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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by swtchicgurl: 12:22pm On Aug 03, 2012
Bold9:
Mtcheeeeeeeeew, i saw 30 posts i tot u guys re discussing smtin beta.

and why did u use my post as ur focal point? undecided
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Coolval222(m): 12:23pm On Aug 03, 2012
I was really sad, but i tried to control my mood and returned to my hostel that evening, i tried calling her number but she wasnt picking, yet i continued dialing her number until she finally switched off her phone, i was in a state of despair and was unable to eat that night, my roomate was so happy to have the whole food for himself that night and never bothered to ask me my problem as i lay down on the bed that night. I started recollecting how i have starved myself, how i have used money for my upkeep and text books and how i have borrowed just to satisfy oge and now she is paying me back with this, tears fell out of my eyes as i remembered that i have almost wrecked my future just for a stupid relationship, hmmm God why is this happening to me! I asked, who knows what that man would be doing to her now i thought. I knew i really needed to share my pains with someone but who will that be?, i was thinking all these until i dozed off. The following day oge called me when i was preparing for school, at first i wanted to ignore it but on a second thought i picked it, oges voice was calm as she told me that she would like to meet me in the school around 12noon.
I barely concentrated that day in school and it wasnt long after noon she called and asked if i was free, i replied yes and she told me that she was waiting for me at the LOVE GARDEN. I met her their and i noticed she was avoiding my eyes, i wanted her to apologise to me first so i kept quiet, but i got another shock when she calmly told me that our relationship is over, whaaaat i gasped i really do not know how to feel at that moment, as i looked at her with hatred in my eyes....
To be continued
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by negbenebor(f): 12:30pm On Aug 03, 2012
Aya,after all the money he has spend on her,anyway thats what he deserve 4 squndering his parent's hard earned money on a girl

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Coolval222(m): 12:31pm On Aug 03, 2012
Basildon1:

Yeah you do have some errors in your write-up but i think you have a flair for writing. Keep writing and you can use a spell check to spot some obvious errors. Like when you said 'DRIVED' on the other thread - that did upset me a little bit to be honest angry

thanks bro
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Coolval222(m): 12:34pm On Aug 03, 2012
swtchicgurl:

u're a joker! self-pity and self-deception hasn't helped anyone before you. you ain't an exception!



what is the current status of your life that needs a change from a boring and pathetic story?! smh
pls i dnt really understand why you are so angry with my post yet you have been following from the first page

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by swtchicgurl: 12:36pm On Aug 03, 2012
Coolval222:
pls i dnt really understand why you are so angry with my post yet you have been following from the first page

kiss
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by MMM2(m): 12:39pm On Aug 03, 2012
Is romance section now a peom secton
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by IZUKWU(m): 12:39pm On Aug 03, 2012
Basildon1:
LOL! U are here catching feelings on another individual's grammar and you wanna talk about having a boring an pathetic life. Life's ironies!

Kindly consider sandcounting as a new hobby!
classic

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by IZUKWU(m): 12:46pm On Aug 03, 2012
I don't know for others but for me ,you write well atleast you have a passion for it,even though you may need brushing up and improving But practice makes perfect and here is a good place as any to practice and you won't lack audience nor critics. I love your story ,its real and full of insights and hindsight and even now are so many young men passing through what you just described. Your story could show them a way forward. Am waiting to read more from you.

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Emmy9ite(m): 12:55pm On Aug 03, 2012
Coolval dont forget the other thread k..it is true u make mistakes but i take them as topo errors,thumbs up to u man!



