BlindAngel: Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.
This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,
she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.
But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.
I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.
I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.
if she want to cry let her cry now, why will you accept such thing. You are creating problem you will not be able to settle for yourself. This kind talk self dey make me vex.
David2024: President Bola Tinubu’s collapse in Eagles Square prompted a response from Omoyele Sowore, the African Action Congress (AAC) presidential candidate for 2023.
Tinubu’s fall was referred to by Sowore as “a great fall.”
Elizkid: Very useless set of governors, except Sanwo Olu of course who himself is overrated considerin how much LASG generates compared to the state’s development and size.
The Speaker of the House, Blessing Agbebaku, said that Edo would be the first state to have an official anthem. Lies....it's like this speaker is on drug? So what is oyo state anthem called oo ?
GistMedia0: Prominent Nigerian activist, Aisha Yesufu, has responded defiantly to those calling for her arrest after she refused to stand during the recitation of the reintroduced national anthem.
In a bold statement, Yesufu dared anyone to arrest her for exercising her right to protest, saying: "I dare anyone to arrest me for sitting down while the new national anthem is being played or recited."
Yesufu's refusal to stand during the national anthem has sparked a heated debate on social media, with some calling for her arrest and others hailing her as a hero for standing up for her beliefs.
The reintroduced national anthem has been a topic of controversy in Nigeria, with some citizens welcoming the change and others expressing concerns over its implications.
ganisucks: A chieftain of the All Progressives Congress, APC, Joe Igbokwe, has berated Nigerian activist, Aisha Yesufu, over ‘disrespect’ for the National Anthem.
A video making the rounds on social media shows Aisha Yesufu sitting while others stood during the recitation of the new anthem at an event.
Most guests at the event were visibly astonished by Aisha’s display, as seen in the video.
Aisha also shared a video clip of the moment on her handle with the caption, “Not my anthem.”
Reacting, Igbokwe, in a post via his Facebook page, said Aisha was exhibiting nonsensical behaviour.
According to him, Yesufu was causing damage to herself and her family by disrespecting the national anthem.
It will be too late for her before realising that she is doing rubbish. All those people supporting her will blame her later for this her stupid actions.
igwebuike01: If you become fierce, ESN will become fiercer. Nobody dey beg your papa. No be today ESN and Nigerian army start the clash. Both sides will count scores at the end. Gone are the days you had a field day killing anyhow. Do your reprisal and ESN will pay you back too and the cycle continues
Here this mumu who is not in Abia state oo. You can run your mouth anyhow now. Idiot.
Nwamazi8: LMFAOOO allow the senseless terrorists in uniform to flex their gragra on civilians and school children after tomorrow dem go calm down and boys will be laughing at their stupidity while planning more attacks. Why are this useless elders begging them for? what more can they do to Igbos that they haven't done already?
This isn't 2017 anymore when unarmed IPOB activists carried flags to march and were gunned down in cold blood for merely demonstrating, when young men were savagely ordered to roll in muddy waters by Nigerian terrorist soldiers for merely exercising their fundamental rights to self-determination...now it's fire for fire, if una like kill old men and women, harass young people and school children all you want, bullets will fly in the coming days and more Nigerian terrorist soldiers will go down across the SE!
I pity the Igbos still serving in the useless Nigerian army, it will be in their best interest to honorably discharge themselves and find better things to do with their lives.
God bless Biafran liberation army Do anyhow see anyhow Bullets for Bullets.
I don't blame you I blame your parents who gave birth to a goat like you. Since you are not in abia state you can run your mouth anyhow now. Idiot
Galay: So guy's please no tribalistic comment on this.
Well I will go first my State Governor is Simi Fubara well he has not done much except for the construction of some roads in the State Over to you guy's
God bless my governors Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu and Engr Seyi Makinde.
nlfpmod: Vivian Ocheze Munachi: Here are photos of the Nigerian lady, OCHEZE OGBONNA, reportedly pushed to death by a Chinese Expatriate in Abia over 'rejected love'.
AcuraZDX: The Rivers State Governor, Sim Fubara, has presented a list of Commissioner nominees to the Rivers House of Assembly for their screening and approval. The nominees are scheduled to undergo screening today by assembly members loyal to the governor.
Public Announcement
The Rivers Sthte House of Assembly hereby invites the following Commissioner-nominees for screening and confirmation as members of the Rivers State Executive Council.
1. Hon. Prince Charles O. Bekee 2. Mr. Collins N. Onunwo 3. Hon. Solomon Eke 4. Sir. Dr. Peter N. Medee 5. Hon. Elio. Tasie Arnadi 6. Hon. Basoene Joshua Benibo 7. Mr. Tambari Sydney Gbara, and 8 Dr. On Orluideye Chinendurn Chukwuma
Date: Tuesday. 21. May, 2024 Time: 10:00 a.m.
Fubara was just deceiving himself, time will tell whether fubara will cry or not. Let's continue to watch.
bennybuhari: What is this mugu saying? "the said hotel was built in 2021 “And it is exclusively owned by the Correctional Cooperative Society COCOS), a Cooperative Society for all personnel of the Service which was formed in the year 1996”.
Lukmanraji: My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.
Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.
So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.
I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.
To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.
So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.
Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.
After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.
Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.
I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.
I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.
Let her go she is not the best God wanted for you. Wipe your tears and move on with your life and I pray God will make you happy once again.
Dottore: If only you attempted let alone pass Common Entrance Exam in English sir. My dedication stands; keep running down your Neanderthal reprobates of a generation.
Dottore: If you had attempted let alone passed Common Entrance exams, you will could have understood the meaning of what I wrote. Go and abuse your generation. I dedicate your future responses to them.
Go and ask your useless mother whether she understand what you wrote or not. Me and you can never be in the same category because I am better than you many ways. You are just a poor and wretched person with a bitter soul. Am expecting more of your crying .
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