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thanks guys for all types of advice...honestly its gettin sumhw cux the guys father came to see her today in her campus...she calld me ds afternoon to tell me...I stil dnt understand o

tafrica:
SMH at most replies here.

You have the right to be angry that your girl is secretly listening to a guy that has been pressurising her all this while, same way she has to be angry if you do likewise. You don't sniff what u don't wanna eat; your girl is silently considering the guy and that's why she's still giver him audience. If anyone, both man and woman, values his/her relationship, he/she won't continue giving admirers listening ears. Tell such admirer you love your relationship, don't joke with it and would want such person to respect it by stopping to disturb u again.

Though I may not know how serious OP is with the girl, but the fact that OP may not have been ready doesn't make him a stumbling block to his gal. Do we know how much they've been dating? Do we know OP's status and even the girl's?
We're all blaming the guy now, seeing him as a stumbling block but if this new guy later happens to be fake and dumps her, we'll then condemn this girl and call her names like asewo, whores, girls are unfaithful etc.

If their relationship is well defined and has direction, I don't justify why a lady or a guy should leave his/her partner becuz he/she sees a better or ready-made someone.

Relationship that leads to marriage comes with prices, this is one of them. If you love the girl, define your relationship, assure her, probably intimate her with one or two members of ur family, take it beyond GF/BF thing, if these are done and she loves you, she will stick with you irrespective of finding a better/ready man. If she leaves you for a better man regardless of doing this, she's not faithful (no other words for it)

really appreciate...we v bin datin for like 16months...I no she loves me but f pressure s getting much on her ...honestly d guys fada came to her campus to see her today

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Guys, m a fresh graduate nd I wil b goin for nysc ds coming March so u see marriage ia not an option for me...den she s in part 2 - I.dnt see marriage bin an option for her likewiseGuys, m a fresh graduate nd I wil b goin for nysc ds coming March so u see marriage ia not an option for me...den she s in part 2 - I.dnt see marriage bin an option for her likewiseGuys, m a fresh graduate nd I wil b goin for nysc ds coming March so u see marriage ia not an option for me...den she s in part 2 - I.dnt see marriage bin an option for her likewise

Guys, m a fresh graduate nd I wil b goin for nysc ds coming March so u see marriage ia not an option for me...den she s in part 2 - I.dnt see marriage bin an option for her likewise

dere s ds guy who as bin asking my gal out for long despite the fact that the guy knows she is in a relationship wt me (altho I and the guy v never seen each other nor talk) but my gal didnt accept his proposal but they are friends....
recently, I over heard her conversation on phone which goes thus in summary:
the guy told his parents esp his mum that he is datin my gal and all of a sudden the guy's mum fixed a day for the guy to do his introduction party....his mum now called my gal to tel her abt d date nd that she should b prepare for the introduction bt my gal told her she is not dating her son and then she started begging my gal to accept her son's proposal and do the introduction party nd likewise her son s beggin her to accept so they can do the introduction nd probably wedding next year....
My gal never told me all these altho she turnd down their pleading(they r stil pestering her even hitherto)...I.confronted her abt ds nd she told that why should I be angry about it, after all she didn't accept to marry d guy...
Pls am I wrong by bin angry and please what do you think about this issue

please how do free sites and apps male money aside thro advert...m.sorry its a short question bt I really need to know

v sin d categories...dnt worry...kudos

I saw ds just nw...

NYSC Mobilization Time Table For 2016 Batch A
S/NO Event Date
1 2015 Batch B Post Mobilisation Workshop
19th - 21st November 2015
2 2016 Batch A pre-mobilization workshop. 5th - 9th January 2016
3 Briefing of corps Members/ final year students.
12th - 22nd January 2016
4
Display of list of all approved programmes for institutions on NYSC portal for cross checking
11th - 22nd January 2016
5
Collation of Prospective Corps Members' Data by Corps Producing Institutions CPIs
11st - 25th January 2016
6
Submission/Uploading of Senate/Academic Board Approved Result for Full/Part-Time Graduates and Revalidation Lists by CPIs
25th January - 6th February 2016
7 Uploading of Corrected Lists by Corps Producing Institutions
25th January - 6th February 2016
8 On-line Registration by Foreign and locally Trained Nigerian Graduates
8th February - 12th March 2016
9
Entertainment of complaints from Prospective Corps Members by the state Deployment and Relocation officers and NYSC Help Lines/Desks
14th - 19th March, 2016
10
Forwarding of Complaints to Mobilisation Dept by State Deployment and Relocation officers
14th - 19th March, 2016

pls help, I dnt understand wats wrong...ds s d code:

if ($query_num_rows==0) {
echo "invalid username/password";
} else {
echo "ok.";
}

pls s dere any reason why it's nt echoing

please hw much s delta payin

joe4christ:
I no come know why you come dey take am personal o

bro I tire for him mata o...

