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BusinessRe: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by coolcharm(m): 9:02pm On Dec 03, 2015
#220 to a dollar
1step2right:
please how much does GT bank naira to a dollar for online payment
FamilyRe: You Think You Know Your Taurus Man Or Lady Well Enough by coolcharm(m): 8:50pm On Dec 03, 2015
May7ven wink I Rep! Sometimes, I fear for my own laziness sha cheesy
PoliticsRe: 2015 Africa Corruption Ranking by coolcharm(m): 4:37pm On Dec 03, 2015
Op, verifiable source please.
PoliticsRe: N25 Billion TSA Fraud Under Buhari !!! by coolcharm(m): 10:04pm On Nov 11, 2015
Remmita... hmm. No comments until proper investigation has been conducted on this matter
PoliticsRe: PHOTOS: Two Gays Were Paraded Naked In Benin City by coolcharm(m):
Na wa o. Let them just chop off their John Thomas. Make we know say dem don get borehole grin

Idiotic perverts!
PoliticsRe: DPR Seals Total Depot Others For Hoarding 46m Litres Of Petrol by coolcharm(m): 7:38am On Nov 09, 2015
Seal them all, seize the product and slam them a fine if possible. That's how we roll smiley
PoliticsRe: Aisha Jummai-Alhassan 1st Elected Female Governor As Tribunal Sacks Ishaku by coolcharm(m): 1:06pm On Nov 07, 2015
Good.
PoliticsRe: Congratulaations Mama Taraba by coolcharm(m): 1:03pm On Nov 07, 2015
Good one for democracy if true.
PoliticsRe: Son Of Former Nigerian Presyakubu Gowon Released Frm U.S Prison After 22 Years by coolcharm(m): 9:58am On Nov 05, 2015
Hmm... So Gowon disowned his son? And he is here preaching peace and doing CAN up and down.
PropertiesRe: Breath-taking Photos Of Banana Island (see Photos) by coolcharm(m): 7:09pm On Oct 22, 2015
Money speaking volumes
NYSCRe: Going Back To My Parent's After POP by coolcharm(m):
It's ok to go back to your parents after POP. What is wrong is remaining (or staying) there.

I strongly believe that every man (irrespective of gender) must take an active step in shaping their lives.

The three points you mentioned; rent, upkeep allowance and the social system aren't enough to be used as an excuse to get complacent.

Here is my candid advice to you.

1. First of all discover your self and set tangible goals. - what will you be doing while at home? What do you really want for yourself? What direction do you want to steer your life? When do you plan to leave your parents house? You don't need money to answer all these questions I guess.

Everything might not go according to plan, but the most important thing is to have a plan.

2. Move close to opportunities. If your parents aren't living in a place that gives you an advantage to opportunities by proximity, then the earlier you migrate the better for you. Look for relatives who you can visit and spend some time with in cities and towns across the nation. You never know where something good will come out from.

3. Learn or improve on a skill. If you have some skills at the moment, take some time to improve and perfect them over the next few months. If you haven't developed any, nw is the best time to begin.

The bottom line is... have something you are good at. That will be the basis on which most people would likely relate with you. You must not be a liability under any circurmstance.

Your skills might be what will open the ultimate door for you. You never can tell.

4. Network. Yes, network! Meet new people at every slight opportunity you have. In church, fairs, training and development meetings, interracive forums and what have you.

Now, your attendance is not as important as how you introduce yourself. When you meet people, introduce yourself by your skills, and what you can do and not as a graduate seeking employment. People will naturally avoid you if the feel you will become one added liability to them, but tend to draw close if the find the relationship to be mutually beneficial.

5. Maintain a positive attitude. It doesn't matter if you get a job or something Doing next week or next month. It is very important to be positive, stay hopeful, wear a smile (always) and try to be happy.

Infact, your positive attitude would open any door for you even before your credentials or certificates would.

What's more? Always appear neat, tact and bold.

My 2cent
AutosRe: Tokunbo Mercedes Benz E350 - 2007 @ N4,100,000.00 by coolcharm(m): 6:43pm On Oct 12, 2015
shady16:
4.1?

Okay, happy sales grin
Lol. That price is not even in touch with reality at all.
SportsRe: Fifa: Sepp Blatter, Michel Platini & Jerome Valcke Suspended by coolcharm(op): 12:45pm On Oct 08, 2015
I think he overstretched the goodwill accorded him. He should have honourably steeped down months ago... imo
SportsFifa: Sepp Blatter, Michel Platini & Jerome Valcke Suspended by coolcharm(op): 11:38am On Oct 08, 2015
Fifa has suspended its president Sepp Blatter, secretary general Jerome Valcke and vice-president Michel Platini for 90 days.

