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EducationEnergy Transfer by coputa(op): 10:04pm On Jan 29
THE TRUTH ABOUT ENERGY TRANSFER (ANCIENT TEACHING)
Long post alert…. But you will learn a lot

Most people think energy transfer is something mystical, complex, or only for spiritual people.

But the truth is…
You exchange energy every single day.
Whether you believe it or not.

Every conversation.
Every touch.
Every emotion.
Every gift.
Every sexual encounter.
Every argument.
Every prayer.

Energy is always moving.

You are not just a body.
You are a field.

And every field interacts with other fields.

HOW ENERGY TRANSFER REALLY HAPPENS

Energy transfers through five ancient doors:

1. Words
Words are not sound.
Words are coded intention.

When someone speaks to you in anger, fear, jealousy, or love, something enters you.

That’s why:
• Some conversations drain you.
• Some conversations heal you.
• Some people leave you feeling heavy.
• Some leave you lighter.

Nothing “happened”… yet everything happened.

2. Touch
Touch is one of the fastest spiritual highways.

A hug can heal.
A handshake can drain.
A slap can curse.
Sex can bind destinies.

Your skin is not just skin.
It is a spiritual membrane.

It absorbs.

That’s why some people feel strange after sleeping with someone.
They didn’t catch anything physically…
They caught something energetically.

3. Food & Gifts
In ancient times, people were careful what they ate and from whom.

Because food carries:
• The energy of the cook.
• The intention of the giver.
• The emotional state of the source.

That’s why:
• Some food gives you strength.
• Some food gives you heaviness.
• Some gifts come with hidden chains.

Not every gift is free.
Some are spiritual contracts.

4. Emotions
Strong emotions are energy storms.

Love transfers energy.
Fear transfers energy.
Jealousy transfers energy.
Grief transfers energy.

That’s why when you stay around a bitter person for long, you start feeling bitter without reason.

You didn’t become them.
You absorbed them.

5. Attention
This one is the most dangerous.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows.

And where someone’s attention stays on you (especially envy or obsession), a cord forms.

That’s why some people can affect you without speaking to you.

They are feeding on your field.

THE LAW MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW

Energy does not ask for permission.
It responds to openness.

If you are:
• Emotionally open
• Spiritually unaware
• Energetically unguarded

You become a marketplace.

Everyone trades inside you.

WHY ANCIENT PEOPLE WERE CAREFUL

In ancient times:
• You didn’t eat everywhere.
• You didn’t sleep with everyone.
• You didn’t tell everyone your plans.
• You didn’t receive gifts from people with bad spirit.
• You didn’t expose your womb or seed carelessly.

Not because of morality…

But because energy is contagious.

MODERN LIFE, ANCIENT CONSEQUENCES

Today people say:
“It’s not that deep.”
“Just vibes.”
“It’s only physical.”
“Energy is not real.”

Yet:
• Depression is rising.
• Spiritual confusion is everywhere.
• Relationships feel draining.
• People feel lost in their own bodies.

Not because life is harder…

But because people are energetically porous.

THE SIMPLE WISDOM (FOR DAILY LIFE)

If you remember nothing else, remember this:
1. Be careful who you touch.
2. Be careful who touches you.
3. Be careful what you eat.
4. Be careful who cooks for you.
5. Be careful who speaks into you.
6. Be careful who you sleep with.
7. Be careful who knows your dreams.

Not in fear.
In awareness.

FINAL ANCIENT TRUTH

You don’t need to be spiritual to be affected by energy.

You only need to be human.

Because to be human is to be open.
And to be open is to be exchangeable.

So the real spiritual work is not to control the world…

It is to guard your field.

Because the moment you master your energy…

You master your life.
RomanceWomen Wearing Waist Beads by coputa(op): 6:48pm On Jan 29
Most of us know what waist beads are. Women all over the world wear them, but they are especially common in African countries. Now listen to me carefully: in life, nothing goes for nothing.

Hear me, especially you men.
The majority of women do not wear waist beads for fancy. Yes, few—I repeat, few—wear them ignorantly, copying others without knowing the spiritual consequences attached. Many people imitate trends without understanding the spiritual meaning behind them.

