Celebrities › Re: Mohbad: Cause Of Death Not Ascertained Because His Body Had Decomposed - Patholo by Crowntop94: 10:15pm On May 15, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Kashim Shettima: Tinubu Subsidised Cost Of 2024 Hajj With N90 Billion by Crowntop94: 6:42pm On May 15, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: My Relationship Of 7 Years Is Going Down. I Need Help!!! by Crowntop94: 10:04pm On May 14, 2024 |
Lukmanraji: My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.
Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.
So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.
I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.
To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.
So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.
Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.
After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.
Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.
I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.
I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you. Let her go she is not the best God wanted for you. Wipe your tears and move on with your life and I pray God will make you happy once again. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 4:30am On May 10, 2024 |
Dottore: Words of an illiterate lamebrain nerk. It pained the idiot and he can't stop crying.  |
Politics › Re: 27 Rivers Lawmakers Lack Powers To Serve Fubara Impeachment Notice – G-60 Reps by Crowntop94: 3:45pm On May 09, 2024 |
MEEVEET: Who would impeach him? Some of you are funny sha
You think everyone is ambode?
Try to impeach sim and the problem that would come out would consum Nigeria
You decamped when their was no leadership issue the supreme Court is clear... You lose your sit simple
How can people who are not lawmakers impeach a governor Ambode was not impeached he was denied second term ticket. Stop comparing Ambode issue with Fubara own. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 11:32am On May 09, 2024 |
Dottore: If only you attempted let alone pass Common Entrance Exam in English sir. My dedication stands; keep running down your Neanderthal reprobates of a generation. Go and die mumu man |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 8:00am On May 09, 2024 |
Dottore: If you had attempted let alone passed Common Entrance exams, you will could have understood the meaning of what I wrote. Go and abuse your generation. I dedicate your future responses to them. Go and ask your useless mother whether she understand what you wrote or not. Me and you can never be in the same category because I am better than you many ways. You are just a poor and wretched person with a bitter soul. Am expecting more of your crying . |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 6:54pm On May 08, 2024 |
Dottore: Ain't surprised. Result of wording with a dimwit ninny whose bawl pathetic tart whoring mother can hardly tell if he's seeded with a mix of repugnant ordure of varmint class or feral species. I dedicate your future responses and insults to your nearnderthal family and generations born and unborn. Continue to wail till you die. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 6:42am On May 08, 2024 |
Dottore: Dear peasant, she's a scholar sir. How I wish you know the meaning. Deal with that and cry me a river. Scholar my foot, you better tell us who your mother was because she can't be a scholar and gave birth to riff raff like you. |
Health › Re: Foreigners Now Troop Into Nigeria For Medical Treatment – Health Minister, by Crowntop94: 11:08pm On May 07, 2024 |
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Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 11:05pm On May 07, 2024 |
Dottore: Like a said, you need to pass Common Entrance Exam in English. Go and enrol your useless mother first. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 7:58pm On May 07, 2024 |
Dottore: Its "I'm not am" Mr. Salary payer that feed chickens also. Try and pass English Language inCommon Entrance Examination as well as in Junior WAEC first. Mumu man....I won't even drag with you because i can see you know nothing and you are just an illiterate person.. You are just trying to show you know in which you don't know anything. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 6:22am On May 07, 2024 |
Dottore: I can employ and feed you. Cry me a river seed of bush animal. Idiot....I have many people like you that am paying salary to and feeding them. So don't think you are talking to a poor people like yourself. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 1:25pm On May 06, 2024 |
Dottore: At least my mother knows who's my father. Your mom can only wish if she can differentiate between whether it was animal which of 1,000 buffoons that seeded you. Your mother who don't even know the exact person that impregnated her. Your are a child of sadness to her and she already knows nothing good can come from you. So wasted child go and die. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 10:32pm On May 05, 2024 |
Dottore: a child born by a prostitute is better than somone seeded by an animal Go and ask your useless mother who is your father. If you father is not an animal and that your useless mother is also not a prostitute why will they gave birth to a wasted child like you. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 8:40pm On May 05, 2024 |
Dottore: Only if your wh0re of a mother can differentiate whether it was an animal or which of her countless buffoon seeded you. I don't blame you I blame your useless mother who gave birth to you without any father to train you. Since she have your pregnancy as a prostitute. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 8:48am On May 05, 2024 |
Dottore: Your father is the scammer. Your entire family are all scammers. It's running in you guy's blood. |
Business › Re: OPay Warns Customers Against Cryptocurrency And Virtual Currency Trading by Crowntop94: 8:37pm On May 03, 2024 |
Dottore: Why is Opay and moniepoint preferred by scammers and criminals? What are the authorities doing about this? You are part of those scammers using those 2 banks you mentioned right? |
Politics › Re: Ihedioha Visits Governor Otti In Abia Days After Resigning From PDP by Crowntop94: 7:17pm On Apr 30, 2024 |
garfield1: Tears of joy because he was rightly sacked Who told you he was rightly sacked ? The man was robbed of his mandate given to him by the good people of imo state. |
Politics › Re: Kogi: Gov Ododo misused his immunity to protect Yahaya Bello - Oshiomhole by Crowntop94: 5:04pm On Apr 29, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Obaseki Increases Minimum Wage To ₦70,000 From ₦40,000 In Edo by Crowntop94: 4:56pm On Apr 29, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Ihedioha Visits Governor Otti In Abia Days After Resigning From PDP by Crowntop94: 10:20am On Apr 29, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Ex-Deputy Governor, Ajayi Agboola Wins Ondo PDP Primary by Crowntop94: 8:17pm On Apr 25, 2024 |
richiemcgold: The next governor of Ondo state is one of APC or PDP candidate. The biggest loser here is Betty Akeredolu because both APC & PDP candidates had issues with Akeredolu's family while serving under him as deputies.
