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engrrichie92:
it's stressful, exhausting...not what I really love/want to be doing

My boss dosent like me...I can perceive my colleague see me as incompetent hence I don't have their respect

But then it pay this bills...that's the only motivation for me

I feel it shouldn't be that way...it should be more than money

I want to resign...

Just thinking out loud

Can I replace you please...

Kindly help me to forward this to the front page. It's urgent.
Good day nairalanders. Straight to the point...
I really want your help. I'm so so depressed right now and don't want to do anything funny.
I graduated in 2014 in one of the state universities, trying to secure a good job but to no avail till now. I couldn't raise money to start a business due to my very low income as a secondary school teacher. I am 33 years old, good looking with no fiancée, no girlfriend cause of this situation. Nothing seems to be moving well. As the first born in the family, my parents and siblings are looking up to me. Please let God use you for my present status. I really need your help. Please contact 09023403262 for any assistance. Thank you.

Please help me to forward this to the front page.
Good day nairalander. Straight to the point...
I really want your help. I'm so depressed and don't want to do anything funny.
I graduated in 2014 in one of the state universities, trying to secure a good job but to no avail till now.
I couldn't raise money to start a business due to my very low income as a secondary school teacher. I am 33 years old, good looking with no fiancée, no girlfriend cause of this situation. Nothing seems to be moving well. As the first born in the family, my parents and siblings are looking up to me. Please let God use you for my present status. I really need your help. My contact is 09023403262

Brandonx:
My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

I have a principle, it might work for you if u adopt it: Once a lady turn to be my Ex, she receives automatic certificate of deletion from my heart, phone contact and social media.
As for ur own case, well, I can't say u are being childish but u are. She left u to marry another man, who told you she loves u? Why on earth would she av left u if she loves u? She left, still trying to waste ur destiny, resources and time. Instead of u to move on with ur life, u are came here disgusting and disgracing brotherhood. I don't want to abuse u but Guy, wise up!