cool

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Coolval222(m): 1:32pm On Aug 03, 2012
*continues* val's story

i{val} saw uche at the school cafe and i went to greet him, i was with my course mate mike that tuesday afternoon, but the look in uches face told me that all was not well so we had to sit by his side while he opened his heart and told us his whole story from the beginning, i really felt for him and told him that i am also passing through the same crisis with christy{details in diary of imostar/sexuality}, uche replied "they keep hurting us yet we cant still let them to go" mike smiled and said that his own is even worst and we all opened our ears as he told us his story
mikes story;
i had a girlfriend since my secondary school days and everyone in my village has known both of us, even my parents knew her as my friend, i had been sending her some of my savings since i entered the university and even assisted her in buying her jamb form last year. I do anything she asks of me, but just two months after getting admission she started playing me and going out with different guys yet i always forgive her at the end. Until one day when she came to my house and told me that she is moving on, that we are not compatible, i tried to beg her but she was adamant, so i then reminded her of all the things i had being doing for her in which she immediately flared up and asked me whether i was not sleeping with her, at the end we got into a fight in which i beat her up and she left only for a guy to call me that night threatning to deal with me, and till now i have not seen her again.
After listening to mikes story, we knew that we are not alone in this and how are we going to survive this calamity befalling us we wondered as we looked at each other.
To be continued...
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by tpia5: 1:41pm On Aug 03, 2012
I'm not following this long story but did you say out of N6000 your parents gave you as monthly or quarterly allowance, you gave her N3000 to do her hair?
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by OmoAlata(f): 3:07pm On Aug 03, 2012
This story is not unique, unfortunately. In the 60s a lot of women followed their men to the UK, worked day and night to sponsor their education etc (the arrangement being that once the man graduated and got a job, he would start working and the woman would start her own education). Anyway, mostly, once the man graduated, he would convince the woman that they should return to Nigeria and settle down there. The woman would pack up, move back to Naija, the man would get a lucrative job with his 'pali' from the UK, the woman would be relegated to a housewife or some lowly job, the man would one day 'wake up' and say, "sorry, you are not my category. I need to marry a graduate" and pack madam's load out.

There's lots of curses on some people's heads, no be small. God help us shocked

(forgive any grammatical error in advance wink)
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by richeyy(m): 4:50pm On Aug 03, 2012
Omo Alata: This story is not unique, unfortunately. In the 60s a lot of women followed their men to the UK, worked day and night to sponsor their education etc (the arrangement being that once the man graduated and got a job, he would start working and the woman would start her own education). Anyway, mostly, once the man graduated, he would convince the woman that they should return to Nigeria and settle down there. The woman would pack up, move back to Naija, the man would get a lucrative job with his 'pali' from the UK, the woman would be relegated to a housewife or some lowly job, the man would one day 'wake up' and say, "sorry, you are not my category. I need to marry a graduate" and pack madam's load out.

There's lots of curses on some people's heads, no be small. God help us shocked

(forgive any grammatical error in advance wink)


Hmmm...I'm just hearing/reading this for the first time o! Source please...
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by richeyy(m): 4:53pm On Aug 03, 2012
Coolval222: *continues* val's story

i{val} saw uche at the school cafe and i went to greet him, i was with my course mate mike that tuesday afternoon, but the look in uches face told me that all was not well so we had to sit by his side while he opened his heart and told us his whole story from the beginning, i really felt for him and told him that i am also passing through the same crisis with christy{details in diary of imostar/sexuality}, uche replied "they keep hurting us yet we cant still let them to go" mike smiled and said that his own is even worst and we all opened our ears as he told us his story
mikes story;
i had a girlfriend since my secondary school days and everyone in my village has known both of us, even my parents knew her as my friend, i had been sending her some of my savings since i entered the university and even assisted her in buying her jamb form last year. I do anything she asks of me, but just two months after getting admission she started playing me and going out with different guys yet i always forgive her at the end. Until one day when she came to my house and told me that she is moving on, that we are not compatible, i tried to beg her but she was adamant, so i then reminded her of all the things i had being doing for her in which she immediately flared up and asked me whether i was not sleeping with her, at the end we got into a fight in which i beat her up and she left only for a guy to call me that night threatning to deal with me, and till now i have not seen her again.
After listening to mikes story, we knew that we are not alone in this and how are we going to survive this calamity befalling us we wondered as we looked at each other.
To be continued...