But for those who understand what they are doing, waist beads are not ordinary. They represent something both spiritually and physically.

Many women who truly know what waist beads are for will tell you, “It doesn’t mean anything.” But remember this: when you meet a thief, a thief will not admit he is a thief until he is caught. So many will argue in the comment section, but truth has already come.

Waist beads are not for fancy.
They are not ordinary.

The truth is this: many of the waist beads worn today are charms—strong, powerful charms—used especially to trap men. For many women, the waist bead serves as a spiritual covering, because many of them are into prostitution—coded prostitution.

You don’t identify a prostitute by dressing alone. Some cover themselves very well. Some live in their father’s house. Some live in their husband’s house. They behave well, dress properly, act decent, yet operate secretly. You will hardly know.

Most of these women visit voodoo houses and witch doctors to prepare strong charms. One of the purposes of these charms is protection—protection from spiritual diseases, infections, and spiritual consequences of multiple sexual encounters.

That waist bead becomes the handbook of the charm.
It gives them confidence, strength, and endurance. This is why you may see a woman handling many men for hours without getting tired. There is something operating beyond physical eyes.

So as a man, when you see a woman wearing waist beads—even if she is your wife—you must be careful. Many will tell you it is just for fancy. But the devil never announces himself as the devil. You must pray for inner eyes to know what you are dealing with.

Many waist beads are collected directly from witch doctors. Some women use them to control their husbands. Their husbands become “do as I say.” Whatever the woman says, the man obeys without understanding why. The charm becomes more effective after sexual contact.

I am not telling you to fight your wife.
I am giving you knowledge.

Yes, a few women wear waist beads ignorantly, copying others without knowing the meaning. That is why you must walk with the Spirit of God for discernment. Do not act foolishly.

Another truth: for many women, waist beads serve as an altar. Many belong to powerful spiritual societies and covenants beyond physical sight. The waist bead becomes their point of contact. They will never tell you.

Some will say it is for checking body shape. Many times, that is only a cover-up.

As a woman, don’t just wear waist beads because it is trending. It signifies something. Once you start wearing it, people may begin to look at you differently, isolate you, or suspect things you don’t even understand—without your knowledge.

Don’t join trends blindly.
Check the source.
Ask: What does this represent?
Ask: What will God say?
Ask: How will people see me?

Be wise.

Many young girls were deceived into believing they are “water children.” I will teach on that later. There is nothing like water children. Through that deception, they were introduced to waist beads and leg charms.

When men sleep with such women, they unknowingly enter into covenants. This is how destinies of many men are destroyed without their knowledge.

So men, be very careful. Pray. Ask God questions. Don’t act blind.

Even leg charms signify something. Few wear them ignorantly—but many know exactly what they are doing.

Most of these waist beads are used to cage men. Once you sleep with such a woman, control begins. You start doing whatever she says—giving money, buying cars, spending recklessly—without understanding why.

Don’t trade your destiny for two minutes of pleasure.

As a married man or woman, be very careful. If a wife suddenly starts wearing waist beads, something may be happening secretly.

And to women wearing it ignorantly: I am here to tell you today—don’t do it. Don’t act in ignorance.

HEAR THIS NOW 👇👇
:
Waist beads are not always fashion.
Many are spiritual tools, charms, covenants, and altars.
Few wear them ignorantly, but many know exactly what they represent.
Men and women must be spiritually alert, prayerful, and wise.

If this message blessed you, share it massively.
Let truth spread. People may argue, people may be offended—but truth delivers souls.
RomanceRe: Women Are Manipulative by coputa(op): 1:17pm On Jan 29
aswani:
When you are dating. Study your potential life partner well.

If (s)he glorifies in the misfortune of others, you need to run a million miles.

If (s)he smiles in the face of people then badmouth them behind their back to you, run a million miles.

If (s)he is the victim in all stories, same as not ever admitting to doing things wrong, run.

If you proceed to marraige, give it two years, you will be at the end of those stories.

All of these a more a Nigerian female trait than male. You will be better of being single at any age than in a depressing marraige.

When you make the mistake of having children with such characters, you give yourself a life sentence or a long sentence till the last child is 18 years old.