When they say today no be tomorrow, this is a good example. You are right sir. |
Politics › Re: Melaye, Ortom Clash At PDP Meeting Over Ex-Gov's Support For Tinubu (Video) by Crowntop94: 9:16pm On Apr 18, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Governor Ododo Helps Bello Out Of Abuja Residence Amid EFCC, DSS siege by Crowntop94: 10:54pm On Apr 17, 2024 |
chigator2: You think it's everyone that is languishing with you inside that shytehole according to Trump. Even in the animal farm, some animals are more equal than others and even in the zoo, some there are visitors and spectators who will observe animals doing animal things and go back to their human homes leaving the animals to themselves. so far you still reside in this country you are an animal. |
Politics › Re: Governor Ododo Helps Bello Out Of Abuja Residence Amid EFCC, DSS siege by Crowntop94: 7:38pm On Apr 17, 2024 |
chigator2: zungeru game reserve aka Nigeria aka zoo Since Nigeria is zoo then you are the animal inside it. |
Celebrities › Re: "I Will Never Try It Again": Mike Ezuruonye Cries On Walking On Suspended Bridge by Crowntop94: 6:54pm On Apr 16, 2024 |
Juliusganduje: If Nigeria is working under Ebola Tinubu, Junior Pope would still be alive So na Tinubu send him go do film ontop river Niger. You people should fear God and stop playing politics with such issue. |
Travel › Re: A Nairalander First Time On Plane And First Time In Delta by Crowntop94: 9:32am On Apr 16, 2024 |
DenreleDave: Scenario 1: plane ✈ going up... First I felt weak but I later align. I saw men like ants, I saw mansions like ant colony, I saw the 3rd mainland bridge and the oceans. I went into the clouds 🌥, I stayed amongst the cloud 🌥, I went above the cloud 🌥. I saw the 5th heavens 😂😂😂. The plane looked slow in my sight but I'm sure it is not what I see it to be. It was as if something were blocking my ears, I had to dip my fingers in my ears.
Scenario 2: They gave us dwarf plastic water and snacks (though I was expecting vegetables and swallow 😂) . As the moment of typing this 8.20am, I am above the clouds.. The cloud 🌥 feel so lonely 😂😂😂. I finished my snacks in 2 minutes (me wey be ebinna 😂).
So it got to point I could not see anything again and the plane was shaking (Lord, hope this is not your call to home 😩). People were just sleeping and snoring, but as for me, Lagos boy, my eyes were wide open 👀👀 (I can't be caught unaware)
Scenario 3: We are preparing for landing 8.36am. E be like say something dey block my ears again 🙄🙄 and it's kinda heavy blocking. We are about landing 8.44am, cabin crew are instructed to sit and prepare for landing. I can see farmlands and scanty houses. Aeroplane wheels touched the ground 8 46 am. We got down from plane at 8.53am
Scenario 4: while I was in the sky, I remembered that iran has been firing bombs. I was praying they don't mistakenly fire one into Nigerian airspace while I am in the sky . I was just watching out from the window
Finally, that was how my flight trip to asaba went. This is my first time in delta state.
My nairaland fans in delta, Oya come and do meet and greet óòo 😂😂😂😂 This is just the beginning bro, you are going to many countries by God's grace. |
Politics › Re: Emefiele Released After Meeting Bail Conditions by Crowntop94: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2024 |
LagosFirstSon: This man will walk away a free man no doubt Dey play he will still be arrest and moreover his case still continues. And I am sure he might have sign a document that he will refund some money and do the present administration bidding. He can't just be free like that. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: MASSIVE AIR ATTACK By Hezbollah On Northern Israel (video) by Crowntop94: 3:17am On Apr 13, 2024 |
CodeTemplar: First to do.... No dey pain They will soon collect wotowoto from Israel. God bless Israel, God bless idf. |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Jailed For Six Months With No Option Of Fine by Crowntop94: 12:23pm On Apr 12, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Lagos-calabar Highway Project Is A Highway To Fraud, Waste - Atiku by Crowntop94: 9:41am On Apr 12, 2024 |
[quote author=iwaeda post=129390518][/quote]Atiku always think everybody is a thief like him. |