@op Is this one suspense or what? why are u wasting tym na? Continue ur story sharp sharp... grin grin
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Ucheosefoh(m): 5:57pm On Aug 03, 2012
@ op u never finish ur tori 4 sexuality section u don start anoda one here. Mind u dat u cant serve 2 masters at same time
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Csami(m): 6:41pm On Aug 03, 2012
Op, sure say na real life story? Me na know how woman dey play u and ur friend at the same time....abi dem swear 4 una?

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Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by otokx(m): 7:28pm On Aug 03, 2012
Interesting but tedious
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Caracta(f): 7:51pm On Aug 03, 2012
190-the-clown:
#chews gum#
My sweetheart is back!
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Idowuogbo(f): 7:54pm On Aug 03, 2012
Basildon1:
LOL! U are here catching feelings on another individual's grammar and you wanna talk about having a boring an pathetic life. Life's ironies!

Kindly consider sandcounting as a new hobby!
Bebe! grin grin

B nice joor!
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by OmoAlata(f): 9:35pm On Aug 03, 2012
richeyy:


Hmmm...I'm just hearing/reading this for the first time o! Source please...

Then you must be very young grin
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Clemzy16(m): 12:11am On Aug 04, 2012
@op please continue the story.. I'm really enjoying it. I hate suspense.
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Riodiao(m): 12:17am On Aug 04, 2012
Thumbs up to all the nigeria guys that break and are rude to nigerian girls. Una 2much.I ready to sponsor una sef
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by jhydebaba(m): 8:10am On Aug 04, 2012
Nice story, though, its a normal thing.
A guy pays through his nose to satisfy a girl and vice versa, at the end, heartbreak. #Povertyisthecause.
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Basildon1(m): 9:16pm On Aug 04, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Bebe! grin grin

B nice joor!
Anything u say, sweerie poy.
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by kemiola89(f): 5:33am On Aug 05, 2012
Bros come continue your story jor
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Nobody: 8:57am On Aug 05, 2012
But dis story dey OK Йą! Why some of una dey foool una sef for here? Leave †ЂΞ thread & †ЂΞ poster alone if u dnt like it. He force una?
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Fourcade(m): 9:59am On Aug 05, 2012
Today's Sunday,so i think 'Kelechi's story' is on the way... grin
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by Coolval222(m): 12:44pm On Aug 05, 2012
*pls dont mind the english*

The silence between us has gone for long and yet none of us has spoken, i knew we were carried away with our different thoughts, just then uche spoke bringing us back to reality, sometimes you cant really blame the girls he said, most of them dont trust us, and with the numerous guys who always disturb them, offering them tempting things it do always get into there heads making them proud and to look down on you, they can have more than five guys around who are ready and ever willing to do anything for them, and once you are unable to meet up to her demands, she sees it as unseriousness on your part and uses that opportunity to do as she likes while still blaming you. You can have only her as your one and only friend while she has dozens and when you try to question her she would ask you whether she cant make friends again, you got a point there mike chipped in yet we keep hearing that there are some good girls out there and how can we know them, we all laughed at his funny question even though we knew he was right. I know some people will ask whether this is what we went to school to do, but the fact is that we are all humans and at a certain age our hormones do work overtime and it dosent know whether you are rich or poor, but the poor ones suffer in silence cos they are too ashamed to express their worries while the feminine folk sees them as not man enough, all these adversly affects them and most of them become introverts with high problem of inferiority complex yet we all have emotions. But the only mistake the female folks do make is not realising that the poor ones are the most trusted and sincere cos they will appreciate their love alot, and cant afford to cheat, but even though the female folks do deny it, majority of them are materialistic. After our discussions that afternoon mike left us while uche and i strolled down to my hostel....
To be continued
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by zamirikpo(m): 2:46pm On Aug 05, 2012
@ poster am really enjoyn ur piec bt u wil get on my nerve if on ur next piece u dnt finish it up...
Re: ~tears ~of~a~friend ~true Life Story~ by OmoAlata(f): 9:15am On Aug 16, 2012
zamirikpo: @ poster am really enjoyn ur piec bt u wil get on my nerve if on ur next piece u dnt finish it up...

I agree

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