Former Fifa vice-president Chung Mong-joon has been banned for six years and fined 100,000 Swiss Francs.

The punishments were handed out by the ethics committee of football's world governing body


Source: http://m.bbc.com/sport/football/34474231
PoliticsRe: Ministerial List: Buhari Begs PDP Senators - Vanguard by coolcharm(m): 8:08pm On Oct 06, 2015
Beg? Kai! Vanguard can lie! Liar liar pants on fire.
AutosRe: The History Of Land Rover Cars {pics} by coolcharm(m): 9:13am On Sep 11, 2015
Yea... even the latest model will soon become history too cheesy
PoliticsRe: Scholar Disgraces Femi Fani-kayode Demolishes Claims On Igbo/yoruba History. by coolcharm(m): 3:51am On Sep 11, 2015
Lol... FFK alias Mouth Organ
SportsRe: 2015 Women's Afrobasket: D'Tigress On The March by coolcharm(m): 5:33am On Sep 02, 2015
Receive inspiration from D'Tigers and spank Angola and all other oppositions grin #Go!
CelebritiesRe: Most Beautiful Girl In Lagos 2015 Releases Stunning New Photos by coolcharm(m): 4:28pm On Aug 08, 2015
Eluwilussit:
If them no see anybody wey fine, why them no postpone the thing na? At least, them no for embarrass the girl and lagosians.
I tell you. I think it's the handiwork of some hungry persons tho, cos it's more of a joke.
CelebritiesRe: Most Beautiful Girl In Lagos 2015 Releases Stunning New Photos by coolcharm(m): 11:20am On Aug 08, 2015
Miss maiduguri unko? Nonsense. What are the criteria? Who is the judge?
PoliticsRe: Oil Theft In Nigeria by coolcharm(m): 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2015
Na una dey burst am, na una dey thief am, na una dey dey set am ablaze, na still una dey offer solutions. Hian!
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Pledges Support To Kinsmen To Get New Monarch by coolcharm(m): 5:21pm On Aug 06, 2015
Baba again! Let them just make him the Oba, to crown all his hustles and bustles.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Govt-ordered Arms Yet To Arrive – Dasuki by coolcharm(m): 5:10pm On Aug 06, 2015
We are waiting for them to arrive Oga Dansuki. Please who is with the waybill? Make we track am. Lol. cheesy

I think the arms purchase was left to almost the tail end of the past administration to score some cheap political point. (if true) just like the six weeks magic against boko.

God rest the souls of our troops who paid the supreme price as a result of some people's carelessness, insensitivity and greed.

God also punish Bokoharam Big!
PoliticsRe: The Sins Of Mummar Gadaffi: What We Have Believed Differently. by coolcharm(m): 5:07pm On Aug 06, 2015
Libyans will sure be biting their fingers in regret now
PoliticsRe: Rites Of Passage Begin For Ooni Of Ife, Palace To Make Formal Announcement by coolcharm(m): 4:56pm On Aug 06, 2015
Tot the gods have not communicated his demise to humans.

Tradition and rituals sha.
PoliticsRe: Conspiracy And Murder: A Deliberate Cover Up By The Army: Lt. Benjamin Edim by coolcharm(m):
Sad... this is highly unprofessional of the military boys. I pray his killers get punished, and his family and friends get the justice they deserve
PoliticsRe: Wanted!!! Segun Agbaje Wanted By The Fbi by coolcharm(m): 4:43pm On Aug 06, 2015
Nw, this is bad.
PoliticsRe: Buhari “begging” Amaechi Is Laughable – PDP by coolcharm(m): 9:31am On Aug 05, 2015
When that happens, they can all go swim in the lagoon cheesy

Is any of them better than amechi?

Useless walling waillers grin cheesy
AutosRe: World's First Ambulance Vehicle by coolcharm(m): 11:06pm On Aug 02, 2015
Ah.. we've come a long long way. Looks like coffin on wheels.
PoliticsRe: “Go Get Your House In Order,” US Tells The Nigerian President by coolcharm(m): 7:38am On Jul 31, 2015
Nonsense.. do we even need the US to approve of us in the first place? BTW, that's just one disgruntled wailling wailler ranting

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