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*pls dont mind the english*

The silence between us has gone for long and yet none of us has spoken, i knew we were carried away with our different thoughts, just then uche spoke bringing us back to reality, sometimes you cant really blame the girls he said, most of them dont trust us, and with the numerous guys who always disturb them, offering them tempting things it do always get into there heads making them proud and to look down on you, they can have more than five guys around who are ready and ever willing to do anything for them, and once you are unable to meet up to her demands, she sees it as unseriousness on your part and uses that opportunity to do as she likes while still blaming you. You can have only her as your one and only friend while she has dozens and when you try to question her she would ask you whether she cant make friends again, you got a point there mike chipped in yet we keep hearing that there are some good girls out there and how can we know them, we all laughed at his funny question even though we knew he was right. I know some people will ask whether this is what we went to school to do, but the fact is that we are all humans and at a certain age our hormones do work overtime and it dosent know whether you are rich or poor, but the poor ones suffer in silence cos they are too ashamed to express their worries while the feminine folk sees them as not man enough, all these adversly affects them and most of them become introverts with high problem of inferiority complex yet we all have emotions. But the only mistake the female folks do make is not realising that the poor ones are the most trusted and sincere cos they will appreciate their love alot, and cant afford to cheat, but even though the female folks do deny it, majority of them are materialistic. After our discussions that afternoon mike left us while uche and i strolled down to my hostel....
To be continued

*continues* val's story

i{val} saw uche at the school cafe and i went to greet him, i was with my course mate mike that tuesday afternoon, but the look in uches face told me that all was not well so we had to sit by his side while he opened his heart and told us his whole story from the beginning, i really felt for him and told him that i am also passing through the same crisis with christy{details in diary of imostar/sexuality}, uche replied "they keep hurting us yet we cant still let them to go" mike smiled and said that his own is even worst and we all opened our ears as he told us his story
mikes story;
i had a girlfriend since my secondary school days and everyone in my village has known both of us, even my parents knew her as my friend, i had been sending her some of my savings since i entered the university and even assisted her in buying her jamb form last year. I do anything she asks of me, but just two months after getting admission she started playing me and going out with different guys yet i always forgive her at the end. Until one day when she came to my house and told me that she is moving on, that we are not compatible, i tried to beg her but she was adamant, so i then reminded her of all the things i had being doing for her in which she immediately flared up and asked me whether i was not sleeping with her, at the end we got into a fight in which i beat her up and she left only for a guy to call me that night threatning to deal with me, and till now i have not seen her again.
After listening to mikes story, we knew that we are not alone in this and how are we going to survive this calamity befalling us we wondered as we looked at each other.
To be continued...

swtchicgurl: u're a joker! self-pity and self-deception hasn't helped anyone before you. you ain't an exception!



what is the current status of your life that needs a change from a boring and pathetic story?! smh

pls i dnt really understand why you are so angry with my post yet you have been following from the first page

Basildon1: Yeah you do have some errors in your write-up but i think you have a flair for writing. Keep writing and you can use a spell check to spot some obvious errors. Like when you said 'DRIVED' on the other thread - that did upset me a little bit to be honest

thanks bro

I was really sad, but i tried to control my mood and returned to my hostel that evening, i tried calling her number but she wasnt picking, yet i continued dialing her number until she finally switched off her phone, i was in a state of despair and was unable to eat that night, my roomate was so happy to have the whole food for himself that night and never bothered to ask me my problem as i lay down on the bed that night. I started recollecting how i have starved myself, how i have used money for my upkeep and text books and how i have borrowed just to satisfy oge and now she is paying me back with this, tears fell out of my eyes as i remembered that i have almost wrecked my future just for a stupid relationship, hmmm God why is this happening to me! I asked, who knows what that man would be doing to her now i thought. I knew i really needed to share my pains with someone but who will that be?, i was thinking all these until i dozed off. The following day oge called me when i was preparing for school, at first i wanted to ignore it but on a second thought i picked it, oges voice was calm as she told me that she would like to meet me in the school around 12noon.
I barely concentrated that day in school and it wasnt long after noon she called and asked if i was free, i replied yes and she told me that she was waiting for me at the LOVE GARDEN. I met her their and i noticed she was avoiding my eyes, i wanted her to apologise to me first so i kept quiet, but i got another shock when she calmly told me that our relationship is over, whaaaat i gasped i really do not know how to feel at that moment, as i looked at her with hatred in my eyes....
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Basildon1: Abeg, pass the mic jare! For this really insightful and life-changing post, please approach the nearest podium to collect a medal of your choice!