Choose wisely, you only have one life.
One thousands likes.Inteligently written.
RomanceRe: Women Are Manipulative by coputa(op): 1:14pm On Jan 29
dabonny:
Baba, you nailed it completely.

If I may ask, do we have any woman who is void of any of these ill traits?
Yes, but they are very few.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Flaunts Wrangler Rubicon Jeep (Photos) by coputa(m):
Bouncingbabyboy:
Why do we blacks like to use materialistic things to Scream wealth?
Is wealth not materialistic,what does one uses his wealth for,throw on the streets or what.

This Africa,so, if you live in Rome do as the Roman does
FamilyTonto Dikeh: Settlement For Peace And Not Reunion by coputa(op): 10:00am On Jan 27
After 10 years of public back-and-forth, the Popular actress Tonto Dikeh announced that she has settled with her ex-husband Olakunle Churchill

following her personal transformation and faith journey under Pastor Jerry Eze and some persons are already screaming they are back

For the sake of clarity Settlement, in everyday language, just means peace has been reached. It does not mean romance, reunion, or marriage revival.

If the man is legally married to his current spouse, then that marriage remains fully valid. A settlement with an ex does not cancel an existing marriage, and nothing about peace or forgiveness turns back the clock. Anyone thinking “they are back together” is simply reading emotions into what is essentially maturity.

What this settlement mostly points to is co-parenting both parents agreeing to relate better for the sake of their child. Before now, access issues and even the child’s name were part of the conflict. Settling means those fights are no longer the focus. It means the child’s welfare comes first, not social media wars.

Now, here is where people also get confused. If the man is not legally married, and both adults freely choose to have more children together, that decision on its own does not automatically amount to any offence under the law. The law looks at consent, status, and circumstances not public sentiment or online outrage.

Bottom line Settlement does not equal marriage.
Co-parenting does not equal romance.

You can end battles without going back.
You can raise a child together without sharing a bed and you can choose maturity without owing anyone explanations.

If you’re in a similar situation, understand this. The law supports peace, responsibility, and the child’s best interest not noise, not assumptions, and not social media pressure.
RomanceRe: Women Are Manipulative by coputa(op):
budaatum:
I looked around and didn't find what you claim.

Care to provide us with some facts with a source please?



Except no God wrote that nonsense. Men wrote it!
How old are you, this piece is not for children,for matured minds only.
RomanceWomen Are Manipulative by coputa(op): 11:30pm On Jan 26
​Look around the death rate in the world today. We have more young married men going down every day than married women. Look around you. We have many widows than widowers in our society. Why do most married men die early? Most of the times it is because of the type of woman they married.

​Number one, a stubborn, disrespectful woman. Nothing destroys a man faster than when he marries a stubborn, disrespectful woman. When you marry a woman who confronts you, a woman who is determined to do the opposite of what you tell her to do, a woman who is always drawing the line of war with you, such a woman can take you to your early grave.

​God was not stupid when he asked the women to submit to their men. Two captains cannot be on the same football team. Two captains cannot be on the same ship. If you are not ready to be under a man's leadership, then marriage is not meant for you.

A stubborn, disrespectful woman will frustrate your efforts. She will destabilize you emotionally and will constantly push you into depression, which can lead to high blood pressure and other health conditions that can terminate your life so fast.
If you want to live long, avoid stubborn, disrespectful women.

​Number two, avoid women who hardly forgive. These set of women are more dangerous than the stubborn ones. If you are dating a woman who loves revenge, a woman who has a stony heart, a woman who loves to inflict pain on her enemies, just know you are next in line.

​We've seen women who poured their husband's hot water because they heard he was cheating. We've seen women who killed their husband using slow poison. They keep adding the substance to his food on daily basis until he finally passes on.

We've seen women with serious bitterness and wickedness, women who will set their husbands up for a kidnap or accident just so they can inherit his wealth.

​This is why we always say pray and ask questions before you choose your life partner. A woman with a stony heart is dangerously wicked. She can be smiling with you yet planning your downfall. May we not meet such women in Jesus' name. Amen.

​Number three, women who sleep around with other men. These kind of women are contagious. They can transfer STI and STDs to you from their numerous partners, which can affect your health.

