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Bro, the 1st lady looks like the extravagant type. If you're a rich guy or from a rich family, it shouldn't be a problem for you, but if ur an average huzzling guy, she needs to change her ways or U'll keep having issues with her in marriage. The second one looks like the homely supportive type that probably loves you a lot.

Most importantly, take your time, dont be in a haste.

Thanks all for ur inputs. I guess I'll just move on. For those that suggest I chop and clean mouth, am presently not in that frame of mind now because I ve probably had enough. I think I want something with a definition. Thanks again, Cheers...

Hi everyone, this is my 1st thread on nairaland.
I urgently need an advice.

Am quite mature in age and a good number of my friends are married so am not a teenager.

I have not been in a relationship for sometime now due to some reasons. I met a girl recently and we became close. I like her so much, she visits me, we hangout, we talk almost everyday on phone, she even took me out once and we have kissed a couple of times.
The issue is that when I asked her out, she told me that she has a boyfriend and she only wants me as a friend. I persisted for awhile but she bluntly said that she's not leaving her boyfriend for me. My problem now is should I forget her and move on or should I hang on with the belief that she will change her mind. I also like this laidy a lot. I need sincere answers pleaeeessss.

Hi everyone, this is my 1st thread on nairaland.
I urgently need an advice.

Am quite mature in age and a good number of my friends are married so am not a teenager.

I have not been in a relationship for sometime now due to some reasons. I met a girl recently and we became close. I like her so much, she visits me, we hangout, we talk almost everyday on phone, she even took me out once and we have kissed a couple of times.
The issue is that when I asked her out, she told me that she has a boyfriend and she only wants me as a friend. I persisted for awhile but she bluntly said that she's not leaving her boyfriend for me. My problem now is should I forget her and move on or should I hang on with the belief that she will change her mind. I also like this laidy a lot. I need sincere answers pleaeeessss.