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ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex



or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing

Personally, i've dated couple of girls, and i had no sex with any. Each of them said they weren't ready. I respected their decision because i'm that type of guy. However, i still gave in monetary terms and other things. There are things i value more than sex in a relationship. At the end of the day nko, they were the ones who broke my heart!

savvy12:
No Nigerian guy can date without sex.
That's the reason why I keeping breaking up with most of my boyfriends.
Even if they don't spend penny on you,they will still demand sex from you.
The worst thing that can happen to you is going to a guy's house without having sex in mind.Most of them lack self control and behave like dogs.
Just meet in an open place and not in his house because he might end up raping you one day.

A guy that is not serious with you will leave immediately you tell him you don't want sex.But the serious ones will be okay with it,as far they like you.
And please don't demand anything from them.once you accept 1 kobo from men,they will think you owe them sex and may even force it on you.
That's how one forced me to accept a plate of pepper soup and malt from him and after that he requested that we visit a hotel and sleep together.
I told him that there are many sluts in the hotel,that he should go and hire one.

Please, don't generalise. Personally, i've dated couple of girls, and i had no sex with any. Each of them said they weren't ready. I respected their decision because i'm that type of guy. However, i still gave in monetary terms and other things. There are things i value more than sex in a relationship. At the end of the day nko, they were the ones who broke my heart!

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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You paint me in a bad light. You are the immature one quoting me upandan NL like a disgruntled lover. Jeez

Calm down guys, biko!

revontuli:
When you say Nigerian in a lot of western countries, people think of scam. 491 scam is called Nigerian prince scam, those yahoo boys created a horrible reputation abroad. It makes life difficult for honest Nigerians doing legitimate business.

True! Sometimes ago, i was even speaking on phone with someone i suspected to be a yahoo boy. I couldn't take the rubbish that was coming out of his mouth. He said as long the main victims of their act are not Nigerians, then it's a legit business. Can you imagine!! They even call it business. I replied by saying it makes no difference if they are Nigerians or not. CALL A SPADE A SPADE!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Please don't ever quote me like this again. I date responsible men with visible source of income and not flashy boys... Just don't call me out again.

Guys, please calm down.

BlissB:
Nigeria i hail thee!!!

The tin tire me!!

The dog above me got me laughing

But seriously, it's not a joking something!

The eyes of the dog above me got me laughing

Chubhie:
The name Nigeria is long over due for rebranding. I miss The Amazon Dora Akunyili. May she continue to rest in peace.

In my Igbo brothers and sisters tongue, i say "OTUA" meaning Na So.

pcguru1:
it's like that everywhere, you just have to work extra hard so that those people can make you an exception, the first time foreign client chat with me, they forget the nigerian status because i show them that my work ethics trumps whatever issue the nation is facing. though Yahoo boys are creating a negative impression for tpeople out there

Yea Yea!

Kastonkastroll:
Yahoo � boys are good for our economy. T


They create jobs

They help our slay queens

What again

I hear!

midolian:
I have been in similar situation umpteen times. It will only take the grace of God to change what they think about us outside. There are so many opportunities online to make money, but not for Nigerians.

This is why I feel terrible when I see people support Yahoo boys on this forum. It's sad. Many of us don't know the extent of damage this Yahoo thing has done on our reputation

It's really terrible!

Kastonkastroll:
Mark' zuchaberg was once a yahoo � boy

Biko, how??

Kastonkastroll:
Yahoo � boys are good for our economy. T

Really??

hisgrace090:
When the people are moving with collective desperation this is what you get.

Please, elaborate!

See wetin yahoo boys don turn this country into!! Imagine, i was able to get a foreign client today so i could freelance (do a job) for him. During our chat, check out what he said: "But I hear Nigerian people are very sharp. The world fear to deal with you. Why?" Omo, i had to do a PR to convince him to allow me do the job for him. E no finish there o. I shared my experience on my WhatsApp status. The first person to read it was my South African friend. Immediately, i chatted him up to let him know that majority of Nigerians are good people; it's only the few bad ones that are giving the country a bad image. The guy kukuma added salt to the injury by saying "Lols i believe man ...ppl here dont like nigerians honestly." IS IT NOW A CRIME TO BE A NIGERIAN??

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