lexyclasy:
front page and page 1-3 talks about akwa ibom......not withstanding the place is good to go......ALAWEE 10k/month, people are corper friendly, proximity of LGA to another is very close, accessibility no hindrance easy to locate good road network electricity 50-50,social live above average, but dont drag babe with indigene, Permanent camp is along airport road, amusement centres like tropicana, I.K plaza, Uyo plaza, etc...major towns Ikot ekpene, Abak, Ikot Abasi, uyo, Oron, Eket, uniuyo for your masters and PHD programs, you can run preparatory classes for exam students, cost of living moderate, intracity transport N50 keke intercity N100 and above depending on the distance....the state is educational develop state corpers friendly...they have mainland and coastland...thats a bit i could remember now

dis s very rich...pls what about for delta

my choices: lagos-delta-oyo or lagos-delta-(I dnt no wat to put as third bt I dnt mind if u help out)
pls help me look at d choices, is it ok?

pls o, is it dat we cant choose two states in a zone like two states in south west....

1stolax:
Lasgidi



The best

The only con is accommodation and traffic.

aside d accommodation and traffic most esp, is cost of living ok plus s it easy to get Job

missingrib:
all this state choosing for nysc is just an hint.u might be surprise during reg the states you want you won't see it listed.this nysc thing is just the grace of God. u might choose one big city and after camping ur ppa will be in a remote village.. just put everything in God's hand let him give you direction.... I rep 2015 batch b stream 2 Kaduna corp members...

well said bro...bt I dnt tink dere sany remote place in lag

Evansades:
Do not, i repeat do not choose Abuja except you have arrangements for accommodation and small cash outside your allawee, if not u go trek and jones wella. My 1 kobo

bro dats true bt aside dat, s d place prospective in terms of job opportunities nd the likes

ify2016:
LMAO
see this Otondos in the house.
You go fear nah. Abi mek we enlighten you on how to chose a better state for service.

OTONDO will always show why he or she is otondo.

egbon, I v it in mind to make every nairalanders benefit so dnt tink evryone s self fish like u mayb

more info pls

osun and rivers states are nt payin corpers...I ad akwa ibom pays 10k

pls guys, post abt any other state you.no well

oluwaisaac:
Honestly, don't choose Jigawa. If you have plans for your life after NYSC, flee choosing the state. Dusty...Hausa to the core....flies....abegi...itz not worth it. Plus 99% 1% Muslim-Christian ratio in favour of the former. Above all, its too far. You must get to Kano before you see anything recent...even bus back to your state!

tanks bro

please can we help enlighten each other about the different states we have in Nigeria for nysc and also about the benefits and demerits in choosin any state in particular....with this, I believe we wil all know how to choose wisely

pls u guys dropping number, if I chat wt u wil u gv me attention?

please, can you guys enlighten me about everything concerning blogging? I just want to start...I cud v bin checking each topics bt that wil take my time...please guys help me out...tel me d crucial tins I need yo know nd do from the scratch

Juxtified:
Another factor to consider: if you stop your job now, will you still be able to sustain yourself while doing your computer programs?
If not then the next best option is to get another job that gives you more free time

if its feeding, I no hw to go about it den since nysc s march, it mins I just v to sustain myself for two months...after dat s nysc..allowee tins

MRLINGTON:
depend d kind of working ur doing @the moment and hw much u get out of it

its in d post...I said 20k

please guys, m confuse...I v passion for computer bt my work is not giving the time to study my computer programs...once m bk from work, I wil b tired so I wont b able to practice or study my computer programming nd we all no the IcT world is now about those who r gud at it not those who merely no...I dnt no if my decision to stop work and face my computer career (although m learning those programing language on my own with. frnds help also) or I shld kip working cux of money...another thing is since nysc mobilization wil b March(at most, I believe), shld I just stop work, face d computer stuff m learning so dat if opportunity shows up whr m serving, I would v bin gud by den or I just continue ds my work...pls guys help cux m thinking of tellin my boss I won't b coming to work again...(my salary whr m working rite nw is 20k for those who wil want to ask how much m collecting)

how can one start his career in computer...should I go for masters in I.T (I was told there s sth like dat) or I shld just b writing certification exams..if certification, wat kind is profitable...where can I work?...alot of questions on my mind bt first how can I start my career in computer world (ICT)...tanks in anticipation

please my ext hard disk is nt showin in my computer...if I plug it to d usb port, it wil on lite but it wont be detected by the computer....I was sendin files to it den someone shaked d sys nd it stopd...I connected it nd I was stil seeing my files but d doc was nt sending again...den I rebooted the sys...ds time, I plugged it bk, it on lite but d sys s nt seein it

please I need help on how to understand the div tag...I dnt want to b usin tables for my web page layout but d div seems difficult...m finding it hard moving d div nd d content around d page...nb: m usin dream weaver...tanks bosses