A woman who sleeps around can also give birth to children that are not yours. At least we've seen cases where men had to train children that were not theirs until they had to run a DNA test. Nothing hurts more than spending your hard-earned money to train children that are not yours because of your wife's infidelity."
PoliticsRe: Thought For This Week (04, 2026): Gossip… by coputa(m): 2:24am On Jan 25
It's an age long iie that gossip doesn't put food on ones table,on the contrary it does.
PoliticsRe: Ferocious Battle Footage From Sambisa Forest War Front by coputa(m): 8:53am On Jan 24
Nigeria has one of the best ground forces in the world
CelebritiesWizkid Apologize by coputa(op):
"Fela Kuti is a legend and shouldn't be compared to me. My uncle Femi Kuti knows how much I respect Fela." Wizkid

"Fela Kuti is a very big inspiration to my music and my real fans know it. I listened to a lot of Fela and I just redefined the sound, created something new and took it global.
I even worked with Fela's, Femi Kuti to show homage. Working with Femi Kuti was a next level sound my sound. I made that particular to pass a message and when I approached Femi, he loved the concept of the record so much. Femi is like an uncle to me, we even talk all the time. I support Felaberation all the time, I've done a lot of FREE Tribute Shows for Fela with Femi. After all this people still feel like I don't respect Fela. What else do you people want from me? Am I the only artiste in Nigeria." ~ Wizkid

Seriously the hãte Wizkid gets from the media is just too much. Everyone attãcks him and he gets blâmed whenever he reacts 🤦‍♂️
Foreign AffairsRe: When Europe Leads It Results In Chaos, Delay And Decline - Donald Trump by coputa(m): 2:02am On Jan 22
Greenland is an autonomous territory within the Kingdom of Denmark, along with the Faroe Islands, enjoying extensive self-governance but with Denmark handling defense and foreign affairs, a status solidified by its Home Rule in 1979 and Self-Governance Act in 2009. Geographically part of North America, it has deep historical ties to Europe and is considered part of the Danish Realm.

Part of the Kingdom of Denmark: Greenland is one of the three constituent parts of the Danish Realm, alongside Denmark proper and the Faroe Islands.
Autonomous Territory: It has significant self-rule, managing most domestic issues through its own parliament (Inatsisartut).
Danish Responsibility: Denmark is responsible for Greenland's defense and foreign policy.
Historical Ties: Greenland's connection to Denmark dates back centuries, with Denmark assuming colonial control in the 18th century and formal incorporation in 1953.
EU Status: Greenland is not part of the European Union but maintains close cooperation with it, and Greenlandic citizens are EU citizens.
Foreign AffairsRe: When Europe Leads It Results In Chaos, Delay And Decline - Donald Trump by coputa(m): 1:48am On Jan 22
Ibrahim1985:
Greenland matta with Trump no cosign Africa at all
Be proactive and learn to see beyond your nose, Africa is a big player in the world stage,Any important world event directly or indirectly affects Africa.
Foreign AffairsRe: When Europe Leads It Results In Chaos, Delay And Decline - Donald Trump by coputa(m): 1:38am On Jan 22
Namaster:
Europe will LEARN by force.

grin

Their WEAKNESS of following along with everything America says is going to be their UNDOING.

Especially STARMER.

The moment the PDFile first talked about ANNEXING Greenland, they should have SANCTIONED and TARIFFED the fork out of the US.

Instead, they let him continue making UNFOUNDED and FALSE claims about Arctic Security.

Europe should have CEASED ALL trade deals with the PDFile's America a LONG TIME ago.

The moment he said the EU was formed to "screw the US", they should have DEALT with him.

They should have matched MADNESS with MADNESS.

Instead, they were busy sending EMBARRASSINGLY WEAK late night texts like a little BEEETCH asking why a guy is not picking her calls after a bout of MARATHON DOGGIFICATION.

Let them LEARN.

The PDFile VIOLATED International Laws DRAFTED mostly by America and Europe when he KIDNAPPED Maduro.

Rather than CALL him out and respond the way they would if someone like Putin did it, they let it SLIDE.
Some of their CU.UUUUU.CK Leaders even praised it.

Now that the PDFile is RUBBISHING them in public and attempting to VIOLATE International Laws in a way that AFFECTS them, they still want to TALK.

