HEY PALS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ON THIS TOPIC.I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A FEW YEARS BUT MY WIFE HAS REFUSED TO ALLOW ME MY PRIVACY WHEN EVER I CHOOSE NOT TO SPEAK WITH HER PARENTS OR CLOSE FRIENDS.YOU KNOW HOW IT CAN BE THAT SOMETIMES YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO TALK, SO WHEN SHE IS RECEIVING A CALL AND I SENSE THAT THE PERSON WILL EVENTUALLY ASK TO SPEAK WITH ME, I WILL USUALLY GIVE HER ADVANCE SIGNAL THAT I WILL SPEAK WITH THE PERSON LATER, BUT AS LONG AS THE CALLER IS ANY OF HER CLOSE FRIENDS OR PARENTS SHE WILL ALWAYS HAND OVER THE PHONE FOR ME TO SPEAK WITH THE PERSON CONTRARY TO MY WISH.

THE ONE THAT REALLY GOT ME OUT OF CONTROL WAS THAT YESTERDAY HER MUM CALLED WHILE I WAS EATING. GUYS I HAD SOME BONE IN MY MOUTH SO AS USUAL I SIGNALED HER THAT I WILL SPEAK WITH HER LATER, BUT ONCE HER MUM ASKED TO SPEAK WITH ME, SHE BROUGHT THE PHONE AND AS SHE WAS COMING I VOICED OUT AND SAID ''I GOT A BIG BONE IN MY MOUTH, I CANT SPEAK ON PHONE NOW, I WILL CALL HER BACK''BUT SHE STILL IGNORED ME AND PUT THE PHONE TO MY MOUTH SO I REFUSED TO SPEAK. THIS THING HAPPENED RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER TWO YOUNGER SISTERS.

SO WHEN I WAS DONE WITH THE EATING I CALLED HER INTO THE ROOM AND ASKED HER WHY SHE DID THAT AND SHE FLARED UP CLAIMING THAT I SHOULD HAVE PAUSED WHAT EVER I WAS DOING TO SPEAK WITH HER MUM. SHE EVEN COMPLAINED THAT ON NEW YEAR DAY I DID NOT CALL HER PARENTS UNTIL ABOUT 2PM IN THE AFTERNOON WHEN I WAS SUPPOSED TO HAVE CALLED THEM BY 12 MIDNIGHT ON NEW YEAR'S EVE.

MEN I WAS SO SHOCKED BECAUSE THE LADY KNEW THAT I GOT UP FROM SLEEP VERY LATE ON NEW YEAR'S DAY, SPENT SOMETIME ON MY PC AND STARTED MAKING CALLS ONLY IN THE AFTERNOON OF WHICH HER PARENTS WERE ONE OF THE FIRST PEOPLE I CALLED. IN FACT MY WIFE WHO IS COMPLAINING UP TILL TODAY 5 DAYS INTO THE NEW YEAR IS YET TO CALL MY MUM AND WHEN I ACCOSTED HER WITH THAT FACT, SHE GOT SO ANGRY THAT SHE WENT SHOUTING ALL OVER THE HOUSE CLAIMING THAT I WANT TO COMPARE HER PARENTS THAT MAKE EFFORT TO CALL ME WITH MINE THAT HARDLY CALLS HER.

I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE BUT IT SEEMS TO ME THAT SHE IS BEING TOO SELFISH AND LOSES HER SENSE OF REASONING WHEN ISSUES CONCERNING HER CLOSE ONES ARE BROUGHT UP IN THE MARRIAGE. THE WORST IS THAT SHE DOESN'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG IN HER ACTIONS OR IN ACTIONS SO SHE IS ADAMANT. I AM REALLY BEGINNING TO GET SUFFOCATED.