OP, fire on and dont dull on that IMOSTAR thread!

yea i would continue on that one this evening

The story is very childish but it really happened to my neighbour, maybe am not passing the message well. But all my own exploits can be seen in the sexuality section maybe that one might be more understanding though no one is beyond mistakes and am not good in english

Its better i delete this thread

Too many critics in Nigeria yet we are all the same

*Uche's story continues*

i decided to meet val that day and see whether i could borrow from him. Around 8pm i went to vals room{cos he was my neighbour} and after explaining to him, he promised to help me out after advicing me to reduce how i spend on oge and focus on my studies, i agreed with him and left his room that night very happy. Val gave me the 4k on monday morning the following week as he promised and i added 1k to it making it 5k and decided to go to oges house that evening to suprise her. With the money in my pocket and with a joyful mood i went to oges hostel, it was around 3pm that day and i knew she would be around, i knocked on her door which was immediately flung open, she was suprised to see me cos i could see that on her face, she ushered me in and asked why i did not call to inform her first before coming in which i replied that i wanted to suprise her, i brought out the 5k and gave to her, she was very happy and gave me a peck, she then stood up and told me that she was about going out, i was suprised cos i have just barely gotten there. I asked her where she was going to and she told me that she was going to see a friend, "a friend" i repeated in which she answered yea, just immediately her phone rang, she picked her call and answered by saying "wait for me at the gate am coming down" she hurridly carried her hand bag and told me that i should come out so that she can lock the door, i obeyed and was stunned. She locked her door and started going out without giving me any explanation and i rushed to meet up with her, but i however was shocked when she reached the gate and entered a black suv waiting for her there. I just felt like the earth should open and swallow me up....
To be continued{sorry 4my bad english

swtchicgurl: then pass my message to uche or you learn from it.

yes madam. Hope u are happy now?

swtchicgurl: OP,

- From my rough estimate, you should be about 24 or 25yrs now.

- You written english is pathetic, as a graduate!

- You're not the only person from a poor background, so don't create a pity scene!

- You graduated November 2011 and you later mentioned buying textbooks! Are you studying for Masters already?

- You should be thinking of getting a job to reward your parents for their kind effort, instead you spend it on a girl.

- You claim to love, but you lack common sense. because you lack the resources (including money) to maintain a relationship!

- Oge loves you for what she thinks you are, if at all she loves you.

Summary: Don't be foooolish! Abandon that relationship, get a job, settle your family and siblings, plan your life, set a productive target, start a rewarding relationship that should lead to marriage - cos you're not getting younger!

I'll be back.

nawa 4u oo am not a literature student and am only telling uches story while in school. If my english is bad am sorry. This is just what happened when we were in school it is past tense now am not looking for ur charity am only telling a life story to pass time i am a serving corper thanks. Sorry for my bad english

The following day as i prepared for school, i decided to explain everything to her even though i knew it will be hard. Around 2pm that afternoon i met oge in the school love garden but her face wasnt bright she seemed to be unhappy so i left my own worries and inquired what is wrong with her, in which she explained to me that her course rep told her that she had failed two courses and that she should bring 6k to sort it out before the end of next week. "Not again" i said within me and i was confused at the moment, my last card was 3k and i would be managing it until when my parents calls me and who knows when that would be. Is anything wrong? she asked me and i was brought back to reality, i smiled and told her not to worry that before the week runs out that i would get to her, she looked at me smiled and gave me a hug saying thank you i know i could always count on you.
As i went to my hostel that day i kept blaming myself cos i have already made another stupid promise which i dont know how to fulfill, i just gave her 3k out of the 6k my parents gave me last week to do her hair and now these. I was almost close to crying on my way home and now i knew i had no other choice than to borrow but who will i borrow from i wondered. I barely got to my hostel when i noticed that i havnt even eaten since morning, i sighed, brought out my garri bag, collected some garri poured water and smoked it after getting myself i lay down on my bed thinking of my next step....
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During my spare time these days i reflect alot on my campus life and also on how we boys survived especially the poor ones who combine studies with work and relationships, sometimes the female folks do not understand what we are passing through and most of us instead of explaining seal our worries with smile and pretence. My story is mostly focused on some of my friends and neighbours who really struggled hard to meet both ends{relationship and studies} i learnt a lot from them even though we students can hardly cope up with both, yet we still do it just because others are doing and my story starts from my friend uche...and this is his story

UCHE'S STORY:
i was the first child of a family of six i had three younger male siblings, due to my inteligent nature i was able to secure admission in one sitting into imsu i was 18yrs old then. My parents were very proud of me and strugged with their petty trading and farming to pay for my fees, i was really doing well in my first and second year because i knew that my younger ones would continue there own education once i had graduated cos i was the hope of the family.
But in my 3rd year i fell in love with a course mate her name was oge, inorder to get oges love i hid my background so oge was unaware of my background but as time went on i was barely able to keep up to oges demands, i now spends my parents hard earned money and yet oge keeps on demanding for more. When i complain to my friends they all tell me that they are also going through the same thing in order to keep their girl, that if i slack that another guy would snatch her away from me, i do not want to loose oge cos am now very much in love with her and i had already spent much to back out at this stage but now i hardly buy my text books and now betraying my parents trust just because of oge and am now torn between telling oge the truth and run the risk of loosing her or to still continue in the relationship and run the risk of failing my exams but yet the love i have for oge is very strong, but there is no love without money in campus these days and my mind is still in a turmoil, but would she understand if i explain things to her i reasoned but decided to come with a solution the following morning as i slept off....
To be continued

Emmy9ite: First things first! My mum's life is in danger,i wont even pick a matchet,i will strangle the f.o.o.l to death. After eliminating the guy i will check on my g.f! I can have another g.f but i cant have my mum twice!



#Happy birthday to me in advance,2moro is my burfday

wow enough njoyment dey tomorow happy birthday in advance