Extremely WEAK!

The PDFile is spoiling for a fight, OBLIGE him.

If Europe wants to deal with US today, ALL they have to do is SANCTION them, CANCEL all trade deals and move them to China.

America will BECOME like Russia in a jiffy—a SUPERPOWER with all the international influence of a small island.
Europe can't do shit to America,the bulk of America trade and exports resides in Africa and other continents and not with Europe.Europe is a weak continent and America knew this, hence POTUS is trying to wake them up. It
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Try to read and edit your post before submitting it.There's a mistake in the heading
EducationRe: How Many Of These Collective Animal Names Do You Know? by coputa(m): 7:15pm On Jan 20
Freshandfitpod:
Is nairaland meant for kids?
I wonder,this forum is not for teenagers but for matured adults,we are not her fun or play
RomanceRe: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by coputa(m):
Virginity or being disvirgin are all scam,the things a girl or a woman will forever remember a man for is;

1.A man who cared for her and treated her like a princess

2. A man who satisfied her s*xu*lly
CrimeRe: Ghana Arrests 53 Nigerians In Major Cybercrime Crackdown by coputa(m): 5:01pm On Jan 20
oliverhenry660:
yahoo na
who is now collecting the proceeds that you worked.
CrimeRe: Ghana Arrests 53 Nigerians In Major Cybercrime Crackdown by coputa(m): 3:42am On Jan 20
Doctordan:
This is embarrassing
what is more embarrassing than Nigeria leaders taking their loots to other countries to buy houses and invest.These are some the root causes of all these we are witnessing .
CrimeRe: Ghana Arrests 53 Nigerians In Major Cybercrime Crackdown by coputa(m): 3:32am On Jan 20
oliverhenry660:
As I speak with you now, I am in Ghana. I was deceived by a friend I knew from secondary school. He had become successful through Yahoo. He owned his own house and had investments in Nigeria, so I trusted him.

He used sweet words to convince me, telling me that within three months I would make it. He also explained that life would be hard—that we would eat only once a day, sleep for just four hours out of twenty-four, and go through a lot of stress. I don’t even remember everything he said anymore, but I believed him.

So I traveled to Ghana.

The moment I entered his house, the door was locked.

I have not been outside for the past four months since I arrived. There were about 23 boys inside the building, and that was when fear truly entered my heart. Life here is very difficult.

What scared me even more was discovering that most of the boys had already been here for two to three years.

Every month, Ghana police and immigration officers raid the place. They collect at least 5 to 10 million. After that, the chairman releases his anger on us. If anyone makes a mistake, disobeys, or talks back, they are beaten and sometimes cut with a cutlass.

The main reason this place was opened in Ghana is to trap boys so they cannot escape. The roads are unfamiliar, transportation is expensive, and running away is almost impossible.
What are you people doing inside the building.
CrimeRe: Ghana Arrests 53 Nigerians In Major Cybercrime Crackdown by coputa(m):
God1000:
Our people are so shameless and desperate both at home and abroad, there's no hope for this country
Don't say so, anything that has a biginning will surely have an end.This yahoo will soon fizzle out.
CrimeRe: What The Police Are Not Allowed To Do During An Arrest by coputa(op): 3:12am On Jan 20
Fenrir:
This post is mostly true in principle
but dangerous in certainty

Nigerian law is not binary. It’s conditional, elastic, and often abused before legality is checked.

I’ll run it again, properly.

“Police cannot arrest over civil matters”

Mostly true
But incomplete in a way that gets people arrested

Pure civil matters
Debt
Rent
Relationship quarrels
Business disagreement

Yes. Police should stay out.

