home with your lover, eating delicious food and listening to slow/sexy music? And of course after dinner, we all know what's going to happen in the bedroom.

3) Fun Activities

There are so many fun activities for couples out there. Plan something! If you are the boring type of couple, why not do something out of your element? Do something out of the norm.

4) Romantic Gateway

Not everyone can afford to go to Mexico, Monaco, Barcelona or the Bahamas for a romantic vacation. That stuff is great, but it's also overrated. Why not book a weekend at a 4 or 5 star hotel in your city? Not only is it cheaper, it also gives you the chance to explore and create memories in your own city. Or, you can visit another city within your country. It's amazing the things we discover when we stop taking what we have for granted. There's a lot to discover in your city/country. This is your chance.

5) Sex

Yes, that's right! I'm talking about the type of sex where you take your time to make sure your partner is fully satisfied.
Small tip for the Ladies: when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked and slowly bring him to the room and rock his world. Don't just do the same routine sex like everyday. Once in a while, light it up in the bedroom and I guarantee you, he'll be hooked to your hip forever.


Please Note: I offer free relationship advice and guidance. If you have any questions about your relationship or love life, ask here: http://askhisrib.weebly.com/ask-his-rib.html // I also started a thread on here where I've been giving advice. Feel free to ask your questions there as well.

brother, at bolded part in no4; Did u just recommend a 5-star hostel for a low key romantic outing? hahahahahaha. very ironic!

no5; u mean as he comes back from work immediately? Imagine me coming back from site around 6pm and a lady offers that as a romantic gesture! WTF.

anyway, i might agree with others

Ladies,

I didn't mean meet your man at the door completely naked. Wear sexy robe with nothing inside. Take him to the room and rock his world. Then give him a hot plate of his favorite food.

hurricaneChris:


brother, at bolded part in no4; Did u just recommend a 5-star hostel for a low key romantic outing? hahahahahaha. very ironic!

no5; u mean as he comes back from work immediately? Imagine me coming back from site around 6pm and a lady offers that as a romantic gesture! WTF.

anyway, i might agree with others

Well her surprising you in a sexy attire when you get home from work keeps the fire alive and helps you take your mind off your stressful day!

Tried that a million times, it never worked.

HisRib:

But Naija men are partially responsible for that. Most Naija men use materialistic things to attract women?

Regardless of how much money you may have, why not woo her with your intellect? Kindness? Politeness?

Why must it always be I can do this for you or buy this for you?

That should come later.

Yield: Cool tips, excluding #5.


HisRib, this is a big change, compared to some of your past threads:

www.nairaland.com/1253328/should-broke-men-allowed-date

www.nairaland.com/1216226/ladies-marry-jobless-man

It shows that she is still growing and learning new things, so are views are bound to change. Nice write up @ op

wheesin: Atleast money wil still be spent doing all this things,
i tot u wanted to mention trekking with her instead of a cab or playing ludo at home

u dey find zero spending abi? U go try leave earth enter Jupiter o