BUT the moment someone adds a criminal allegation, even a weak one, arrest becomes lawful pending investigation

Debt + “he obtained by false pretence”
Land issue + “forcible entry”
Girlfriend quarrel + “threats”
Business issue + “breach of trust”

Police abuse this loophole constantly
But legally, the arrest then stands

So “cannot arrest” is misleading
Correct framing is
“They should not arrest for purely civil matters, unless a crime is alleged”

That “unless” is everything

“Police cannot beat or torture you”

Straight correct
No nuance

Constitution
Anti Torture Act 2017

Illegal whether guilty or innocent
Physical, verbal, psychological

Reality violates this
Law does not allow it

“Police cannot search your phone without consent or warrant”

This one is half TikTok law

General rule
Yes, phones are private

But police can search without warrant if
You’re lawfully arrested
They reasonably suspect the phone contains evidence of the offence
There’s risk of evidence destruction

What they cannot do
Random scrolling
Checking nudes
Browsing chats unrelated to the alleged offence
Fishing expeditions

The post makes this sound absolute
It’s not

“Police cannot detain you beyond 24–48 hours”

Technically correct
Practically incomplete

Constitution says
24 hours if court is near
48 hours if far

BUT
Police can apply for remand
Magistrate can extend detention
Serious offences allow longer detention with court backing

So yes
Holding you without court authority beyond that is illegal

But it’s not an instant release button

“Police cannot deny access to lawyer or family”

Correct in law
Weak in enforcement

You have the right
Police violate it often
But legally, this is solid ground

“Police cannot force you to sign a statement”

Correct

Statements must be voluntary
No threats
No pressure
No inducement

Important missing point
You can refuse to write anything
Silence is lawful in Nigeria

“I choose to remain silent until my lawyer arrives” is valid

“Police cannot arrest without telling you the reason”

Mostly correct

They must inform you of the offence
But timing matters

They don’t need a courtroom explanation at the roadside
But “follow me first” with no stated offence is unlawful

“Police cannot search your body disrespectfully”

Correct

Same gender searches
No degrading treatment
Strip searches require serious justification

Solid point

“Police cannot use arrest as intimidation”

Correct in law
Fantasy in practice

Still legally true
But Nigeria runs on misuse of power

“Police cannot demand money for bail. Bail is free.”

100 percent correct
No caveats

Administrative police bail is free
Money demanded = extortion
Only courts can impose financial bail conditions

This is the strongest point in the entire post

Now the core truth this post fails to say:

Rights in Nigeria are not shields
They are receipts

They don’t always protect you during the encounter
They protect you after
With a lawyer
With documentation
With survival intact

Roadside legal lectures increase detention time
Calm silence reduces it

Knowing rights is not about arguing
It’s about positioning yourself for later leverage
well written with intelligent points,may I ask,are you a lawyer.
RomanceWhy Most Marriages Fail:the Hidden Pitfalls by coputa(op): 10:41pm On Jan 18
1. Respect Based on Roles, Not Purpose
Too often, respect in marriage is given based on assigned roles: the husband is the provider, the wife is the caretaker, and so on. But respect should never be about fulfilling a role; it should be based on the shared vision and purpose the couple has together. When respect is conditional, it breeds resentment.

2. Competition, Not Cooperation
Marriage is not a battleground. Yet, when spouses begin to compete against one another instead of working together toward common goals, the marriage begins to deteriorate. It’s not about who does what better or who has more success—it’s about growing together, lifting each other up, and supporting one another. Competition kills the sense of unity that is essential for a healthy marriage.

3. A Leader Who Doesn't Understand Romance. In many relationships, the husband is seen as the leader of the household. But what if the man doesn’t understand the importance of romance in keeping the relationship alive? Romance isn't just a luxury; it’s a key element of emotional connection. When the leader fails to show affection, appreciation, or love in romantic ways, the relationship becomes stale, and emotional distance sets in.

4. Love Built on Emotions, Not Principles
Emotions can fluctuate, and they do not always last. True love is not simply an emotional reaction; it’s built on shared values, compatible visions, and strong character. When love is based on fleeting feelings, it’s fragile. Building love on principles that both partners agree on ensures that it stands strong, even in tough times.

5. A Woman Who Doesn't Give Her Husband His Greatest Desire: Respect
For many men, one of their deepest needs is respect. This doesn’t mean just agreeing with everything they say, but recognizing their value, listening to their ideas, and treating them with honor. Without respect, men can feel diminished, and the emotional connection between husband and wife weakens.

6. Love Shifted to the Children
While children are a blessing, they should never become the sole focus of a marriage. Some couples, especially after having kids, begin to pour all their emotional energy into their children and neglect their own relationship. The marriage is the foundation, and when it’s neglected, the entire structure can crumble.

7. Lack of Communication
Effective communication is the glue that holds any relationship together. Many marriages fall apart because one or both partners fail to communicate their needs, desires, and feelings properly. Whether it’s through silence, passive-aggressiveness, or misunderstandings, communication issues can create huge divides. Learning how to communicate clearly and listen actively is vital for any marriage to thrive.

8. Career or Job Over Marriage
Sometimes, career ambitions or the demands of a job take priority over the relationship. This is especially true in today's fast-paced world, where work can often consume all your time and energy. But marriage is a partnership, and it requires attention and effort. Putting career before your spouse will only leave both partners feeling neglected and disconnected.

9. Taking Intimacy for Granted
Intimacy is not just about physical connection, but also about emotional closeness. When love making is taken for granted, or when it's neglected or abused, it can lead to serious emotional consequences for both partners. Intimacy is a form of bonding, and without it, relationships can grow cold and distant.

10. Love Without True Spiritual Foundation
Marriage is not just a psychological or emotional connection—it’s also spiritual. When a relationship lacks a shared belief in something greater than themselves, especially the divine design of marriage, it can quickly lose its depth. A marriage built solely on psychological compatibility will eventually falter. True theology—the understanding that marriage is ordained by a higher power—gives a marriage strength that transcends human limitations.

11. Financial Incompetence Leading to Stress. Money can be a source of great stress in a marriage. Couples who aren’t financially intelligent often end up in debt, struggle to make ends meet, and face financial insecurity. Women, in particular, seek security, not just emotionally and spiritually, but financially as well. Without financial stability, both partners may feel anxious and trapped, which puts a significant strain on the marriage. Be wise!
BusinessRe: Nigerian Banks That Have Secured Their Licences Under New CBN Rules by coputa(m): 9:35pm On Jan 18
IronCondemned:
Ecobank is not there.

I am happy sef. I dey owe them 40 million.
even if they close, you think they will not recover their debt.
BusinessRe: Nigerian Banks That Have Secured Their Licences Under New CBN Rules by coputa(m): 9:28pm On Jan 18
AKWATGOLD1:
Union Bank is merging with Titan Bank.
Titan is another weak bank,first bank should acquire union bank
BusinessRe: Nigerian Banks That Have Secured Their Licences Under New CBN Rules by coputa(m): 9:26pm On Jan 18
Vanpascore:
Is the policy not affecting fintech banks?

Na them sure pass, all these commercial banks can steal enn! God bless OPAY, I dey collect my owealth interest daily . . .
what are you hyping here,the 15% per annum that opay is paying in owealth,if you break down into daily, there's nothing there,except if you locked millions of naira
BusinessRe: Nigerian Banks That Have Secured Their Licences Under New CBN Rules by coputa(m): 9:15pm On Jan 18
opera1:
I can't see Union Bank plc on any of the report,. Weytin dey sup, hope my money is safe sha
I think union bank will either merge or fold up,that bonk is no longer big, strong and reliable
PoliticsRe: Why Do Many Nigerians Support Bad Leaders? by coputa(m): 1:55pm On Jan 18
LottiOk:
How many of the ones who ruined your wards, LGA and states did you swear for and what's the outcome of your swears on them⁉️
Birds of a feather flock together,when followership is bad, leadership will be bad as well.

Nigeria leaders are products of the Nigeria society,so they replicate what they learnt,the value system as leaders.

The people supports and hail their wrong doing, because they didn't expect otherwise
PoliticsRe: Tinubu May Pick Musa,kukah,Two Others As Running Mate In 2027 by coputa(op): 1:48pm On Jan 18
AMINDA:
Edit the thread and insert the link from The Guardian.

https://guardian.ng/politics/tinubu-may-pick-musa-kukah-two-others-as-running-mate-in-2027/
Is there any benefits of moving ones thread to front page.its at the MOD discretion.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu May Pick Musa,kukah,Two Others As Running Mate In 2027 by coputa(op): 1:29pm On Jan 18
AMINDA:
Lol. Why then did Tinubu run on muslim-muslim ticket in 2023? Didn't he consider that he will be segregating or alienating a section of the electorate needlessly and self-destructively?
He did it to get votes from Muslims in the north and he got it.

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